FabSwingers.com forum: Turn Down Female Cheat?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If you were approached by a woman on here you found to be very physically attractive, ticked your boxes and was clearly into you from the off.

She makes clear that she wants to have casual sex but just before meeting let's you know she's cheating.

Would you guys go through with it?

Do us men have as much of a problem with this as many women seem to?

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By *ubiousOatcakeMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

It depends on the circumstances.

I lost my virginity to a girl who was truly cheating, in the sense that her boyfriend would have been angry/upset if he found out. I was too young / stupid / selfish to say ‘no’. But these days, I wouldn’t want to do that.

I have met women that are still technically married, but the relationship is over. That doesn’t feel like they are truly cheating.

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands

"If you were approached by a woman on here you found to be very physically attractive, ticked your boxes and was clearly into you from the off.

She makes clear that she wants to have casual sex but just before meeting let's you know she's cheating.

Would you guys go through with it?

Do us men have as much of a problem with this as many women seem to?"

It's always dependant on the situation, but as a general rule, no, I don't agree with cheating and won't take part in it. I think people that don't care about cheating have never been on the recieving end of a cheating partner, because if they had, they wouldn't want to put someone else through it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably wouldn't go through with it. Would feel for the bloke who would be cheated on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having been cheated on, I wouldn’t. Don’t want the other guy to feel what that’s like...or at least not by my hands anyway

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

Our profile states we won't meet one half of a couple unless we've all met previously and that applies to men and women equally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Probably wouldn't go through with it. Would feel for the bloke who would be cheated on."

I agree. If the shoe was on the other foot, I would feel awful. Doesn't seem fair to subject somebody to that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be put right off. I like a quiet life these days.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

At least she's been honest with you so you can make your choice.

I would though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sure. I'd be fine with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for me. I'd hate to be cheated on (regardless of circumstances) so I wouldn't dream of doing it to someone else.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I respect the responses on this thread but question whether they are representative of the truth for the majority on wider Fab.

The fact is that there are lots of cheating women openly and very successfully meeting. I have two good single female friends who are openly cheating on here, neither has EVER been turned down.

My experience and theirs is not consistent with the thread responses.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

It's good to see some have morals on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps it isn't representative of the whole, but you posted here and asked people what they would do, not what we think most other people would do

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Perhaps it isn't representative of the whole, but you posted here and asked people what they would do, not what we think most other people would do

I know what I posted and I did say that I respected the responses.

I also know that it is frowned upon by many of the more vocal forumites so many people would avoid posting an unpopular position.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like any self selecting survey the responses will be self selected to meet what may be perceived as the acceptable view....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's good to see some have morals on here."

Or are they lying?

Ooo dilemma of dilemmas

What's that phrase they sometimes use to talk about how people on social media will claim moral high ground because it's easily done when it's just text and hypotheticals? Value posturing? Something like that

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

No I wouldn’t. They should man up and have the conversation with their partner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I respect the responses on this thread but question whether they are representative of the truth for the majority on wider Fab.

The fact is that there are lots of cheating women openly and very successfully meeting. I have two good single female friends who are openly cheating on here, neither has EVER been turned down.

My experience and theirs is not consistent with the thread responses. "

I was cheated on, it was heart breaking and horrific. I wouldn't wish that on anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its there busines not mine so id dont have issue

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's good to see some have morals on here."

Morals?

Morals are just a generally accepted code of conduct or standard of behaviour. For many outside of this scene it would be extremely immoral to put naked pictures of oneself up on the public internet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No I wouldn’t. They should man up and have the conversation with their partner. "

I specifically directed the Op at female cheating, I may be wrong but believe it is a slightly different dynamic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Virtue signalling

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I respect the responses on this thread but question whether they are representative of the truth for the majority on wider Fab.

The fact is that there are lots of cheating women openly and very successfully meeting. I have two good single female friends who are openly cheating on here, neither has EVER been turned down.

My experience and theirs is not consistent with the thread responses.

