FabSwingers.com forum: Disappointed

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I post on here ...never many replies

I must be a boring bitch

Won't post anymore !

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

Don’t lose heart; The forum replies move along at quite a pace so it is very easy to be overlooked sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I post on here ...never many replies

I must be a boring bitch

Won't post anymore ! "
don't get discouraged or disheartened, it happens to people all the time.

It's not a case of being boring, just some threads take time to pick up and some threads die on their arses.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love you op

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

Isn't it usually guys that start these threads

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Love you op "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Won't post anymore ! "

Bet you do

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Won't post anymore !

Bet you do

If i say i won't i mean it !

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

There's many a time I've made a point and it has been overlooked, then when someone else says almost exactly the same thing later on in the thread, people are quoting their post and giving it the thumbs up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Won't post anymore !

Bet you do

If i say i won't i mean it !"

Aha, got ya. You did

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Won't post anymore !

Bet you do

If i say i won't i mean it !

Aha, got ya. You did

Post a title not a reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If there's just being this and the fantasy thread, then sorry what's to moan about? Bet most people have had no responses at all to threads, numerous in my case, you just keep plodding along.

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By *ubiousOatcakeMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

"I post on here ...never many replies

I must be a boring bitch

Won't post anymore ! "

Um, I had a wee look at your green arrow. Not extensively, but a good few threads. You seem to delete about half of the things you post, so it’s hard for people to reply to those. When posting in other people’s threads, you’ve got about a 50% reply rate, which isn’t bad going for an infrequent poster with no profile pic. Looks like you’ve got a 100% reply rate to threads you post.

The more you post, the more people will reply.

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By *hips n FursMan
over a year ago

Huddersfield

Won't post anymore !

Bet you do

If i say i won't i mean it !

Aha, got ya. You did

Post a title not a reply "

Now don't be going all Violet Elizabeth on us now.

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

"I post on here ...never many replies

I must be a boring bitch

Won't post anymore !

The more you post, the more people will reply."

And this guy knows a lot about being ignored

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By *r Appreciator.Man
over a year ago

Bedfordshire.

Won't post anymore !

Bet you do

If i say i won't i mean it !

Aha, got ya. You did

Post a title not a reply "

Cracking sense of humour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I post on here ...never many replies

I must be a boring bitch

Won't post anymore ! "

Hey, can anyone fish for attention in this pond?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I post on here ...never many replies

I must be a boring bitch

Won't post anymore !

Hey, can anyone fish for attention in this pond?"

That was not my intention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I post on here ...never many replies

I must be a boring bitch

Won't post anymore !

Hey, can anyone fish for attention in this pond?"

I pay attention to you for the excellent status updates

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"I post on here ...never many replies

I must be a boring bitch

Won't post anymore ! "

Nahhhhhhhh.

In the past I've started 11 threads that had zero posts.

I know this because I keep track of them on an Excel spreadsheet and use Venn diagrams to find connections.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I post on here ...never many replies

I must be a boring bitch

Won't post anymore !

Hey, can anyone fish for attention in this pond?

I pay attention to you for the excellent status updates

Oh my god, so much pressure

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By *rwhite30Man
over a year ago

deptford London

I bet a million if you put a pic youd be getting loads of messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I post on here ...never many replies

I must be a boring bitch

Won't post anymore !

The more you post, the more people will reply.

And this guy knows a lot about being ignored

That’s rather meanspirited.

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"I bet a million if you put a pic youd be getting loads of messages"

The OPs not talking about getting messages though.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Alright grumpy chops.

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By *rwhite30Man
over a year ago

deptford London

"I bet a million if you put a pic youd be getting loads of messages

The OPs not talking about getting messages though."

i meant replies on the forum

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By *rwhite30Man
over a year ago

deptford London

"Alright grumpy chops."

exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I post on here ...never many replies

I must be a boring bitch

Won't post anymore !

Hey, can anyone fish for attention in this pond?

That was not my intention "

What exactly was your intention

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Dont worry about it I post stuff,get ignored and kill threads all the time.

Lol post something inflamatory you will soon get noticed ( in a bad way.)

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"I post on here ...never many replies

I must be a boring bitch

Won't post anymore ! "

Hi op!

Firstly - all of us (well - most of us!) frequently have posts ignored!

