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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Any other ladies get nasty replies back when you say no thanks? Bit pee’d off tbh x

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Loads do I think. It's main reason they don't bother to reply. That and the ping pong ohhhhh but why. Sad as fuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most are polite back, in their reply. You do get the odd one who'll get a little bitchy about it though. In all honesty, I've just stopped opening mail. I've also made a point of saying on my profile that i don't open them. If they still message, that's on them. They should have read the profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any other ladies get nasty replies back when you say no thanks? Bit pee’d off tbh x"
I'm thankful you give a response back. Sad that you get aggro for it. Make a private note and block them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Some guy reckons he’s a real bbw lover got a ‘No thanks x’ and I got back,

‘yeah well I cant see your pussy cos your overhang is in the way so best not eh!’ Must admit I did laugh but cheeky twat lol x yeah, pic not that flattering but its there so people can make the choice yes or no lol rather them see my flaws now than later.. he only been on site 6 week n miles away...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some guy reckons he’s a real bbw lover got a ‘No thanks x’ and I got back,

The only thing to remember, is to not let it affect your self esteem. If you'd have said "yes please", you would have got a completely different response

. Some really don't take rejection well, so hit back. As I'm sure you know, there are some great guys on here too. Let the idiots roll over you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Some guy reckons he’s a real bbw lover got a ‘No thanks x’ and I got back,

The only thing to remember, is to not let it affect your self esteem. If you'd have said "yes please", you would have got a completely different response

. Some really don't take rejection well, so hit back. As I'm sure you know, there are some great guys on here too. Let the idiots roll over you

Lol thanks, I thought it was funny mostly to be honest n gave him his answer, did pee me off a bit, and yeah, there are some great guys on here!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some guy reckons he’s a real bbw lover got a ‘No thanks x’ and I got back,

The only thing to remember, is to not let it affect your self esteem. If you'd have said "yes please", you would have got a completely different response

. Some really don't take rejection well, so hit back. As I'm sure you know, there are some great guys on here too. Let the idiots roll over you

Lol thanks, I thought it was funny mostly to be honest n gave him his answer, did pee me off a bit, and yeah, there are some great guys on here!!"

I once said no thanks, then, i kid you not, he then wrote me an essay of why he didn't think i should be on the site, literally pulling apart my profile. They were even numbered. It really did make me laugh. I nearly said "oh go on then", given the effort it took for him to crucify me, then had a change of heart and blocked him instead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep , happens to me quite often .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some chaps just can't handle rejection lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I said no thanks to a woman who wanted to watch me with her FB, she replied “sorry I sent the message to the wrong guy I don’t meet dinosaurs”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I said no thanks to a woman who wanted to watch me with her FB, she replied “sorry I sent the message to the wrong guy I don’t meet dinosaurs”

Some women can't seem to handle rejection either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't understand how some guys can be like that. I'm grateful if I get a reply. 99% of the women I've messaged don't bother.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can honestly say, on our old profile and this one, have never had a nasty message.up till the other day when someone had a go because I was polite and replied (as I always do) they said I shouldn't have bothered wasting THEIR time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is the reason I block most men who message that I definitely don't want to meet. I have had it in the past. It's just them being immature and rude. XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some guy reckons he’s a real bbw lover got a ‘No thanks x’ and I got back,

Exactly why I just delete messages I don't want to reply to, besides I want to meet a man, not a little boy

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Some can't take rejection op and it says more about them than you,just block and don't let them get you down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot send a sweet "oh well, thanks for replying anyway" or something along those lines. Many just say nothing but I tend to block anyway as loads just message again a week later. Whether optimistic or forgetful, who knows.

Only a minority get really arsey about it in my experience, although to be fair some of my replies are more than a bit sarcastic if they obviously haven't read my page or made any effort.

The funniest one lately was "No wonder your wife isn't getting any". I mean wtf

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By *oloandsaabWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"I don't understand how some guys can be like that. I'm grateful if I get a reply. 99% of the women I've messaged don't bother."

