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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If people are attracted to you then they'll respond to your message or meet you or have sex with you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

End of thread.

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

It’s much more complicated than that, there are all kinds of subtleties and nuances that stand between me and the sex life of my dreams.

That has to be true, otherwise it’s because they don’t like me and I don’t fancy that reason at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It baffles me that people don’t understand this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It baffles me that people don’t understand this. "

I don't understand this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If people are attracted to you then they'll respond to your message or meet you or have sex with you. "

Also; best shape for wheels is round. THE END

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It baffles me that people don’t understand this.

I don't understand this."

I’m baffled!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yoda is that you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s the brutal truth, dress it up all you want but this is what it comes down to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bit like if someone likes you, they’ll make an effort to be with you.

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"If people are attracted to you then they'll respond to your message or meet you or have sex with you. "

If only it was that simple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If people are attracted to you then they'll respond to your message or meet you or have sex with you.

If only it was that simple "

It is.

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By *ubiousOatcakeMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire


"If people are attracted to you then they'll respond to your message or meet you or have sex with you.

If only it was that simple "

Um... how is it not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A bit like if someone likes you, they’ll make an effort to be with you."

I’m on my way, I’ve fired up the Ford Focus Ghia.

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By *ust ClareTV/TS
over a year ago

Settlewick!

Damn, I thought that if I messaged someone and they read it but didn't delete ,that it was a guarantee of a fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Damn, I thought that if I messaged someone and they read it but didn't delete ,that it was a guarantee of a fuck "

They've essentially entered a non-verbal agreement. That's just contract law. Fact.

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By *ust ClareTV/TS
over a year ago

Settlewick!


"Damn, I thought that if I messaged someone and they read it but didn't delete ,that it was a guarantee of a fuck

They've essentially entered a non-verbal agreement. That's just contract law. Fact."

So, if I message the OP for instance ,get past her filters and she doesn't block me, then I can sue her in the small claims court if she doesn't put out?

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By *ischief ManagedCouple
over a year ago

manchester


"It baffles me that people don’t understand this. "

They just want to slytherin I'm afraid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It baffles me that people don’t understand this.

They just want to slytherin I'm afraid"

(That is my house by the way!)

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

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If fab displayed something like that and if they don't reply, they're not interested to the page that comes up when sending a message people who don't understand it might get the hint

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By *ischief ManagedCouple
over a year ago

manchester


"It baffles me that people don’t understand this.

They just want to slytherin I'm afraid

(That is my house by the way!) "

Good choice by the hat too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If people are attracted to you then they'll respond to your message or meet you or have sex with you. "
men will definitely women not so sure lol

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Yep and if they don't reply to your message ,they weren't interested ,so a 2nd or 3rd won't worm.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Work even !

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By *ubiousOatcakeMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire


"If people are attracted to you then they'll respond to your message or meet you or have sex with you.

men will definitely women not so sure lol"

Do you think that there are women not messaging or replying to your messages, despite actually wanting to meet you for sex? Why would that be?

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By *erDirtyRockstarMan
over a year ago

buckinghamshire

succinct

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If fab displayed something like that and if they don't reply, they're not interested to the page that comes up when sending a message people who don't understand it might get the hint"

I wonder if the site is advertised next to 'just message and get a fuck' type sites.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A bit like if someone likes you, they’ll make an effort to be with you."

Oh gosh, yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If people are attracted to you then they'll respond to your message or meet you or have sex with you. "

What’s the question?

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By *arpePinguisWoman
over a year ago

Norwich


"If people are attracted to you then they'll respond to your message or meet you or have sex with you. "

Can I nick this as my status please?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If people are attracted to you then they'll respond to your message or meet you or have sex with you.

What’s the question? "

The question is why can't I get a meet or why won't people respond to my messages or why won't anybody fuck me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If people are attracted to you then they'll respond to your message or meet you or have sex with you.

What’s the question?

The question is why can't I get a meet or why won't people respond to my messages or why won't anybody fuck me? "

Are you a single guy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People are attracted to me without seeing my face.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If people are attracted to you then they'll respond to your message or meet you or have sex with you.

What’s the question?

The question is why can't I get a meet or why won't people respond to my messages or why won't anybody fuck me? "

You're "owned". You're off limits.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A bit like if someone likes you, they’ll make an effort to be with you."

Absolutely true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have tried that approach but usually get blocked before I manage to put my penis in one of her lovely holes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If people are attracted to you then they'll respond to your message or meet you or have sex with you.

What’s the question?

The question is why can't I get a meet or why won't people respond to my messages or why won't anybody fuck me?

You're "owned". You're off limits."

Me owned, by whom?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If people are attracted to you then they'll respond to your message or meet you or have sex with you.

What’s the question?

The question is why can't I get a meet or why won't people respond to my messages or why won't anybody fuck me?

You're "owned". You're off limits.

Me owned, by whom?"
I own ye

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If people are attracted to you then they'll respond to your message or meet you or have sex with you.

What’s the question?

The question is why can't I get a meet or why won't people respond to my messages or why won't anybody fuck me?

You're "owned". You're off limits.

Me owned, by whom?"

Fabby.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If people are attracted to you then they'll respond to your message or meet you or have sex with you.

What’s the question?

The question is why can't I get a meet or why won't people respond to my messages or why won't anybody fuck me?

You're "owned". You're off limits.

Me owned, by whom? I own ye "

You wish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It baffles me that people don’t understand this. "

And me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If people are attracted to you then they'll respond to your message or meet you or have sex with you.

What’s the question?

The question is why can't I get a meet or why won't people respond to my messages or why won't anybody fuck me?

You're "owned". You're off limits.

Me owned, by whom?

Fabby."

Nooo, that picture was a spur of the moment thing to incorporate his love of boobs and Nutella.

Does it make me looked owned, would it put guys off?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If people are attracted to you then they'll respond to your message or meet you or have sex with you.

What’s the question?

The question is why can't I get a meet or why won't people respond to my messages or why won't anybody fuck me?

You're "owned". You're off limits.

Me owned, by whom?

Fabby.

Nooo, that picture was a spur of the moment thing to incorporate his love of boobs and Nutella.

Does it make me looked owned, would it put guys off?"
no doubt put guys off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If people are attracted to you then they'll respond to your message or meet you or have sex with you.

What’s the question?

The question is why can't I get a meet or why won't people respond to my messages or why won't anybody fuck me?

You're "owned". You're off limits.

Me owned, by whom?

Fabby.

Nooo, that picture was a spur of the moment thing to incorporate his love of boobs and Nutella.

Does it make me looked owned, would it put guys off?"

Certainly not me

I don't own anyone not even my fucking cat ! He is bossing me around !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If people are attracted to you then they'll respond to your message or meet you or have sex with you.

What’s the question?

