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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Find a Sir...... oh yes because I’m an argumentative, moody mare who fights my strong desire to be an obedient sub....[sighs and turns over to sleep]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try a fet site?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shhhh!

I'm busy counting canes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Find a Sir...... oh yes because I’m an argumentative, moody mare who fights my strong desire to be an obedient sub....[sighs and turns over to sleep]"

Na night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been looking on and off for the last 11 years. Too many guys that didn't understand the fetish community here and on the fetish site to be honest. I think I may have eventually found one but time will tell if he lives up to his promises.

But basically what I'm trying to say is I have found the guys that don't advertise as "dom" but are naturally dominant make the best sirs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And they say nurses have it tough.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've been looking on and off for the last 11 years. Too many guys that didn't understand the fetish community here and on the fetish site to be honest. I think I may have eventually found one but time will tell if he lives up to his promises.

But basically what I'm trying to say is I have found the guys that don't advertise as "dom" but are naturally dominant make the best sirs "

On that I totally agree. I avoid anyone who claims to be a Dom.... such claims (imho) are unnecessary as demeanour will convey status.

Ps. Good luck to you, hope it works out x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think being a dom is a lot more subtle than most men realise.

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Getting the right dynamic is never an easy task. First is finding someone who has the characteristics, experiance and mind set your looking for. But that only half the battle. The other half is finding the one that can totally tune into your frequency and read you. To find both the right mindset and the perfect chemistry is not easy. Someone who is a good Sir to someone else may not just feel a good Sir to you. We are not all one size fits all. But when you find that prefect dynamic it's electric and touches some of the deepest parts of your soul. It can also unlock some powerful emotional forces.

On a footnote being an 'argumentative, moody mare' is no disadvange to everyone. Some of us rather enjoy someone who is a handful.

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By *nsatiable Needy BratWoman
over a year ago

Here and There


"Getting the right dynamic is never an easy task. First is finding someone who has the characteristics, experiance and mind set your looking for. But that only half the battle. The other half is finding the one that can totally tune into your frequency and read you. To find both the right mindset and the perfect chemistry is not easy. Someone who is a good Sir to someone else may not just feel a good Sir to you. We are not all one size fits all. But when you find that prefect dynamic it's electric and touches some of the deepest parts of your soul. It can also unlock some powerful emotional forces.

On a footnote being an 'argumentative, moody mare' is no disadvange to everyone. Some of us rather enjoy someone who is a handful. "

Erm.... what the f*ck would you know about being a sir? I've heard rumours that your girl puts you in your place and gets away with all manner of disrespectful and disobedient shenanigans without so much as a hint of consequence . Not very sir like behaviour wouldn't you agree?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Getting the right dynamic is never an easy task. First is finding someone who has the characteristics, experiance and mind set your looking for. But that only half the battle. The other half is finding the one that can totally tune into your frequency and read you. To find both the right mindset and the perfect chemistry is not easy. Someone who is a good Sir to someone else may not just feel a good Sir to you. We are not all one size fits all. But when you find that prefect dynamic it's electric and touches some of the deepest parts of your soul. It can also unlock some powerful emotional forces.

On a footnote being an 'argumentative, moody mare' is no disadvange to everyone. Some of us rather enjoy someone who is a handful. "

Never found it to know how dynamic it could be... but have imagined it many times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Find a Sir...... oh yes because I’m an argumentative, moody mare who fights my strong desire to be an obedient sub....[sighs and turns over to sleep]"

I can't claim to be any kind of expert but surely, any masterful type who is any good would relish the challenge of taming you.

If they just want it all too easy,are they really all that masterful?

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire


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Erm.... what the f*ck would you know about being a sir? I've heard rumours that your girl puts you in your place and gets away with all manner of disrespectful and disobedient shenanigans without so much as a hint of consequence . Not very sir like behaviour wouldn't you agree? "

Yikes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Find a Sir...... oh yes because I’m an argumentative, moody mare who fights my strong desire to be an obedient sub....[sighs and turns over to sleep]

I can't claim to be any kind of expert but surely, any masterful type who is any good would relish the challenge of taming you.

If they just want it all too easy,are they really all that masterful?"