Sometimes I spend ages writing what I consider to be a genius post - only for it to be totally overlooked/ignored! It can be disheartening, but that’s the forums for you! Unless you’re one of the ‘forum famous’ then it’s just a fairly level playing field!

That being said, I don’t think it helps that your avatar is a silhouette and you have no public pics. It’s not about looks - it’s about being distinguishable from others - and a silhouette doesn’t help! If you’re wanting to stay on here to converse, debate etc etc then I’d suggest you take a profile image. It dousnt have to be explicit or sexy - it’s not about looks in any way - just something that people can see and identify you with your profile name!

This may just be my opinion - but personally I’m very visual - and a lot of other people are too! I wouldn’t really have a conversation with a silhouette!

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

I'm usually ignored, but I post for myself not for attention..... come to think of it, I get ignored at home to until I threaten to change the wifi password.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

"Dont worry about it I post stuff,get ignored and kill threads all the time.

Lol post something inflamatory you will soon get noticed ( in a bad way.)

Please don't make my job any harder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think this is a normal occurrence in all honesty. There are so many new threads that get posted, it's easy for some to get overlooked. Try not to let it affect you wanting to post. Some will get replies, some won't

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Spit the dummy

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Anyone faf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think everyone feels the same at times. Threads are hit or miss no matter who you are, it depends on who is around at the time and if they're interested.

Also we all see other people being replied to and quoted and flirted with because at that time it's not us, we fail to notice the 100 times that poster has been the one being ignored.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happens to all of us. I've started threads and had hardly any replies.

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By *eeBee67Man
over a year ago

Masked and Distant

I've started threads where no-one replies.

Don't loose heart.

Plenty of replies on here.

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

"I post on here ...never many replies

I must be a boring bitch

Won't post anymore !

The more you post, the more people will reply.

And this guy knows a lot about being ignored

That’s rather meanspirited. "

Not meant that way at all, a gentle tease and nothing more.

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

"Dont worry about it I post stuff,get ignored and kill threads all the time.

Lol post something inflamatory you will soon get noticed ( in a bad way.)

Please don't make my job any harder

Was only jesting

. lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm usually ignored, but I post for myself not for attention..... come to think of it, I get ignored at home to until I threaten to change the wifi password.

I didn't post for attention more venting frustration

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

"I'm usually ignored, but I post for myself not for attention..... come to think of it, I get ignored at home to until I threaten to change the wifi password.

I didn't post for attention more venting frustration "

I didn't say you did

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm usually ignored, but I post for myself not for attention..... come to think of it, I get ignored at home to until I threaten to change the wifi password.

I didn't post for attention more venting frustration

I didn't say you did

Just explaining ..bloody hell.

Time i went

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Love you op "

Learn from us

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple
over a year ago

Bedworth

"I'm usually ignored, but I post for myself not for attention..... come to think of it, I get ignored at home to until I threaten to change the wifi password.

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"I'm usually ignored, but I post for myself not for attention..... come to think of it, I get ignored at home to until I threaten to change the wifi password.

I didn't post for attention more venting frustration

I didn't say you did

Just explaining ..bloody hell.

Time i went

If you're going to get mardy at every

post that might be a good idea OP.

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

[Removed by poster at 18/06/18 16:22:42]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"[disapointment removed by poster at 18/06/18 16:22:42]"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"[disapointment removed by poster at 18/06/18 16:22:42]"

Did he want to say something? Hello? Can’t hear you? Speak louder

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"[disapointment removed by poster at 18/06/18 16:22:42]

Did he want to say something? Hello? Can’t hear you? Speak louder "

I was going to respond in thread to something that should not be discussed in thread.

Checked my holiday planner and revised my choice of phraseology.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"[disapointment removed by poster at 18/06/18 16:22:42]

Did he want to say something? Hello? Can’t hear you? Speak louder

I was going to respond in thread to something that should not be discussed in thread.

Checked my holiday planner and revised my choice of phraseology.

Trips to the naughty step are great for getting stuff done though!

It’s amazing what you can accomplish in 48 hrs! I got one on purpose once!

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"[disapointment removed by poster at 18/06/18 16:22:42]

Did he want to say something? Hello? Can’t hear you? Speak louder

I was going to respond in thread to something that should not be discussed in thread.

Checked my holiday planner and revised my choice of phraseology.

Trips to the naughty step are great for getting stuff done though!

