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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

About ready cave in with fab can’t get anywhere with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"About ready cave in with fab can’t get anywhere with it "

Bye then

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

You've not asked for profile advice, so I can't give any, but people struggling on here usually find that is the first place they are going wrong - so take a look at yours and ask yourself is it appealing and enticing or is it at the root of your problem.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"About ready cave in with fab can’t get anywhere with it

Bye then "

Come on I only want a nudge in the right direction. X

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

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Go into the chat rooms, One that hasn't got to many people in there, Join in with the chat, Ask someone if you turn your cam on will they do one for you

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Any socials near you op?

What are you doing to try and get meets?

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By *apstarMan
over a year ago

Harpenden

I suggest.

Don't post things like this.

Don't be thirsty .

Be respectful.

Don't try and lie about anything you will always be found out .

Stand out .

Woman het hounded constantly so what makes you better than the rest ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go visit a club and meet folk and you may get 2 verifications if yr lucky

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By *ida8780Couple
over a year ago

any town

How are you not getting meets with such great profile text!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I suggest.

Don't post things like this.

Don't be thirsty .

Be respectful.

Don't try and lie about anything you will always be found out .

Stand out .

Woman het hounded constantly so what makes you better than the rest .."

This ^

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By *tothetMan
over a year ago

Maidstone

End of the bell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a wank

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iam pretty new to the site to. I have no veris but have asked in the forums for some profile guidance and altered my profile as per the general guidance.

I have also started to contribute in the forums such as this reply!. You see the same members often and begin to get a repore with them. Also increases the people who looked at your profile which is a good positive feeling.

This site in comparisson to many i have been on is much harder but its what you put i to it that will get you the result you want. If you just want to chat to someone and meet and fuck them 20mins later it wont happen on her. If you want that phone a prostitute.

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By *aut-eWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

You need to update your profile, not appealing to anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You need to update your profile, not appealing to anyone "
why is it not appealing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *corpio67Man
over a year ago

hillingdon

Patience and be prepared wait!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've just looked at your profile and I can't understand why all the sexiest women on here are not movig to Sunbury just to be near you.

Jeez I know mine is'nt the greatest but seriously, if you think that is the way to attract someone to meet you then iam a flipping cassanova

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By *apstarMan
over a year ago

Harpenden

You need 2 stand out mate.. catch there eye make yaself different 2 the other 1000 people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Iam pretty new to the site to. I have no veris but have asked in the forums for some profile guidance and altered my profile as per the general guidance.

I have also started to contribute in the forums such as this reply!. You see the same members often and begin to get a repore with them. Also increases the people who looked at your profile which is a good positive feeling.

This site in comparisson to many i have been on is much harder but its what you put i to it that will get you the result you want. If you just want to chat to someone and meet and fuck them 20mins later it wont happen on her. If you want that phone a prostitute. "

Spot on!

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By *heffmMan
over a year ago

sheffield

you really shouldn't take this crap so serious, it's basically a chat site with boobs and cocks. do your best in the real world is a better idea.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Any socials near you op?

What are you doing to try and get meets?"

Just trying see who’s near me n half doing reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you been to hellfire?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any socials near you op?

What are you doing to try and get meets?

Just trying see who’s near me n half doing reply. "

Why don't you chat to women in a pub,you know,like men and women did before the internet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol read your profile and it's somehow even worse then mine lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You need to update your profile, not appealing to anyone "

I ain’t very good with stuff like that lol hi my name is Shaun will u meet with me . Honest don’t know what more to put xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have you been to hellfire? "

No I ain’t is it open now? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You need to update your profile, not appealing to anyone

I ain’t very good with stuff like that lol hi my name is Shaun will u meet with me . Honest don’t know what more to put xx"
from what others say you have write your life story in short form and try add humour it's like going on blind date lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You need to update your profile, not appealing to anyone "

His is more imaginative than mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you been to hellfire?

No I ain’t is it open now? X"

Look on the club reviews and see what events they are having and get yourself there.

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By *heffmMan
over a year ago

sheffield

your suit matches your kitchen floor.. some people might like feng shui lol

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. MOORLANDS & BARMOUTH.

Click on the heading for clubs in here. They have a comprehensive list of regional clubs OP xxxx Suzi

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have you been to hellfire?

No I ain’t is it open now? X

Look on the club reviews and see what events they are having and get yourself there. "

Off down Brighton tomorrow. I work a around the country so what’s clubs are there? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd restart your entire profile.

