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"I'm in. What do you do " Send a face pic to anyone on the thread you want to and they'll hopefully send one back | |||
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"I'm in. What do you do Send a face pic to anyone on the thread you want to and they'll hopefully send one back Oh ok. Thank you " If they don’t send one back, you’re allowed to think awful things about them. | |||
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"I'm in. What do you do Send a face pic to anyone on the thread you want to and they'll hopefully send one back Oh ok. Thank you If they don’t send one back, you’re allowed to think awful things about them." I would have to send one first | |||
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"I have a face! " And a nice one it is at that | |||
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"As usual am sure this will be a fruitless exercise " It is if you leave your force field on | |||
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"As usual am sure this will be a fruitless exercise It is if you leave your force field on " ??? | |||
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"As usual am sure this will be a fruitless exercise It is if you leave your force field on ??? " Can’t send due to message filters | |||
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"As usual am sure this will be a fruitless exercise It is if you leave your force field on ??? Can’t send due to message filters " Ahh okay | |||
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"I'm in. What do you do Send a face pic to anyone on the thread you want to and they'll hopefully send one back Oh ok. Thank you If they don’t send one back, you’re allowed to think awful things about them." I never send one back. My inbox is open though. | |||
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"I'm in. What do you do Send a face pic to anyone on the thread you want to and they'll hopefully send one back Oh ok. Thank you If they don’t send one back, you’re allowed to think awful things about them. I never send one back. My inbox is open though. " That’s the thing about FPF and one of the reasons I rarely took part in a previous life on here. While I get it that nobody has to respond, surely it’s a little against the *spirit* of the thread to enthusiastically say ‘I’m in’ but then not reciprocate when someone sends theirs? I understand there’s no obligation but it’s more the principle really, level playing field and all that. I used to speak to a lady who told me she never sent hers out but used to keep her own personal library of face pics of the men of Fab who enthusiastically filled her inbox every Friday so any newbs our three be aware that you should only send yours out if you’re prepared NOT to get one back! | |||
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"I never send one back. My inbox is open though. " Do you post in the thread indicating that you’re playing? | |||
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"I never send one back. My inbox is open though. Do you post in the thread indicating that you’re playing?" Happy to accept pics yes. I don't send any. | |||
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"I'm in. What do you do Send a face pic to anyone on the thread you want to and they'll hopefully send one back Oh ok. Thank you If they don’t send one back, you’re allowed to think awful things about them. I never send one back. My inbox is open though. That’s the thing about FPF and one of the reasons I rarely took part in a previous life on here. While I get it that nobody has to respond, surely it’s a little against the *spirit* of the thread to enthusiastically say ‘I’m in’ but then not reciprocate when someone sends theirs? I understand there’s no obligation but it’s more the principle really, level playing field and all that. I used to speak to a lady who told me she never sent hers out but used to keep her own personal library of face pics of the men of Fab who enthusiastically filled her inbox every Friday so any newbs our three be aware that you should only send yours out if you’re prepared NOT to get one back! " I don't send back but I certainly don't keep a stash of pics. That's horrible. | |||
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"I never send one back. My inbox is open though. Do you post in the thread indicating that you’re playing? Happy to accept pics yes. I don't send any." To be fair you do send compliments though | |||
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"I never send one back. My inbox is open though. Do you post in the thread indicating that you’re playing? Happy to accept pics yes. I don't send any." I understood that from your first post. Do you make it explicitly clear every time you post that you won’t be reciprocating? | |||
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"I never send one back. My inbox is open though. Do you post in the thread indicating that you’re playing? Happy to accept pics yes. I don't send any. To be fair you do send compliments though " I meant it. I always reply. x | |||
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"The hole pont of fpf at the start was to put names to faces and was if your in your send and pic back if you received one if u wasn't willing to do that you didn't play. Over time it seems to of changed and People don't always send back. (spoil sports) but it is what it is I'm in BTW " I always ask if they dont lol Fairs fair | |||
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"I'm in. What do you do Send a face pic to anyone on the thread you want to and they'll hopefully send one back Oh ok. Thank you If they don’t send one back, you’re allowed to think awful things about them. I never send one back. My inbox is open though. That’s the thing about FPF and one of the reasons I rarely took part in a previous life on here. While I get it that nobody has to respond, surely it’s a little against the *spirit* of the thread to enthusiastically say ‘I’m in’ but then not reciprocate when someone sends theirs? I understand there’s no obligation but it’s more the principle really, level playing field and all that. I used to speak to a lady who told me she never sent hers out but used to keep her own personal library of face pics of the men of Fab who enthusiastically filled her inbox every Friday so any newbs our three be aware that you should only send yours out if you’re prepared NOT to get one back! " I think if people aren't prepared to reciprocate then they shouldn't join the thread | |||