I was cheated on, it was heart breaking and horrific. I wouldn't wish that on anyone. "

Is that the main reason you wouldn't because you've been on the receiving end?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't see many men that would genuinely turn down an NSA shag with an attached woman.

It's the perfect set up for them cos there's little to no risk of the female getting attached and can just fuck for the sake of fucking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No I wouldn’t. They should man up and have the conversation with their partner.

I specifically directed the Op at female cheating, I may be wrong but believe it is a slightly different dynamic."

Man up is a phrase she doesnt litteraly mean men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One of the crucial aspects of virtue signalling is that it does not require actually doing anything virtuous. It does not involve delivering lunches to elderly neighbours or staying together with a spouse for the sake of the children. It takes no effort or sacrifice at all"

This thread is an open goal for virtue signalling

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"No I wouldn’t. They should man up and have the conversation with their partner.

I specifically directed the Op at female cheating, I may be wrong but believe it is a slightly different dynamic.

Man up is a phrase she doesnt litteraly mean men

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"It's good to see some have morals on here.

Or are they lying?

Ooo dilemma of dilemmas

Yeah I didn't actually believe what I wrote in all honesty.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

A lot more men than women would in the end I believe. Some would say no in theory but then crack if they wanted them badly enough.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No I wouldn’t. They should man up and have the conversation with their partner.

I specifically directed the Op at female cheating, I may be wrong but believe it is a slightly different dynamic.

Man up is a phrase she doesnt litteraly mean men

That seems to assume that women cheat because they want to leave their partner, In my opinion that's rarely the case.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"It's good to see some have morals on here.

Morals?

Morals are just a generally accepted code of conduct or standard of behaviour. For many outside of this scene it would be extremely immoral to put naked pictures of oneself up on the public internet."

We're not talking about that though are we,we're talking about whether a man would meet a cheating woman.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A lot more men than women would in the end I believe. Some would say no in theory but then crack if they wanted them badly enough."

Whenever I've had this conversation around just men (and I have on many occasions) very few if any say no in theory. The only issue is usually the chances of being caught.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think if I was married and openly declared to men that I was playing around behind my husbands back I think I'd still have guys wanting to have sex with me. I just can't see a situation where I was going to meet a guy, having his cock and my hand and then saying by the way I'm married and he doesn't know about this, but will you still fuck me? Don't know how many men would pull their pants back up and leave.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I respect the responses on this thread but question whether they are representative of the truth for the majority on wider Fab.

The fact is that there are lots of cheating women openly and very successfully meeting. I have two good single female friends who are openly cheating on here, neither has EVER been turned down.

My experience and theirs is not consistent with the thread responses.

I was cheated on, it was heart breaking and horrific. I wouldn't wish that on anyone.

Is that the main reason you wouldn't because you've been on the receiving end?"

It is one of the reasons. A lot of people get hurt. I also believe it just isn't right, maybe I'm just old fashioned.

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"No I wouldn’t. They should man up and have the conversation with their partner.

I specifically directed the Op at female cheating, I may be wrong but believe it is a slightly different dynamic.

Man up is a phrase she doesnt litteraly mean men

That seems to assume that women cheat because they want to leave their partner, In my opinion that's rarely the case."

How did you equate it to that. I mean quite the opposite... tell your partner you want to (stay in the relationship and) swing. Not leave.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's good to see some have morals on here.

Morals?

Morals are just a generally accepted code of conduct or standard of behaviour. For many outside of this scene it would be extremely immoral to put naked pictures of oneself up on the public internet.

We're not talking about that though are we,we're talking about whether a man would meet a cheating woman."

You brought up morals, in fairness to you morals always come up in some way or other when this type of subject is debated.

Over a third of marriages in what we call the vanilla world has at least one partner who admits to having cheated. It's fair to assume many would never admit it!

No where near that many people would put naked pictures of themselves up on the public internet. Which is closer to being the actual 'standard of behaviour'.

People seem to reach for 'morals' only when it suits them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's good to see some have morals on here.