The question is why can't I get a meet or why won't people respond to my messages or why won't anybody fuck me?

You're "owned". You're off limits.

Me owned, by whom?

Fabby.

Nooo, that picture was a spur of the moment thing to incorporate his love of boobs and Nutella.

Does it make me looked owned, would it put guys off?"

I think that owned women write the names of their owners on their boobs. It might be putting men off but I was joking.

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By *igletchicksterWoman
over a year ago

Leicester


"Damn, I thought that if I messaged someone and they read it but didn't delete ,that it was a guarantee of a fuck

They've essentially entered a non-verbal agreement. That's just contract law. Fact."

Fuck! Then I'm going to go and delete all!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Does it make me looked owned, would it put guys off?"

Made me want to bust out the baby wipes..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Does it make me looked owned, would it put guys off?

Made me want to bust out the baby wipes.. "
I want lick it off her lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How can you have this issue?

Now this site really confuses me. "

How does it confuse you?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How can you have this issue?

Now this site really confuses me.

How does it confuse you?! "

The site is so easy and simple to use!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How can you have this issue?

Now this site really confuses me. "
which issue??, Think she means for the guys complain that they can't get a fuck

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I agree with you OP. It really is that simple!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree with you OP. It really is that simple!"
giz a lick

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By *ubiousOatcakeMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire


"I want lick it off her lol"

Don’t be too subtle, mate, or she’ll never know you’re keen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I want lick it off her lol

Don’t be too subtle, mate, or she’ll never know you’re keen."
sure doesn't matter as would never happen

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By *ubiousOatcakeMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire


"sure doesn't matter as would never happen "

So my advice was wasted? Darn.

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter


"If people are attracted to you then they'll respond to your message or meet you or have sex with you. "

Very profound .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If people are attracted to you then they'll respond to your message or meet you or have sex with you.

What’s the question?

The question is why can't I get a meet or why won't people respond to my messages or why won't anybody fuck me?

You're "owned". You're off limits.

Me owned, by whom?

Fabby.

Nooo, that picture was a spur of the moment thing to incorporate his love of boobs and Nutella.

Does it make me looked owned, would it put guys off?

I think that owned women write the names of their owners on their boobs. It might be putting men off but I was joking. "

I'm gonna have to put it private then, besides it will cut down on the messages asking what f&b stands for!

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"If people are attracted to you then they'll respond to your message or meet you or have sex with you. "

agreed it's not rocket science

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If people are attracted to you then they'll respond to your message or meet you or have sex with you.

What’s the question?

The question is why can't I get a meet or why won't people respond to my messages or why won't anybody fuck me?

You're "owned". You're off limits.

Me owned, by whom?

Fabby.

Nooo, that picture was a spur of the moment thing to incorporate his love of boobs and Nutella.

Does it make me looked owned, would it put guys off?

I think that owned women write the names of their owners on their boobs. It might be putting men off but I was joking.

I'm gonna have to put it private then, besides it will cut down on the messages asking what f&b stands for!"

Wondered why I had so many views....now I know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If people are attracted to you then they'll respond to your message or meet you or have sex with you.

What’s the question?

The question is why can't I get a meet or why won't people respond to my messages or why won't anybody fuck me? "

Because you are confusing. On the one hand you want fucking and on the other you want a relationship.

You have very specific requirements which make it almost impossible for men to fit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If people are attracted to you then they'll respond to your message or meet you or have sex with you. "

Thanks for clearing that up for me

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By *naquest321Man
over a year ago

Carlisle


"If people are attracted to you then they'll respond to your message or meet you or have sex with you.

Can I nick this as my status please?"

Hey, “thats a good idea ...” who can fill in the blank. C’mon show your age.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If people are attracted to you then they'll respond to your message or meet you or have sex with you.

What’s the question?

The question is why can't I get a meet or why won't people respond to my messages or why won't anybody fuck me?

Because you are confusing. On the one hand you want fucking and on the other you want a relationship.

You have very specific requirements which make it almost impossible for men to fit."

Christ behave, I'm obviously not asking the question for myself, have you seen me.

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish


"People are attracted to me without seeing my face."

Hey, all they can see of me is my fingertips and a thigh in jim jams and im still hot as fuck... go figure.

But its true OP, this site is so simple. You advertise yourself in yourprofile. People are either attracted or not. If they areand the feelings mutual you meet. If its not you move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If people are attracted to you then they'll respond to your message or meet you or have sex with you.

What’s the question?

The question is why can't I get a meet or why won't people respond to my messages or why won't anybody fuck me?

Because you are confusing. On the one hand you want fucking and on the other you want a relationship.

You have very specific requirements which make it almost impossible for men to fit.

Christ behave, I'm obviously not asking the question for myself, have you seen me. "

Yes.

My comment still stands.

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)


"If people are attracted to you then they'll respond to your message or meet you or have sex with you. "

That's where I've been going wrong. Note to self; Be more attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How can you have this issue?

Now this site really confuses me.

How does it confuse you?!

The site is so easy and simple to use! "

And easy to get a meet....if you're a women!

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By *ubiousOatcakeMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire


"If people are attracted to you then they'll respond to your message or meet you or have sex with you.

What’s the question?

The question is why can't I get a meet or why won't people respond to my messages or why won't anybody fuck me?"

A couple of people seem a bit confused by this. The OP is Atropos’s answer to the guys who ask those questions.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If people are attracted to you then they'll respond to your message or meet you or have sex with you.

What’s the question?

The question is why can't I get a meet or why won't people respond to my messages or why won't anybody fuck me?

Because you are confusing. On the one hand you want fucking and on the other you want a relationship.

You have very specific requirements which make it almost impossible for men to fit.

Christ behave, I'm obviously not asking the question for myself, have you seen me.

Yes.

My comment still stands."

Then you're just being rude and your comment is void as the question doesn't apply to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How can you have this issue?

Now this site really confuses me.

How does it confuse you?!

The site is so easy and simple to use!

And easy to get a meet....if you're a women!"

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

So I should actually send introductory messages?

I gave that up years ago....

These days I just go to forum socials and tend to use Fab just for that reason.

I appreciate my prole is shite, as are my pics. When I had a good profile and good pics (IMHO) it made zero difference.

You can't beat the percentages, so why lose sleep over it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How can you have this issue?

Now this site really confuses me.

How does it confuse you?!

The site is so easy and simple to use!

And easy to get a meet....if you're a women!"

Easy for hot men too.

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By *ubiousOatcakeMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire


""

I know... he used the indefinite article with a plural.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If people are attracted to you then they'll respond to your message or meet you or have sex with you.

What’s the question?

The question is why can't I get a meet or why won't people respond to my messages or why won't anybody fuck me?

Because you are confusing. On the one hand you want fucking and on the other you want a relationship.