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" There's my face people. No need to thank me! " Thank you | |||
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"My inbox must be broken- either that or I should be handing out eye bleach!" pity you have filters on | |||
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"So, I’ve sent a few, and received a few in return, but I’m a bit annoyed that one person (and, no, not the one you might think) has not reciprocated, and has read and ignored my message asking if she’s going to. I don’t know about anyone else, but I’m not going to participate in the thread in future if folk are not entering into the spirit of things." It wasn't me. | |||
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"So, I’ve sent a few, and received a few in return, but I’m a bit annoyed that one person (and, no, not the one you might think) has not reciprocated, and has read and ignored my message asking if she’s going to. I don’t know about anyone else, but I’m not going to participate in the thread in future if folk are not entering into the spirit of things." The rules have always been that it's not obligatory to reciprocate, and sending a face pic doesn't entitle you to any sort of reply. Hassling the lady is unlikely to get you anything other than a place on her block list And no, it wasn't me either... | |||
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"It wasn't me. " Sorry, I thought I’d made it clear that it wasn’t you without naming names. Although you didn’t answer my question earlier. | |||
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"The rules have always been that it's not obligatory to reciprocate, and sending a face pic doesn't entitle you to any sort of reply. Hassling the lady is unlikely to get you anything other than a place on her block list" 1) The spirit of the thread is pretty clear. If you’re not going to reciprocate, make it clear that that’s the case. 2) That’s a fair assumption you’ve leapt to there. One message asking if I’m getting a face pic in return is not ‘hassling’, and I’d rather you didn’t try and suggest I hassle anyone by PM when you are not in possession of the facts. | |||
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"I never send one back. My inbox is open though. Do you post in the thread indicating that you’re playing? Happy to accept pics yes. I don't send any. I understood that from your first post. Do you make it explicitly clear every time you post that you won’t be reciprocating?" Sorry I missed this earlier. I don't usually post on these threads. Don't know if I made it explicitly clear the last time I posted on one, it might have been months ago. | |||
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"The rules have always been that it's not obligatory to reciprocate, and sending a face pic doesn't entitle you to any sort of reply. Hassling the lady is unlikely to get you anything other than a place on her block list 1) The spirit of the thread is pretty clear. If you’re not going to reciprocate, make it clear that that’s the case. 2) That’s a fair assumption you’ve leapt to there. One message asking if I’m getting a face pic in return is not ‘hassling’, and I’d rather you didn’t try and suggest I hassle anyone by PM when you are not in possession of the facts." Read the site FAQS re a non-reply. You chased and questioned her decision not to respond, I'd class that as hassling. These threads have been going for years, perhaps the rules aren't always posted every week but everyone else seems to know not to expect anything in return. Except you | |||
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"Read the site FAQS re a non-reply. You chased and questioned her decision not to respond, I'd class that as hassling." I fully understand the site rules. It’s a bit different when somebody actively seeks photographs in a thread like this. And if you think one polite message constitutes ‘hassling’, you don’t have a particularly good grasp of the English language or human behaviour. Get a grip. "These threads have been going for years, perhaps the rules aren't always posted every week but everyone else seems to know not to expect anything in return. Except you " Apart from me and the others who have posted in this specific thread, and more who have posted in previous weeks, expressing the same sentiment? You can keep your smug blinking emoji to yourself, until you learn to read. | |||
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"The rules have always been that it's not obligatory to reciprocate, and sending a face pic doesn't entitle you to any sort of reply. Hassling the lady is unlikely to get you anything other than a place on her block list 1) The spirit of the thread is pretty clear. If you’re not going to reciprocate, make it clear that that’s the case. 2) That’s a fair assumption you’ve leapt to there. One message asking if I’m getting a face pic in return is not ‘hassling’, and I’d rather you didn’t try and suggest I hassle anyone by PM when you are not in possession of the facts. Read the site FAQS re a non-reply. You chased and questioned her decision not to respond, I'd class that as hassling. These threads have been going for years, perhaps the rules aren't always posted every week but everyone else seems to know not to expect anything in return. Except you " Good grief if someone thinks that getting one message reply is 'hassling' them, the world is a fucked up place!! I had a few people replying to me asking for a pic even though I'd said on the thread that I wouldn't be sending one. I replied politely and then so did they. Like a civilised human being. Mr Oatcake didn't do anything wrong and he wasn't the only person to ask for a pic in return. | |||
