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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I just want to ask out of curiosity, when it comes to attraction, are personality and looks the most important or would one of them be not enough?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attraction is the whole package.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

I'd let an ugly bird wank me off if she was a good laugh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On here? Looks first. I can't be attracted to a personality when the medium used here to attract is visual for the most part.

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

It has to be both, its start with attraction but if their personality stinks then we are not going further.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Woman don't need personalities. They have breasts.

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Personality every time

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm mainly for personality but in my eyes, I think all women are beautiful in their own way.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"I'm mainly for personality but in my eyes, I think all women are beautiful in their own way. "

It'll be a different story when you're sober.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"I'd let an ugly bird wank me off if she was a good laugh. "

I’d sooner let a fit bird with a miserable attitude wank me off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally find chubby chicks the best. The good lookers are so stuck up its not worth the hassle. Fun over chase any day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have to have a good personality or it won't be happening for me.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I just want to ask out of curiosity, when it comes to attraction, are personality and looks the most important or would one of them be not enough?"

You can't tell personality just by looking. Looks to attract but personality to keep me interested.

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By *ed wineMan
over a year ago

Where the streets have no name

Both. The more the better

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"It has to be both, its start with attraction but if their personality stinks then we are not going further."

Exactly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally find chubby chicks the best. The good lookers are so stuck up its not worth the hassle. Fun over chase any day."

I can't wait to be slim enough to be stuck up. I wonder if it happens automatically?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I just want to ask out of curiosity, when it comes to attraction, are personality and looks the most important or would one of them be not enough?

You can't tell personality just by looking. Looks to attract but personality to keep me interested. "

That is a good point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just want to ask out of curiosity, when it comes to attraction, are personality and looks the most important or would one of them be not enough?

You can't tell personality just by looking. Looks to attract but personality to keep me interested. "

Apparently you can. Chubby ladies are nice and fun. Slim ladies are stuck up. Guess it must be the same for guys.

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By *allisto2000Woman
over a year ago

Stafford ish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have neither. So I’m fucked (metaphorically, not literally) on here aren’t I?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personality we look for regular meets not one offs so personality. Love having a good chat and a laugh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just want to ask out of curiosity, when it comes to attraction, are personality and looks the most important or would one of them be not enough?"

Yes, needs both for me to be interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally find chubby chicks the best. The good lookers are so stuck up its not worth the hassle. Fun over chase any day."

Desperate people are the best fucks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just want to ask out of curiosity, when it comes to attraction, are personality and looks the most important or would one of them be not enough?"

I want both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks without personality leaves me cold. Personality without looks, as in what society traditionally considers to be good looks, is still very attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personality for dating.

Looks for sex.

It really is that simple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder I guess, and it seems to be a lot about look on here rather than personality.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I'm loaded with both

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By *uffnmuffCouple
over a year ago

London

Personality and lots of banter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

has bit of both for me but humour is important personality trait for me

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

A bit of both is important for me but looks more important on here, but I'd say personality if you're looking for a long term relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personality,it has to be!! Yeah looks okay a factor but being hot and sexy includes personality for me!!

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Its a tough one as no matter how great of a personality you have you still need that physically attraction regardless.

And most people on here and dating sites from experience tend to go for looks.

You have great chats and giggles through messages and then when it comes time to exchange face pics its the dreaded sorry your not my or insta-block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome to fab. The land of binary options

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of them would not be enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never been out and approached some one because I thought they had a good personality. I've never stayed with some one just because they looked good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both. I’m not sure I could have one without the other. However, someone I find attractive, others might not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personality all the way. Someone I don't immediately find physically attractive definitely has the chance to grow on me with a smasher of a personality!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want it all - personality, looks and sexual prowess! Why compromise!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Personality all though looks do come into it. Couldnt shag someone i didnt connect with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let's be honest, looks are the primary attraction because personality requires actual contact and time together to judge.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

personality over looks anytime . I would rather meet a average looking lady with a great personality then a stunner with none

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personality wins with us.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

Personality every time....intelligence and a great sense of humour are a massive turn-on for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need to be attracted to someone to want to get to know their personality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Let's be honest, looks are the primary attraction because personality requires actual contact and time together to judge. "

I don't know. I think an attractive personality makes someone visibly attractive regardless of whether or not they are traditionally good looking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There would have to be some level of attraction to start with or I'd never even go as far as discovering what their personality was like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the initial thing has to be attraction... most people on here you don’t see their faces straight away..so it’s their avatar.. comments in the forum and profile that I notice.. (if I try and do searches it never works... however that initial attraction for me only lasts so long and I need that actual spark that you only know is there from chatting and getting to know someone!!!

It’s all subjective as what one person looks for is different to another anyway!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On a website like this then I’m afraid it’s looks first.....I have to be attracted to you and fancy you, it’s as a simple as that, I can afford to be picky and will be.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Let's be honest, looks are the primary attraction because personality requires actual contact and time together to judge. "

My point exactly!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I need to be attracted to someone to want to get to know their personality. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've always known to have a nice personality. As for my looks, well I've had no problems as I've always been told I am cute.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There has to be a balance of personality and looks, often one without the other wouldn't be enough for me to be attracted to them enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Physical attraction comes first for me but if the good looking chap is boring it would be unlikely

that we would play with them. That’s why a social first is important for us.

Floppsy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Physical attraction is the hook... personality keeps me hooked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some attraction initially but it's the personality that gets it past a social/few messages for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesnt matter as its just a shag

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