FabSwingers.com forum: Your own harshest 'block' rule..

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Go on, what's the harshest block rule you have set yourself?

I never intend to meet anyone under 40, so I do tend to block them after they have viewed my profile. It just stops someone who I never intend to meet trying to perve my profile constantly, that's all. Nothing personal intended.

Shame on you if you lied about your age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's far too much like hard work!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have any rules. I just block if they're a twat.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I don't have any rules. I just block if they're a twat. "
same really, saying stupid things in the forum, having crap profiles and/or photos or being a plain frumpy grumpy miserable bitch/bastard.

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By *hingy2Woman
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Random friend invites...instant block as I find this damn rude. Its stated on my profile as such too so its proves a lot dont read it!!!

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Being rude, crude or crass. Living too close.

Smokers, people who message with the same message that avoided being blocked the first time.

Anyone asking if I have a friend when we haven’t even met.

My block list is long!

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

People who live in my immediate area

People who message again after being told they aren't for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apart from the obvious rudeness or pushy, our only rule is if we’ve already politely declined someone and they try their luck again in the future then we will block them, other than that we’re pretty easy going.

We use plenty of filters for the rest.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I think I've probably only blocked about half a dozen peeps in ma 13 years on here, and they're all UNLOS now anyway

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

Basically we block people we would never consider bumping uglies with. That could be simply because there's no attraction, they're too young, or because we think they're a twat.

We don't even want them perving us.

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By *idingawayCouple
over a year ago

Central

"I don't have any rules. I just block if they're a twat. "

THIS

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By *itvclaireTV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham

"I don't have any rules. I just block if they're a twat. "

Pretty much my rule, works well

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I don't think my blocks are harsh

I block if they are constant whingers on updates or pests .I also block people in forum that I wouldn't want contact with .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't filter and I don't block. Can't see the point.

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple
over a year ago

Bedworth

I have a new instant block rule which I enforce with no exceptions. Those who state won’t meet bbw or overweight people, no hairy men etc in their profile and then go onto send a wink/message/friends request when its blatantly obvious that is exactly what we are.

I block to save wasting both our time and theirs, interacting with people who they do not find attractive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite a few.

Gross pics, anything drug related, suspected fakes, twats.

Sometimes just because I can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Vulgar/cringey usernames, gross pictures, anyone who looks like they belong on Jeremy Kyle.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

The ones who message me to say they are about to come over my pics, they generally get blocked!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't filter and I don't block. Can't see the point. "

Ditto.

I'm obviously doing this all wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone who trys to convert to me to ....Decaff! Instant block

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Chat shit in your status and you get blocked on your 2nd offence.

Applies to those in my area, female, age range selected

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't filter and I don't block. Can't see the point.

Ditto.

I'm obviously doing this all wrong

I'm happy being wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block people with vile status updates... misogynistic things or anything 'laddish' like 'need my balls emptying' or anything that implies or indicates they see women as nothing more than a cumdump...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Live too close to me, message too much, told them I’m not interested and still messaging, if they’re abusive, if their pictures appear on my updates and I don’t like them, and if they send dick pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block List is Ginormous.

Anyone not in Ireland.

Anyone who smokes or are drug users.

Profiles full of genetalia pics.

Anyone who mails under/over my preferred age range.

Crude/lewd/vulgar mailers.

TWONKs and eejits.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

"I block people with vile status updates... misogynistic things or anything 'laddish' like 'need my balls emptying' or anything that implies or indicates they see women as nothing more than a cumdump...

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love this going to apply this to our rules

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

- repeat messages.

- vile message.

- ‘ism’ profiles!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

love this going to apply this to our rules

my list would be humongous!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do tend to block those who have lots of 420 stuff on their profile

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By *parkle7Woman
over a year ago

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People who have blocked me......I block back!!!

I petty like that!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I give most people a chance but if they start to show their true colours within the first couple of messages its usually a block as i don't see why I should waste my time on knobheads

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By *ools47Woman
over a year ago

Failsworth

Bald men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bald men."
if there a funt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Drug references, but I don't see that as harsh.

Anyone within 5 miles or if I think I know them.

If I don't find them attractive.

If they looked at my profile or messaged and their profile/veris say they are hung etc.

If the only pics they have are their cock from 6959 angles.

If they won't take no for an answer and want reasons why I won't meet them.

If a profile bio offended me in any way.

Statuses that ask for blow jobs/needing balls drained/fuck n go/blah blah

Many reasons I block for. Location of the people I block doesn't matter either.

I don't think any of my reasons are particularly harsh, it's how I run my profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block men who ask to meet and I don't want to meet them. It saves them messaging a month or year later and getting a no thank you again.

That's about as harsh as I get.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have blocked some very local men and couples so they can't view my profile. There's some dodgy people in my yard.

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By *imandHerNottsCouple
over a year ago

North Notts

We have a very harsh list of block list criteria. Our guess is that the high number of people on there is not purely coincidental!

