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By *tsjord10 OP   Man
over a year ago

hengoed

don’t know why i bother on this, so much rejection.

if i was saying inappropriate things to people i’d understand, but making genuine conversations or giving nice compliments is getting me nowhere.

what am i doing wrong?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And you have such a great profile.

Save some pussy for the rest of us !

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By *appytochatMan
over a year ago

Deep in the New Forest

Joys of being a single guy on a swingers site I'm affraid.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

No profile to speak of...that'll probably be it.

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

Fab doesn't charge by the word.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fab doesn't charge by the word."

Probably a good job looking at your bio

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend


"Fab doesn't charge by the word.

Probably a good job looking at your bio "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You post has 7 replies you have ignored.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your age and lack of profile.

Surprisingly you can accommodate that’s good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a numbers game

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And you have such a great profile.

Save some pussy for the rest of us !"

That’s why the rest of us aren’t getting any meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have profile space. Use it. A man's great weapon is humour. Treat your profile like your Facebook profile. Light-hearted, casual, fun, approachable, and most importantly, funny. Pictures are good though, no complaints there

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"You post has 7 replies you have ignored. "

This, and people will look at a profile before replying.

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By *tsjord10 OP   Man
over a year ago

hengoed

i had a profile up, got me nowhere so took it down was gonna put a new one up but what’s the point. everyone always says my age is one of the reasons. can’t change that

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By *tsjord10 OP   Man
over a year ago

hengoed


"Hello!"

you alright x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i had a profile up, got me nowhere so took it down was gonna put a new one up but what’s the point. everyone always says my age is one of the reasons. can’t change that "

Then lie about it. Problem solved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your only young go out on the pull

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By *tsjord10 OP   Man
over a year ago

hengoed


"i had a profile up, got me nowhere so took it down was gonna put a new one up but what’s the point. everyone always says my age is one of the reasons. can’t change that

Then lie about it. Problem solved "

mate it’s hard enough getting to believe i’m actually 23, no chance they’re gonna believe me if i say in any older

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i had a profile up, got me nowhere so took it down was gonna put a new one up but what’s the point. everyone always says my age is one of the reasons. can’t change that "

If age is a problem, perhaps you are targeting women older than yourself? I don't know, you'd have to confirm this. But maybe try ladies in their teens/early 20s.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"don’t know why i bother on this, so much rejection.

if i was saying inappropriate things to people i’d understand, but making genuine conversations or giving nice compliments is getting me nowhere.

what am i doing wrong? "

Which is it?

Getting ignored or getting rejected?

It can't be both as to get rejected there has to be some dialogue ..

I suggest sending a few cock pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You post has 7 replies you have ignored. "

This. If I post a thread I always try to respond to all if I can x

Your age might be against you somewhat BUT there are ladies around your age on here.

Keep going and update your profile again, it will help

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

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"i had a profile up, got me nowhere so took it down was gonna put a new one up but what’s the point. everyone always says my age is one of the reasons. can’t change that "

Most people will obviously say your lack of profile and you age is probably the problem, Try some new pictures and try and get yourself to a fab social or a club, Its a lot easier to interact and show your personality in person then through messages

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By *tsjord10 OP   Man
over a year ago

hengoed


"

Which is it?

Getting ignored or getting rejected?

It can't be both as to get rejected there has to be some dialogue ..

I suggest sending a few cock pics "

my bad, ignored. don’t get anywhere to get rejected haha.

always see most women’s profiles that if they get sent a cock pic they’ll instantly block?

guessing you love a cock pic

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By *tsjord10 OP   Man
over a year ago

hengoed


"i had a profile up, got me nowhere so took it down was gonna put a new one up but what’s the point. everyone always says my age is one of the reasons. can’t change that

Most people will obviously say your lack of profile and you age is probably the problem, Try some new pictures and try and get yourself to a fab social or a club, Its a lot easier to interact and show your personality in person then through messages "

think i’ll have to try a club meet or something! hopefully get a few verifications then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your age and lack of profile.

Surprisingly you can accommodate that’s good "

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"i had a profile up, got me nowhere so took it down was gonna put a new one up but what’s the point. everyone always says my age is one of the reasons. can’t change that

Most people will obviously say your lack of profile and you age is probably the problem, Try some new pictures and try and get yourself to a fab social or a club, Its a lot easier to interact and show your personality in person then through messages

think i’ll have to try a club meet or something! hopefully get a few verifications then"

Good luck to you and let us know how you got on x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well as I just told you.. read and pay attention to women’s profiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well as I just told you.. read and pay attention to women’s profiles and send me your cock picture please."