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"So, I’ve sent a few, and received a few in return, but I’m a bit annoyed that one person (and, no, not the one you might think) has not reciprocated, and has read and ignored my message asking if she’s going to. I don’t know about anyone else, but I’m not going to participate in the thread in future if folk are not entering into the spirit of things." I’ve noticed you often enter into the spirit of things, often by questioning a poster’s intelligence or lack of grammar. That’s a great way of entering into the spirit of things. | |||
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"Go on then x" Oh Sinders, I’m too old to go to your ball. | |||
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"Time to get the party started...it is Friday after all and time to get your faces in someone's box Just say you're in and send to anyine else on the thread and who knows, they may put theirs in yours too " In it to win it I’ll show you mine if you show me yours | |||
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"Blimey!! I think a fresh supply of chill pills is needed all round - I thought my OP was perfectly clear that recipients of faces "may" reply with theirs - doesn't mean they are obliged to I've sent them in the past and not received a reply and just assume the person took one look at my face and ran for the hills " Same here! | |||
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"7 hours ago I replied. My inbox is empty. It's just another Fab day!! " You have seen mine, didn't want to scare you twice | |||
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"Blimey!! I think a fresh supply of chill pills is needed all round - I thought my OP was perfectly clear that recipients of faces "may" reply with theirs - doesn't mean they are obliged to I've sent them in the past and not received a reply and just assume the person took one look at my face and ran for the hills " A lot of women say they won't meet men that are too hot because they're out of their league and they'd feel intimidated. It could be that. | |||
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"The rules have always been that it's not obligatory to reciprocate, and sending a face pic doesn't entitle you to any sort of reply. Hassling the lady is unlikely to get you anything other than a place on her block list 1) The spirit of the thread is pretty clear. If you’re not going to reciprocate, make it clear that that’s the case. 2) That’s a fair assumption you’ve leapt to there. One message asking if I’m getting a face pic in return is not ‘hassling’, and I’d rather you didn’t try and suggest I hassle anyone by PM when you are not in possession of the facts. Read the site FAQS re a non-reply. You chased and questioned her decision not to respond, I'd class that as hassling. These threads have been going for years, perhaps the rules aren't always posted every week but everyone else seems to know not to expect anything in return. Except you " I’ve only been pottering around on the forums a short while, but I must admit I thought that if someone posts that “they’re in” they are saying they are happy to send a pic if they receive one? I thought that was kinda the whole point? If people don’t want to send pics, that’s entirely fine, but surely if that’s the case just don’t join in? I know no-one should ever be under any real obligation, but surely that’s the spirit of the whole thing? | |||
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"Blimey!! I think a fresh supply of chill pills is needed all round - I thought my OP was perfectly clear that recipients of faces "may" reply with theirs - doesn't mean they are obliged to I've sent them in the past and not received a reply and just assume the person took one look at my face and ran for the hills A lot of women say they won't meet men that are too hot because they're out of their league and they'd feel intimidated. It could be that. " In a parallel universe far far away perhaps | |||
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"FPF has fairly brightened up my day this week! My my " Mine almost did apart from filters | |||
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" These threads have been going for years, perhaps the rules aren't always posted every week but everyone else seems to know not to expect anything in return. Except you " And me, I always thought this was how it was, you swop pics if you say you are in on the thread | |||
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" These threads have been going for years, perhaps the rules aren't always posted every week but everyone else seems to know not to expect anything in return. Except you And me, I always thought this was how it was, you swop pics if you say you are in on the thread" PS one message is not hassling people | |||
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"If you are going to play this you might need to drop your filters so people can mail you as people keep asking for others to unblock them will end up with a ban I Thankyou ( I am not in as I am not returning pics )" That's interesting. I was under the impression that you can't ask a personal block to be removed (as that person had intentionally blocked you), but letting someone know they had their filters on still was ok. | |||
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"Read the site FAQS re a non-reply. You chased and questioned her decision not to respond, I'd class that as hassling. These threads have been going for years, perhaps the rules aren't always posted every week but everyone else seems to know not to expect anything in return. Except you " I wouldn’t class Mr Oatcake asking for a face pic in return as hassle. And also I was under the impression that if you were sent a pic, then the expectation was that you sent one back. It seems only fair, otherwise it just feels a bit ‘pic-collector’, and I’m not so keen on that. | |||
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