Morals?

Morals are just a generally accepted code of conduct or standard of behaviour. For many outside of this scene it would be extremely immoral to put naked pictures of oneself up on the public internet.

We're not talking about that though are we,we're talking about whether a man would meet a cheating woman.

You brought up morals, in fairness to you morals always come up in some way or other when this type of subject is debated.

Over a third of marriages in what we call the vanilla world has at least one partner who admits to having cheated. It's fair to assume many would never admit it!

No where near that many people would put naked pictures of themselves up on the public internet. Which is closer to being the actual 'standard of behaviour'.

People seem to reach for 'morals' only when it suits them.

Or perhaps select specific morals?

Every one knows the described scenario will never be approved of. But all sorts of things happen outside the socially accepted blueprint.

I think if people know they can get away with things, there's a lot they would do!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I respect the responses on this thread but question whether they are representative of the truth for the majority on wider Fab.

The fact is that there are lots of cheating women openly and very successfully meeting. I have two good single female friends who are openly cheating on here, neither has EVER been turned down.

My experience and theirs is not consistent with the thread responses. "

There are quite a few married men on here who are extremely popular both on the forums and as far as getting meets goes. I can't say they've never been turned down but I suspect the ratio of turned down men to turned down women is pretty high married or not.

When it comes down to it many people will make an exception if the married person is attractive and personable.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I respect the responses on this thread but question whether they are representative of the truth for the majority on wider Fab.

The fact is that there are lots of cheating women openly and very successfully meeting. I have two good single female friends who are openly cheating on here, neither has EVER been turned down.

My experience and theirs is not consistent with the thread responses.

When it comes down to it many people will make an exception if the married person is attractive and personable.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I've been on here a while now and never been turned down by a guy because I'm married.

When I first joined I used to get a lot of shitty messages....from women!!

If there's an attraction I think the majority of men would be happy to meet regardless of the woman's marital status. In some respects it's safer for them in that they know where they stand with each other from the word go.

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

I would probably go through with it, to say anything else would be hypocritical.

Whilst I understand those who say that if you had been cheated on you wouldn’t do it, I’ve learned that every situation is different and a black/white yes or no that’s decided beforehand isn’t always appropriate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been on here a while now and never been turned down by a guy because I'm married.

When I first joined I used to get a lot of shitty messages....from women!!

I do find it amusing that your personal status, becomes a bench Mark for judging you as an overall person .

Sending you crappy emails? Some people carry so much anger.

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

"If you were approached by a woman on here you found to be very physically attractive, ticked your boxes and was clearly into you from the off.

She makes clear that she wants to have casual sex but just before meeting let's you know she's cheating.

Would you guys go through with it?

Do us men have as much of a problem with this as many women seem to?"

I ask myself would i want someone to do it to me. If the answers no then i wouldn't do it. In this instance hell no. Cheating is cheating. End of.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've been on here a while now and never been turned down by a guy because I'm married.

When I first joined I used to get a lot of shitty messages....from women!!

Lots of guys who are after nsa casual sex find the scenario more attractive, much less likely that she'll start to put any other pressures on him other than sex.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've been on here a while now and never been turned down by a guy because I'm married.

When I first joined I used to get a lot of shitty messages....from women!!

I'm yet to hear of or from a woman on here who genuinely offered it out and the only reason she was turned down was because she was cheating.

Who knows, maybe there are some outliers.

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By *ig1gaz1Man
over a year ago

bradford

At the point she mentioned she was cheating id reply.

sorry id rather not mix into that field due to its repercussions.

though your welcome to have a chat anytime instead thats as far as it goes in my eyes.

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

I (mrs) play solo and wear my wedding ring and have yet been turned down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I (mrs) play solo and wear my wedding ring and have yet been turned down

Erm but that's with hubby's consent so that isn't cheating.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"It's good to see some have morals on here.

Morals?

Morals are just a generally accepted code of conduct or standard of behaviour. For many outside of this scene it would be extremely immoral to put naked pictures of oneself up on the public internet.

