FabSwingers.com forum: What do you talk about on meets?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Assuming it's someone new that you've never met before. (It's different with friends.)

What do you talk about? What kind of questions would you ask them? What questions don't you like being asked?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I take it you be messaging before the meet so you would have a idea of what to chat about

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By *unloversCouple
over a year ago

rotherham

Just go with the flow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont meet anyone i haven't messaged on here and/or spoken on the phone to for at least a couple of weeks, so there are already things we have chatted about... once we meet its just a follow up of the basic info given...

Im also quite good at waffling on about nothing in particular

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Depends on if it's a social or other. We talk about what we like and don't like.

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By *apasmurfkingMan
over a year ago

not so Littlehampton

Anything and everything, I have no boundaries.

It's interesting as to how random a conversation can become when meeting someone new.

Or how eerily you have a lot in common despite having never talked about anything in detail before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More random the better! I’ve had meets and chatted about all sorts and had a good old laugh too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Assuming it's someone new that you've never met before. (It's different with friends.)

What do you talk about? What kind of questions would you ask them? What questions don't you like being asked?"

I apologise a lot. True story.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first meet we talked about the Euro 2016 game that was on TV.

Ended up agreeing that for each corner our retrospective teams had, we got to spank the other one five times...

Ended up with a VERY red arse!

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By *ubiousOatcakeMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

"What do you talk about?"

Which forumites we like, which ones drive us up the wall.

"What kind of questions would you ask them?"

Do you want to do this the easy way or the hard way?

"What questions don't you like being asked?"

Is it in?

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By *appy squirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

completely random. I have talked about religion, books, music, dogs, sex, difficulties with hair removal and mental health.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't happen for me, in the rare times im intrigued enough by someone to want to meet them we would have had chats and banter first and then progressed to a social. If things didn't naturally flow on a social then it wouldnt get passed that point anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"More random the better! I’ve had meets and chatted about all sorts and had a good old laugh too. "

I’m a random chatter too. Love having a laugh

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By *illionsandbillionsMan
over a year ago

Gwent

"Assuming it's someone new that you've never met before. (It's different with friends.)

What do you talk about? What kind of questions would you ask them? What questions don't you like being asked?"

How much petrol do i owe you?

Can i get fries with that?

Did you get that bobble from claires accesories?

And the most important...

Did you switch everything off before we left

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

Forum stuff if they are a forumite.

Previous fun and club visits

What they are looking for in a sexual meet.

I can small talk for England love meeting new people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Up until recently most of my meets have been more sex than chat

But the chat one was my favourate i do hope im not becoming a lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Assuming it's someone new that you've never met before. (It's different with friends.)

What do you talk about? What kind of questions would you ask them? What questions don't you like being asked?"

The best question to ask is if they have any horror stories re previous meets.. thats a good ice breaker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can barely remember what we talked about on most of mine as I have terrible memory recall.

A couple that stick in my mind were because we had a drink or chat in a hotel lounge before the sex.

One of them we talked about a zombie apocalypse and water treatment plants. The other we talked about Chelsea playing at home that day and Universities.

I usually ask questions based on what they talk to me about.

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By *r_PinkMan
over a year ago

london stratford

"Assuming it's someone new that you've never met before. (It's different with friends.)

What do you talk about? What kind of questions would you ask them? What questions don't you like being asked?"

I nearly always ask how they got in to swinging and I Hate talking about what job I do and how much I make as I am not here to impress with money

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I remember on a first meeting in a pub he became jealous of the man sitting next to us, because he started talking to me.

I thought that was strange.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Assuming it's someone new that you've never met before. (It's different with friends.)

What do you talk about? What kind of questions would you ask them? What questions don't you like being asked?"

Talk about how Ronaldo's free-kick against Spain curved into top bins

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Assuming it's someone new that you've never met before. (It's different with friends.)

What do you talk about? What kind of questions would you ask them? What questions don't you like being asked?

I nearly always ask how they got in to swinging and I Hate talking about what job I do and how much I make as I am not here to impress with money"

Do people actually ask what others earn?

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

Everything under the sun !!! As my meet from Friday verified

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Assuming it's someone new that you've never met before. (It's different with friends.)

What do you talk about? What kind of questions would you ask them? What questions don't you like being asked?

I nearly always ask how they got in to swinging and I Hate talking about what job I do and how much I make as I am not here to impress with money"

That would never cross my mind to even ask

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive done lots of talking via messaging first so try not to when I meet or I end up conducting an interview, I'm not too good with small talk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If were entertaining we ask is there anything there allergic too.

If they have failed to tell us then when there here its

"wheres your epipen"!!

