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"Style I’m not fussy about. Cleanliness I am. " Unless they’ve got a Nazi shrine or anything like it. Even if it was spotless! | |||
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"Scenario - you've been talking to someone on fab, you're going to their house for the first time Would the way it's decorated put you off them? Or would just the house being clean be enough?" As long as it clean and tidy, i can handle bad wall paper or interior design | |||
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"Scenario - you've been talking to someone on fab, you're going to their house for the first time Would the way it's decorated put you off them? Or would just the house being clean be enough? As long as it clean and tidy, i can handle bad wall paper or interior design " . Was supposed to have a meet was nervous as I house share and he don’t know about my dark side ... the meet asked about a sink , I said I didn’t have 1 A’s we are renovating the bathroom, she got all sarcastic and made me feel all uncomfortable. | |||
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"Scenario - you've been talking to someone on fab, you're going to their house for the first time Would the way it's decorated put you off them? Or would just the house being clean be enough?" They have a house???? Marry them. | |||
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"Scenario - you've been talking to someone on fab, you're going to their house for the first time Would the way it's decorated put you off them? Or would just the house being clean be enough? They have a house???? Marry them. " No i do, but I haven't had the time or the money to decorate it to how i like it | |||
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"As long as they don't have the Television mounted above the fire place I'll let anything else slide." I have a coal fire so that's never going to happen. Well, I could mount the tv above the fire, but probably not for long | |||
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"Style I’m not fussy about. Cleanliness I am. Unless they’ve got a Nazi shrine or anything like it. Even if it was spotless! " *writes down, "hide Nazi shrine"* That makes sense | |||
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"Scenario - you've been talking to someone on fab, you're going to their house for the first time Would the way it's decorated put you off them? Or would just the house being clean be enough? As long as it clean and tidy, i can handle bad wall paper or interior design . Was supposed to have a meet was nervous as I house share and he don’t know about my dark side ... the meet asked about a sink , I said I didn’t have 1 A’s we are renovating the bathroom, she got all sarcastic and made me feel all uncomfortable. " To be fair I think we would be a bit wary if someone offered to accommodate and then went on to say they didn’t have a sink . Renovation is fine , but it may be wise to not to offer to accommodate till it’s finished . | |||
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"As long as they don't have the Television mounted above the fire place I'll let anything else slide." | |||
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"Scenario - you've been talking to someone on fab, you're going to their house for the first time Would the way it's decorated put you off them? Or would just the house being clean be enough?" What a wierd question... | |||
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"Went to meet a girl and she had it written on her wall above bed “DIVA” I just couldn’t fuck her " Fickle | |||
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"Scenario - you've been talking to someone on fab, you're going to their house for the first time Would the way it's decorated put you off them? Or would just the house being clean be enough? As long as it clean and tidy, i can handle bad wall paper or interior design . Was supposed to have a meet was nervous as I house share and he don’t know about my dark side ... the meet asked about a sink , I said I didn’t have 1 A’s we are renovating the bathroom, she got all sarcastic and made me feel all uncomfortable. " Good job she asked though if it was important. I would never have thought to ask if you had a sink or not | |||
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"Decor wouldnt bother me no, as long as it was clean. X" See you when you get here | |||
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"Kinell u ain't asking her to wed u. If it's clean then that's good enough. She may not like ur taste" Wo calm down, you almost overreacted there | |||
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"Kinell u ain't asking her to wed u. If it's clean then that's good enough. She may not like ur taste Wo calm down, you almost overreacted there" hahaaa I did didn't i... I shall go for a walk and calm down mr fickle | |||
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"Decor wouldnt bother me no, as long as it was clean. X See you when you get here" | |||
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"If their garden looks shit I won't go inside Keep your lawn tidy!" hahaaaaaaaa dirty door knobs for me. How very dare they x | |||
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"If their garden looks shit I won't go inside Keep your lawn tidy!" My lawn is beautifully mowed it’s the rest that looks like a Country garden from Gardener’s World that I hate. What’s wrong with a few tidy bushes? Eh!! ? | |||
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"If their garden looks shit I won't go inside Keep your lawn tidy!" Is that a two way street? | |||
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"Kinell u ain't asking her to wed u. If it's clean then that's good enough. She may not like ur taste Wo calm down, you almost overreacted there" just seen ur wet shirt pic.. put what u want on ur walls | |||
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"Ahhh clean not blind! " Would mean you wouldn't have to clean and could have cack deco! Sorry! | |||
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"Scenario - you've been talking to someone on fab, you're going to their house for the first time Would the way it's decorated put you off them? Or would just the house being clean be enough?" Cleanliness is important. Bad taste in wallpaper isn't. | |||
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"Clean/tidy house.. I'm going to see them not their décor or fixtures and fittings " | |||
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"Style I’m not fussy about. Cleanliness I am. Unless they’ve got a Nazi shrine or anything like it. Even if it was spotless! " I would rather a nazi shrine than live laugh love bumf on their walls x | |||
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"Style I’m not fussy about. Cleanliness I am. Unless they’ve got a Nazi shrine or anything like it. Even if it was spotless! I would rather a nazi shrine than live laugh love bumf on their walls x" *Whistles as she removes the Live Laugh and Love sign from the hallway* | |||
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"Style I’m not fussy about. Cleanliness I am. Unless they’ve got a Nazi shrine or anything like it. Even if it was spotless! I would rather a nazi shrine than live laugh love bumf on their walls x *Whistles as she removes the Live Laugh and Love sign from the hallway* " LOL | |||
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"Saw a beautiful picture of a lady in a foam bath, you know the pic boobs bobbing in the bubbles etc, then I noticed black mildew on her tile grouting and couldn't take my eyes off it, was even going to message her to see if she'd like me to sort it out! " I would have been the same it has to be clean or i cant go i look at some pics and think good god clean up before taking the pic | |||