We're not talking about that though are we,we're talking about whether a man would meet a cheating woman.

You brought up morals, in fairness to you morals always come up in some way or other when this type of subject is debated.

Over a third of marriages in what we call the vanilla world has at least one partner who admits to having cheated. It's fair to assume many would never admit it!

No where near that many people would put naked pictures of themselves up on the public internet. Which is closer to being the actual 'standard of behaviour'.

People seem to reach for 'morals' only when it suits them.

I don't agree we're talking a completely different set of morals. Me taking my top of on here is hurting no-one,me screwing a married man behind his wife's back has the potential to crucify her.

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

My completely un evidenced view is that most men would fuck a woman who was attached if they fancied her and though there was little chance of her partner finding out.

I also think most men, on a public forum where they want to attract women, will say they wouldn't do it as they think most women won't approve.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think for both sexes it depends when it's disclosed too. I've known a few women who swore they would never meet a cheater but have because they have gotten to know them and the urge to meet is so strong.

I think men are more likely to continue talking to a woman who is open from the start whereas a lot more women would cut contact completely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I also think most men, on a public forum where they want to attract women, will say they wouldn't do it as they think most women won't approve. "

Or they could simply have integrity?

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Are we allowed to inject fact into this discussion or shall i give the socially desirable answer?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My completely un evidenced view is that most men would fuck a woman who was attached if they fancied her and though there was little chance of her partner finding out.

I also think most men, on a public forum where they want to attract women, will say they wouldn't do it as they think most women won't approve. "

‘Most’, what’s that as a percentage ?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm totally content that cheating is usually a good thing. I'd never want to cheat myself. But I think those who do are often either trying to prop up a good but sexless relationship or trying to escape a bad one. There are of course narcissists (see I'm a fast learner

) on both sides who do it just because they can. But they don't exist because they only comprise 48% of the cheating population... and what's good for brexit is good for everything else right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My completely un evidenced view is that most men would fuck a woman who was attached if they fancied her and though there was little chance of her partner finding out.

I also think most men, on a public forum where they want to attract women, will say they wouldn't do it as they think most women won't approve. "

Does this site have a "vote" function anywhere as it would be interesting to see what came back from it.

Personally speaking, fucking a married/attached woman isn't for me (and I've had offers from friends/acquaintances in the past) but I've no doubt I'm in a minority.

I also CBA lying on here in order to get into someone's knickers. I'll call a spade a spade and I've got too much self-respect to blow smoke up someone's arse in order to get my dick wet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's good to see some have morals on here.

Morals?

Morals are just a generally accepted code of conduct or standard of behaviour. For many outside of this scene it would be extremely immoral to put naked pictures of oneself up on the public internet.

We're not talking about that though are we,we're talking about whether a man would meet a cheating woman.

You brought up morals, in fairness to you morals always come up in some way or other when this type of subject is debated.

Over a third of marriages in what we call the vanilla world has at least one partner who admits to having cheated. It's fair to assume many would never admit it!

No where near that many people would put naked pictures of themselves up on the public internet. Which is closer to being the actual 'standard of behaviour'.

People seem to reach for 'morals' only when it suits them.

I don't agree we're talking a completely different set of morals. Me taking my top of on here is hurting no-one,me screwing a married man behind his wife's back has the potential to crucify her. "

That old selective morals chestnut, reminds me of Christians who supported slavery back in the day.

Taking your top off on here has the potential to inspire some men to cheat. That's one of the arguments some extreme conservatives have against porn.

I don't expect you to agree but at least you should consider acknowledging that you're basing your argument on selective morals that suit you.

Your behaviour on here would be deemed immoral by the overwhelming majority on the planet.

(Don't let it bother you though, mine would too!)

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

"I also think most men, on a public forum where they want to attract women, will say they wouldn't do it as they think most women won't approve.

Or they could simply have integrity?"

