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Can you find love in a club?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not according to my Nan you can't but that was back in the day, she used to say you can't find love in a club, meaning that boys on a night out will be just out for one thing. But moving forward almost 10 years and the amount of online dating and hook up sites we have now do you think guys are getting all their sex from online sources and the ones that are out in bars and clubs would be the genuine single guys just out with mates?

Like if a guy was attached chances are he would be doing couple stuff on a weekend or having a nice night in with the misses.

Yes the single guys in clubs could also be on online dating sites but actually meeting someone in the flesh first could eliminate the disposable way they see women or could see someone they meet in a bar or club as date material rather than good for a fuck, as most men do see women on sites like these.

Method in my madness or not? Discuss...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it all boils down to wanting a shag. Online and on the pull in a bar.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I'm out of the dating game but I met my husband in a club. He was on a stag do and got punched in the face when we were chatting outside so I took him back to mine to sort him out.

Now though whenever I'm out with my friends I see groups of guys just getting hammered.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure that there is that much science to it, and it's more down to being in the right place at the right time. But if I was ever to find myself single again, I don't think I'd bother with online dating just from the stories I hear, but equally I do know people that have got married after meeting through online dating; so it can't all be bad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you can find love anywhere. Online, club, supermarket it's just being in the right place with the right person at the right time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree it's meeting the right person at the right time and that can be anywhere!!!

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

I think you can find love in the most surprising places so why not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We didn’t exactly find love in a club but we found each other on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clubs are good for some who are her rorum that setting.....me no I avoid them and people who attend them

..pretty shitty swinger eh

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

I don't think it matters how you meet a man, some will only be after a shag and others will want more than that, whether you meet them here, a conventional dating site, in a club or pub, at work, down the gym or wherever.

Stop looking for 'the one' and he will turn up when you least expect it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Clubs are good for some who are her rorum that setting.....me no I avoid them and people who attend them

..pretty shitty swinger eh "

Not seining clubs I mean like a bat or nightclub.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Clubs are good for some who are her rorum that setting.....me no I avoid them and people who attend them

..pretty shitty swinger eh

Not seining clubs I mean like a bat or nightclub. "

Oh I do like a game of tennis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can find love anywhere!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not according to my Nan you can't but that was back in the day, she used to say you can't find love in a club, meaning that boys on a night out will be just out for one thing. But moving forward almost 10 years and the amount of online dating and hook up sites we have now do you think guys are getting all their sex from online sources and the ones that are out in bars and clubs would be the genuine single guys just out with mates?

Like if a guy was attached chances are he would be doing couple stuff on a weekend or having a nice night in with the misses.

Yes the single guys in clubs could also be on online dating sites but actually meeting someone in the flesh first could eliminate the disposable way they see women or could see someone they meet in a bar or club as date material rather than good for a fuck, as most men do see women on sites like these.

Method in my madness or not? Discuss...

"

Clubbing is in decline due to such apps like tinder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love has a habit of smacking you in the face when you least expect it, if you go looking for it you won't find it no matter where you go.

You can't expect people to turn their emotions on and let their barriers down if they don't want to.

Friendship and trust have to be given freely and not forced.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love has a habit of smacking you in the face when you least expect it, if you go looking for it you won't find it no matter where you go.

You can't expect people to turn their emotions on and let their barriers down if they don't want to.

Friendship and trust have to be given freely and not forced."

I like this x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can find it anywhere normally where u least expect to find it

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

I am afraid I don't believe in love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can find it anywhere normally where u least expect to find it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can find it anywhere normally where u least expect to find it"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

To be fair I'm probably gonna be in a hell of a shape when I go out, not been out properly for a good couple of years now.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Listen to your nan, she was right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My friend met her husband in a pub in Wapping. He walked up to her, introduced himself and said "We're going to get married someday". He was right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be fair I'm probably gonna be in a hell of a shape when I go out, not been out properly for a good couple of years now. "

I think you'll have to scope out different places, to see who goes to them.

When I used to go out with my friends, when we were in our 40s, I mainly got much younger men chatting me up.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

Tbh op I’ve no idea where you’re supposed to find love - either these days or in times gone by!

I think it happens where/when it happens- I’m just hoping it happens to me again before I pop my clogs - and that we make each other really happy!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"To be fair I'm probably gonna be in a hell of a shape when I go out, not been out properly for a good couple of years now.

I think you'll have to scope out different places, to see who goes to them.

When I used to go out with my friends, when we were in our 40s, I mainly got much younger men chatting me up. "

It's a ticket only event. Warehouse party, kind of like a rave. 10pm till 4am and doubt we'll go anywhere before the venue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Listen to your nan, she was right "

Nan's are always right even when they were wrong they were right.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

I can't seem to find love anywhere

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I can't seem to find love anywhere "

Do people tell you that you'll find it when you're not looking for it?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"I can't seem to find love anywhere

Do people tell you that you'll find it when you're not looking for it?"

Yup. I'm cracking on a bit now though so need to get a wriggle on

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

I’m this digital day and age why can’t you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you can find live anywhere, it’s just a question of being receptive to it when that person comes along. Sometimes it just ‘happens’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think you can find live anywhere, it’s just a question of being receptive to it when that person comes along. Sometimes it just ‘happens’ "

I live you.

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

The answer to the question lies inside you not with others.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I found it in an adult cinema in the middle of fucking my way through 28 guys

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks


"I found it in an adult cinema in the middle of fucking my way through 28 guys "

Boring film?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only if you like a lot of chocolate on your biscuit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I’d say most definitely yes!

We met in clubf, started dating 10 days later, 4 months on we live together, we’re newly engaged (holding party at clubf in a few weeks) and we’ve booked our wedding for 3 years time

Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be fair I'm probably gonna be in a hell of a shape when I go out, not been out properly for a good couple of years now.

I think you'll have to scope out different places, to see who goes to them.

When I used to go out with my friends, when we were in our 40s, I mainly got much younger men chatting me up.

It's a ticket only event. Warehouse party, kind of like a rave. 10pm till 4am and doubt we'll go anywhere before the venue. "

Should be a lot of people there but they may not all be compos mentis.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think you can find live anywhere, it’s just a question of being receptive to it when that person comes along. Sometimes it just ‘happens’

I live you. "

Bloody auto carrot censoring my emotions...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think you can find live anywhere, it’s just a question of being receptive to it when that person comes along. Sometimes it just ‘happens’

I live you.

Bloody auto carrot censoring my emotions... "

I live you ling tome.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Love can find you anywhere! It found me at a bus stop once in my youth, in a wine bar on the stroke of midnight on NYE, at a South West Regional Committee Meeting lol....all you can do is be open, and get out there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think you can find live anywhere, it’s just a question of being receptive to it when that person comes along. Sometimes it just ‘happens’

I live you.

Bloody auto carrot censoring my emotions...

I live you ling tome."

I live you miss Stelli

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met hubby in a club. We clashed heads on the dance floor... mind you that was about 20 years ago when the internet was barely a thing... jeez I feel old!!

Things like that must still happen though I'm sure...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I met hubby in a club. We clashed heads on the dance floor... mind you that was about 20 years ago when the internet was barely a thing... jeez I feel old!!

Things like that must still happen though I'm sure..."

I met the father of my child in a club in 2000 and was with him 9 years!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well if your on dating site your obviously looking for relationship same person could be the guy in the club

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