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

The social I had with Swing we discussed dick pics, we may have looked at a few too which caused a lot of laughter

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

"Anything and everything, I have no boundaries.

It's interesting as to how random a conversation can become when meeting someone new.

Or how eerily you have a lot in common despite having never talked about anything in detail before "

Meets are a continuation of the messaging from here and tend to just flow but generally to a deeper level than on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ive done lots of talking via messaging first so try not to when I meet or I end up conducting an interview, I'm not too good with small talk.

So you leave the clipboard at home?

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By *r_PinkMan
over a year ago

london stratford

"Assuming it's someone new that you've never met before. (It's different with friends.)

What do you talk about? What kind of questions would you ask them? What questions don't you like being asked?

I nearly always ask how they got in to swinging and I Hate talking about what job I do and how much I make as I am not here to impress with money

Do people actually ask what others earn? "

I know and it annoys me! makes me think they are snobs looking only to fuck rich people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always think that you should talk about "easier" topics first. Things that are unlikely to cause offence.

Politics, war, religion, taxes, health etc

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

All sorts. Their weekend, holiday plans, fab stuff.

If they start asking sexual questions I'm likely to remember I have an appointment to get to. Especially if we haven't been chatting much on here.

I met a guy once, I arrived first. He came over after getting a drink, sat down, introduced himself and literally said 'sooo, do you like anal sex?' I was quite new and pretty shocked tbh. I burnt my tongue on my coffee then went off to my appointment!! That nearly put me off guys on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What you do

what they do

History of them

How they found there way to fab

Forum

Who uve met

Naughty tales and disasters

General things you like and dislike

And try lke hell to avoid awkward scilences where possible unless your lost in each others eyes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ive done lots of talking via messaging first so try not to when I meet or I end up conducting an interview, I'm not too good with small talk.

So you leave the clipboard at home?

I'll tuck it to the back of my bag just incase they dont mind a good grilling

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Anything that’s fun with skirting and discussing boundaries.

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By *hedevilwearspradaWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere nearby

I usually have spent quite a lot of time messaging and or/chatting before a meet so the conversation usually flows quite well from that.

That said I had a meet recently with someone I’d only really been chatting to for about 24 hours or so. I was a bit nervous that it might be awkward, but the chat flowed very naturally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All sorts of different things, if they’re a forumite then all things on the forums. Can also be Fab related, but most of the time Just general chit chat x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Assuming it's someone new that you've never met before. (It's different with friends.)

What do you talk about? What kind of questions would you ask them? What questions don't you like being asked?

I nearly always ask how they got in to swinging and I Hate talking about what job I do and how much I make as I am not here to impress with money

Do people actually ask what others earn?

I know and it annoys me! makes me think they are snobs looking only to fuck rich people"

I can tell by their shoes anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Brexit.

That tends to do the job.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Assuming it's someone new that you've never met before. (It's different with friends.)

What do you talk about? What kind of questions would you ask them? What questions don't you like being asked?

I nearly always ask how they got in to swinging and I Hate talking about what job I do and how much I make as I am not here to impress with money

Do people actually ask what others earn?

I know and it annoys me! makes me think they are snobs looking only to fuck rich people

I can tell by their shoes anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a clue - I can talk the hind legs off any animal!

We just chat like friends. If we’ve got to the meet stage we already feel comfortable with them. But yeah I can break the ice with most people, never a problem yet...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Brexit.

That tends to do the job.

I would be staring at you like this

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By *educedWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

What not to talk about on a meet. Part 1 By Seduced.

I've put together this list based on first hand experience(s).

1. Lord of the Rings.

No one wants to know your thoughts on Middle Earth or why Tom Bombadil did not appear in the movies. They certainly don't want to hear about it for two hours.

2. The Hobbit

Similarly, who even likes Martin Freeman?

3. Don't call your meet a 'crackhead!' If this happens inadvertently (as it did to me) don't dig a hole by trying to explain (lie) that it's a term of endearment in Birmingham.

4. Don't tell your subsequent meet about that time you got blocked for calling the last meet a 'crackhead!'

5. Whilst not strictly about 'what not to talk about,' NEVER pair your phone to their sound system without their knowledge and insist that James's Laid is the greatest song ever. Also do not dance and sing along.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But why was Tom Bombadil not in the film?

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By *oan of DArcCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

"What not to talk about on a meet. Part 1 By Seduced.

I've put together this list based on first hand experience(s).

1. Lord of the Rings.

No one wants to know your thoughts on Middle Earth or why Tom Bombadil did not appear in the movies. They certainly don't want to hear about it for two hours.