Write a little about yourself. What your offering. What you're looking for.

Not just that you want a face full of pussy.

Some guys on here have great profiles and well thought out and tastefully shot photos.

See what works for others and work yourself into your style.

But have style.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd restart your entire profile.

Write a little about yourself. What your offering. What you're looking for.

Not just that you want a face full of pussy.

Some guys on here have great profiles and well thought out and tastefully shot photos.

See what works for others and work yourself into your style.

But have style. "

Done some of it now

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By *heffmMan
over a year ago

sheffield

it started off quite literate, then you descend back into using n instead of and. you seem to be trying but rushing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"it started off quite literate, then you descend back into using n instead of and. you seem to be trying but rushing "

Literacy has never been my strong point

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By *ubiousOatcakeMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire


"Done some of it now "

Compassionate sex? I think (hope) you just mean passionate...

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By *earlytylerdurdenMan
over a year ago

London

Seriously, mate:go to a club and meet people in person. They are mostly very welcoming and you will get verifications in no time.

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By *heffmMan
over a year ago

sheffield

it's not a sprint it's a marathon lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you were a woman, would you message you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I suggest.

Don't post things like this.

Don't be thirsty .

Be respectful.

Don't try and lie about anything you will always be found out .

Stand out .

Woman het hounded constantly so what makes you better than the rest .."

Of you could do your own thing see where that gets you

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By *ubiousOatcakeMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire


"Literacy has never been my strong point"

Are you looking for specific advice on your profile?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you were a woman, would you message you? "

Ohhhhh y is it so stressful. Just want sex sex n sex

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

Theres a kink event at Hellfires on Friday 29th see our profile for details of where to get tickets. If you can wait that long we will happily meet and verify you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you were a woman, would you message you?

Ohhhhh y is it so stressful. Just want sex sex n sex"

See that is exactly were your going wrong you come off as a desperate needy sex obsessest bloke 1 of thousands of othere desperate needy sex obsessed blokes

This isnt dial a fuck im afraid

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Literacy has never been my strong point

Are you looking for specific advice on your profile?"

My penitence has grown to thin now guys heads frazzled with a million n one ideas that I can’t pick from

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Theres a kink event at Hellfires on Friday 29th see our profile for details of where to get tickets. If you can wait that long we will happily meet and verify you."

I go home on Fridays to derby mate. Thank you very much for that offer. So kind

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By *heffmMan
over a year ago

sheffield

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By *ubiousOatcakeMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire


"My penitence has grown to thin now guys heads frazzled with a million n one ideas that I can’t pick from"

I was willing to offer you a bit of advice but, to be perfectly honest, if your head is frazzled from a half dozen simple, friendly suggestions, I’m not entirely sure that this is the best place for you. I think your expectations of what the site has to offer are a little off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I give up.

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish


"Theres a kink event at Hellfires on Friday 29th see our profile for details of where to get tickets. If you can wait that long we will happily meet and verify you.

I go home on Fridays to derby mate. Thank you very much for that offer. So kind "

Try adultwork and get yourself an outcall with an escort. This is a swingers site not dial a fuck. You've been here long enough and used the forums enough to know how it works.

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By *OCKDUDE1Man
over a year ago

TROWBRIDGE/BRISTOL

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By *OCKDUDE1Man
over a year ago

TROWBRIDGE/BRISTOL


"About ready cave in with fab can’t get anywhere with it "

Dude...just looked at your profile. I got a couple of suggestions and not meaning to be critical but that's kinda what you're here for, right!?

So, first...you have to stand out, your pics have to stand out and your words have to stand out, you messages to girls have to really frikin stand out...trust me, I'm not speaking massively from experience (I wish) but my GF is on here and she gets anything from 50 - over 200 messages a day from guys and only looks at the ones that stand out or say something funny, certainly nothing boring ones! she replies to even less, although most of her replies are to just give advice! haha

Invite some friends, post a daily pic, update your status daily, fuck sake...even lie a bit if you have to! "great meet today....thanks lucy" it's only a white lie, I mean, you could've dreamt it!

Sort your wording out on your profile dude, it kinda reads a bit childish and is a bit boring if i'm honest, I need to change mine (my gf has reworded it a bit for me, just got to put it up)

Take some better pics....right, if you can, grow some stubble, scruff up your hair a bit, put on a slightly mean face, wear some "cool" clothes....girls on here like guys with a bit of edge, most girls wanna see a guy who could take control (DON'T copy me FFS!!! I've gone so far the other way, it's not funny!) haha

GET in the chat rooms and show off your sense of humour, share some interesting stories, get involved with what others are talking about!

