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By *annoo OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hastings

This is for the ladies

Do you ever d lay a meet because you are due on ,only for you not to come on and the chance at the meet is then not received arrangeable

Do you find it frustrating

Docucsay you can't meet

Or do you arrange the meet but explain its not 100%and why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fortunately i no longer have such problems

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By *annoo OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hastings


"Fortunately i no longer have such problems "

I often wish this..then again I also don't want the option of kids taken away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fortunately i no longer have such problems amd enjoy bareback sex "

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Not if its a first meet as it would be a social only.

If it was a play meet, I'd probably just explain it to them and take it from there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was suuuuper late one month, cancelled in advanced because I was due, then didn’t want to plan anything in case I had to cancel again!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always let the other party know if it's due. Unfortunately cancelling due to a period seems to be seen as an excuse and not believed so difficult to rearrange

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is a nuisance as its another complication in trying to get compatible dates with people. Could always find someone who didnt mind it particulary,but its not the sexiest of converstions to have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never really had it influence a meet. Period.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never really had it influence a meet. Period."

**Giggles like Mutley**

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're not in pain and feel up for it when you're on - just try beppy tampons. I doubt they'd notice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely if the guy is worth anything he respects the situation and is ok to wait until your ready. If he goes off in a huff he’s not worth it! Good things come to those who wait!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you're not in pain and feel up for it when you're on - just try beppy tampons. I doubt they'd notice "

Off to google I go....

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

If I know I'm due on I'll say in advance so the chap knows I might have to cancel. I'm all over the place at the moment ~ the joys of being peri something or other!!

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Surely if the guy is worth anything he respects the situation and is ok to wait until your ready. If he goes off in a huff he’s not worth it! Good things come to those who wait!"

What makes you think it’s a ‘guy’ she is meeting???

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By *ucy. AlCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

I'm on the depo so never have that problem as it stops them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm on the depo so never have that problem as it stops them "

I used to be, it was fab!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds reasonable to me

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By *annoo OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hastings

I usually tell guys I'm due some will still meet some won't

My periods are all over the place last month was two weeks long this month late and other than pains no sign, but due to the amount of guys moaning about time wasters it can be disheartening

ESP if like me if means booking a hotel to do a meet and the risk of not being able to do it. I personally would still to on a period as been told it's natural lube and as at a hotel just use towels and the shower to wash, but obviously it's up to the guys who meet...

I just feel it's another issue to add to the anxiety of meets now and as stated above guys think it's an excuse...Shane we can send them a pic of the flow to say yes I can excuse this one mate. I think they forget coz they can do 24/7...our bodies sent like theirs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fortunately i no longer have such problems amd enjoy bareback sex

"

If you are going to misquote me, try spelling it correctly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haven't had a period since 2012 ... But I haven't had children either.

Having lost 2 babies and had to have a hysterectomy makes it a bit cloudy..

However, now I have got over it ... It's bloody amazing not to have them anymore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fortunately i no longer have such problems "

Me neither - liberated at last!

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"If I know I'm due on I'll say in advance so the chap knows I might have to cancel. I'm all over the place at the moment ~ the joys of being peri something or other!! "

Same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh and forgot to say ... Having had a hysterectomy actually makes sex better IMHO ... Unless it's just got better with age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fortunately i no longer have such problems

Me neither - liberated at last! "

In fact i didnt start using these sites until after my periods stopped so never had the problem anyway

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By *utie91Woman
over a year ago

Hitchin

Get a coil

Pregnancy protection, and fertility is restored once it’s removed

No periods

Last for 5 years

Free on NHS

Only downside is pain on the day it’s inserted other that that you are good to go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I usually tell guys I'm due some will still meet some won't

My periods are all over the place last month was two weeks long this month late and other than pains no sign, but due to the amount of guys moaning about time wasters it can be disheartening

ESP if like me if means booking a hotel to do a meet and the risk of not being able to do it. I personally would still to on a period as been told it's natural lube and as at a hotel just use towels and the shower to wash, but obviously it's up to the guys who meet...