The criteria is officially top secret though. It’d be foolhardy to train up the fakes and specialtons!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Interesting..thanks everyone for chippng in on this...

What has opened my eyes a little here is the ratio of guy/girl/couple response rate.

It's seems there's not many guys doing the blocking..

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By *parkle7Woman
over a year ago

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"Interesting..thanks everyone for chippng in on this...

What has opened my eyes a little here is the ratio of guy/girl/couple response rate.

It's seems there's not many guys doing the blocking..

Or is the football on - so all the boys are watching that??!!

rather than commenting on forums??

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I only have one block rule. If you send me a dickhead message, you make the list. It's not that big a list, most people are nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just block if they don't take no for a answer or if they are knobs or mention drugs when messaging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hardly ever block anyone as I can't really see any reason to other than if they repeatedly send me abusive messages, and in that instance they have to be really offensive and abusive. I know others who block people at the slightest thing.

Guess I'm just laid back and easy going about all of this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have blocked some very local men and couples so they can't view my profile. There's some dodgy people in my yard."

oh I've done that too...

I check on who is near and if they are within a mile to 5 miles I block them regardless of whether they are men, women or couples

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

No rules we just block those who are idiots or annoy us in some way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't have any rules. I just block if they're a twat. "

Only blocked one person and they were as stated above.

Mistress Amelia x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No face pic or a cock pic...both instant block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forum comments we dont like.

Ranty profiles.

People looking at us but with profiles where we dont match (eg people wanting bbc when we are white lol).

Had one recently who wanted cocks bigger than 7" and mine is 6.5".. so boom, gone...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone who jokes about how long it's taken me to reply to a message gets blocked.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I've blocked four people in my time here I think - two homophobic women and two blokes who persistently sent me messages asking to suck their cocks!!

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By *arnsley guy100Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

Homosexuals wanting to suck me dry.. Messaging me twice after politely declining as I'm not gay and them coming back saying I should just imagine it's a woman as its all. The same

Wtf???

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By *arnsley guy100Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

And arsey woman giving shitty replies to a well gestured first message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only block people if they irritate me in some way.Mostly it's because of persistent pushy/messages adter I politely tell them they're not for me,or their profile is arrogant/demanding/shouty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who are local to me

Smokers

People who have been here forever but aren’t photo verified

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont have one

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

If I recognise them and they live 2 floors above me I block him....

We only have him on block... Everyone else is welcome

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

Most of the people we block these days seem to be people who have blocked us . Yes , we are pedantic like that , and always counter block

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By *arnsley guy100Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

"Most of the people we block these days seem to be people who have blocked us . Yes , we are pedantic like that , and always counter block

Marry bum

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By *appyguy17Man
over a year ago

walthamstow

i always block people who you the word "cunt"

it tells me they're not my type of people.......i just hate it.......yuk !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they are rude or aggressive and the counter block

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

It's lovely that some don't block but I really can't be arsed with idiots in my inbox

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t block people for trying hard, find that a bit condescending

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By *bwlookingforfunWoman
over a year ago

crawley

No requested title in the msg is enough to block someone. If you cant be bothered to find out basics about me, you dont deserve my attention too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No requested title in the msg is enough to block someone. If you cant be bothered to find out basics about me, you dont deserve my attention too.

So many rules with people on here, it makes me laugh. Thee who cast the first stone x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No requested title in the msg is enough to block someone. If you cant be bothered to find out basics about me, you dont deserve my attention too.

So many rules with people on here, it makes me laugh. Thee who cast the first stone x"

It helps filter out the ones you wouldn't meet anyway, so i can understand why some would use certain methods to block

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By *bwlookingforfunWoman
over a year ago

crawley

"No requested title in the msg is enough to block someone. If you cant be bothered to find out basics about me, you dont deserve my attention too.

So many rules with people on here, it makes me laugh. Thee who cast the first stone x"

I can meet a guy if he is not super handsome, but i wont meet a guy who doesnt care who he is trying to meet. Some girls can get blindfolded and get fucked by 10 guys they never spoke to, ill want to enjoy conversation between sessions.

Nothing bad about either option.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I send someone a polite "No thanks" reply and they don't reply to that I will block them.

Maybe I'm being a bit precious but it smacks too much of trawling and puts me right off people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If i message someone and they dont reply or delete my message then I block them. Not out of malice or pettiness but so i dont forget and pester them again!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block if they tits me off and keep messaging when I try to gently tell them to go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chatroom trolls, anyone that uses sectarian language (more a problem on the Scottish room), anyone threatening and some arrogant people.

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By *_Yeah19Couple
over a year ago

Lincoln

"I don't have any rules. I just block if they're a twat. "

Generally this.

But we’ve blocked for consistently winking/messaging after we’ve already said no thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block if I have no intention of meeting them or chatting to them,it’s pointless.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block if they add me as a friend

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