FabSwingers.com forum: Things you notice... As you get a little older....

By *Lovetobewatched OP Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

Ok, I realise that I'm not a spring chicken anymore. But as I shaved my cock and balls and trimmed above this morning, I realised that I would never have dreamed of doing that in my teens in the late eighties.

Same with lube! The younger me didn't realise how lovely it could feel, that it wasn't just for anal.

So what have the years taught you?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I didn’t know I was bisexual until 5 years ago. That was a shocker!

I’m still quite bemused by it.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

I've noticed that whilst my head hair fucks off at an alarming rate , hair everywhere else grows quicker . Wtf is that all about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've noticed that whilst my head hair fucks off at an alarming rate , hair everywhere else grows quicker . Wtf is that all about

The playdoh effect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm finally accepting that I can't cope on four hour's sleep every night

These days I need a good long sleep at least twice a week.

"Sleep, those little slices of death. How I loathe them."

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

How frightened many people are about sex, many dream about swinging and having sex with others but are too frightened to actually do it.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

That women used to look at me with lust in their eyes, the lust turned to a mixture of anger and disgust now as I approach 50 if I look at a woman I get looks back that border on pity and confusion!

I assume that I am no longer seen by the opposite sex in a sexual way or as any sort of way other than the way someone looks at an old car, nostalgia yes but they realise the engine and bodywork has seen better days and would be much better off with a newer model.

I guess I just need to find women who like vintage cars and don't mind having to turn the starting handle a few more times and maybe leave the ch oke out a little longer

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By *exyspecs and supermanCouple
over a year ago

A house, a very big house in the country

That sleep is good

But then so are orgasms

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By *azmar62Couple
over a year ago

Hinckley

"That sleep is good

But then so are orgasms

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

That no much really matters.

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By *ittleAcornMan
over a year ago

visiting the beach

"That no much really matters.

I was going to put something flippant, but then read that.

Yes, that is my most important discovery during the aging process.

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

"That no much really matters. "

Agreed. The idea that ones hopes and dreams are, in her grand historical scheme, insignificant, is curiously liberating.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"That no much really matters.

I was going to put something flippant, but then read that.

Yes, that is my most important discovery during the aging process.

It's great isn't it.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"That no much really matters.

Agreed. The idea that ones hopes and dreams are, in her grand historical scheme, insignificant, is curiously liberating. "

It is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all die eventually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im getting a lot softer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems that the older I get, the more things hurt and/or click

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've found that some things matter way less, like money, sex, social acceptance etc. But other things matter more like family, good friends, wanting to leave the world a slightly better place than I found it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That my parents are getting older and older, I’m 40 next year and my brother is 50 too. My dad is getting all these health problems (he’s only 69...fuck me another big birthday next year too lol) and I realised a few weeks ago that time with them is precious.

Geeky x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've found when I move I sound like a Rubik's Cube.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That the most important thing you can ever give someone is your time and attention. It's the one thing you can never get back. The most precious commodity we have.

That and I should have listened to my mother...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've found when I move I sound like a Rubik's Cube."

My neighbours probably think I have an awesome early morning sex life, with all the grunts and groans that I make getting my aching body out of bed

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By *hloe sussexTV/TS
over a year ago

Larne

You make a funny lil noise when you get up from a armchair or sofa lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You make a funny lil noise when you get up from a armchair or sofa lol

I was talking with someone in work the other week and we were saying we noticed we sigh more now, she was sat at her desk the other day when I walked past and noticed I did it, hate getting older lol.

Geeky x

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

Has taught me not to give a crap what others think or say about me.

It's my life and I will live it as I choose.....

Oh and as a footnote..getting older means wearing glasses or asking the kids to read the menu

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You realise the world, although no where near perfect, is more tolerant than yesterday but not as tolerant as tommorow.

As I get older I really want tolerance to be my vocation. Just hopefully making it easier for one person at a time.

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By *igtimmoMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

Ya eyes start to go ya knees start to go ya back infact everything plus u do loose your interest in sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You realise the world, although no where near perfect, is more tolerant than yesterday but not as tolerant as tommorow.

As I get older I really want tolerance to be my vocation. Just hopefully making it easier for one person at a time. "

We must live in different worlds.

I despair at the decline of modern society and worry about the world we are leaving for our children.

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

"Ya eyes start to go ya knees start to go ya back infact everything plus u do loose your interest in sex "

Says who?

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By *un4meanduMan
over a year ago

STOTFOLD

That you should be yourself and do things you want before its too late and you cant

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

"You realise the world, although no where near perfect, is more tolerant than yesterday but not as tolerant as tommorow.

As I get older I really want tolerance to be my vocation. Just hopefully making it easier for one person at a time.

We must live in different worlds.

I despair at the decline of modern society and worry about the world we are leaving for our children. "

Agree

Guilty too as far less tolerant of others as we have gotten older.

Can't stand today's PC BS

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You realise the world, although no where near perfect, is more tolerant than yesterday but not as tolerant as tommorow.

As I get older I really want tolerance to be my vocation. Just hopefully making it easier for one person at a time. "

I'd love to agree and society is way more tolerant in a lot of ways.

I fear for the future as extremism seems to be making a worrying comeback for some.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve noticed I still make a few mistakes, but I’m a lot wiser, sometimes more tolerant and actually quite enjoy life...resisting mentioning politics, racism, austerity, people suffering injustice and other stuff that grips my shit!

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By *ittleAcornMan
over a year ago

visiting the beach

"You realise the world, although no where near perfect, is more tolerant than yesterday but not as tolerant as tommorow.

