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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all

Went first time to a swingers club with gf on Saturday. We were excited and nervous at the same time. Anyway a few drinks and chatted to single ladies, men and couples. Sadly there was no sense of a seductive environment. Bright Disco lights on dance floor, club temp too high agreed by all, d*unk people talking loudly about their hols or dogs next to play area. Asked to play by single women after first time after 2 mins convo? How about have a few drinks with us first, get to know a bit (tell us what turns you on and vice vesa) then laugh,joke, flirt, dirty dance with us, tease, stroke each other and maybe test some of the areas etc..?? Seemed like a predatory production line. With 10 min turnarounds... next! Lol.. I know we’re all potentially there for 1 thing but at least boil the kettle before you attempt to drink tea. You wouldn’t ask a stranger to share his or her car/bank account without knowing them, so why would you ask them to share their body in the same way??

In the end we ended up having our own fun dancing alone... This was a couples and single ladies night. It was an interesting evening on varying human behaviour.

Anybody have any suggestions for more seductive, sophisticated and sensual venues/nights? Thanks in advance!

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

Where did you go? Which club?

We tend to avoid the nightclub vibe clubs as its not for us. We like a nice lounge area, not too noisy to chat and flirt, we avoid alcohol and those drinking it. From experience the clubs with hot tubs and pools have suitedus best. Make a brew, slip into the tub and chat there... somehow being naked breaks down any barriers and helps us relax.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Where did you go? Which club?

We tend to avoid the nightclub vibe clubs as its not for us. We like a nice lounge area, not too noisy to chat and flirt, we avoid alcohol and those drinking it. From experience the clubs with hot tubs and pools have suitedus best. Make a brew, slip into the tub and chat there... somehow being naked breaks down any barriers and helps us relax. "

I’ll private message you the club name as to protect its reputation. I don’t mind a club environment and there were areas we could catch up. I love music and like to dance. Rhythmic body movements can be incredibly sexy.

Don’t mind a drink now and then As a form of relaxation. Can go without. However I can understand about the being naked breaking barriers. Brew in the hot tub. Haha

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple
over a year ago

Bedworth

Without knowing which club you visited it’s really difficult to make recommendations for future visits.

I would advise to look at the websites of other clubs in the area. You will get some idea of the type of club it is and why to expect from a night out there

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for your time and advice. I guess the night that’s being run is equally as important as the club layout itself.

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

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