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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What do you consider to be too young or too old...?

I’m 42 and have seen some dishy younger and older men.. but personally anyone below 29 I think I would feel like a pervert haha...

How about you lot?? What’s the youngest or oldest you would meet? Does age matter or is it just a number!?

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

I have an age range that I feel most comfortable with and that's 10 years younger or older than me, however I may make an exception for the right person as it's not set in stone.

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By *elsh_lass74Woman
over a year ago

South Wales

I meet a 25 year old on a semi-regular basis!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I meet a 25 year old on a semi-regular basis! "

I bet he had a regular semi.

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By *htcMan
over a year ago

MK

its all about the pictures, to be honest some women look young at a old age, some look old at a young age. im open minded.

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By *wingfellowMan
over a year ago

my own little sanctuary

Women in their thirties seem to be the ideal range for me given that age group usually has pretty similar taste and I can connect well with them mentally although I have met older and will do so again if I connect with them. Essentially it’s about that connection and attraction, if those are both met then age doesn’t really come into it for me personally.

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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago

Traffic land


"I have an age range that I feel most comfortable with and that's 10 years younger or older than me, however I may make an exception for the right person as it's not set in stone."

Exactly what I would have said

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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago

Traffic land


"I have an age range that I feel most comfortable with and that's 10 years younger or older than me, however I may make an exception for the right person as it's not set in stone."

Exactly what I would have said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend not to stray below 30 if I can help it, although sometimes it hard to tell x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 50 and have my range set at 25-70 at the moment.

I was thinking of raising the lower limit not because it seems perverted but because I still get a lot of crass messages from young guys. But then, a lot of those come from guys of all ages so I'll probably leave it as it is.

I quite like playing the kinky older woman so while it does feel a wee bit naughty, I do like it. Besides which I know 20's guys who have more maturity and personality than some others who are much older.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That ten years +/- sounds right, but I don’t do rules that well...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm open.

I saw a lady ten years my senior at the weekend and she can knock the spots off a many a younger girl.

I also see girls in their thirties.

It seems to me it's more important what is between people's ears and not how old they are

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It’s interesting I would feel uncomfortable going below 30/29 (I say 29 because that’s the youngest I’ve ever been with.. not from fab and grrrrr it was good hahaha)

But I also think I’m 42 and it would make me sad if that put slightly younger people off me because of my age... I don’t want to be agest but I don’t want to step below the mark either... that’s someone’s son!!!

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I used to have my age set at the lowest as 30 but too many younger 20's kept contacting me, so I upped it to 35, I think going younger than that I am either deluding myself, or they just have a bucket list to tick off!

I am not willing to be anyone's tick on their bucket list, probably why I haven't had sex is over a year!

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

When I was meeting my age range used to be 45-55, I preferred my age or older

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually go for mature people, so age doesn't matter, though say that, I have seen over 35 year old ladies are much mature and serious about meeting.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I used to have my age set at the lowest as 30 but too many younger 20's kept contacting me, so I upped it to 35, I think going younger than that I am either deluding myself, or they just have a bucket list to tick off!

I am not willing to be anyone's tick on their bucket list, probably why I haven't had sex is over a year! "

Ah now I agree with that... there’s no way I would want to be a bucket list acheievement!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do tend to find men 15 years plus older than me much more attractive and always have. I could never bring myself to go younger or sometimes the same age as me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ironically, I just got a message from a 19 year old lad.

No.

Just no

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ironically, I just got a message from a 19 year old lad.

No.

Just no "

Ooooh noooooooo

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By *itvclaireTV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham

I’m open, if we chat and click then all’s good.

XX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ironically, I just got a message from a 19 year old lad.

No.

Just no

Ooooh noooooooo "

I just deleted. If he tries again I will block.

Nothing against him but I have nieces older than him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't totally object to being on someone's fucket list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age doesnt really matter to us, i dont think id go any younger. But if i came across a 60 year old that i found attractive, the age would not stop us we have had a few saying they have kids our age which i get, but everyone is different x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think it’s completely down to individual choice about what feels right!

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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago

norwich

I do prefer older men yum x

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By *wingfellowMan
over a year ago

my own little sanctuary


"I think it’s completely down to individual choice about what feels right! "

Got to leave the door open ready for the right people to come in. Can’t do that if you got all the doors shut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 39 and generally not attracted to men in there 20s or men in there 50s so choose to use the age range on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Youngest...probably 24 and even then that’s at a push and down to the individual, oldest...no older than my dad is my rule! Men in their 30s and 40s tend to do it most for me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're easy on it all depends on the people.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think it’s completely down to individual choice about what feels right!

Got to leave the door open ready for the right people to come in. Can’t do that if you got all the doors shut "

I do agree with that but morally if I started seeing a younger guy who is only mid 20’s it wouldn’t sit right for me personally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the person to be honest.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

I met a 24 year about a year ago, and tbh, apart from her nerves, I don't remember feeling the age gap made any difference

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes some younger people can be just as mature as older people and some older ones can be just as immature... personality etc is a big factor... obviously I wouldn’t choose to meet anyone on age alone it’s the full package!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have spoke and met with people in their 40's. Neither noticed the gap and we still had commom topics of conversation and got on well!

