FabSwingers.com forum: Would you ever...

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Arrange a meet and then cancel because you got a better offer?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I'd arrange the 'better offer' for another time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, never !

So inapropriate and says more about them than you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the better offer was something special with family or friends then yeah, they are always more important.

I wouldn't be meeting someone from fab unless they fitted what I wanted at that time so having a better offer for something sexual is really unlikely to happen.

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over a year ago

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By *umblebee76Man
over a year ago

hull

No if the other offer is better they'll wait

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope, never !

So inapropriate and says more about them than you.

What are to trying to become now? Mother Theresa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Arrange a meet and then cancel because you got a better offer? "

I have FIFO system in place

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By *iger.10Man
over a year ago

Llantrisant

"Arrange a meet and then cancel because you got a better offer? "

Define a better offer? You may think it's a better offer, until you've met them...that's assuming you're talking about two offers off people you haven't met...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Arrange a meet and then cancel because you got a better offer? "

That’s just being rude :O

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I can't find 1 person to have fun with never mind there being a 2nd

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

Absolutely not. But had it done to me after I took an afternoons holiday off work.

That was a couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No...but I bet you loads would.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can't find 1 person to have fun with never mind there being a 2nd

Single guys are free falling on fab like the value of pound after brexit and you can’t find one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Absolutely not. But had it done to me after I took an afternoons holiday off work.

That was a couple. "

It has happened to me too, wish I could drop their name

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By *rwhite30Man
over a year ago

deptford London

"Absolutely not. But had it done to me after I took an afternoons holiday off work.

That was a couple. "

you ahe had a guy blow you out?!?!!?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Arrange a meet and then cancel because you got a better offer?

Define a better offer? You may think it's a better offer, until you've met them...that's assuming you're talking about two offers off people you haven't met..."

Sex meet with someone "hotter" than the original meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No...but I bet you loads would."

£5 bets, place your bets everyone

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

No, I would be lucky if I got one meet lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely not. Thats just respect, surely?

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By *iger.10Man
over a year ago

Llantrisant

"Arrange a meet and then cancel because you got a better offer?

Define a better offer? You may think it's a better offer, until you've met them...that's assuming you're talking about two offers off people you haven't met...

Sex meet with someone "hotter" than the original meet. "

Sex might not be hotter! You must have had a connection to agree to meet. I'm with an earlier poster. To get to the point of meeting I would have had to have had that connection/sexual chemistry anyway...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, I would be lucky if I got one meet lol."

I'd meet you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, but I suspect it has been done to me a couple of times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

But I have had it happen to me. Along with a request that I wait around for another in case their preferred option didn't turn up.

My reply to the latter request was somewhat curt.

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By *iger.10Man
over a year ago

Llantrisant

"No, I would be lucky if I got one meet lol.

I'd meet you "

Me too!

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

No, I have manner. If something arranged then I would stick with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, I would be lucky if I got one meet lol.

I'd meet you

Me too! "

Sit down chaps, she was being ironic..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I guess some people are just not very nice?

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight

No way. The next meet is the best offer, they put themselves out there to arrange to meet the absolute least anyone can do is turn up...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I guess some people are just not very nice? "

Is this the conclusion of this thread? I see what you did there

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By *eplicant JoWoman
over a year ago

Sussex countryside

No, but I have had it happen to me. Gave an excuse then displayed the veri an hour later

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I guess some people are just not very nice?

Is this the conclusion of this thread? I see what you did there "

What did I do?

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By *ookingforlustMan
over a year ago

northants

Fuck no. Besides, who’s to say the ‘better’ offer would actually be better.

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By *attoo manMan
over a year ago

Rhyl

Would not like it done to. So would never do it to any one else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would not like it done to. So would never do it to any one else."

Do you not understand the concept of Anal sex?

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

"Absolutely not. But had it done to me after I took an afternoons holiday off work.

That was a couple.

you ahe had a guy blow you out?!?!!?"

Several. But that occasion was a couple.

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By *attoo manMan
over a year ago

Rhyl

"Would not like it done to. So would never do it to any one else.

Do you not understand the concept of Anal sex? "
No seem i dont. Thought this about taking a better offer. Not about anal sex\?

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By *ubenesque.Woman
over a year ago

over by there

"No, but I have had it happen to me. Gave an excuse then displayed the veri an hour later

Snap, had the same thing happen to me a few years ago. I was polite and didn't say anything but never met him again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would not like it done to. So would never do it to any one else.