2. The Hobbit

Similarly, who even likes Martin Freeman?

3. Don't call your meet a 'crackhead!' If this happens inadvertently (as it did to me) don't dig a hole by trying to explain (lie) that it's a term of endearment in Birmingham.

4. Don't tell your subsequent meet about that time you got blocked for calling the last meet a 'crackhead!'

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

We probably wont have exchanged that many messages here but thats no problem as I can chat for England and find it more effective getting to know somebody face to face.

We usually just talk about random things, maybe a bit about Fab, how often they have been to the club, is there anywhere hey recommend etc.

I met one guy for a coffee in Costa who proceeded to speak very loudly about anal sex and how much fun I was missing out on. Unfortunately I had left my hair straighteners on and had to go home and unplug them

He messaged later to appologise for being so crude in public and he immediately knew the straighteners thing was my get out excuse and why Id used it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just go with the flow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What not to talk about on a meet. Part 1 By Seduced.

I've put together this list based on first hand experience(s).

1. Lord of the Rings.

No one wants to know your thoughts on Middle Earth or why Tom Bombadil did not appear in the movies. They certainly don't want to hear about it for two hours.

2. The Hobbit

Similarly, who even likes Martin Freeman?

3. Don't call your meet a 'crackhead!' If this happens inadvertently (as it did to me) don't dig a hole by trying to explain (lie) that it's a term of endearment in Birmingham.

4. Don't tell your subsequent meet about that time you got blocked for calling the last meet a 'crackhead!'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nowt.....never had one

*slinks off to cry in to his microwave meal for 1*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've just remembered, on meeting a forumite a few years ago, who was quite popular and well known on the forums, him talking about the other members he had met and what he liked about them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But why was Tom Bombadil not in the film? "

Who is Tom Bombadil?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always think that you should talk about "easier" topics first. Things that are unlikely to cause offence.

Politics, war, religion, taxes, health etc

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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By *educedWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

"But why was Tom Bombadil not in the film?

Who is Tom Bombadil?"

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By *educedWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

"What not to talk about on a meet. Part 1 By Seduced.

I've put together this list based on first hand experience(s).

1. Lord of the Rings.

No one wants to know your thoughts on Middle Earth or why Tom Bombadil did not appear in the movies.

Oh bugger. I've been doing fab wrong all these years. "

And it's a simple one! Mark my words.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Usually ive gotten to know them so well the conversation flows or should i say me talking and them listening flows

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What not to talk about on a meet. Part 1 By Seduced.

I've put together this list based on first hand experience(s).

1. Lord of the Rings.

No one wants to know your thoughts on Middle Earth or why Tom Bombadil did not appear in the movies.

Oh bugger. I've been doing fab wrong all these years.

And it's a simple one! Mark my words.

Tom Bombadil has no place in the films! I would probably talk about that for a few hours!

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By *inkSwingCouple
over a year ago

Preston

"The social I had with Swing we discussed dick pics, we may have looked at a few too which caused a lot of laughter

True story

And staff looking at their watches wondering when we would leave

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

Everything and anything that you both find interesting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Socials I generally just like to chat with them and get to know them. Usually I’ve chatted with them beforehand long enough to know established topics of shared interests but I’m happy to just find out about them.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"And it's a simple one! Mark my words.

Tom Bombadil has no place in the films! I would probably talk about that for a few hours! "

Sorry Seduced, it looks like there are a few of us about.

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By *abrielle247Couple (FF)
over a year ago

PDI Gran Canaria

I never talk with my mouthful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As most of mine have been socials, the topics of conversation have been varied

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We chat about where they are from. Did you watch the game. Our last night out. What they've been up to. What they do as a job. The odd question about fab usually crops up but very rarely. Just general chit chat that you would anyone that you've just met. I don't like being asked any sexual questions. There's no need x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Denuclearisation of the Korean Peninsula

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Talk?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And it's a simple one! Mark my words.

Tom Bombadil has no place in the films! I would probably talk about that for a few hours!

Sorry Seduced, it looks like there are a few of us about.

More than a few!

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"The social I had with Swing we discussed dick pics, we may have looked at a few too which caused a lot of laughter

True story

And staff looking at their watches wondering when we would leave

We did leave........eventually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always like to know their back story in regard to swinging especially any titillating tit-bits! And I like to tell them how Lucy likes it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually I talk about you op

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By *educedWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

"What not to talk about on a meet. Part 1 By Seduced.

I've put together this list based on first hand experience(s).

1. Lord of the Rings.

No one wants to know your thoughts on Middle Earth or why Tom Bombadil did not appear in the movies.

Oh bugger. I've been doing fab wrong all these years.