Attraction is attraction

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By *wingfellowMan
over a year ago

my own little sanctuary


"I think it’s completely down to individual choice about what feels right!

Got to leave the door open ready for the right people to come in. Can’t do that if you got all the doors shut

I do agree with that but morally if I started seeing a younger guy who is only mid 20’s it wouldn’t sit right for me personally "

I can understand that. Most people relate age to maturity and all the rest of it. The only time it should have a bearing in any way is if it simply just isn’t right for you morally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have a set age range but tend to favour slightly older ladies as seem to have more to talk about and had better experiences.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

The age ranges I have set are "roughly" the range I think I would generally relate to but if I got chatting to someone outside of those ranges and there was a connection and chemistry there then it wouldn't be a deal breaker - although realistically anyone too far outside them I doubt I'd find a connection with.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The age ranges I have set are "roughly" the range I think I would generally relate to but if I got chatting to someone outside of those ranges and there was a connection and chemistry there then it wouldn't be a deal breaker - although realistically anyone too far outside them I doubt I'd find a connection with."

You have quite a wide age range though anyway!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i'll just have to wait 5 years snow white

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have an age range that I feel most comfortable with and that's 10 years younger or older than me, however I may make an exception for the right person as it's not set in stone.

Exactly what I would have said "

So much so, you said it twice .

I'm of the same mentality. Some have a higher level of maturity. I've realised it's not always age based, but more life experiences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Youngest...probably 24 and even then that’s at a push and down to the individual, oldest...no older than my dad is my rule! Men in their 30s and 40s tend to do it most for me! "
wwoo 24 I made it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i'll just have to wait 5 years snow white"

Hahaha awww you’ll get bored by then!!

Must be lots of sexy hot women you age!!

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

Im 48. I don't feel comfortable playing with men under 25 but at a club we rarely ask age. Im afraid there are very few men over 55 I fancy. Infact there are very few over 50... but again we dont check their birth certificates at a club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not fussy about age in the slightest as long as there legal

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Im 48. I don't feel comfortable playing with men under 25 but at a club we rarely ask age. Im afraid there are very few men over 55 I fancy. Infact there are very few over 50... but again we dont check their birth certificates at a club."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not fussy about age in the slightest as long as there legal"

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

We wouldn't want to have sex with any one close to our children's or parents ages. In the case of clubs, of they seem too old / young.

Nita

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"The age ranges I have set are "roughly" the range I think I would generally relate to but if I got chatting to someone outside of those ranges and there was a connection and chemistry there then it wouldn't be a deal breaker - although realistically anyone too far outside them I doubt I'd find a connection with.

You have quite a wide age range though anyway!! "

Well, what's 30 years between friends?

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By *un4meanduMan
over a year ago

STOTFOLD

Youngest was 22 years younger oldest 11 older all depends on the individual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Youngest was 22 years younger oldest 11 older all depends on the individual "

11

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

It's about the person not their age but I can't see me with someone in their 70's or older.

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By *azza80Woman
over a year ago

Your wildest Dreams

I hav a 20yr old daughter so I hav capped mine at 35-50..I prefer older guys tho, always hav dun xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The youngest I have met was a 23 yr old young gent, and we are still good friends, and the oldest was 65 ( I was duped though).

I have an age range set on here but I will meet outside of them if I find someone that appeals to me outside of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From Minus 10 from mr's age to plus 10 from she's seems to work ok for us.

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By *un4meanduMan
over a year ago

STOTFOLD


"Youngest was 22 years younger oldest 11 older all depends on the individual

11 "

Yep 11 years older but that was a few years ago lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Youngest...probably 24 and even then that’s at a push and down to the individual, oldest...no older than my dad is my rule! Men in their 30s and 40s tend to do it most for me! "

A 50 year old could easily be your dad. In fact, you look familiar. What's your mum's name?..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only meet 28 year olds.

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By *atural-born-thrillerMan
over a year ago

oulton broad

Age doesn’t really matter if you find each other mutually attractive x though when you get to my age you just have to hope people’s favourite charity is help the aged x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are open when it comes to age aslong as we are attracted to them and don't go younger than 18 or 19

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i'll just have to wait 5 years snow white

Hahaha awww you’ll get bored by then!!

Must be lots of sexy hot women you age!! "
of course but hard to get notice in the sea of single men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me age has little relevance and isn't something I think about when looking for someone. It's the mind that's attached to their body that will do the attracting primarily. I have a few regulars, a 26yr old 38 and one nearly my age. They're each different, stimulate me differenttly and provide different aspects to the swing life. I seem to provide different things to each of them too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one under 40 for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Youngest...probably 24 and even then that’s at a push and down to the individual, oldest...no older than my dad is my rule! Men in their 30s and 40s tend to do it most for me!

A 50 year old could easily be your dad. In fact, you look familiar. What's your mum's name?.. "

My dad is 53 so not far off!

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