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"How do you do it? after 2mnths that person is still on ur mind. Even worse the person says they have moved on and is now seeing someone else" You just have to wait. 6 months to a year in my experience before it gets easier but I'm sure everyone's different and every love is different. It can help to meet someone else though, so as the envelope shaper (ADSR) said, don't give up on the personal hygiene! | |||
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"2 months is a short time,dont beat yourself up. Contact with the other probably isnt helpful,how do you know they have moved on? " I wanted to remain friends and i wanted to keep in touch , yes i know now I was setting myself up for pain, but i will try to move on . | |||
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"How do you do it? after 2mnths that person is still on ur mind. Even worse the person says they have moved on and is now seeing someone else" happend to me my friend, there is still an big empty hole there, but you learn to live with it. Every one says it will go in time, just do 1 day at a time, it does get a little better | |||
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"I must be a hard hearted bitch cause i seriously cant see the point wasting time on something that was in the past. " OOO you are hard, us blokes do have feelings you know, "If you prick us do we not bleed? If you tickle us do we not laugh? If you poison us do we not die? And if you wrong us, shall we not revenge?" | |||
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"I must be a hard hearted bitch cause i seriously cant see the point wasting time on something that was in the past. OOO you are hard, us blokes do have feelings you know, "If you prick us do we not bleed? If you tickle us do we not laugh? If you poison us do we not die? And if you wrong us, shall we not revenge?" " I must be hard, if its someone who has died or a marriage has ended i can fully understand. But if we all lived in the past where would we be? I just box my life into chapters. When one finishes i turn the page and start the next | |||
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"at the end of the day it is how you come out the other side that matters, minen made me stronger, and a little harder on the emotional front" It does, every experience in life does that. Thats what makes us who we are and i know that everyone has different ways of dealing with different difficult situations | |||
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"2 months is a short time,dont beat yourself up. Contact with the other probably isnt helpful,how do you know they have moved on? I wanted to remain friends and i wanted to keep in touch , yes i know now I was setting myself up for pain, but i will try to move on . " friends are people who share mutual goals and interests...right now you dont.Who knows in a few years you might be friends,but right now there is no need to be in that kind of contact.So long as the break wasnt nasty you can put her in the belongs in the past box and try to move on, | |||
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"for some reason you always think women get hurt a lot more when it comes to love as us men are always portrayed as ' dogs' lol. But let it be known us men do hurt, " i think,as you get older,you will realise men are far softer and more romantic than women. | |||
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"don't think you ever do get over a "true love". Your heart finds a place to keep them and allow you to live on eventually and then the memories become warm and honeysweet when you have accepted that." Totally agree with you there. If you consider that typically people outlive their parents. Their death doesn't change how you feel about them, you just have to accept they are not around anymore. And this is the thing when a partnership break-up is seemingly one sided, it might not change how you feel about the person but you have to accept they are not going to be a part of your life anymore (or at least not in the same way). So it tends not to be a 'get over it' thing, more of a 'learn to live with it', easy to say I know but it is a fact it does get better with time. | |||
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