See it seems to work for you fella

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By *tsjord10 OP   Man
over a year ago

hengoed


"Well as I just told you.. read and pay attention to women’s profiles."

well you got 2 different ages on your profile. so maybe you should change one of them

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

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"i had a profile up, got me nowhere so took it down was gonna put a new one up but what’s the point. everyone always says my age is one of the reasons. can’t change that

Most people will obviously say your lack of profile and you age is probably the problem, Try some new pictures and try and get yourself to a fab social or a club, Its a lot easier to interact and show your personality in person then through messages

think i’ll have to try a club meet or something! hopefully get a few verifications then"

Just go without any expectations, Treat it as a night out at a normal club,

Don't start a thread asking for a club meet as you don't want to go alone,

Message the club you're thinking of going to and explain that it will be your first visit to a club, I'm sure they will do their best to help you fit in and give you tips

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m talking about the distance.

I have two ages, because I will meet 22+ if they stand out, but have preference for 28+. So no, I won’t change it

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By *tsjord10 OP   Man
over a year ago

hengoed

okay chill out i was talking about age no distance

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By *tsjord10 OP   Man
over a year ago

hengoed


"i had a profile up, got me nowhere so took it down was gonna put a new one up but what’s the point. everyone always says my age is one of the reasons. can’t change that

Most people will obviously say your lack of profile and you age is probably the problem, Try some new pictures and try and get yourself to a fab social or a club, Its a lot easier to interact and show your personality in person then through messages

think i’ll have to try a club meet or something! hopefully get a few verifications then

Just go without any expectations, Treat it as a night out at a normal club,

Don't start a thread asking for a club meet as you don't want to go alone,

Message the club you're thinking of going to and explain that it will be your first visit to a club, I'm sure they will do their best to help you fit in and give you tips "

cheers mate i’ll give it a go!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well as I just told you.. read and pay attention to women’s profiles.

well you got 2 different ages on your profile. so maybe you should change one of them"

Haha!! At least he read it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i had a profile up, got me nowhere so took it down was gonna put a new one up but what’s the point. everyone always says my age is one of the reasons. can’t change that

Then lie about it. Problem solved

mate it’s hard enough getting to believe i’m actually 23, no chance they’re gonna believe me if i say in any older "

You should grow a moustache

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just don't message anyone. Can't be disappointed if no-one has the chance to ignore you in the first place *taps temple*.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i had a profile up, got me nowhere so took it down was gonna put a new one up but what’s the point. everyone always says my age is one of the reasons. can’t change that

Then lie about it. Problem solved

mate it’s hard enough getting to believe i’m actually 23, no chance they’re gonna believe me if i say in any older

You should grow a moustache"

That tickled me!!

Not his moustache....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello!

you alright x"

Yes, thanks. I’m making a tart!

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By *ndecidedMan
over a year ago

London


"Hello!

you alright x

Yes, thanks. I’m making a tart!"

Sounds finger licking good!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And you have such a great profile.

Save some pussy for the rest of us !"

Behave !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello!

you alright x

Yes, thanks. I’m making a tart!

Sounds finger licking good! "

It is. Bit like me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello!

you alright x

Yes, thanks. I’m making a tart!

Sounds finger licking good!

It is. Bit like me. "

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

Start with a club, get a few Verification, few fab friends and things might change a bit your only 23 don't be in a rush

My young Padawan good things come to those who take the journey and are prepared to fall once and while

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By *tsjord10 OP   Man
over a year ago

hengoed


"Start with a club, get a few Verification, few fab friends and things might change a bit your only 23 don't be in a rush

My young Padawan good things come to those who take the journey and are prepared to fall once and while "

nice one mate, appreciate it

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By *tsjord10 OP   Man
over a year ago

hengoed


"Hello!

you alright x

Yes, thanks. I’m making a tart!"

good looking and you can cook?

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By *ndecidedMan
over a year ago

London


"Hello!

you alright x

Yes, thanks. I’m making a tart!

Sounds finger licking good!

It is. Bit like me. "

That I can completely believe, especially since after reading your profile, I'm imagining you wearing only that stunning smile!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I know the answer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And you have such a great profile.

Save some pussy for the rest of us !"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i had a profile up, got me nowhere so took it down was gonna put a new one up but what’s the point. everyone always says my age is one of the reasons. can’t change that

Then lie about it. Problem solved

mate it’s hard enough getting to believe i’m actually 23, no chance they’re gonna believe me if i say in any older

You should grow a moustache

That tickled me!!

Not his moustache.... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello!

you alright x

Yes, thanks. I’m making a tart!

good looking and you can cook? "

Well, I can cook, yes.

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By *tsjord10 OP   Man
over a year ago

hengoed


"Hello!

you alright x

Yes, thanks. I’m making a tart!

good looking and you can cook?

Well, I can cook, yes. "

should pm me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello!

you alright x

Yes, thanks. I’m making a tart!

good looking and you can cook?

Well, I can cook, yes. Get stuck in my son

should pm me x"

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