Do you not understand the concept of Anal sex? No seem i dont. Thought this about taking a better offer. Not about anal sex\?"

I meant the concept of anal sex not actually the act it self

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe? But I’m looking for regular/fwb not just sex only meets so maybe it doesn’t apply to me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope not all once arrangements made we stick to it ,had it done to us though,with feeble excuse then show new verification from previous evening lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe? But I’m looking for regular/fwb not just sex only meets so maybe it doesn’t apply to me? "

A regular/fwb is actually like a husband if you think about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe? But I’m looking for regular/fwb not just sex only meets so maybe it doesn’t apply to me?

A regular/fwb is actually like a husband if you think about it

I think not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would never as I've been on the other end of this sort of behaviour.

Karma will play her hand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would never as I've been on the other end of this sort of behaviour.

Karma will play her hand. "

Yeah...in the form of an extra jaggy shite....after they've stepped on a plug.

How evil am I!?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

No i wouldnt. Plenty of other days to meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I would never as I've been on the other end of this sort of behaviour.

Karma will play her hand.

Yeah...in the form of an extra jaggy shite....after they've stepped on a plug.

How evil am I!?

Or maybe a dose of something

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"Arrange a meet and then cancel because you got a better offer? "

No.

I'd plan out both meets throw out the day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would never as I've been on the other end of this sort of behaviour.

Karma will play her hand.

Yeah...in the form of an extra jaggy shite....after they've stepped on a plug.

How evil am I!?

Or maybe a dose of something

Good idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe? But I’m looking for regular/fwb not just sex only meets so maybe it doesn’t apply to me?

A regular/fwb is actually like a husband if you think about it

No it is not. It is someone you spend time with sometimes and have sex. Some people prefer sex with people they have a connection with, but not want to marry them.

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

No cos it's a pretty crap thing to do .

I'd arrange the other meet for another time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe? But I’m looking for regular/fwb not just sex only meets so maybe it doesn’t apply to me?

A regular/fwb is actually like a husband if you think about it

No it is not. It is someone you spend time with sometimes and have sex. Some people prefer sex with people they have a connection with, but not want to marry them."

Was surely a joke because it’s ridiculous haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think if I had a date with lady at the top of the page I wouldn’t cancel for anyone.

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By *ida8780Couple
over a year ago

any town

No never. Imagine also if the “better offer” then cancelled and you have nothing. Would hate to tempt karma. They will keep for another time if you feel they are worth it.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I would never do this although think someone done it to me. His loss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe? But I’m looking for regular/fwb not just sex only meets so maybe it doesn’t apply to me?

A regular/fwb is actually like a husband if you think about it

No it is not. It is someone you spend time with sometimes and have sex. Some people prefer sex with people they have a connection with, but not want to marry them.

Was surely a joke because it’s ridiculous haha"

My version of fuck buddy was ridiculous ?

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Never have done, but if someone offers to fly me off the Martinique for the week I might ask the guy I was going to have coffee with if he would mind rescheduling....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends.

If the better offer was to go steady then i’d be off like a whippet. With a wave. And a fanfare

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

"Arrange a meet and then cancel because you got a better offer? "

No never ever.... unless it was from you OP

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

No never. If I've arranged a meet I wouldn't even be looking for another.

I've had it done to me a few times though

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

No, I'd hate it if someone women that to me. I'm no ones plan b!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can't find 1 person to have fun with never mind there being a 2nd

Single guys are free falling on fab like the value of pound after brexit and you can’t find one!

Lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never thats pretty low if someone does that x

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By *ssex1988Man
over a year ago

essex

Have a plan and always stick to it, always respect the other party it goes along way in my opinion.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Arrange a meet and then cancel because you got a better offer? "

No; if I've arranged to meet someone it's set in stone as far as I'm concerned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Arrange a meet and then cancel because you got a better offer? "

nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would never do this although think someone done it to me. His loss."
masssive loss

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By *wingfellowMan
over a year ago

my own little sanctuary

Absolutely not. Thing is though I like to invest time in someone ahead of a meet, my time is valuable and I’m not going to invest just to change plans. No half measures.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Seems like it's quite a popular thing for guys to do?

As said above, their loss!

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By *ssex1988Man
over a year ago

essex

Certainly is there loss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, apart from being pretty low. In the highly unlikely event that a 'better' offer came along, if it can't be planned to fit, it isn't going to be better in the future...

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