As I get older I really want tolerance to be my vocation. Just hopefully making it easier for one person at a time.

We must live in different worlds.

I despair at the decline of modern society and worry about the world we are leaving for our children. "

If you look at social history, there are a lot of "two steps forward, one step back" cycles.

The general momentum is forward towards more tolerance, but often, in the moment, it does not look like it!

In the next 10-15 years or so, there is going to be a backlash against the state of inequality we have at present.

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

I realised way too late if you think people are fuckers, they usually are. Ms

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By *ittleAcornMan
over a year ago

visiting the beach

"That no much really matters.

I was going to put something flippant, but then read that.

Yes, that is my most important discovery during the aging process.

It's great isn't it.

Isn't it just?!

I am genuinely having the time of my life at present!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

My parents are both dead - spend more time with those you love. A rich guy in the USA called Forbes (who did the magazine) was old and very rich and he said he would give all his millions away if only he could have more time.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"That no much really matters.

I was going to put something flippant, but then read that.

Yes, that is my most important discovery during the aging process.

It's great isn't it.

Isn't it just?!

I am genuinely having the time of my life at present!"

I said to Mr N on Sunday "sometimes I can't believe my luck".

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"That no much really matters. "

My other half asked me the other day why I never got excited, angry etc about anything. My reply was pretty much this: because in the grand scheme of things nothing really matters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That you get what you tolerate..... hence I don’t tolerate shit or mediocre anymore

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By *usie pTV/TS
over a year ago

taunton

60/70 year women are looking younger by the day and sexy as ----

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That women used to look at me with lust in their eyes, the lust turned to a mixture of anger and disgust now as I approach 50 if I look at a woman I get looks back that border on pity and confusion!

I guess I just need to find women who like vintage cars and don't mind having to turn the starting handle a few more times and maybe leave the ch oke out a little longer

Some women quite like a car with a bit of mileage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How dry your skin gets

And my vagina doesn’t get as moist as it once does. Although that is probably due to the lack of sex.

Grey eyebrow hair is a bit of a bummer too.

I don’t eat toffees with such carefree abandon as i once did either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've noticed that whilst my head hair fucks off at an alarming rate , hair everywhere else grows quicker . Wtf is that all about

It migrates!

I don't think men loose it, it just moves from their head to their nose, ears, back and shoulders!

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By *ittleAcornMan
over a year ago

visiting the beach

Some women quite like a car with a bit of mileage

But only up to a point it would seem. You stop at 55.

Veteran is ok, vintage not?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some women quite like a car with a bit of mileage

But only up to a point it would seem. You stop at 55.

Veteran is ok, vintage not?!

The upper limit fluctuates with my mood - i’d say 60 is my true cut off point but most 60 years who message me have knocked a few years off

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Im contented. Im happy with my lot. I also know we're not here forever. Im much less fiesty and a lot calmer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've noticed that whilst my head hair fucks off at an alarming rate , hair everywhere else grows quicker . Wtf is that all about

It migrates!

I don't think men loose it, it just moves from their head to their nose, ears, back and shoulders!

And arse!!

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By *ittleAcornMan
over a year ago

visiting the beach

Some women quite like a car with a bit of mileage

But only up to a point it would seem. You stop at 55.

Veteran is ok, vintage not?!

The upper limit fluctuates with my mood - i’d say 60 is my true cut off point but most 60 years who message me have knocked a few years off

I'm thinking I might need to knock a couple of years off. 50 is too round a number, people tend to pick it a lot!

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By *ookingforlustMan
over a year ago

northants

"I've noticed that whilst my head hair fucks off at an alarming rate , hair everywhere else grows quicker . Wtf is that all about

This.

Ear hair!! That shit’s just wrong!! And why does it feel like some of my nasal hairs are attached to the back of my eyeballs when I pull them out?!?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Caucasians men’s willies take on a slightly darker hue.

Noticed on loads of men over 50ish

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By *ddibleMan
over a year ago

Exeter Bristol Salisbury

I've noticed my doctors seems to always want to use me as a glove puppet since I hit 40

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've noticed my doctors seems to always want to use me as a glove puppet since I hit 40"

Thought mathew corbett was dead.

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By *ddibleMan
over a year ago

Exeter Bristol Salisbury

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By *ddibleMan
over a year ago

Exeter Bristol Salisbury

"I've noticed my doctors seems to always want to use me as a glove puppet since I hit 40

Thought mathew corbett was dead."

No he just had a sex change and went into medicine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've jolly well not grown up

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york

you look at elasticated waist jeans and think , oh they look comfy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've noticed that whilst my head hair fucks off at an alarming rate , hair everywhere else grows quicker . Wtf is that all about

This.

Ear hair!! That shit’s just wrong!! And why does it feel like some of my nasal hairs are attached to the back of my eyeballs when I pull them out?!?!"

You're not supposed to to pluck nasal hair, it can lead to brain infection.

#internethealthscare

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By *ittleAcornMan
over a year ago

visiting the beach

"I've noticed that whilst my head hair fucks off at an alarming rate , hair everywhere else grows quicker . Wtf is that all about

This.

Ear hair!! That shit’s just wrong!! And why does it feel like some of my nasal hairs are attached to the back of my eyeballs when I pull them out?!?!

You're not supposed to to pluck nasal hair, it can lead to brain infection.

#internethealthscare

I'll take that risk, rather than have bloody spider legs hanging out of my nose.

Is it safe to pluck ear hairs?

#askingforafriend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We all die eventually."

Shit, no one told me about this!

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