You have very specific requirements which make it almost impossible for men to fit.

Christ behave, I'm obviously not asking the question for myself, have you seen me.

Yes.

My comment still stands.

Then you're just being rude and your comment is void as the question doesn't apply to me. "

I am not being rude. You asked the questions, I answered them.

Just because I have a differing opinion, doesn't invalidate it.

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By *ubiousOatcakeMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire


"I am not being rude. You asked the questions, I answered them."

She’s not the one asking those questions. See my post above.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If people are attracted to you then they'll respond to your message or meet you or have sex with you.

What’s the question?

The question is why can't I get a meet or why won't people respond to my messages or why won't anybody fuck me?

Because you are confusing. On the one hand you want fucking and on the other you want a relationship.

You have very specific requirements which make it almost impossible for men to fit.

Christ behave, I'm obviously not asking the question for myself, have you seen me.

Yes.

My comment still stands.

Then you're just being rude and your comment is void as the question doesn't apply to me.

I am not being rude. You asked the questions, I answered them.

Just because I have a differing opinion, doesn't invalidate it."

I didn't ask the question. It's the men that usually ask those questions. I provided the answer in the opening post. It's been explained many times throughout the thread that I wasn't asking those questions, you've interpreted it the wrong way to reflect your distaste towards me. Just own it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How can you have this issue?

Now this site really confuses me.

How does it confuse you?!

The site is so easy and simple to use!

And easy to get a meet....if you're a women!

"

Obviously don't really do this but, see what would happen if you "joined" as a man with the same profile as you've got now then see if you can still do I bet not!

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By *hedevilwearspradaWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere nearby

But then you get the ones that pretend they are interested, keep you hanging on, play with you and then drop you once someone thinner/more intelligent/bigger tits/prettier come along. Like you are some sort of holding station. That’s prwtty annoying.

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By *hedevilwearspradaWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere nearby

Or even pretty annoying! Jesus my spelling is appalling!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If people are attracted to you then they'll respond to your message or meet you or have sex with you.

What’s the question?

The question is why can't I get a meet or why won't people respond to my messages or why won't anybody fuck me?

Because you are confusing. On the one hand you want fucking and on the other you want a relationship.

You have very specific requirements which make it almost impossible for men to fit.

Christ behave, I'm obviously not asking the question for myself, have you seen me.

Yes.

My comment still stands.

Then you're just being rude and your comment is void as the question doesn't apply to me.

I am not being rude. You asked the questions, I answered them.

Just because I have a differing opinion, doesn't invalidate it.

I didn't ask the question. It's the men that usually ask those questions. I provided the answer in the opening post. It's been explained many times throughout the thread that I wasn't asking those questions, you've interpreted it the wrong way to reflect your distaste towards me. Just own it. "

You flatter yourself.

I won't.

On the one hand you want a relationship but the people that you are attracted to, as per your many, many posts over your many incarnations on here, aren't relationship types.

I wasn't being personal as such, I was answering what I thought you were asking.

My personal opinion of you is irrelevant as you are a stranger on the Internet.

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over a year ago


"But then you get the ones that pretend they are interested, keep you hanging on, play with you and then drop you once someone thinner/more intelligent/bigger tits/prettier come along. Like you are some sort of holding station. That’s prwtty annoying. "

And that's just the ladies...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How can you have this issue?

Now this site really confuses me.

How does it confuse you?!

The site is so easy and simple to use!

And easy to get a meet....if you're a women!

Obviously don't really do this but, see what would happen if you "joined" as a man with the same profile as you've got now then see if you can still do I bet not! "

Oh I love a good moaner

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By *hedevilwearspradaWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere nearby


"But then you get the ones that pretend they are interested, keep you hanging on, play with you and then drop you once someone thinner/more intelligent/bigger tits/prettier come along. Like you are some sort of holding station. That’s prwtty annoying.

And that's just the ladies... "

Not this lady. Though maybe I should be more like that, then I wouldn’t get the piss taken out of me so much...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If people are attracted to you then they'll respond to your message or meet you or have sex with you.

What’s the question?

The question is why can't I get a meet or why won't people respond to my messages or why won't anybody fuck me?

Because you are confusing. On the one hand you want fucking and on the other you want a relationship.

You have very specific requirements which make it almost impossible for men to fit.

Christ behave, I'm obviously not asking the question for myself, have you seen me.

Yes.

My comment still stands.

Then you're just being rude and your comment is void as the question doesn't apply to me.

I am not being rude. You asked the questions, I answered them.

Just because I have a differing opinion, doesn't invalidate it.

I didn't ask the question. It's the men that usually ask those questions. I provided the answer in the opening post. It's been explained many times throughout the thread that I wasn't asking those questions, you've interpreted it the wrong way to reflect your distaste towards me. Just own it.

You flatter yourself.

I won't.

On the one hand you want a relationship but the people that you are attracted to, as per your many, many posts over your many incarnations on here, aren't relationship types.

I wasn't being personal as such, I was answering what I thought you were asking.

My personal opinion of you is irrelevant as you are a stranger on the Internet.

"

But why are you even commenting about my profile wants or anything about me. This thread isn't about me yet you're taking it as an opportunity to have a go at me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If people are attracted to you then they'll respond to your message or meet you or have sex with you.

What’s the question?

The question is why can't I get a meet or why won't people respond to my messages or why won't anybody fuck me?

Because you are confusing. On the one hand you want fucking and on the other you want a relationship.

You have very specific requirements which make it almost impossible for men to fit.

Christ behave, I'm obviously not asking the question for myself, have you seen me.

Yes.

My comment still stands.

Then you're just being rude and your comment is void as the question doesn't apply to me.

I am not being rude. You asked the questions, I answered them.

Just because I have a differing opinion, doesn't invalidate it.

I didn't ask the question. It's the men that usually ask those questions. I provided the answer in the opening post. It's been explained many times throughout the thread that I wasn't asking those questions, you've interpreted it the wrong way to reflect your distaste towards me. Just own it.

You flatter yourself.

I won't.

On the one hand you want a relationship but the people that you are attracted to, as per your many, many posts over your many incarnations on here, aren't relationship types.

I wasn't being personal as such, I was answering what I thought you were asking.

My personal opinion of you is irrelevant as you are a stranger on the Internet.

But why are you even commenting about my profile wants or anything about me. This thread isn't about me yet you're taking it as an opportunity to have a go at me. "

I refer you back to the post near the beginning of the thread...

What's the question?

Your response was, "The question is why can't I get a meet or why won't people respond to my messages or why won't anybody fuck me?"

I answered that question. I thought that was what you were actually asking, in a convoluted way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Atropos, ready!

Testarossa, ready!

3... 2... 1... FIGHT!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How can you have this issue?

Now this site really confuses me.

