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Is it my profile or me?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi everyone

I’ve been on the site b4 but I didn’t have much fun fabbin but recently signed back up and I’ve been attending parties trying to get back out on the scene.. with much joy

My problem is I don’t get much interaction on the site from women or couples and was wondering if it was me or my profile?? What can I change or improve ? any Advice, recommendations, tips , constructive criticism are all welcome... does anyone else have this problem?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

have you tried to upload a picture of you having a shit?

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

To be honest 2 veris in 2 weeks is pretty good going - although am guessing they're from the parties you've attended so if you find that works for you maybe stick to that.

The successful profiles on here are the ones that make an effort to stand out, have a decent set of pics and sell the owner well - ask yourself if yours does that and if not change accordingly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 meet veris in 2 weeks and you think you're struggling?

If I'm being perfectly honest your profile is shit! 1 pic and very little to sell yourself yet it's managed to get you 2 veris so people are obviously seeing something I'm not!

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

Your profile is what you make it. It (and you) need to be distinctive. Which you are not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Read the last sentence of your bio. Almost everybody does the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain

Maybe add an avatar pic. The blank shadow figure avatar is what shows if someone locally sees you pop up in their local feed. I know I tend to scroll by those on my local feed & pretty sure many others would too. Make your profile stand out from all the others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is a bit boring, needs more pics and info.

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight

You need to sell yourself, your profile doesn't do that.

You have one chance to make an impression, at parties you have, with written words you haven't. If that doesn't tell you anything, nothing will.

You'll only get out of this place what you're prepared to invest in yourself.

Spend an afternoon writing a killer profile and not chasing the unobtainable (to paraphrase your original post)and consider it time well spent

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Maybe a name change? Sometimes works but I agree, your profile doesn’t have any ‘grab’ factor

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight


"Maybe a name change? Sometimes works but I agree, your profile doesn’t have any ‘grab’ factor"

That's a fair point, in my view (mr) it has an immature slant on it, but that's just my opinion for what its worth.

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By *MP3Man
over a year ago

Between Scylla and Charybdis


"have you tried to upload a picture of you having a shit? "

I must give that a try

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