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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When you get a message do you read it or view the senders profile first?

I view the profile and decide what I’ll do then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Read then if it intrigues me I'll look at the profile.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

If I can see from the first line it says "wuu2" or some other such nonsense I don't do either.

Otherwise I look at the profile first then the message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends. If the message looks interesting I read it first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Read then if it intrigues me I'll look at the profile."

This. Although my messages are so rare that I’ll also view the profile even I f it doesn’t intrigue me!

Kills a minute or two in a sea of tumble!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Read then if it intrigues me I'll look at the profile.

This. Although my messages are so rare that I’ll also view the profile even I f it doesn’t intrigue me!

Kills a minute or two in a sea of tumble! "

* tumblewe-ed! The filters hid that naughty word!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

read then check profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Read first then depending on the message check the profile

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By *_Yeah19Couple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Message first generally, may delete at that point if it’s a crap one liner and not bother looking at profile.

TB

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually look at profile first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Straight to the profile of the sender. If that doesn't pique my then nothing they have to say in their message will.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely the profile. It the person is not someone I'm curious to get to know more, i don't open the message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually profile first to see if want to reply

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

It varies depending on the sender and the one line of the message I can see without opening it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get a message, I am a single guy on here, what does that mean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont get any messages to read only ones to remind me my subscription is running out lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Read then if it intrigues me I'll look at the profile."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually profile first. The are particular things that always make it a "No thanks" for me so I normally check for those first.

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By *naquest321Man
over a year ago

Hook

What’s a message?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do both. My phone can open several windows at once

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you get a message do you read it or view the senders profile first?

I view the profile and decide what I’ll do then "

Profile first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do both. My phone can open several windows at once "

You're a liar and a cheat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do both. My phone can open several windows at once

You're a liar and a cheat. "

Only now you realised it ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profile. What’s the point if you’re not what they are looking for.

Mine states read profile but they don’t; just been asked if I want to meet at a guy’s house tonight

#doh Block.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"When you get a message do you read it or view the senders profile first?

I view the profile and decide what I’ll do then "

Have a cursory glance at the message - then look at the pretty pictures!

If the pretty pictures float my boat I’ll look at the profile text and view the message again!

The hotter the guy - the more forgiving I am of grammar/punctuation etc!

I’m so darned fickle!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look at the profile, if it’s not from someone we would be interested in meeting then read the message and send a polite reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do both. My phone can open several windows at once

You're a liar and a cheat.

Only now you realised it ? "

I assumed you were a warlock, now I have my doubts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on the opening line of the message for us.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Always look at the profile and then often delete without reading .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go straight to the profile to check their height...

If they are under 6ft i read the message but don't respond

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do both. My phone can open several windows at once

You're a liar and a cheat.

Only now you realised it ?

I assumed you were a warlock, now I have my doubts. "

Would you still allow me to be your bff ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I go straight to the profile to check their height...

If they are under 6ft i read the message but don't respond "

If they are below 5ft 7 for me I delete haha even 5:7 is a bit touch and go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What’s this message thing you speak of??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What’s this message thing you speak of??"

Aww lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What’s this message thing you speak of??

Aww lol "

Ooo I’ve been blocked so couldn’t send a message if I wanted to lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always read a profile before a message..like why wouldn’t you

It’s annoying when a person doesn’t

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If outside our min age range - most of the time delete without reading or looking.

Otherwise read the msg first and if we like it then read the profile.

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