And it's a simple one! Mark my words.

Tom Bombadil has no place in the films! I would probably talk about that for a few hours! "

What?!

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By *educedWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

"What not to talk about on a meet. Part 1 By Seduced.

I've put together this list based on first hand experience(s).

1. Lord of the Rings.

No one wants to know your thoughts on Middle Earth or why Tom Bombadil did not appear in the movies.

Oh bugger. I've been doing fab wrong all these years.

And it's a simple one! Mark my words.

Tom Bombadil has no place in the films! I would probably talk about that for a few hours!

What?! "

He is just too awesome a character.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What not to talk about on a meet. Part 1 By Seduced.

I've put together this list based on first hand experience(s).

1. Lord of the Rings.

No one wants to know your thoughts on Middle Earth or why Tom Bombadil did not appear in the movies.

Oh bugger. I've been doing fab wrong all these years.

And it's a simple one! Mark my words.

Tom Bombadil has no place in the films! I would probably talk about that for a few hours!

What?! "

Knew this thread would end in a Tom Bombadil war.

We should just stick to "Tommy Robinson: Free Speech Hero or Cunt." In the future.

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By *educedWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

"What not to talk about on a meet. Part 1 By Seduced.

I've put together this list based on first hand experience(s).

1. Lord of the Rings.

No one wants to know your thoughts on Middle Earth or why Tom Bombadil did not appear in the movies.

Oh bugger. I've been doing fab wrong all these years.

And it's a simple one! Mark my words.

Tom Bombadil has no place in the films! I would probably talk about that for a few hours!

What?!

Knew this thread would end in a Tom Bombadil war.

We should just stick to "Tommy Robinson: Free Speech Hero or Cunt." In the future."

No we shouldn't.

Honestly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What not to talk about on a meet. Part 1 By Seduced.

I've put together this list based on first hand experience(s).

1. Lord of the Rings.

No one wants to know your thoughts on Middle Earth or why Tom Bombadil did not appear in the movies.

Oh bugger. I've been doing fab wrong all these years.

And it's a simple one! Mark my words.

Tom Bombadil has no place in the films! I would probably talk about that for a few hours!

What?!

He is just too awesome a character. "

Pfft! Don’t get me started!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ask them about string theory and quantum physics and if they swallow.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Like many others I've usually swapped enough messages with someone before meeting them for there to be points of reference to share and expand on - the best meets have always been full of laughter and conversation that flows easily as a result.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Us and what we want, bearing of mind we will have already chatted for some time before meeting..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Brexit

its everyday life

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"All sorts. Their weekend, holiday plans, fab stuff.

If they start asking sexual questions I'm likely to remember I have an appointment to get to. Especially if we haven't been chatting much on here.

I do the same. I never do sex chat before we first meet for a coffee and usually won't do sex chat then either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve chatted a long time before I even do a social, so it’s easy to chat. I don’t talk sex, just normal stuff. I avoid politics and feminism, I tried that once, it didn’t end well!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We probably wont have exchanged that many messages here but thats no problem as I can chat for England and find it more effective getting to know somebody face to face.

We usually just talk about random things, maybe a bit about Fab, how often they have been to the club, is there anywhere hey recommend etc.

He messaged later to appologise for being so crude in public and he immediately knew the straighteners thing was my get out excuse and why Id used it."

Did you ever meet him again?

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

"All sorts. Their weekend, holiday plans, fab stuff.

If they start asking sexual questions I'm likely to remember I have an appointment to get to. Especially if we haven't been chatting much on here.

I do the same. I never do sex chat before we first meet for a coffee and usually won't do sex chat then either. "

I have engaged in sex talk prior to a social before, when he turned up and didn't really look like his pics it was awkward so I don't anymore! I had another 'appointment' that day to

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"All sorts. Their weekend, holiday plans, fab stuff.

If they start asking sexual questions I'm likely to remember I have an appointment to get to. Especially if we haven't been chatting much on here.

I do the same. I never do sex chat before we first meet for a coffee and usually won't do sex chat then either.

I have engaged in sex talk prior to a social before, when he turned up and didn't really look like his pics it was awkward so I don't anymore! I had another 'appointment' that day to

Same reason I don't do it.

Phone on silent... ooh got a text got to go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sex. I like meeting people so happy to talk about anything. Keep it lighthearted though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what don't I talk about would be a more apt question lol

I randomly chat away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What ever comes to mind ......... anything and everything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

4 hours ago I went to Google Tom Bombadil, and got distracted by pimple popping videos.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"4 hours ago I went to Google Tom Bombadil, and got distracted by pimple popping videos."

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