How does it confuse you?!

The site is so easy and simple to use!

And easy to get a meet....if you're a women!

Obviously don't really do this but, see what would happen if you "joined" as a man with the same profile as you've got now then see if you can still do I bet not!

Oh I love a good moaner "

Well, you'll never know.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Atropos, ready!

Testarossa, ready!

3... 2... 1... FIGHT!"

Pffft, too easy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Atropos, ready!

Testarossa, ready!

3... 2... 1... FIGHT!

Pffft, too easy!"

Ooh! Them's fightin' words!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Atropos, ready!

Testarossa, ready!

3... 2... 1... FIGHT!"

Oiled up or in mud?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Atropos, ready!

Testarossa, ready!

3... 2... 1... FIGHT!

Oiled up or in mud? "

I think it's important to test both scenarios. For consistency.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not trying to have a go. You relatively hot from what I can see.

But you can't seriously say that look are the end all of all things. What if that hot guy is actually a self entitled knob?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Atropos, ready!

Testarossa, ready!

3... 2... 1... FIGHT!

Oiled up or in mud? "

Jelly and ice cream

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not trying to have a go. You relatively hot from what I can see.

But you can't seriously say that look are the end all of all things. What if that hot guy is actually a self entitled knob? "

‘Relatively hot’ faint praise indeed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not trying to have a go. You relatively hot from what I can see.

But you can't seriously say that look are the end all of all things. What if that hot guy is actually a self entitled knob?

‘Relatively hot’ faint praise indeed. "

Shes blunt. I'm just as blunt. There are alot of hotter lasses on here. Its just the truth.

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

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"Not trying to have a go. You relatively hot from what I can see.

But you can't seriously say that look are the end all of all things. What if that hot guy is actually a self entitled knob? "

Being hot to the person you have messaged gets you to phase 1

A reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not trying to have a go. You relatively hot from what I can see.

But you can't seriously say that look are the end all of all things. What if that hot guy is actually a self entitled knob?

‘Relatively hot’ faint praise indeed.

Shes blunt. I'm just as blunt. There are alot of hotter lasses on here. Its just the truth. "

The charm is strong with this one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not trying to have a go. You relatively hot from what I can see.

But you can't seriously say that look are the end all of all things. What if that hot guy is actually a self entitled knob?

‘Relatively hot’ faint praise indeed.

Shes blunt. I'm just as blunt. There are alot of hotter lasses on here. Its just the truth.

The charm is strong with this one. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not trying to have a go. You relatively hot from what I can see.

But you can't seriously say that look are the end all of all things. What if that hot guy is actually a self entitled knob?

Being hot to the person you have messaged gets you to phase 1

A reply"

Thats how attraction works. Where are you going with this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not trying to have a go. You relatively hot from what I can see.

But you can't seriously say that look are the end all of all things. What if that hot guy is actually a self entitled knob?

‘Relatively hot’ faint praise indeed.

Shes blunt. I'm just as blunt. There are alot of hotter lasses on here. Its just the truth.

The charm is strong with this one. "

She makes a post going on about how hot people on meet hot people on here. She previously said that its not about her because "look at me". I'm just telling her how it is. Some don't like it but others respect it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not trying to have a go. You relatively hot from what I can see.

But you can't seriously say that look are the end all of all things. What if that hot guy is actually a self entitled knob?

Being hot to the person you have messaged gets you to phase 1

A reply

Thats how attraction works. Where are you going with this? "

It’s Saturday night, go out young man.

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

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"Not trying to have a go. You relatively hot from what I can see.

But you can't seriously say that look are the end all of all things. What if that hot guy is actually a self entitled knob?

Being hot to the person you have messaged gets you to phase 1

A reply

Thats how attraction works. Where are you going with this? "

After you get talking to the "hot" person if they are a "self entitled knob" it usually won't go any further

I thought that was obvious

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not trying to have a go. You relatively hot from what I can see.

But you can't seriously say that look are the end all of all things. What if that hot guy is actually a self entitled knob? "

Looks are everything on here. Once attraction is established which is quickly done by simply looking at pictures, from there other factors come into play like personality and humour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not trying to have a go. You relatively hot from what I can see.

But you can't seriously say that look are the end all of all things. What if that hot guy is actually a self entitled knob?

Looks are everything on here. Once attraction is established which is quickly done by simply looking at pictures, from there other factors come into play like personality and humour.

"

Disagree.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not trying to have a go. You relatively hot from what I can see.

But you can't seriously say that look are the end all of all things. What if that hot guy is actually a self entitled knob?

Looks are everything on here. Once attraction is established which is quickly done by simply looking at pictures, from there other factors come into play like personality and humour.

Disagree. "

So the women you converse with and meet and chat to don't find you attractive then do they?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

First thing that attracts me to someone on here is their profile

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"Not trying to have a go. You relatively hot from what I can see.

But you can't seriously say that look are the end all of all things. What if that hot guy is actually a self entitled knob?

Looks are everything on here. Once attraction is established which is quickly done by simply looking at pictures, from there other factors come into play like personality and humour.

Disagree. "

I agree, maybe it's different for women. I'll ask for a face pic early on and if I like that it's goes from there....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well that explains why no bugger ever meets me then! FML!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not trying to have a go. You relatively hot from what I can see.

But you can't seriously say that look are the end all of all things. What if that hot guy is actually a self entitled knob?

Looks are everything on here. Once attraction is established which is quickly done by simply looking at pictures, from there other factors come into play like personality and humour.

Disagree.

So the women you converse with and meet and chat to don't find you attractive then do they?"

I'm sure I can't comment on what first draws others to a person.

All I can say is I disagree personally with your opinion.

I'm drawn to a great number of things. The pictures for me isn't necessarily the first port of call. A sense of humour in the forum is attractive. As is empathy, compassion, a pleasant attitude.

Not everyone is fixated on the superficial as you suggest.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not trying to have a go. You relatively hot from what I can see.

But you can't seriously say that look are the end all of all things. What if that hot guy is actually a self entitled knob?

Looks are everything on here. Once attraction is established which is quickly done by simply looking at pictures, from there other factors come into play like personality and humour.

Disagree.

So the women you converse with and meet and chat to don't find you attractive then do they?

I'm sure I can't comment on what first draws others to a person.

All I can say is I disagree personally with your opinion.

I'm drawn to a great number of things. The pictures for me isn't necessarily the first port of call. A sense of humour in the forum is attractive. As is empathy, compassion, a pleasant attitude.

Not everyone is fixated on the superficial as you suggest. "

Yes but you're a man and statistically the odds are against you on here so you may well go for a woman that you may not be instantly attracted to but that woman, purely based on the fact that on here whoever that woman is she'll have a lot of choice, she would have picked to speak to you because she's attracted to you.

