FabSwingers.com forum: Would you rather sex on your first meet or second meet.

By *heblackmac OP Man
over a year ago

Ladywell, Lewisham.

For me, I'd rather socialize first , have a chat , drink and If feel like im in the mood of playing and yeah...let's get down to business.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Second. Definitely second.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd rather bang before meeting, if that's even physically possible.

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By *heblackmac OP Man
over a year ago

Ladywell, Lewisham.

"Second. Definitely second."
cool

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By *ocallad83Man
over a year ago

huddersfield

Probably second unless you both really wanted it!

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By *heblackmac OP Man
over a year ago

Ladywell, Lewisham.

"First."
ok

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By *heblackmac OP Man
over a year ago

Ladywell, Lewisham.

"Probably second unless you both really wanted it! "
ok cool

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By *heblackmac OP Man
over a year ago

Ladywell, Lewisham.

"I'd rather bang before meeting, if that's even physically possible."
sometimes it works

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Second meet, hopefully.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First. I'm a straight to business kinda girl.

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By *heblackmac OP Man
over a year ago

Ladywell, Lewisham.

"Second meet, hopefully.

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ok

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

First.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends if I'm engineering ways to escape the social or end up in bed. Different people invoke different reactions.

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By *heblackmac OP Man
over a year ago

Ladywell, Lewisham.

" First. I'm a straight to business kinda girl. "
ok cool

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By *heblackmac OP Man
over a year ago

Ladywell, Lewisham.

"Depends if I'm engineering ways to escape the social or end up in bed. Different people invoke different reactions."
on point ...

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By *heblackmac OP Man
over a year ago

Ladywell, Lewisham.

"First. "
ok

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

Dead old fashioned me; A few years courting and the families consent are requisite before carnal relations may be commenced

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Depends on numerous things but generally would prefer a social element first- whether that be for an hour or so in the social area of a club or doing a social activity before moving to a hotel room or even just having a pure social meet and then arranging to meet at a later date if we both wanted to.

Circumstances usually dictate which

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By *heblackmac OP Man
over a year ago

Ladywell, Lewisham.

"Depends on numerous things but generally would prefer a social element first- whether that be for an hour or so in the social area of a club or doing a social activity before moving to a hotel room or even just having a pure social meet and then arranging to meet at a later date if we both wanted to.

Circumstances usually dictate which

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brilliant.

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By *heblackmac OP Man
over a year ago

Ladywell, Lewisham.

"Dead old fashioned me; A few years courting and the families consent are requisite before carnal relations may be commenced

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lets see how the mood takes us

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By *heblackmac OP Man
over a year ago

Ladywell, Lewisham.

"Lets see how the mood takes us"
true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both

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By *heblackmac OP Man
over a year ago

Ladywell, Lewisham.

"Both

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cool

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Second meet, hopefully.

Oooooh Doctor....

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

I’ve done both. Played on the same day occasionally and other times arranged to play another day.

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By *heblackmac OP Man
over a year ago

Ladywell, Lewisham.

"I’ve done both. Played on the same day occasionally and other times arranged to play another day. "
nice

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By *heblackmac OP Man
over a year ago

Ladywell, Lewisham.

"Second meet, hopefully.

Oooooh Doctor....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First...why waist time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Second.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Preferably first meet social. If we get on it’s always nice to end the evening with a bit of a smooch, but nothing is ever expected on a first Social (any snogs a nice by-product)

Once the ice is broken hopefully on to a play meet. I know many are here for a fuck and don’t need that social aspect, but for me it makes for a better experience if we’ve met and we’re already comfortable with each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the least second but I've been known to have a couple of socials then a soft play meet before a fuck meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lets see how the mood takes us"

Or how many drinks you've d*unk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"At the least second but I've been known to have a couple of socials then a soft play meet before a fuck meet "

Soft play? Like a ball pit? I suppose it COULD be arousing. I mean, it is balls.

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By *s_bettyboopWoman
over a year ago

-3

" First. I'm a straight to business kinda girl. "

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

First meet of course !

It’s just sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want to say second, but I'm afraid my willpower isn't the strongest so I have been know to play on a first meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends if you are married or not..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both

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By *ig Chris75Man
over a year ago

Sandbach

Second... always second.

It's always better that way...

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

First. Why wait?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always do it on first met why waste time have a good experience then go home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd rather socialise first and see how we get on the maybe meet up for a 2d time all depending if the first meet went well,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh I would find it a bit strange it didn’t have sex been as shared pictures and chatted on mobile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First

We are swingers not daters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First for us. We don't do a strictly social meets as we rarely get the chance to meet so we prefer to chat a little and then play.

As long as everyone wants to.

