FabSwingers.com forum: Do the ladies ever send the 1st message?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I know women get hundreds upon hundreds of messages on here but do you ever send the first message?

This is my first contribution on the forums, be gentle with me haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A very gentle Yes, we do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes we do...especially from the forums I’ll send a message!

But you’ll get the full chat from the men about this topic!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome to the forums, yes some do but I get the lady from a couples profile normally message me, usually for the hubby to be dommed, made to suck a guy off or to be bonked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sime times i have had first mesaages from women. It's rather pleasing indeed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. I don’t get hundreds of messages every day, instead I use my filters and do my own messaging if I see someone I like.

Welcome to the forums

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By *addysAngel81Woman
over a year ago

Preston

I’ve messaged first a couple of times. Generally though it appears to be a full time job just sifting through the messages I receive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I do

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A very gentle Yes, we do

Thanks for being gentle, maybe one day one of you lovely ladies will send me one first.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If any of you lovely ladies have some tips for me about my profile that would be great. Still relatively new here and to the whole scene. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a few first messages sent to me, but it isnt very often!

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Yea I do fairly often

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

of course! most women on here will be proactive types

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know women get hundreds upon hundreds of messages on here but do you ever send the first message?

This is my first contribution on the forums, be gentle with me haha. "

They do.

When your interesting or attractive enough.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Yes. I’ve had some lovely first messages from ladies.

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By *arehamMan
over a year ago

handforth

Yes they do I’ve had a few.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I know women get hundreds upon hundreds of messages on here but do you ever send the first message?

This is my first contribution on the forums, be gentle with me haha.

They do.

When your interesting or attractive enough. "

I guess I need to be a bit more interesting and attractive haha

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By *andonmessMan
over a year ago

A world all of his own

Apparently they do, yes. Just off to check my inbox...the very definition of a futile act lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I've sent a few first messages.

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By *abrielle247Couple (FF)
over a year ago

PDI Gran Canaria

I think I have only sent about 4 messages first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't know what to write

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes

Feel free to drop one in mine anytime you like haha

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

It has been known - usually off the back of a forum post but it definitely happens.

Welcome to the forums OP

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I wouldn't know what to write

Yea I have this problem but we are just expected to come up with something magical to stand out and try and grab your attention

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

Yep quite a lot xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It has been known - usually off the back of a forum post but it definitely happens.

Welcome to the forums OP

I messaged someone to compliment him on his poem. Does that count

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

Yes I have done

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By *iss-PinkWoman
over a year ago

Gloucester

Short answer - yes.

I must admit that I am more likely to in response to a fabbed pic or a wink but sometimes it's just a random find

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They do. I get more men messaging me though my profile is straight. A couple KiK messages too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I have done in the past

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had a woman message me first, still onwards and upwards !

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton

When I find a decent profile that makes me laugh, so not very often.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, if i see a profile i like, i will message or wink if im nervous they wont be interested in us! But ive messaged a couple profiles first! X

Louise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hahahahahahahua funny post.

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By *0tt0nSu3Woman
over a year ago

London

Yes.

More often than not to compliment their pictures and profiles. Just a compliment. No more. No less. No expectations.

Very occasionally I send messages for a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know women get hundreds upon hundreds of messages on here but do you ever send the first message?

This is my first contribution on the forums, be gentle with me haha. "

Don't hold your breath to find out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have plenty of times. Doesn't usually lead anywhere, but doesn't hurt to try

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By *he Devils Daughter!Woman
over a year ago

some where in yorkshire

I do sometimes if a profile catches my eye n it matches what I’m looking for

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have plenty of times. Doesn't usually lead anywhere, but doesn't hurt to try

If you were to message me first I’d be trying my best to make it go somewhere!

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By *_and_LCouple
over a year ago

Tamworth

I used to, if someone caught my eye.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I do sometimes if a profile catches my eye n it matches what I’m looking for

What are you looking for in a profile then? If you don’t mind me asking

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!

"I know women get hundreds upon hundreds of messages on here but do you ever send the first message?

This is my first contribution on the forums, be gentle with me haha. "

Yes they do!

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