The people who are posting saying they wouldn't may well be telling the truth and the people who would are keeping a discrete silence.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My completely un evidenced view is that most men would fuck a woman who was attached if they fancied her and though there was little chance of her partner finding out.

I also think most men, on a public forum where they want to attract women, will say they wouldn't do it as they think most women won't approve. "

A sensible conclusion.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think for both sexes it depends when it's disclosed too. I've known a few women who swore they would never meet a cheater but have because they have gotten to know them and the urge to meet is so strong.

I think men are more likely to continue talking to a woman who is open from the start whereas a lot more women would cut contact completely. "

Why do you think that is?

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Men and women are biologically different. They behave differently and on average, cheat for different reasons. Therefore, to demand the application of the same standards just because it's the same act, is entirely consequentialist and i think an intentionalist perspective should also be factored in.

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

"Men and women are biologically different. They behave differently and on average, cheat for different reasons. Therefore, to demand the application of the same standards just because it's the same act, is entirely consequentialist and i think an intentionalist perspective should also be factored in. "

That's interesting. Does that theory apply to everything or just sexual acts?

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

That's interesting. Does that theory apply to everything or just sexual acts? "

It doesn't apply to everything. I wouldn't try to argue that it's less bad for a man to murder than a woman because he has more testosterone.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I also think most men, on a public forum where they want to attract women, will say they wouldn't do it as they think most women won't approve.

Or they could simply have integrity?"

We're yet to hear from a cheating woman who has been turned down.

I'm sure there might be one who comes along....dont hold your breath though!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Brilliant!

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

That's interesting. Does that theory apply to everything or just sexual acts?

It doesn't apply to everything. I wouldn't try to argue that it's less bad for a man to murder than a woman because he has more testosterone. "

So is it worse for a woman to commit a sex crime than a man given she has less testosterone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I also think most men, on a public forum where they want to attract women, will say they wouldn't do it as they think most women won't approve.

Or they could simply have integrity?

The people who are posting saying they wouldn't may well be telling the truth and the people who would are keeping a discrete silence. "

I can only answer for myself and the answer to the original question is no.

I personally couldn't, whether that's the right, wrong, or popular answer is irrelevant really as it is my honest answer.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Brilliant!"

I would suggest that some women act more like the majority of men and some men like the majority of women.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Brilliant!

I would suggest that some women act more like the majority of men and some men like the majority of women."

Some do, but we're talking about averages and groups. On average women will cheat for emotional reasons and men will cheat for reasons of lust / sexual frustration.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I also think most men, on a public forum where they want to attract women, will say they wouldn't do it as they think most women won't approve.

Or they could simply have integrity?

The people who are posting saying they wouldn't may well be telling the truth and the people who would are keeping a discrete silence.

I can only answer for myself and the answer to the original question is no.

I personally couldn't, whether that's the right, wrong, or popular answer is irrelevant really as it is my honest answer. "

That's good for you. I wouldn't want you to think I'm questioning your integrity.....or social conditioning.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

That's interesting. Does that theory apply to everything or just sexual acts?

It doesn't apply to everything. I wouldn't try to argue that it's less bad for a man to murder than a woman because he has more testosterone.

So is it worse for a woman to commit a sex crime than a man given she has less testosterone? "

I can't think of a sex crime a woman could commit on me that i wouldn't enjoy. Maybe it depends if she is attractive or not?

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"It's good to see some have morals on here.

Morals?

Morals are just a generally accepted code of conduct or standard of behaviour. For many outside of this scene it would be extremely immoral to put naked pictures of oneself up on the public internet.

We're not talking about that though are we,we're talking about whether a man would meet a cheating woman.

You brought up morals, in fairness to you morals always come up in some way or other when this type of subject is debated.

Over a third of marriages in what we call the vanilla world has at least one partner who admits to having cheated. It's fair to assume many would never admit it!

No where near that many people would put naked pictures of themselves up on the public internet. Which is closer to being the actual 'standard of behaviour'.

People seem to reach for 'morals' only when it suits them.

