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By *P source OP   Couple
over a year ago

nottingham

Got our 1st meet on Saturday. Happy days. My worry is my performance and whether I'll keep my hard on due to nerves. I do have viagra. Have any of you lads

had these problems and ladies how does it effect you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Relax and don't put pressure on yourself to 'perform'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One viagra doesn’t help when nervous take 2-3

Do consult with your GP first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Relax and don't put pressure on yourself to 'perform'"

Yes, it only takes a nano second

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be yourself and you will be fine remember they may be a tad nervous too

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Relax and don't put pressure on yourself to 'perform'"

This. My first meet, I was so nervous I'd be a crap shag etc. It diminished my pleasure despite the fact that the guy I met gave me no reason to worry and was fantastic in bed.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Got our 1st meet on Saturday. Happy days. My worry is my performance and whether I'll keep my hard on due to nerves. I do have viagra. Have any of you lads

had these problems and ladies how does it effect you?"

Yeah I have , especially early on . I could rarely maintain a stiffy unless it was my wife sucking or playing with it . So much so I became way more voyeuristic which took the pressure off .

There’s nothing worse than seeing your wife getting a good seeing to , and you’re waiting for a reasonable hard on so you can give the other guys wife the same ..... and sometimes even with a viagra it still doesn’t happen .

On the other hand , you may get really hard and turned on , and be so into it that you don’t notice that your wife is having an awful time . Woe betide you if that happens , but that’s another story .

So on that note , have a great first meet and enjoy yourself . Remember , it doesn’t matter if it all goes tits up , you don’t have to see them again . What’s important is that you and your wife are comfortable and happy with whatever happens .

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By *azmar62Couple
over a year ago

Hinckley

You are brave now, wait till your in the same room, your minds gonnna be racing like Schumacher, you’ll start to doubt yourself and want run? Be very sure in your own mind, viagra will help but not for the nerves? My first time was a disaster, everything failed, head went and then my cock stopped working. It get easier with time though. My advice is just to focus on what important to you and don’t let the environment overcome you.

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

Relax and enjoy yourself. They probably feel the same. No good getting hett up about it 3 days before the event, you are just putting pressure on yourself.

Have fun xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take as much viagra as you can, just consult with your GP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The thought of meeting someone terrifies me. At least a guy can just take a tablet and his problems are solved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The thought of meeting someone terrifies me. At least a guy can just take a tablet and his problems are solved "

You’ll be fine, have you just woken up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Take as much viagra as you can, just consult with your GP "

thats an overdose.........

take the prescribed amount which definentley wont be more than one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The thought of meeting someone terrifies me. At least a guy can just take a tablet and his problems are solved "

Not always

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The thought of meeting someone terrifies me. At least a guy can just take a tablet and his problems are solved

You’ll be fine, have you just woken up? "

Is that a rhetorical question?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Take as much viagra as you can, just consult with your GP

thats an overdose.........

take the prescribed amount which definentley wont be more than one"

Drinking lots of alcohol helps too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The thought of meeting someone terrifies me. At least a guy can just take a tablet and his problems are solved

You’ll be fine, have you just woken up?

Is that a rhetorical question?"

It’s just a simple question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The thought of meeting someone terrifies me. At least a guy can just take a tablet and his problems are solved

You’ll be fine, have you just woken up?

Is that a rhetorical question?

It’s just a simple question "

Then no I've been awake for hours

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"The thought of meeting someone terrifies me. At least a guy can just take a tablet and his problems are solved "

I’d way prefer to just use a bit of lube , which is guaranteed to work , unlike viagra .

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

Just remember everyone had to have a first meet at some point so if they're a bit more experienced than you they'll understand.

I still get nervous now but I try to use that as a heightener not a dampener. It's the anticipation.

As everyone else has said just relax. Enjoy and take things at your pace. If you aren't happy at any time don't feel you have to carry on cause you'll disappoint them. This is just as much your experience as theirs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The thought of meeting someone terrifies me. At least a guy can just take a tablet and his problems are solved

I’d way prefer to just use a bit of lube , which is guaranteed to work , unlike viagra ."

To use on yourself in a handjob type of way?

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"The thought of meeting someone terrifies me. At least a guy can just take a tablet and his problems are solved

I’d way prefer to just use a bit of lube , which is guaranteed to work , unlike viagra .

To use on yourself in a handjob type of way? "

Well yeah of course !

In all seriousness though , nerves can make it very difficult for a guy and viagra isn’t going to work .

For women , a sly swipe of lube and no ones the wiser .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have few pints before hand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The thought of meeting someone terrifies me. At least a guy can just take a tablet and his problems are solved

I’d way prefer to just use a bit of lube , which is guaranteed to work , unlike viagra .

To use on yourself in a handjob type of way?

Well yeah of course !

In all seriousness though , nerves can make it very difficult for a guy and viagra isn’t going to work .

For women , a sly swipe of lube and no ones the wiser . "

Just wanted to check

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