I just feel it's another issue to add to the anxiety of meets now and as stated above guys think it's an excuse...Shane we can send them a pic of the flow to say yes I can excuse this one mate. I think they forget coz they can do 24/7...our bodies sent like theirs"

Your own towels or the hotels towels?

Speaking as a former hotel receptionist and chamber maid it was always really really grim when stripping the room and seeing blood and shit on the sheets and towels. We'd call the guests rotten. It's really disrespectful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is for the ladies

Do you ever d lay a meet because you are due on ,only for you not to come on and the chance at the meet is then not received arrangeable

Do you find it frustrating

Docucsay you can't meet

Or do you arrange the meet but explain its not 100%and why"
I have to do this all the time, it's incredibly frustrating, I've got PCOS and I do explain the reason why. I won't arrange to meet a few days before I'm due just in case.

If a guy isn't understanding to periods messing up plans then he's a dick if he can't wait.

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)


"If I know I'm due on I'll say in advance so the chap knows I might have to cancel. I'm all over the place at the moment ~ the joys of being peri something or other!! "

Peri Peri? Mmmmm tasty

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

Im available 365 days a year but cant find anyone I want to be available with

Well thats not totally true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have periods anymore.

Hated second period Maths.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I usually tell guys I'm due some will still meet some won't

My periods are all over the place last month was two weeks long this month late and other than pains no sign, but due to the amount of guys moaning about time wasters it can be disheartening

ESP if like me if means booking a hotel to do a meet and the risk of not being able to do it. I personally would still to on a period as been told it's natural lube and as at a hotel just use towels and the shower to wash, but obviously it's up to the guys who meet...

I just feel it's another issue to add to the anxiety of meets now and as stated above guys think it's an excuse...Shane we can send them a pic of the flow to say yes I can excuse this one mate. I think they forget coz they can do 24/7...our bodies sent like theirs

Your own towels or the hotels towels?

Speaking as a former hotel receptionist and chamber maid it was always really really grim when stripping the room and seeing blood and shit on the sheets and towels. We'd call the guests rotten. It's really disrespectful. "

Yep thats pretty gross. Wouldn't the hotel charge for that ?

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I usually tell guys I'm due some will still meet some won't

My periods are all over the place last month was two weeks long this month late and other than pains no sign, but due to the amount of guys moaning about time wasters it can be disheartening

ESP if like me if means booking a hotel to do a meet and the risk of not being able to do it. I personally would still to on a period as been told it's natural lube and as at a hotel just use towels and the shower to wash, but obviously it's up to the guys who meet...

I just feel it's another issue to add to the anxiety of meets now and as stated above guys think it's an excuse...Shane we can send them a pic of the flow to say yes I can excuse this one mate. I think they forget coz they can do 24/7...our bodies sent like theirs"

Nannoo, I don’t really understand why you feel the need to explain to guys why a period is making you cancel a meet. You are a woman and our bodies are not always to plan. If a man thinks you are making this up an excuse not to meet well let the Dingbat think that and he is so not even worthy of your time. The guys who understand and don’t question are the ones to stick with but unfortunately some guys on here think we should move hell and earth to meet them. I personally would prefer to meet an understanding man who would not question why I had had to cancel a meet and I would prefer a meet when I was not having a period, it’s a private time for a woman IMHO. Take care.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To answer the op, I've never let my period get in the way of sex. Any guy I've been meeting would be told before hand but no ones ever been bothered by it and I've literally been at the foreplay stage about to fuck, run to the toilet to pull tampax out and straight to fucking, then pop a tampax back in.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I dont have periods. But never in a million years would i have sex during a period. Lumps of liver hanging off a cock isnt attractive

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By *annoo OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hastings

In answer to the hotel thing, I take my own towels, always clean up any mess, always strip the bed and put in a pile by the door and to date have never had to apologise to hotel staff for any mess because I don't leave any... I'm not disrespectful in any way

I've always thought hotels are stupid in regards of white bedding and white towels, lets be honest, the mess left isn't always through sex... Kids stay as well as mishaps.

In answer to why I'm explaining our justifying myself to guys on here about meets,. I never used to, but the more guys on here who get their back up and become rude the more I feel like maybe I should

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