I don't agree we're talking a completely different set of morals. Me taking my top of on here is hurting no-one,me screwing a married man behind his wife's back has the potential to crucify her.

That old selective morals chestnut, reminds me of Christians who supported slavery back in the day.

Taking your top off on here has the potential to inspire some men to cheat. That's one of the arguments some extreme conservatives have against porn.

I don't expect you to agree but at least you should consider acknowledging that you're basing your argument on selective morals that suit you.

Your behaviour on here would be deemed immoral by the overwhelming majority on the planet.

(Don't let it bother you though, mine would too!)"

No still don't agree and your second paragraph insinuates men are feeble little creatures that can't control themselves. I better put my photo's away incase I'm attacked,but it wouldn't be the man's fault it would be mine for showing some skin.

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over a year ago

Brilliant!

I would suggest that some women act more like the majority of men and some men like the majority of women.

Some do, but we're talking about averages and groups. On average women will cheat for emotional reasons and men will cheat for reasons of lust / sexual frustration. "

I think very little with regards to men is to do with sexual frustration, more is opportunity and lust.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"It's good to see some have morals on here.

Morals?

Morals are just a generally accepted code of conduct or standard of behaviour. For many outside of this scene it would be extremely immoral to put naked pictures of oneself up on the public internet.

We're not talking about that though are we,we're talking about whether a man would meet a cheating woman.

You brought up morals, in fairness to you morals always come up in some way or other when this type of subject is debated.

Over a third of marriages in what we call the vanilla world has at least one partner who admits to having cheated. It's fair to assume many would never admit it!

No where near that many people would put naked pictures of themselves up on the public internet. Which is closer to being the actual 'standard of behaviour'.

People seem to reach for 'morals' only when it suits them.

I don't agree we're talking a completely different set of morals. Me taking my top of on here is hurting no-one,me screwing a married man behind his wife's back has the potential to crucify her.

That old selective morals chestnut, reminds me of Christians who supported slavery back in the day.

Taking your top off on here has the potential to inspire some men to cheat. That's one of the arguments some extreme conservatives have against porn.

I don't expect you to agree but at least you should consider acknowledging that you're basing your argument on selective morals that suit you.

Your behaviour on here would be deemed immoral by the overwhelming majority on the planet.

(Don't let it bother you though, mine would too!)

We're better at controlling ourselves if we've recently ejaculated

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

"It's good to see some have morals on here.

Morals?

Morals are just a generally accepted code of conduct or standard of behaviour. For many outside of this scene it would be extremely immoral to put naked pictures of oneself up on the public internet.

We're not talking about that though are we,we're talking about whether a man would meet a cheating woman.

You brought up morals, in fairness to you morals always come up in some way or other when this type of subject is debated.

Over a third of marriages in what we call the vanilla world has at least one partner who admits to having cheated. It's fair to assume many would never admit it!

No where near that many people would put naked pictures of themselves up on the public internet. Which is closer to being the actual 'standard of behaviour'.

People seem to reach for 'morals' only when it suits them.

I don't agree we're talking a completely different set of morals. Me taking my top of on here is hurting no-one,me screwing a married man behind his wife's back has the potential to crucify her.

That old selective morals chestnut, reminds me of Christians who supported slavery back in the day.

Taking your top off on here has the potential to inspire some men to cheat. That's one of the arguments some extreme conservatives have against porn.

I don't expect you to agree but at least you should consider acknowledging that you're basing your argument on selective morals that suit you.

Your behaviour on here would be deemed immoral by the overwhelming majority on the planet.

(Don't let it bother you though, mine would too!)

His point is that all morality is relative and socially conditioned and that in some periods and in some societies a woman posting nudie pics would be viewed as morally worse than a man fucking a willing married woman.

Obviously in the UK in 2018 not many people think that.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Brilliant!

I would suggest that some women act more like the majority of men and some men like the majority of women.

Some do, but we're talking about averages and groups. On average women will cheat for emotional reasons and men will cheat for reasons of lust / sexual frustration.