It’s amazing what you can accomplish in 48 hrs! I got one on purpose once!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I post on here ...never many replies

I must be a boring bitch

Won't post anymore ! "

I'd probably only get 1 ir 2 replies in 50 posts and miss most so when I do see it and reply it's rather irrelevant.

Don't worry too much. You do seem quite articulate and I've noticed many won't get into discussion if you are. Just keep posting if you think it's worth saying - only 5 to 6%of fab users use the forums but far more read with interest. I've had a lot more private messages from non forum users that responses on them.

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Knock knock ..... is this the right room for an argument ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I post on here ...never many replies

I must be a boring bitch

Won't post anymore ! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Knock knock ..... is this the right room for an argument ?

No. You want next door.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Knock knock ..... is this the right room for an argument ?

No. You want next door. "

Try the gaming thread lol

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"Knock knock ..... is this the right room for an argument ?

Apparently so.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

doughnuts and mars bars give me a toothache.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just keep plugging away, sometimes no one replies to us and then others we get loads, if you see a thread that you are interested in just post away, sure you might get over looked but then you might not, I think it’s also the amount the person posts too, if you ‘get your name out there’ it’s bit like advertising the more you do it, the more notice people take of you.

Geeky x

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

We all get ignored sometimes op

Don't let it discourage you from posting ,I don't think it's done with any malice mostly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have ya been using my invisibility coat lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just keep plugging away, sometimes no one replies to us and then others we get loads, if you see a thread that you are interested in just post away, sure you might get over looked but then you might not, I think it’s also the amount the person posts too, if you ‘get your name out there’ it’s bit like advertising the more you do it, the more notice people take of you.

Geeky x"

Thankyou for taking the time to message me ...what you say makes perfect sense x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We all get ignored sometimes op

Don't let it discourage you from posting ,I don't think it's done with any malice mostly."

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Have ya been using my invisibility coat lol"

Just pressing my invisible button x

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

The ‘holiday over’ thread?

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"I post on here ...never many replies

I must be a boring bitch

Won't post anymore ! "

Not all my posts get a reply on hear.

Just keep posting and sum of them will get a reply

If not just bump it till sumone dus really to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't worry OP. I either kill threads, or get ignored until someone wants to have a go. It's a fickle place that's for sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It takes a lot of regular posting to become really well known on the forums. I've been here for years and still get overlooked at times. It's just how it goes. Not something to take offence at or worry about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have ya been using my invisibility coat lol

Just pressing my invisible button x"

Is that the one that says “Post Message”?

Ads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't post on here simply to get replies, I just like to add my two penneth worth in to the mix and I enjoy reading the banter amongst people. If people do reply then that's good but my no means would I ever let it bother me if people didn't.

Perhaps lighten up OP and take this place for what is meant to be, fun,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I post on here ...never many replies

I must be a boring bitch

Won't post anymore ! "

Gentle tbagging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol you make a post about how you won't post?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I post on here ...never many replies

I must be a boring bitch

Won't post anymore ! "

Don’t worry about it, I’m forever being overlooked or ignored, who cares.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Do a spread of five or six threads..see which one gets the most posts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I post on here ...never many replies

I must be a boring bitch

Won't post anymore !

Don’t worry about it, I’m forever being overlooked or ignored, who cares. "

When you're wearing your white towel, only your white towel, I'd care

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lol you make a post about how you won't post?

She shared her frustrations and had a solution. Many on here share their frustrations with no intention of wanting or having a solution.

Some just maje comments that are unhelpful and just purely digs looking a stirring up things. Green arrows are great.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it happens to me to OP,you will learn to just grin and bare it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It can be hard not to take it personally, and it's nice when you do get some personal interaction.

I just carry on regardless anyway, I think everyone is entitled to my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Start a monday morning cake thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes I find you just get blocked for trying to be nice and helpful too. There seens to be some who just don't want to be engaged with in any normal way too.

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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....

"I post on here ...never many replies

I must be a boring bitch

Won't post anymore ! "

Me too, let’s start our own threads and name it the invisibles....

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By *bsolutebeginnersCouple
over a year ago

Planet Ork

Come and sit in forum corner with us and have a quiet chat away from the crowd

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By *bsolutebeginnersCouple
over a year ago

Planet Ork

We’re so boring that we killed the thread

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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....

"We’re so boring that we killed the thread

Lol we were all wondering who you wanted to sit next too in the corner!!

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