FabSwingers.com forum: light on or off

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hey guys and gorgeous girls. I had a discussion with a guy I have a meet with next weekend -

light on or off and why ?

I know we are basically strangers when we meet our 'meets' for the first time (unless a social has been undertaken but for me its sexy as hell being able too see their reaction to each and every touch. Being able to explore their body. Now I'm not talking full on fluorescent lighting lol , nice sexy mood lighting with music too match.

Whats all your opinions ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On, I'm a visually aroused creature.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On... so i can see who I'm doing

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"On, I'm a visually aroused creature."

me too its all about sight and sound

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"On... so i can see who I'm doing

love it , I'm over my fumbling in the dark days lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell, if it meant a meet be happy if the bedroom was lit with football stadium lights.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hell, if it meant a meet be happy if the bedroom was lit with football stadium lights.

HAHAHA fair enough!

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

Lights down low or curtains open for the moon light to show though

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Lights down low or curtains open for the moon light to show though "

exactly this, I have some super low decorative lights near my bed I have on and usually some candles...in the morning the light shines through so it is perfect!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mostly on. Except when it's that middle-of-the-night waking and having to have them, thing x

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By *heSofaDestroyersCouple
over a year ago

HereAndThere

On a slight different lighting topic,

We went to xtasia and used the dogging room, Mrs commented on how dark it was and she couldn’t find the light switch

Hot as fuck but makes me giggle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Off. I relax more

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"On a slight different lighting topic,

We went to xtasia and used the dogging room, Mrs commented on how dark it was and she couldn’t find the light switch

Hot as fuck but makes me giggle

hahaha love it, I am looking to visit there soon with a friend of mine off here. The dogging room is something of interest to us both HUGELY

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Mostly on. Except when it's that middle-of-the-night waking and having to have them, thing x"

I never seem to make it too bed before 4-5am , but I agree when its a wake up and need vibe no one wants too be scrambling for anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bedside lamp

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Off. I relax more"

I use to be quite like this but got into a situation where I had no choice...found from there I loved it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"bedside lamp"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lights down low or curtains open for the moon light to show though

exactly this, I have some super low decorative lights near my bed I have on and usually some candles...in the morning the light shines through so it is perfect!"

I’m the same, hate full on lights.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Soft lighting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Open curtains soft moonlight glowing through open windows gentle breeze filling the room eyes sparking in the low glow reflected from another as....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Lights down low or curtains open for the moon light to show though

exactly this, I have some super low decorative lights near my bed I have on and usually some candles...in the morning the light shines through so it is perfect!

I’m the same, hate full on lights. "

I agree soft mood lighting is the one

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Open curtains soft moonlight glowing through open windows gentle breeze filling the room eyes sparking in the low glow reflected from another as...."

I feel theres an ending needed here

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Soft lighting "

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By *arnsley guy100Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

If lights are off.... I'll be falling asleep shortley after.

So if I'm popping round to bone you.. Lights on.

If im making soft loving to you.. Lights off

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By *heSofaDestroyersCouple
over a year ago

HereAndThere

"On a slight different lighting topic,

We went to xtasia and used the dogging room, Mrs commented on how dark it was and she couldn’t find the light switch

Hot as fuck but makes me giggle

hahaha love it, I am looking to visit there soon with a friend of mine off here. The dogging room is something of interest to us both HUGELY "

Hey op it was the picnic bench we really went for, so so hot

A great night indeed,

Am sure you will have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Open curtains soft moonlight glowing through open windows gentle breeze filling the room eyes sparking in the low glow reflected from another as...."

.... she slowly peels back the wrapper of her Cadbury Flake....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lights on and daytime even better..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lights on. I like to see their face.

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

I advise any lady having a meet with me that sensory deprivation is their best bet, Lights off, Ear plugs in and Boxing gloves on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Open curtains soft moonlight glowing through open windows gentle breeze filling the room eyes sparking in the low glow reflected from another as....

I feel theres an ending needed here "

Some things should never end....

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By *razysexysingleWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

On on on! I get a bit weirded out doing stuff in the dark!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nobody likes the rabbit in the headlights look so something subtle works well. Certainly not dark

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By *appy squirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

I have to admit that I am not that visual- so I enjoy some fun in the dark as well when all you do is feel everything...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mood lighting, nice and subtle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I swing both ways to be fair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women want the light off with me - no matter what?

#FaceLikeQuasimodo’sHump

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Candles are good. Keeping the "big light" on is a bit harsh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do like a bit of soft lighting, you always bash your knees on something in the total dark. Its usually stark daylight though when I meet, and I keep forgetting to close the curtains.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Open curtains soft moonlight glowing through open windows gentle breeze filling the room eyes sparking in the low glow reflected from another as....

I feel theres an ending needed here

Some things should never end...."

mmmm touche ...I like your style

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have to admit that I am not that visual- so I enjoy some fun in the dark as well when all you do is feel everything..."

I like this when its sensory deprivation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both. Blindfolds are also option

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Both. Blindfolds are also option"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On. I want to see your body and eye contact is important to me.

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By *ig Chris75Man
over a year ago

Sandbach

Mood lighting surely....?

No need for the "big light" on...lol

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By *ornLordMan
over a year ago

Wiltshire and London

"Hell, if it meant a meet be happy if the bedroom was lit with football stadium lights.

And VAR?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"On. I want to see your body and eye contact is important to me.

This!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Mood lighting surely....?

No need for the "big light" on...lol"

This is what I think I have some soft ‘pretty’ lights and sometimes candles

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Soft lighting,at my age I don't want to scare the bugger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On. I want to see your body and eye contact is important to me.

This!"

This for me too but I do quite enjoy a session in a cluns dark room

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On!!!! And if you have afternoon sex means it light anyway!!

And recently enjoyed late night sex with dimmed lights... so you could still see each other but was really intimate mmmmm!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On. I want to see your body and eye contact is important to me.

This!

This for me too but I do quite enjoy a session in a clubs dark room

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By *hedevilwearspradaWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere nearby

Off. I am not body confident at all. I try not to get naked either if I can help it .

There have only been a couple of meets who have managed to get me scuddy bare. The most recent nakedness happened with the lights on though. I was out of my clothes before I knew what was going on. And he made it feel ok. And he touched all the bits I hate about myself and made that ok too. I was embarrassed, but not ashamed, which is how I’ve felt at other times.

He was pretty ace that day actually. Though I’d never tell him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On i like to watch what i eat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to stretch my ball bag over the nightside lamp and project the contents onto the ceiling for an interesting effect.

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By *ornLordMan
over a year ago

Wiltshire and London

" I like to stretch my ball bag over the nightside lamp and project the contents onto the ceiling for an interesting effect."

I admire your range.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" I like to stretch my ball bag over the nightside lamp and project the contents onto the ceiling for an interesting effect."

Ha ha ha! Now there’s an image!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely, most definitely, and without a shadow of a doubt, on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On I'm very visual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On, i want to.see!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Soft lighting,at my age I don't want to scare the bugger."

Oh behave you wouldn’t

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Off. I am not body confident at all. I try not to get naked either if I can help it .

He was pretty ace that day actually. Though I’d never tell him

Freaking love this , be body confident babe

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

" I like to stretch my ball bag over the nightside lamp and project the contents onto the ceiling for an interesting effect."

Intriguing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did enjoy the darkroom experience and being blindfolded in a club once was fun, but mostly I prefer to see.

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