LASTLY but most importantly. Look at the ratio between men and women on here! and when girls say they get inundated, they are really not fucking lying dude! I'd say, get your profile straight, then get involved but honestly...DO NOT RELY ON THIS SIGHT TO GET SEX! OR EVEN A REPLY FROM A GIRL EVER! My gf has had meets with some real fucking beastly guys on here, fuck machines that make some of us (if we're honest) look like fucking babys...these are the guys that will get chosen over you! Don't let it get you down.

Lastly, forget FAB, I have much more luck out and about where I can show off my bad ass sense of humour and personality which doesn't come across on here.

don't get down man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you were a woman, would you message you?

Ohhhhh y is it so stressful. Just want sex sex n sex"

Good luck with that

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By *apstarMan
over a year ago

Harpenden

Listen the good advice is seroulsy not that hard getting a meet

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By *ubiousOatcakeMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire


"Invite some friends, post a daily pic, update your status daily, fuck sake...even lie a bit if you have to! "great meet today....thanks lucy" it's only a white lie, I mean, you could've dreamt it! "

I’m sorry to single this out in an otherwise okay post, but that’s one of the worst pieces of advice I’ve read on here.

The statuses are one of the worst used parts of fab; checking the updates page shows you some of the worst, most infantile, crass shite that people have to offer. There aren’t going to be many girls who see that and think, “Oh, I can’t wait until it’s my turn for that.” Many will be put off by the lack of tact and maturity.

And, people aren’t stupid. Well, many of them aren’t that stupid. It’s going to be pretty obvious that it’s a figment of his imagination.

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By *allypWoman
over a year ago

Bricket Wood


"Iam pretty new to the site to. I have no veris but have asked in the forums for some profile guidance and altered my profile as per the general guidance.

I have also started to contribute in the forums such as this reply!. You see the same members often and begin to get a repore with them. Also increases the people who looked at your profile which is a good positive feeling.

This site in comparisson to many i have been on is much harder but its what you put i to it that will get you the result you want. If you just want to chat to someone and meet and fuck them 20mins later it wont happen on her. If you want that phone a prostitute. "

This !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Invite some friends, post a daily pic, update your status daily, fuck sake...even lie a bit if you have to! "great meet today....thanks lucy" it's only a white lie, I mean, you could've dreamt it!

I’m sorry to single this out in an otherwise okay post, but that’s one of the worst pieces of advice I’ve read on here.

The statuses are one of the worst used parts of fab; checking the updates page shows you some of the worst, most infantile, crass shite that people have to offer. There aren’t going to be many girls who see that and think, “Oh, I can’t wait until it’s my turn for that.” Many will be put off by the lack of tact and maturity.

And, people aren’t stupid. Well, many of them aren’t that stupid. It’s going to be pretty obvious that it’s a figment of his imagination."

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By *OCKDUDE1Man
over a year ago

TROWBRIDGE/BRISTOL


"Invite some friends, post a daily pic, update your status daily, fuck sake...even lie a bit if you have to! "great meet today....thanks lucy" it's only a white lie, I mean, you could've dreamt it!

I’m sorry to single this out in an otherwise okay post, but that’s one of the worst pieces of advice I’ve read on here.

The statuses are one of the worst used parts of fab; checking the updates page shows you some of the worst, most infantile, crass shite that people have to offer. There aren’t going to be many girls who see that and think, “Oh, I can’t wait until it’s my turn for that.” Many will be put off by the lack of tact and maturity.

And, people aren’t stupid. Well, many of them aren’t that stupid. It’s going to be pretty obvious that it’s a figment of his imagination.

"

Thanks for saying the post was mostly ok. but that part I thought was good because I know if my GF posts a new status, her messages rocket up!!! The latter part of this was a lighthearted joke....don't lie....it's bad to lie. You'll go downwards when you die.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

OP, you’re wanting compassionate sex. I’m not sure many ladies would want “feeling or showing sympathy and concern for others” sex but hey ho, you never know. Just remember that your target audience will be quite small for your niche wants.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Literacy has never been my strong point

Are you looking for specific advice on your profile?

My penitence has grown to thin now guys heads frazzled with a million n one ideas that I can’t pick from"

Too much last crusade

Only a penetant man may pass

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