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"Scenario - you've been talking to someone on fab, you're going to their house for the first time Would the way it's decorated put you off them? Or would just the house being clean be enough?" It all depends on the choice of decour. If they have hanging skeletons on the wall, i dont think il be staying for even a cuppa | |||
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"Must be clean. Other people’s taste in decor I can deal with. I’m not prepared to deal with other people’s grime " I'm not a big fan of that genre of music myself, Steve. | |||
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"Scenario - you've been talking to someone on fab, you're going to their house for the first time Would the way it's decorated put you off them? Or would just the house being clean be enough?" I can honestly say no sane man cares about decor when meeting for sex..... When do men even talk about decorating? | |||
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"As long as it looks clean an smell nice. " I wouldn’t dream of inviting anyone over without making an effort to tidy and clean beforehand, and our house is generally good in that way, most of the time. But what pisses me off, and has really made us start using clubs now, are the guys, yes it’s just guys that arrange a meet with us and any or all of the below happens. - we take time off work ie finish early to do the above for no shows or late cry offs - give out our address for no shows So now I’ve had a gut full of the lack of respect shown for our Home meets, we now get guys moaning because they don’t meet at clubs ( too scared, too far, can’t get there, blah blah). Being invited to someone’s home is a privelige. | |||
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"As long as it looks clean an smell nice. Have to agree there alway try to make sure it’s clean an tidy. I wouldn’t dream of inviting anyone over without making an effort to tidy and clean beforehand, and our house is generally good in that way, most of the time. But what pisses me off, and has really made us start using clubs now, are the guys, yes it’s just guys that arrange a meet with us and any or all of the below happens. - we take time off work ie finish early to do the above for no shows or late cry offs - give out our address for no shows So now I’ve had a gut full of the lack of respect shown for our Home meets, we now get guys moaning because they don’t meet at clubs ( too scared, too far, can’t get there, blah blah). Being invited to someone’s home is a privelige. " | |||
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"As long as it looks clean an smell nice. I wouldn’t dream of inviting anyone over without making an effort to tidy and clean beforehand, and our house is generally good in that way, most of the time. But what pisses me off, and has really made us start using clubs now, are the guys, yes it’s just guys that arrange a meet with us and any or all of the below happens. - we take time off work ie finish early to do the above for no shows or late cry offs - give out our address for no shows So now I’ve had a gut full of the lack of respect shown for our Home meets, we now get guys moaning because they don’t meet at clubs ( too scared, too far, can’t get there, blah blah). Being invited to someone’s home is a privelige. " Damm right it is and should be treated as such. | |||
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"Clean house... esp a clean loo " ohhhh god yes no nasty surprises | |||
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"Cleanliness is the most important thing for me." Can you get cleanliness in Derbyshire? | |||
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"As long as they don't have the Television mounted above the fire place I'll let anything else slide." ?? | |||
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"Cleanliness is the most important thing for me. Can you get cleanliness in Derbyshire? " You get little pockets of cleanliness in amongst the shite. | |||
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"Cleanliness is the most important thing for me. Can you get cleanliness in Derbyshire? You get little pockets of cleanliness in amongst the shite." Good job you've got a sense of humour | |||
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"I still don’t understand the post about having a tv on the wall " Then you never will | |||
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"I think the people who accommodate are the type of people that take pride in their home and wouldn’t invite folks over if it was a mess. That has been my experience." Not mine, I have to say : / | |||
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"Mostly meets are at mine and my house is always very clean and tidy as am I. If I turned up at a house, no matter how much I wanted the meet to go ahead, if the house was dirty, I would leave. The decor would not affect my decision to stay; it's their home, not mine. " can I inspect? | |||
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"Saw a beautiful picture of a lady in a foam bath, you know the pic boobs bobbing in the bubbles etc, then I noticed black mildew on her tile grouting and couldn't take my eyes off it, was even going to message her to see if she'd like me to sort it out! " Your mirror needs a clean | |||
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"Has to be clean. I went to a guys house, on the way out he had loads of different old weapons on a wall. Mainly those ball things with the spikes on and swords it freaked me out a little but it was ok because he'd toilet ducked the loos and put fluffy towels out " The weapon is called a Mace... | |||
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"Has to be clean. I went to a guys house, on the way out he had loads of different old weapons on a wall. Mainly those ball things with the spikes on and swords it freaked me out a little but it was ok because he'd toilet ducked the loos and put fluffy towels out The weapon is called a Mace..." Ah handy to know when it's hanging out the back of your head | |||
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"Cleanliness is the most important thing for me. Can you get cleanliness in Derbyshire? You get little pockets of cleanliness in amongst the shite. Good job you've got a sense of humour " I know right or else you'd be in for it! | |||
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"I’m in rented, it’s clean but omg the decor... It does take a level of trust to invite someme back to yours." Get the paint tin out | |||
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"Ahhh clean not blind! " Although blind would solve any decor or cleanliness issues wouldn’t it | |||
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"Ahhh clean not blind! Although blind would solve any decor or cleanliness issues wouldn’t it " Not the gritty ones or decor so loud you can hear it. | |||
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"On the other hand, I really enjoy meeting in a nice home with tasteful decor - I am sensual in all ways and the effect their home has on every one of my senses really matters to me. " One man I used to see had a bedroom like a really good hotel. His ensuite was substantial. | |||
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"On the other hand, I really enjoy meeting in a nice home with tasteful decor - I am sensual in all ways and the effect their home has on every one of my senses really matters to me. " If it's too tidy I feel scared to move, in case I mess something up. I've met a few men who must have OCD. | |||
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