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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Single blokes get a bad wrap on here with there messaging and a lot of the time it’s justified. But I’ve encountered quite a lot of couples sending blunt first messages. I think they presume your going to bow down before them, or jump through hoops for them.

Also they ask you to address them as a couple, but don’t tell you which one is messaging.

Anyone else found this ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eat me.

Sam

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

I think all the catagories can be rude. Some people just are.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Rudeness isn't confined to single men you're right.

We don't say which one of us it is because it's always both of us messaging. I type but Mr N is looking over my shoulder

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Eat me.

Sam "

Thanks in advance X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hhmmm....no I think it's a bit different for females as we are the "golden ticket" to a lot of couples. It's usually quite obvious which person is mailing by the message content though, some guys clearly haven't been influenced by their partners femininity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hhmmm....no I think it's a bit different for females as we are the "golden ticket" to a lot of couples. It's usually quite obvious which person is mailing by the message content though, some guys clearly haven't been influenced by their partners femininity.

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Dunno what you mean sugar tits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hhmmm....no I think it's a bit different for females as we are the "golden ticket" to a lot of couples. It's usually quite obvious which person is mailing by the message content though, some guys clearly haven't been influenced by their partners femininity.

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I get a feeling whether it's the man or woman mailing. Or if it's just a man.

OP yes we've found this. From couples mailing us on the couple profile they can still be incredibly rude. Single men get a bad reputation but they definitely aren't the only rude ones!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Single blokes get a bad wrap on here with there messaging and a lot of the time it’s justified. But I’ve encountered quite a lot of couples sending blunt first messages. I think they presume your going to bow down before them, or jump through hoops for them.

Also they ask you to address them as a couple, but don’t tell you which one is messaging.

Anyone else found this ?

"

yes...there are a few rude couples on here...I've blocked them from messaging now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's definitely a people thing rather than category thing. Manners cost nothing though, so I don't see the need to be rude. I've encountered lots of nice couples who will usually tell me who's messaging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a message reads like one from a single male then I just assume that it is, even he is supposedly a couple.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think it's definitely a people thing rather than category thing. Manners cost nothing though, so I don't see the need to be rude. I've encountered lots of nice couples who will usually tell me who's messaging. "

Oh, there’s plenty of lovely couples I’ve spoke to. Just a minority that are rude I guess.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If a message reads like one from a single male then I just assume that it is, even he is supposedly a couple. "

No, I can spot single blokes pretending to be a couple a mile of. These are genuine couples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah some couples are just dicks. But luckily not all

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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago

swingers clubs

If a couple writes a message, it's generally from them both. By signing off individually it generally encourages singles guys (not yet encountered this from mf or f) you address that individual. Generally speaking.

As for rude, yep some people are. Some people also choose the wrong profile type

Some people have to deal with stupid. A lot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've still to have a conversation with a couple yet that's not been rude or boring x

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By *appy squirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

had rude messages form men, couples and women. no difference. delete and continue...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t think rudeness is defined by sex or partnership status. It’s more to do with ignorance we find.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

I've had rude, arrogant and plain nasty messages from all genders. But those from couples usually seem to be from the woman when I turn down her offer of being a 'treat' for her hubby.

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

Humans are just arseholes and ignorant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Eat me.

Sam "

With relish

Rizzo.

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester


"Humans are just arseholes and ignorant "

See that's what makes us aliens so much better than you earthlings

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

If I say to a couple “can I fuck you?’ it doesn’t matter which one I’m talking to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Humans are just arseholes and ignorant

See that's what makes us aliens so much better than you earthlings "

Mork to Mindy

Nanu nanu

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Single blokes get a bad wrap on here with there messaging and a lot of the time it’s justified. But I’ve encountered quite a lot of couples sending blunt first messages. I think they presume your going to bow down before them, or jump through hoops for them.

Also they ask you to address them as a couple, but don’t tell you which one is messaging.

Anyone else found this ?

"

I got a message other day, just saying ' hey' I replied back ' hey' and that's the end of the conversation ...lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Us single blokes do get some crap from couples but these couples seriously need too get their heads from out off each others arse before criticising others cause some look a right state

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By *urity555Man
over a year ago

south west

We have received very direct / rude messages from other couples. Instantly puts us off them no matter how hot we initially thought they were!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I have had far more trouble with cpls and men whom are allowed to 'play alone' then from single guys.

More jealousy, more fibbing, more drama...and yes more demanding messages and expectations.

I usually give cpls a wide bearth but every now and then really have an urge for a threesome!!

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By *iffaWoman
over a year ago

wherever

I have found that couples have given me more hassle then single guys. More pushy more likely to respond aggressively to a no thanks and don’t seem to think my preferences matter at all. And let’s not talk about male half of well verified couples asking you to meet them in secret

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have found that couples have given me more hassle then single guys. More pushy more likely to respond aggressively to a no thanks and don’t seem to think my preferences matter at all. And let’s not talk about male half of well verified couples asking you to meet them in secret "

We.must get messaged by the same.people!!

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester


"Humans are just arseholes and ignorant

See that's what makes us aliens so much better than you earthlings

Mork to Mindy

Nanu nanu "

We peel you with our little knives....

Then we smash you all to bits.....hahahahahaha

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