Very good point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Getting the right dynamic is never an easy task. First is finding someone who has the characteristics, experiance and mind set your looking for. But that only half the battle. The other half is finding the one that can totally tune into your frequency and read you. To find both the right mindset and the perfect chemistry is not easy. Someone who is a good Sir to someone else may not just feel a good Sir to you. We are not all one size fits all. But when you find that prefect dynamic it's electric and touches some of the deepest parts of your soul. It can also unlock some powerful emotional forces.

On a footnote being an 'argumentative, moody mare' is no disadvange to everyone. Some of us rather enjoy someone who is a handful. "

Another Christian Grey wannabe.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


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Erm.... what the f*ck would you know about being a sir? I've heard rumours that your girl puts you in your place and gets away with all manner of disrespectful and disobedient shenanigans without so much as a hint of consequence . Not very sir like behaviour wouldn't you agree?

Yikes "

Double yikes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Vice Admiral Horatio Nelson, 1st Viscount Nelson, 1st Duke of Bronté But you can call me Sir

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks


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Erm.... what the f*ck would you know about being a sir? I've heard rumours that your girl puts you in your place and gets away with all manner of disrespectful and disobedient shenanigans without so much as a hint of consequence . Not very sir like behaviour wouldn't you agree?

Yikes

Double yikes."

Nah lamp post pissing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Find a Sir...... oh yes because I’m an argumentative, moody mare who fights my strong desire to be an obedient sub....[sighs and turns over to sleep]"

I like to refer to MrsDoublehunbon as a Submissive Brat

Cheeky, playful, slutty and disobedent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Il put my hands up to being quite naive and sheltered from all this stuff so i understand nothing its all a learning experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would imagine that trying to find someone that would match you both mentally and physically on here would be nigh on impossible.

The sheer volume of people that either don’t get it or even worse think that they do on this site is startling.

My advice is to get yourself involved in your local fet scene or on a popular website and you might have a bit more joy

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry


"Getting the right dynamic is never an easy task. First is finding someone who has the characteristics, experiance and mind set your looking for. But that only half the battle. The other half is finding the one that can totally tune into your frequency and read you. To find both the right mindset and the perfect chemistry is not easy. Someone who is a good Sir to someone else may not just feel a good Sir to you. We are not all one size fits all. But when you find that prefect dynamic it's electric and touches some of the deepest parts of your soul. It can also unlock some powerful emotional forces.

On a footnote being an 'argumentative, moody mare' is no disadvange to everyone. Some of us rather enjoy someone who is a handful.

Erm.... what the f*ck would you know about being a sir? I've heard rumours that your girl puts you in your place and gets away with all manner of disrespectful and disobedient shenanigans without so much as a hint of consequence . Not very sir like behaviour wouldn't you agree? "

My girl you do have this habit of saying things that turn out to bite you in the arse. We will examin those words in detail later.

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By *nsatiable Needy BratWoman
over a year ago

Here and There


"Getting the right dynamic is never an easy task. First is finding someone who has the characteristics, experiance and mind set your looking for. But that only half the battle. The other half is finding the one that can totally tune into your frequency and read you. To find both the right mindset and the perfect chemistry is not easy. Someone who is a good Sir to someone else may not just feel a good Sir to you. We are not all one size fits all. But when you find that prefect dynamic it's electric and touches some of the deepest parts of your soul. It can also unlock some powerful emotional forces.

On a footnote being an 'argumentative, moody mare' is no disadvange to everyone. Some of us rather enjoy someone who is a handful.

Erm.... what the f*ck would you know about being a sir? I've heard rumours that your girl puts you in your place and gets away with all manner of disrespectful and disobedient shenanigans without so much as a hint of consequence . Not very sir like behaviour wouldn't you agree?

My girl you do have this habit of saying things that turn out to bite you in the arse. We will examin those words in detail later."

Sorry, am I meant to be worried? Is very public disobedience frowned upon sir? Would you like me to print out a copy of the words and bring it along with me to the suite?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On a footnote being an 'argumentative, moody mare' is no disadvange to everyone. Some of us rather enjoy someone who is a handful. "

Can you send them my way?!

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By *ddibleMan
over a year ago

Exeter Bristol Salisbury


"Find a Sir...... oh yes because I’m an argumentative, moody mare who fights my strong desire to be an obedient sub....[sighs and turns over to sleep]"

Geography is your initial obstacle

I'd suggest a more specialised site. Sorry I can't recommend one on here but plenty about

Good luck

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