Also as a side note, to men that say they don't care about looks and it's all personality, it's not going to make you more desirable, it would make you more respected and show you have standards to say attraction is the key thing on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attraction means different things for different people ... Some are totally shallow, some see a bigger picture ... I prefer a bigger picture

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By *hunderstruckMan
over a year ago

Northampton


"Not trying to have a go. You relatively hot from what I can see.

But you can't seriously say that look are the end all of all things. What if that hot guy is actually a self entitled knob?

Looks are everything on here. Once attraction is established which is quickly done by simply looking at pictures, from there other factors come into play like personality and humour.

Disagree.

So the women you converse with and meet and chat to don't find you attractive then do they?

I'm sure I can't comment on what first draws others to a person.

All I can say is I disagree personally with your opinion.

I'm drawn to a great number of things. The pictures for me isn't necessarily the first port of call. A sense of humour in the forum is attractive. As is empathy, compassion, a pleasant attitude.

Not everyone is fixated on the superficial as you suggest. "

I agree

There are plenty of shallow people on here who go for looks .

Laughter is the key for me , if I can make a woman laugh and she makes me laugh that’ll be the spark . intelligence comes next .

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By *ubiousOatcakeMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

What if, and I realise this is a crazy idea for some of you, but what if being attracted to someone’s personality makes them more physically attractive to you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not trying to have a go. You relatively hot from what I can see.

But you can't seriously say that look are the end all of all things. What if that hot guy is actually a self entitled knob?

Looks are everything on here. Once attraction is established which is quickly done by simply looking at pictures, from there other factors come into play like personality and humour.

"

But then how do you explain the 'ugly' guys with loads of veris?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not trying to have a go. You relatively hot from what I can see.

But you can't seriously say that look are the end all of all things. What if that hot guy is actually a self entitled knob?

Looks are everything on here. Once attraction is established which is quickly done by simply looking at pictures, from there other factors come into play like personality and humour.

Disagree.

So the women you converse with and meet and chat to don't find you attractive then do they?

I'm sure I can't comment on what first draws others to a person.

All I can say is I disagree personally with your opinion.

I'm drawn to a great number of things. The pictures for me isn't necessarily the first port of call. A sense of humour in the forum is attractive. As is empathy, compassion, a pleasant attitude.

Not everyone is fixated on the superficial as you suggest.

Yes but you're a man and statistically the odds are against you on here so you may well go for a woman that you may not be instantly attracted to but that woman, purely based on the fact that on here whoever that woman is she'll have a lot of choice, she would have picked to speak to you because she's attracted to you.

Also as a side note, to men that say they don't care about looks and it's all personality, it's not going to make you more desirable, it would make you more respected and show you have standards to say attraction is the key thing on here. "

I generally go for anyone with a perfectly compatible set of genitals. Oh, and a sweet smile or something.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If people are attracted to you then they'll respond to your message or meet you or have sex with you. "

Spot on!

This also explains why my inbox is empty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not trying to have a go. You relatively hot from what I can see.

But you can't seriously say that look are the end all of all things. What if that hot guy is actually a self entitled knob?

Looks are everything on here. Once attraction is established which is quickly done by simply looking at pictures, from there other factors come into play like personality and humour.

Disagree.

So the women you converse with and meet and chat to don't find you attractive then do they?

I'm sure I can't comment on what first draws others to a person.

All I can say is I disagree personally with your opinion.

I'm drawn to a great number of things. The pictures for me isn't necessarily the first port of call. A sense of humour in the forum is attractive. As is empathy, compassion, a pleasant attitude.

Not everyone is fixated on the superficial as you suggest.

Yes but you're a man and statistically the odds are against you on here so you may well go for a woman that you may not be instantly attracted to but that woman, purely based on the fact that on here whoever that woman is she'll have a lot of choice, she would have picked to speak to you because she's attracted to you.

Also as a side note, to men that say they don't care about looks and it's all personality, it's not going to make you more desirable, it would make you more respected and show you have standards to say attraction is the key thing on here. "

I don't say it to make myself more desirable. I dont feel the need to baffle people with bullshit.

I'm true to myself and I have standards.

I will not be drawn into a pointless argument regarding what I'm seeking as opposed to others.

I disagree with your opinion.

It's as simple as that.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"Not trying to have a go. You relatively hot from what I can see.

But you can't seriously say that look are the end all of all things. What if that hot guy is actually a self entitled knob?

Looks are everything on here. Once attraction is established which is quickly done by simply looking at pictures, from there other factors come into play like personality and humour.

But then how do you explain the 'ugly' guys with loads of veris? "

Because they have something about them that their veris found attractive?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not trying to have a go. You relatively hot from what I can see.

But you can't seriously say that look are the end all of all things. What if that hot guy is actually a self entitled knob?

Looks are everything on here. Once attraction is established which is quickly done by simply looking at pictures, from there other factors come into play like personality and humour.

Disagree.

So the women you converse with and meet and chat to don't find you attractive then do they?

I'm sure I can't comment on what first draws others to a person.

All I can say is I disagree personally with your opinion.

I'm drawn to a great number of things. The pictures for me isn't necessarily the first port of call. A sense of humour in the forum is attractive. As is empathy, compassion, a pleasant attitude.

Not everyone is fixated on the superficial as you suggest.

Yes but you're a man and statistically the odds are against you on here so you may well go for a woman that you may not be instantly attracted to but that woman, purely based on the fact that on here whoever that woman is she'll have a lot of choice, she would have picked to speak to you because she's attracted to you.

Also as a side note, to men that say they don't care about looks and it's all personality, it's not going to make you more desirable, it would make you more respected and show you have standards to say attraction is the key thing on here. "

So what you're saying is that lasses can go for perfection and we have to settle? Pretty idiotic to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What if, and I realise this is a crazy idea for some of you, but what if being attracted to someone’s personality makes them more physically attractive to you?"

Thank you!!!

I've been saying this over and over!!

Yes there are superficial people simply going for looks. I'd suggest these are the "one off" people.

But the great percentage in their profiles mention they are looking for a connection.

Surely that's a personality thing.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"What if, and I realise this is a crazy idea for some of you, but what if being attracted to someone’s personality makes them more physically attractive to you?"

It takes time to get to know someone, for me if I don't want to kiss the face off someone I wouldn't get to the stage of finding out what their personality was like. It might be different if I was looking for a relationship because personality over looks would become slightly more important but I'm not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can we all agree that some people go for looks initially, and others go for personality? And both are completely fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think op needs to realise that this isn't tinder.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not trying to have a go. You relatively hot from what I can see.

But you can't seriously say that look are the end all of all things. What if that hot guy is actually a self entitled knob?

Looks are everything on here. Once attraction is established which is quickly done by simply looking at pictures, from there other factors come into play like personality and humour.