I think very little with regards to men is to do with sexual frustration, more is opportunity and lust."

Half of married couples have sex less than 10 times a year...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A moral dilemma, this is not related to single married profiles but if a man is on here because let’s face it, he’s either bored at home of the same thing or not getting any, is that not cheating. The lady said she was cheating from the off, at least she was upfront, did she give a reason?

Then their is the women, who are married, from the bored housewife to the sexslut, are they cheating? Most people do the things they do for various reasons who are we to judge.

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over a year ago

"It's good to see some have morals on here.

Morals?

Morals are just a generally accepted code of conduct or standard of behaviour. For many outside of this scene it would be extremely immoral to put naked pictures of oneself up on the public internet.

We're not talking about that though are we,we're talking about whether a man would meet a cheating woman.

You brought up morals, in fairness to you morals always come up in some way or other when this type of subject is debated.

Over a third of marriages in what we call the vanilla world has at least one partner who admits to having cheated. It's fair to assume many would never admit it!

No where near that many people would put naked pictures of themselves up on the public internet. Which is closer to being the actual 'standard of behaviour'.

People seem to reach for 'morals' only when it suits them.

I don't agree we're talking a completely different set of morals. Me taking my top of on here is hurting no-one,me screwing a married man behind his wife's back has the potential to crucify her.

That old selective morals chestnut, reminds me of Christians who supported slavery back in the day.

Taking your top off on here has the potential to inspire some men to cheat. That's one of the arguments some extreme conservatives have against porn.

I don't expect you to agree but at least you should consider acknowledging that you're basing your argument on selective morals that suit you.

Your behaviour on here would be deemed immoral by the overwhelming majority on the planet.

(Don't let it bother you though, mine would too!)

Some people blame the mini skirt for male sexual assault, fact.

It's just an example of selective morals.

I'm not asking you to agree with the wider point, but can't you see that you are being selective in your morals?

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over a year ago

Brilliant!

I would suggest that some women act more like the majority of men and some men like the majority of women.

Some do, but we're talking about averages and groups. On average women will cheat for emotional reasons and men will cheat for reasons of lust / sexual frustration. "

Don't they say women cheat to leave relationships whilst men cheat to try maintaining them

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over a year ago

Brilliant!

I would suggest that some women act more like the majority of men and some men like the majority of women.

Some do, but we're talking about averages and groups. On average women will cheat for emotional reasons and men will cheat for reasons of lust / sexual frustration.

I think very little with regards to men is to do with sexual frustration, more is opportunity and lust."

You dont think sexual frustration for men plays any part

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You dont think sexual frustration for men plays any part"

Wow!

I'd love to know what you think does play a part

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t concern me, I’m smashing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Brilliant!

I would suggest that some women act more like the majority of men and some men like the majority of women.

Some do, but we're talking about averages and groups. On average women will cheat for emotional reasons and men will cheat for reasons of lust / sexual frustration.

I think very little with regards to men is to do with sexual frustration, more is opportunity and lust.

You dont think sexual frustration for men plays any part"

Some but not as much as many claim though.

Opportunity is the biggest reason men actually go through with cheating in my opinion.

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over a year ago

Brilliant!

I would suggest that some women act more like the majority of men and some men like the majority of women.

Some do, but we're talking about averages and groups. On average women will cheat for emotional reasons and men will cheat for reasons of lust / sexual frustration.

I think very little with regards to men is to do with sexual frustration, more is opportunity and lust.

You dont think sexual frustration for men plays any part

Some but not as much as many claim though.

Opportunity is the biggest reason men actually go through with cheating in my opinion."

That and maybe because it's forbidden fruit?

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over a year ago

Brilliant!

I would suggest that some women act more like the majority of men and some men like the majority of women.

Some do, but we're talking about averages and groups. On average women will cheat for emotional reasons and men will cheat for reasons of lust / sexual frustration.

I think very little with regards to men is to do with sexual frustration, more is opportunity and lust.