Now you know why!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its horrible the shit you girls get makes rest of us look like pure muppets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm one of the lucky ones who has had very few nasty replies- 3, I think, out of hundreds and hundreds (I've been here a long time and try to answer all of my messages). I tried to work out why I don't get the abusive messages after saying no thank you, but I'm stumped.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its horrible the shit you girls get makes rest of us look like pure muppets"

Only you can make yourself look like a Muppet, Gonzo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had quite a few but it is what it is!! Part of fab unfortunately x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Several times daily.

You ladies just can't leave me alone...

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By *nsatiable Needy BratWoman
over a year ago

Here and There

Yes but it's very rare. One guy I politely said no thanks to sent me another message a week later saying how I was huge and he was glad he had dodged a bullet. I simply said I concur. This place is full of entertainment of varying kinds

Don't let it get to you or knock your confidence. He's the one with the attitude problem.

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By *aximus74Woman
over a year ago

Manchester

I've had one this morning saying he thinks im"a player, all talk or a sad pervert man" then that my face was nice but I'm fat.... I'm quite aware of my shape.. He gave me a giggle anyway.. Lol.... I just laugh it off now... Most are very polite but do get the odd few who can't handle rejection.. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if it's a no, i always say no worries and have a nice day. Anything else is pointless ...i get more pissed off with no response however i do understand the ratios of men to women that messages get missed.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"if it's a no, i always say no worries and have a nice day. Anything else is pointless ...i get more pissed off with no response however i do understand the ratios of men to women that messages get missed.

Seriously, in 8 weeks I have hundreds of messages since I put pics up my fb cant believe how many there are, please dont get disheartened if ladies dont reply its almost impossible to abswer all if you have a life x my first two lines of profile say please dont message if cant accomodate or got no pics, they do n they get deleted, the rest I try to reply to but its not easy xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get them sometimes and I just message back saying my gut instinct was right because they are clearly a twat ..... or similar, then block them and move on to the next

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

I don't understand it, it's never been an issue for me, even on a single woman profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always say thanks and wish them luck, I reslky can’t see the point in being nasty

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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....

I always reply to messages, but then I find I have a new best friend that wants to meet after the 2/3rd message so that’s a bit awkward...

But mostly men are polite xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's easy to block the person you say no to. There's is then no nasty responses coming back. It's that easy to stamp it out at source.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its horrible the shit you girls get makes rest of us look like pure muppets

Only you can make yourself look like a Muppet, Gonzo

Aaaw i thought i was fozzy bear

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By *ardiffCoupleNJCouple
over a year ago

Pontypridd/Rhyfelin

We take the same approach. If the message is from someone who clearly hasn't read our profile, it just gets deleted (e.g. no pics on profile, no serious attempt at writing an informative profile etc etc).

The rest we try to reply to, though often it's a no because there's only seven days in a week & we certainly don't meet every week maybe not even every month (we enjoy Club play & socials etc as well).

It's not always a rejection because we don't want to meet it's simpler no time for the foreseeable & we'd rather not get involved in months of endless message ping pong.

So it always pays to be polite & keep things on good terms. You never know when we may meet at a party / club / social & think well maybe yep. Certainly not if they've been a tight arsed wotsit in the past though!!

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Some men think they are gods gift and all woman should either get on their knees or back as soon as they say hi.

Block button works a treat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some men think they are gods gift and all woman should either get on their knees or back as soon as they say hi.

Block button works a treat

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Knees or back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Knees or back

Back pls im hungry

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

Not just ladies, us couples get it too, one minute Jayne is gorgeous, then after a polite " no thanks" she's fat and ugly, some right charmers out there.

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By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge

I've had a woman get very nasty when I said no. But I have guys mailing me and when I say no thanks I'm straight I get yeah so am I. When you say no again you get all manner of abuse from them.

I genuinely feel sorry for the women on here becaue if I'm getting this type of mail from guys I can only imagine it's a 1000 times worse for them.

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

"I get them sometimes and I just message back saying my gut instinct was right because they are clearly a twat ..... or similar, then block them and move on to the next "

Liking this.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Odd one gets pissy every now and again

I usually reply i looked good enough to fuck before i said no shame you proved me right when I got the impression you were just an any holes a goal type of guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We hardly reply to anyone anymore. Mainly because they clearly don’t read our profile, manifest in the fact that they are opposite to our interests. But our profile in itself excludes 80% of the site we would imagine.

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