Disagree.

So the women you converse with and meet and chat to don't find you attractive then do they?

I'm sure I can't comment on what first draws others to a person.

All I can say is I disagree personally with your opinion.

I'm drawn to a great number of things. The pictures for me isn't necessarily the first port of call. A sense of humour in the forum is attractive. As is empathy, compassion, a pleasant attitude.

Not everyone is fixated on the superficial as you suggest.

Yes but you're a man and statistically the odds are against you on here so you may well go for a woman that you may not be instantly attracted to but that woman, purely based on the fact that on here whoever that woman is she'll have a lot of choice, she would have picked to speak to you because she's attracted to you.

Also as a side note, to men that say they don't care about looks and it's all personality, it's not going to make you more desirable, it would make you more respected and show you have standards to say attraction is the key thing on here.

I don't say it to make myself more desirable. I dont feel the need to baffle people with bullshit.

I'm true to myself and I have standards.

I will not be drawn into a pointless argument regarding what I'm seeking as opposed to others.

I disagree with your opinion.

It's as simple as that. "

Is this an argument? You said that attraction isn't important to you, I've said it may not be for you but for most women on here it's attraction that determines whether anything goes further than the initial message.

If you wish to disagree with that that's fine, I'm just saying how it is from a woman's point of view.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think op needs to realise that this isn't tinder. "

Lord

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If people are attracted to you then they'll respond to your message or meet you or have sex with you.

If only it was that simple "

It really is that simple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can we all agree that some people go for looks initially, and others go for personality? And both are completely fine."

That's a crazy ass suggestion. What would folk have to argue about next, whether bareback is good or not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not trying to have a go. You relatively hot from what I can see.

But you can't seriously say that look are the end all of all things. What if that hot guy is actually a self entitled knob?

Looks are everything on here. Once attraction is established which is quickly done by simply looking at pictures, from there other factors come into play like personality and humour.

Disagree.

So the women you converse with and meet and chat to don't find you attractive then do they?

I'm sure I can't comment on what first draws others to a person.

All I can say is I disagree personally with your opinion.

I'm drawn to a great number of things. The pictures for me isn't necessarily the first port of call. A sense of humour in the forum is attractive. As is empathy, compassion, a pleasant attitude.

Not everyone is fixated on the superficial as you suggest.

Yes but you're a man and statistically the odds are against you on here so you may well go for a woman that you may not be instantly attracted to but that woman, purely based on the fact that on here whoever that woman is she'll have a lot of choice, she would have picked to speak to you because she's attracted to you.

Also as a side note, to men that say they don't care about looks and it's all personality, it's not going to make you more desirable, it would make you more respected and show you have standards to say attraction is the key thing on here.

I don't say it to make myself more desirable. I dont feel the need to baffle people with bullshit.

I'm true to myself and I have standards.

I will not be drawn into a pointless argument regarding what I'm seeking as opposed to others.

I disagree with your opinion.

It's as simple as that.

Is this an argument? You said that attraction isn't important to you, I've said it may not be for you but for most women on here it's attraction that determines whether anything goes further than the initial message.

If you wish to disagree with that that's fine, I'm just saying how it is from a woman's point of view. "

Not every woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can we all agree that some people go for looks initially, and others go for personality? And both are completely fine.

That's a crazy ass suggestion. What would folk have to argue about next, whether bareback is good or not? "

Well, personally, I think it's great for breeding and venereal disease. Both of which I am VERY interested in pursuing.

Ladies...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If people are attracted to you then they'll respond to your message or meet you or have sex with you. "
Ya your right as long as your hot and sexy on here loll

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area


"If people are attracted to you then they'll respond to your message or meet you or have sex with you. "

Great concept; shame the execution ain't so good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you are going on about only hot people get meets. How is your fab life op?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If people are attracted to you then they'll respond to your message or meet you or have sex with you. Ya your right as long as your hot and sexy on here loll"

What crap.

Someone can be sexy to one person, yet ugly as sin to another. To suggest that you need to be hot and sexy is just ludicrous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For what it’s worth, on a site like this, I am shallow, if I don’t fancy someone on their looks/photos alone, I’m not interested.

I have to be physically attracted to someone if I’m going to have sex with them.

If I met someone who I thought I fancied and they had a horrible personality or no spark in general then it’s not going to go anywhere either.

They need to be good looking, intelligent and have a great personality.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not trying to have a go. You relatively hot from what I can see.

But you can't seriously say that look are the end all of all things. What if that hot guy is actually a self entitled knob?

Looks are everything on here. Once attraction is established which is quickly done by simply looking at pictures, from there other factors come into play like personality and humour.

Disagree.

So the women you converse with and meet and chat to don't find you attractive then do they?

I'm sure I can't comment on what first draws others to a person.

All I can say is I disagree personally with your opinion.

I'm drawn to a great number of things. The pictures for me isn't necessarily the first port of call. A sense of humour in the forum is attractive. As is empathy, compassion, a pleasant attitude.

Not everyone is fixated on the superficial as you suggest.

Yes but you're a man and statistically the odds are against you on here so you may well go for a woman that you may not be instantly attracted to but that woman, purely based on the fact that on here whoever that woman is she'll have a lot of choice, she would have picked to speak to you because she's attracted to you.

Also as a side note, to men that say they don't care about looks and it's all personality, it's not going to make you more desirable, it would make you more respected and show you have standards to say attraction is the key thing on here.

I don't say it to make myself more desirable. I dont feel the need to baffle people with bullshit.

I'm true to myself and I have standards.

I will not be drawn into a pointless argument regarding what I'm seeking as opposed to others.

I disagree with your opinion.

It's as simple as that.

Is this an argument? You said that attraction isn't important to you, I've said it may not be for you but for most women on here it's attraction that determines whether anything goes further than the initial message.

If you wish to disagree with that that's fine, I'm just saying how it is from a woman's point of view.

Not every woman"

Ok maybe just the women that get 100's of messages a day then and don't have time to get to know each individual personality, to make the sifting process more efficient it's easier to delete the messages from people you're not instantly attracted to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you are going on about only hot people get meets. How is your fab life op? "

This clearly isn’t true, as I get meets

What OP is saying that if someone finds you attractive, they’ll reply to your messages and potentially meet up with you. Folk can dance around why they’re getting ignored but ultimately it comes down to attraction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For what it’s worth, on a site like this, I am shallow, if I don’t fancy someone on their looks/photos alone, I’m not interested.

I have to be physically attracted to someone if I’m going to have sex with them.

If I met someone who I thought I fancied and they had a horrible personality or no spark in general then it’s not going to go anywhere either.

They need to be good looking, intelligent and have a great personality."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If people are attracted to you then they'll respond to your message or meet you or have sex with you. Ya your right as long as your hot and sexy on here loll

What crap.

