FabSwingers.com forum: Sex is bad.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thus is a sex site, and were supposedly here seeking sex with others? But do you find there's negatives to having sex?

I sometimes get an awful feeling like I've used the other person afterwards. I've even said sorry to the other person who appeared perfectly content with the arrangement. Odd.

How about you? Any strange side effects (other than the rash)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been so long since I had sex... I’d probably apologise in advance

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By *illionsandbillionsMan
over a year ago

Gwent

" Thus is a sex site, and were supposedly here seeking sex with others? But do you find there's negatives to having sex?

I sometimes get an awful feeling like I've used the other person afterwards. I've even said sorry to the other person who appeared perfectly content with the arrangement. Odd.

How about you? Any strange side effects (other than the rash)

Wow said sorry? Bet they felt great lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it soul consuming sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

" Thus is a sex site, and were supposedly here seeking sex with others? But do you find there's negatives to having sex?

I sometimes get an awful feeling like I've used the other person afterwards. I've even said sorry to the other person who appeared perfectly content with the arrangement. Odd.

How about you? Any strange side effects (other than the rash)

Wow said sorry? Bet they felt great lol"

Actually they replied "what on earth for" and were totally comforting. Odd I know, but it's not like the porn movies, there's emotions involved too sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Thus is a sex site, and were supposedly here seeking sex with others? But do you find there's negatives to having sex?

I sometimes get an awful feeling like I've used the other person afterwards. I've even said sorry to the other person who appeared perfectly content with the arrangement. Odd.

How about you? Any strange side effects (other than the rash)

How odd...

I think you a meeting the wrong type of people

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

I could apologise when I woke up

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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago

Traffic land

Only in that it can be a terrible distraction, if I have a meet coming up I have a one track mind!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

If i had any negative reactions to sex i wouldnt be here. Very odd

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I have honestly forgotten what sex is as I can't find someone I actually want to have sex with, but I don't know how to change that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

" Thus is a sex site, and were supposedly here seeking sex with others? But do you find there's negatives to having sex?

I sometimes get an awful feeling like I've used the other person afterwards. I've even said sorry to the other person who appeared perfectly content with the arrangement. Odd.

How about you? Any strange side effects (other than the rash)

How odd...

I think you a meeting the wrong type of people

in the contrary they've been lively people in my opinion...I just felt "guilty"? Not everytime, just posing the question if others have had reactions?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex itself is freaking awesome. Some of the people having it, myself included, not so much. Hormones, emotions, power balances, hangovers of socially constructed guilt, the inner struggle of my own conflicting desires, performance anxiety (theirs and/or mine), how to effectively communicate what you want next/after, crumbs in the bed versus the epicness of a bed picnic, and so on. Complex stuff - and a tumultuous, heady mix of good and bad.

Sex though? Freaking awesome, when I’m involved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Been so long since I had sex... I’d probably apologise in advance "

Yep....... that’s my response lol

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

" Thus is a sex site, and were supposedly here seeking sex with others? But do you find there's negatives to having sex?

I sometimes get an awful feeling like I've used the other person afterwards. I've even said sorry to the other person who appeared perfectly content with the arrangement. Odd.

How about you? Any strange side effects (other than the rash)

Sex is always more than just the sex IMO, so it has great power for good and evil.

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

I have no idear I've never had any

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By *lirtyfun!!Woman
over a year ago

Epsom

"Sex itself is freaking awesome. Some of the people having it, myself included, not so much. Hormones, emotions, power balances, hangovers of socially constructed guilt, the inner struggle of my own conflicting desires, performance anxiety (theirs and/or mine), how to effectively communicate what you want next/after, crumbs in the bed versus the epicness of a bed picnic, and so on. Complex stuff - and a tumultuous, heady mix of good and bad.

Sex though? Freaking awesome, when I’m involved. "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have no idear I've never had any

You need to get laid _eeside!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex at my place is bad for my washing machine as I have to change the sheets. XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes a Couple of times .

I met a lady a few years back , we'd been chatting on here a while , and had met before for a chat and snog .

We drove round and round for somewhere to Fuck , but I was late , and literally had to leave straight after !

She was upset and I still feel guilty !

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

I always apologize after sex

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Last two meets have been amazing and I’m definitely looking to meet them again.

If someone apologised I’d wonder why

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