~Mia

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"Tbh I would find it a bit strange it didn’t have sex been as shared pictures and chatted on mobile "

Exactly, I'd be wondering what went wrong!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on my mood.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Second

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Had meets where I've enjoyed their company so much, forgot about the sex bit. But generally, first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social first then arrange to meet again x

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

Second ideally. But sometimes the spark is there and overpowers plans.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

If there's little point in waiting, first. It means choosing well though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go with the flow, if it feels right, first, if not and you get the second meet then get your kit off

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By *un4meanduMan
over a year ago

STOTFOLD

What are these things you talk about ?

Sex

Meets

No idea what they are lol

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By *uncan LynnCouple
over a year ago

Kilmarnock

Definetly first if attraction there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What are these things you talk about ?

Meets

No idea what they are lol"
you get it at the deli counter, or sometime in the fridge at a supermarket

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By *n_thy_kneesMan
over a year ago

Ipswich

I've done both. Some conversation, wine, flirting etc make the experience SOOO much better....IMO

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By *un4meanduMan
over a year ago

STOTFOLD

"What are these things you talk about ?

Meets

No idea what they are lol you get it at the deli counter, or sometime in the fridge at a supermarket"

That's what I'm doing wrong then

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"Second. Definitely second."

^ This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First 30 seconds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have done both

Depends on the person and situation

But personal choice second

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For me, I'd rather socialize first , have a chat , drink and If feel like im in the mood of playing and yeah...let's get down to business."

I always do sex on the first meet....

I have to get my moneys worth for the coffee I paid for....

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By *uncan LynnCouple
over a year ago

Kilmarnock

"What are these things you talk about ?

Meets

No idea what they are lol you get it at the deli counter, or sometime in the fridge at a supermarket"

Yes the deli counter all be it it was a quiet farm shop and that came about as I was bending at the fridge ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lets see how the mood takes us

Or how many drinks you've d*unk

I went vegan for a year, so can't drink a lot any more as a side affect.

If you've got pretty eyes i'll get d*unk on them instead

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

First ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Second. Although first and second meets could be only a couple of hours apart

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2nd meeting more preferred, however few occasions we have played first meet, xx

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

First. I like sex with strangers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First. If they suggested waiting for a second meet I would assume that second meet would never be happening and it's their way of saying no thanks.

So it's first. It's swinging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Either or both, depending on mood

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually meet on the understanding of a social with no expectations and just go with the flow. Both times we've flowed..but one was only kissing and a bit of fumbling because of where we met......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would rather the second time but that's cos I'd have to see them in the flesh to make sure there's attraction. Last guy I met though was supposed to be a social but we skipped the going for coffee part and went straight back to mine and had a half fuck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First. If we've got as far as meeting, I won't want to keep my hands off you

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"First. If we've got as far as meeting, I won't want to keep my hands off you

Well you've got my brain, how could I refuse your hands in return

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First unless the agreement beforehand is that the meet is strictly social.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Probably second unless you both really wanted it! "

This

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

" First. I'm a straight to business kinda girl. "

This. I rarely do second meets unless I really like em. No point. There’s a queue to get thru.

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By *hedevilwearspradaWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere nearby

Depends on the person and how we get on. I’ve had meets wherevits purely about the sex and it happens straight away.

I’ve had social meets with no expectations that have ended up in some play, and I’ve had purely social meets with the play happening at a later date

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always second, there is no pressure for the first that way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First. The guys I meet will have already put months worth of chatting in. If I don't know if I want to fuck them by then, then I doubt a few more hours in a bar will change anything.

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

As we only do first meets in Clubs & we are there to have sex, it is highly likely that if we ever make it to a second meet then we will have had sex on the first!

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

I would rather play on the first meet, as long as we’re both feeling it

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

First

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First. There might not be a second one!!

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By *bwlookingforfunWoman
over a year ago

crawley

I mostly talk with the person over the phone for some time, and meet to have sex on first ocasion. If i dont like it, i just say "bye".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1st, 2nd and 3rd!

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By *heblackmac OP Man
over a year ago

Ladywell, Lewisham.

"First. I like sex with strangers

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hmmmm...I'm a stranger to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have done both to be honest but do prefer to go for a drink first somewhere neutral before heading to a room/ house / hotel , just to make sure everyone's comfortable and the attractions there . We don't get much free time so like to make it worth it when we do

.as

Mrs xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Second.

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

We only meet at clubs so I guess 1st meet.... we like to advertise where and when we are going in our profile, say hello and swap smiley face pics here and agree to meet at the club, then enjoy a casual chat at the club, establish a bit of chemistry then go play if it feels right.

It works for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sometimes take longer than a second meet, before i consider having sex. It depends on the time and connection. If i don't have a lot of it, i usually go for a second social, just to keep both of us on target, until i can find proper time. I'm not into rushed meets

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By *htcMan
over a year ago

First. Otherwise there wouldn't be a second

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"First. I like sex with strangers

X2. I don't really want to know anything about most people I fuck.

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