Someone can be sexy to one person, yet ugly as sin to another. To suggest that you need to be hot and sexy is just ludicrous. "

Social construct does say that its easier. Yes the personality seals the deal. But the looks get you the initial conversation.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"For what it’s worth, on a site like this, I am shallow, if I don’t fancy someone on their looks/photos alone, I’m not interested.

I have to be physically attracted to someone if I’m going to have sex with them.

If I met someone who I thought I fancied and they had a horrible personality or no spark in general then it’s not going to go anywhere either.

They need to be good looking, intelligent and have a great personality."

Yes, I want it all to. That's where I'm going wrong

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you are going on about only hot people get meets. How is your fab life op? "

Better than yours mate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"If you are going on about only hot people get meets. How is your fab life op?

Better than yours mate. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you are going on about only hot people get meets. How is your fab life op?

Better than yours mate. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you are going on about only hot people get meets. How is your fab life op?

This clearly isn’t true, as I get meets

What OP is saying that if someone finds you attractive, they’ll reply to your messages and potentially meet up with you. Folk can dance around why they’re getting ignored but ultimately it comes down to attraction. "

So by that explanation. Not one person on fab finds me attractive. Nice to know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Add me if your horny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a lot of people are misquoting the OP. She didn't say "if you're attractive, you'll get messages/meets," she said "if someone is attracted to you," BIG difference.

In other words, if someone is attracted to you, they will be naturally drawn to you. Of course they will be compelled to message or meet you or whatever. Why would you ignore someone you're attracted to? This isn't about a general standard of physical attractiveness, it's about a single person's feelings towards one specific person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you are going on about only hot people get meets. How is your fab life op?

Better than yours mate. "

Thats just because you're a half decent lass.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not trying to have a go. You relatively hot from what I can see.

But you can't seriously say that look are the end all of all things. What if that hot guy is actually a self entitled knob?

Looks are everything on here. Once attraction is established which is quickly done by simply looking at pictures, from there other factors come into play like personality and humour.

Disagree.

So the women you converse with and meet and chat to don't find you attractive then do they?

I'm sure I can't comment on what first draws others to a person.

All I can say is I disagree personally with your opinion.

I'm drawn to a great number of things. The pictures for me isn't necessarily the first port of call. A sense of humour in the forum is attractive. As is empathy, compassion, a pleasant attitude.

Not everyone is fixated on the superficial as you suggest.

Yes but you're a man and statistically the odds are against you on here so you may well go for a woman that you may not be instantly attracted to but that woman, purely based on the fact that on here whoever that woman is she'll have a lot of choice, she would have picked to speak to you because she's attracted to you.

Also as a side note, to men that say they don't care about looks and it's all personality, it's not going to make you more desirable, it would make you more respected and show you have standards to say attraction is the key thing on here.

I don't say it to make myself more desirable. I dont feel the need to baffle people with bullshit.

I'm true to myself and I have standards.

I will not be drawn into a pointless argument regarding what I'm seeking as opposed to others.

I disagree with your opinion.

It's as simple as that.

Is this an argument? You said that attraction isn't important to you, I've said it may not be for you but for most women on here it's attraction that determines whether anything goes further than the initial message.

If you wish to disagree with that that's fine, I'm just saying how it is from a woman's point of view.

Not every woman

Ok maybe just the women that get 100's of messages a day then and don't have time to get to know each individual personality, to make the sifting process more efficient it's easier to delete the messages from people you're not instantly attracted to. "

1000000% agree.....if they have pics I check them out, if I’m not attracted to them I block, delete and move on, no point wasting their time or my own.

I’m not everyone’s cup of tea and I appreciate that, some people *may* lower their standards here, I’m not one of them and in fact maybe I’m more fussy than real life but I can afford to be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you are going on about only hot people get meets. How is your fab life op?

This clearly isn’t true, as I get meets

What OP is saying that if someone finds you attractive, they’ll reply to your messages and potentially meet up with you. Folk can dance around why they’re getting ignored but ultimately it comes down to attraction. "

Yeah, attraction to two boobs and a squidgy bum!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not trying to have a go. You relatively hot from what I can see.

But you can't seriously say that look are the end all of all things. What if that hot guy is actually a self entitled knob?

Looks are everything on here. Once attraction is established which is quickly done by simply looking at pictures, from there other factors come into play like personality and humour.

Disagree.

So the women you converse with and meet and chat to don't find you attractive then do they?

I'm sure I can't comment on what first draws others to a person.

All I can say is I disagree personally with your opinion.

I'm drawn to a great number of things. The pictures for me isn't necessarily the first port of call. A sense of humour in the forum is attractive. As is empathy, compassion, a pleasant attitude.

Not everyone is fixated on the superficial as you suggest.

Yes but you're a man and statistically the odds are against you on here so you may well go for a woman that you may not be instantly attracted to but that woman, purely based on the fact that on here whoever that woman is she'll have a lot of choice, she would have picked to speak to you because she's attracted to you.

Also as a side note, to men that say they don't care about looks and it's all personality, it's not going to make you more desirable, it would make you more respected and show you have standards to say attraction is the key thing on here.

I don't say it to make myself more desirable. I dont feel the need to baffle people with bullshit.

I'm true to myself and I have standards.

I will not be drawn into a pointless argument regarding what I'm seeking as opposed to others.

I disagree with your opinion.

It's as simple as that.

Is this an argument? You said that attraction isn't important to you, I've said it may not be for you but for most women on here it's attraction that determines whether anything goes further than the initial message.

If you wish to disagree with that that's fine, I'm just saying how it is from a woman's point of view.

Not every woman

Ok maybe just the women that get 100's of messages a day then and don't have time to get to know each individual personality, to make the sifting process more efficient it's easier to delete the messages from people you're not instantly attracted to. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you are going on about only hot people get meets. How is your fab life op?

This clearly isn’t true, as I get meets

What OP is saying that if someone finds you attractive, they’ll reply to your messages and potentially meet up with you. Folk can dance around why they’re getting ignored but ultimately it comes down to attraction.

Yeah, attraction to two boobs and a squidgy bum! "

*squidge squidge*

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think a lot of people are misquoting the OP. She didn't say "if you're attractive, you'll get messages/meets," she said "if someone is attracted to you," BIG difference.

In other words, if someone is attracted to you, they will be naturally drawn to you. Of course they will be compelled to message or meet you or whatever. Why would you ignore someone you're attracted to? This isn't about a general standard of physical attractiveness, it's about a single person's feelings towards one specific person."

Thank you. Someone gets it, now would you like to see the specials?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you are going on about only hot people get meets. How is your fab life op?

This clearly isn’t true, as I get meets

What OP is saying that if someone finds you attractive, they’ll reply to your messages and potentially meet up with you. Folk can dance around why they’re getting ignored but ultimately it comes down to attraction. "

On here people do lower their standards I've noticed. Not saying they have for you. But afterall you are a lass in a male dominated site. Its not like you have to do much work to get a message or offer.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"I think a lot of people are misquoting the OP. She didn't say "if you're attractive, you'll get messages/meets," she said "if someone is attracted to you," BIG difference.

In other words, if someone is attracted to you, they will be naturally drawn to you. Of course they will be compelled to message or meet you or whatever. Why would you ignore someone you're attracted to? This isn't about a general standard of physical attractiveness, it's about a single person's feelings towards one specific person.

Thank you. Someone gets it, now would you like to see the specials?"

I would love to see the specials menu

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you are going on about only hot people get meets. How is your fab life op?

This clearly isn’t true, as I get meets

What OP is saying that if someone finds you attractive, they’ll reply to your messages and potentially meet up with you. Folk can dance around why they’re getting ignored but ultimately it comes down to attraction.

On here people do lower their standards I've noticed. Not saying they have for you. But afterall you are a lass in a male dominated site. Its not like you have to do much work to get a message or offer. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you are going on about only hot people get meets. How is your fab life op?

This clearly isn’t true, as I get meets

What OP is saying that if someone finds you attractive, they’ll reply to your messages and potentially meet up with you. Folk can dance around why they’re getting ignored but ultimately it comes down to attraction.

On here people do lower their standards I've noticed. Not saying they have for you. But afterall you are a lass in a male dominated site. Its not like you have to do much work to get a message or offer.

"

Yes?

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"If you are going on about only hot people get meets. How is your fab life op?

This clearly isn’t true, as I get meets

What OP is saying that if someone finds you attractive, they’ll reply to your messages and potentially meet up with you. Folk can dance around why they’re getting ignored but ultimately it comes down to attraction.

Yeah, attraction to two boobs and a squidgy bum!

*squidge squidge*"

‘squidge’ is one of those words that makes people smile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think a lot of people are misquoting the OP. She didn't say "if you're attractive, you'll get messages/meets," she said "if someone is attracted to you," BIG difference.

In other words, if someone is attracted to you, they will be naturally drawn to you. Of course they will be compelled to message or meet you or whatever. Why would you ignore someone you're attracted to? This isn't about a general standard of physical attractiveness, it's about a single person's feelings towards one specific person."

That's exactly how I read it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you are going on about only hot people get meets. How is your fab life op?

This clearly isn’t true, as I get meets

What OP is saying that if someone finds you attractive, they’ll reply to your messages and potentially meet up with you. Folk can dance around why they’re getting ignored but ultimately it comes down to attraction.

Yeah, attraction to two boobs and a squidgy bum!

*squidge squidge*

‘squidge’ is one of those words that makes people smile "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think a lot of people are misquoting the OP. She didn't say "if you're attractive, you'll get messages/meets," she said "if someone is attracted to you," BIG difference.

In other words, if someone is attracted to you, they will be naturally drawn to you. Of course they will be compelled to message or meet you or whatever. Why would you ignore someone you're attracted to? This isn't about a general standard of physical attractiveness, it's about a single person's feelings towards one specific person.

Thank you. Someone gets it, now would you like to see the specials?

I would love to see the specials menu "

You're not playing it right. You're supposed to say, "not if you want to keep your spleen"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you are going on about only hot people get meets. How is your fab life op?

This clearly isn’t true, as I get meets

What OP is saying that if someone finds you attractive, they’ll reply to your messages and potentially meet up with you. Folk can dance around why they’re getting ignored but ultimately it comes down to attraction.

Yeah, attraction to two boobs and a squidgy bum!

*squidge squidge*

‘squidge’ is one of those words that makes people smile "

Is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think a lot of people are misquoting the OP. She didn't say "if you're attractive, you'll get messages/meets," she said "if someone is attracted to you," BIG difference.

In other words, if someone is attracted to you, they will be naturally drawn to you. Of course they will be compelled to message or meet you or whatever. Why would you ignore someone you're attracted to? This isn't about a general standard of physical attractiveness, it's about a single person's feelings towards one specific person.

Thank you. Someone gets it, now would you like to see the specials?

I would love to see the specials menu

You're not playing it right. You're supposed to say, "not if you want to keep your spleen""

IS THAT IVANA TRUMP?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If people are attracted to you then they'll respond to your message or meet you or have sex with you.

What’s the question?

The question is why can't I get a meet or why won't people respond to my messages or why won't anybody fuck me? "

I would without a doubt OP......other than you may not want to with me.....and we are 80 miles apart, so it would take a bit of arranging!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you are going on about only hot people get meets. How is your fab life op?

This clearly isn’t true, as I get meets

What OP is saying that if someone finds you attractive, they’ll reply to your messages and potentially meet up with you. Folk can dance around why they’re getting ignored but ultimately it comes down to attraction.

Yeah, attraction to two boobs and a squidgy bum!

*squidge squidge*"

Oh, lovely!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you are going on about only hot people get meets. How is your fab life op?

This clearly isn’t true, as I get meets

What OP is saying that if someone finds you attractive, they’ll reply to your messages and potentially meet up with you. Folk can dance around why they’re getting ignored but ultimately it comes down to attraction.

Yeah, attraction to two boobs and a squidgy bum!

*squidge squidge*

Oh, lovely! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attraction and it's complications.

I get the personality, intelligence over beauty thing, but when you throw another equal choice into the mix ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What if, and I realise this is a crazy idea for some of you, but what if being attracted to someone’s personality makes them more physically attractive to you?"

That happens with me.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"I think a lot of people are misquoting the OP. She didn't say "if you're attractive, you'll get messages/meets," she said "if someone is attracted to you," BIG difference.

In other words, if someone is attracted to you, they will be naturally drawn to you. Of course they will be compelled to message or meet you or whatever. Why would you ignore someone you're attracted to? This isn't about a general standard of physical attractiveness, it's about a single person's feelings towards one specific person.

Thank you. Someone gets it, now would you like to see the specials?

I would love to see the specials menu

You're not playing it right. You're supposed to say, "not if you want to keep your spleen""

FAF?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What if, and I realise this is a crazy idea for some of you, but what if being attracted to someone’s personality makes them more physically attractive to you?

That happens with me."

And the opposite can happen too. I can go off someone I find attractive when they speak to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If people are attracted to you then they'll respond to your message or meet you or have sex with you. Ya your right as long as your hot and sexy on here loll

What crap.

Someone can be sexy to one person, yet ugly as sin to another. To suggest that you need to be hot and sexy is just ludicrous. "
he means the guys have to be hot and sexy women not so much as most men aren't fussy like women lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Beauty is entertaining.

Depth is impressive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"End of thread. "
it appears not

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