You dont think sexual frustration for men plays any part

Some but not as much as many claim though.

Opportunity is the biggest reason men actually go through with cheating in my opinion.

That and maybe because it's forbidden fruit? "

Why are so many people attracted to forbidden fruit?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah fuck her and let her live with the guilt

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over a year ago

Most men would go through with it .

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"It's good to see some have morals on here.

Morals?

Morals are just a generally accepted code of conduct or standard of behaviour. For many outside of this scene it would be extremely immoral to put naked pictures of oneself up on the public internet.

We're not talking about that though are we,we're talking about whether a man would meet a cheating woman.

You brought up morals, in fairness to you morals always come up in some way or other when this type of subject is debated.

Over a third of marriages in what we call the vanilla world has at least one partner who admits to having cheated. It's fair to assume many would never admit it!

No where near that many people would put naked pictures of themselves up on the public internet. Which is closer to being the actual 'standard of behaviour'.

People seem to reach for 'morals' only when it suits them.

I don't agree we're talking a completely different set of morals. Me taking my top of on here is hurting no-one,me screwing a married man behind his wife's back has the potential to crucify her.

That old selective morals chestnut, reminds me of Christians who supported slavery back in the day.

Taking your top off on here has the potential to inspire some men to cheat. That's one of the arguments some extreme conservatives have against porn.

I don't expect you to agree but at least you should consider acknowledging that you're basing your argument on selective morals that suit you.

Your behaviour on here would be deemed immoral by the overwhelming majority on the planet.

(Don't let it bother you though, mine would too!)

Some people blame the mini skirt for male sexual assault, fact.

It's just an example of selective morals.

I'm not asking you to agree with the wider point, but can't you see that you are being selective in your morals?"

No. I don't think getting my kit off on a sex site is morally wrong.

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over a year ago

Brilliant!

I would suggest that some women act more like the majority of men and some men like the majority of women.

Some do, but we're talking about averages and groups. On average women will cheat for emotional reasons and men will cheat for reasons of lust / sexual frustration.

I think very little with regards to men is to do with sexual frustration, more is opportunity and lust.

You dont think sexual frustration for men plays any part

Some but not as much as many claim though.

Opportunity is the biggest reason men actually go through with cheating in my opinion.

That and maybe because it's forbidden fruit?

Why are so many people attracted to forbidden fruit? "

No idea, I could understand jammie dodgers and Yorkshire tea though!

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

"It's good to see some have morals on here.

Morals?

Morals are just a generally accepted code of conduct or standard of behaviour. For many outside of this scene it would be extremely immoral to put naked pictures of oneself up on the public internet.

We're not talking about that though are we,we're talking about whether a man would meet a cheating woman.

You brought up morals, in fairness to you morals always come up in some way or other when this type of subject is debated.

Over a third of marriages in what we call the vanilla world has at least one partner who admits to having cheated. It's fair to assume many would never admit it!

No where near that many people would put naked pictures of themselves up on the public internet. Which is closer to being the actual 'standard of behaviour'.

People seem to reach for 'morals' only when it suits them.

I don't agree we're talking a completely different set of morals. Me taking my top of on here is hurting no-one,me screwing a married man behind his wife's back has the potential to crucify her.

That old selective morals chestnut, reminds me of Christians who supported slavery back in the day.

Taking your top off on here has the potential to inspire some men to cheat. That's one of the arguments some extreme conservatives have against porn.

I don't expect you to agree but at least you should consider acknowledging that you're basing your argument on selective morals that suit you.

Your behaviour on here would be deemed immoral by the overwhelming majority on the planet.

(Don't let it bother you though, mine would too!)

Some people blame the mini skirt for male sexual assault, fact.

It's just an example of selective morals.

I'm not asking you to agree with the wider point, but can't you see that you are being selective in your morals?

No. I don't think getting my kit off on a sex site is morally wrong."

It should be compulsory!

I thought swingers were free thinkers. I don’t like the word cheat / cheaters. If we were attracted to each other then no morals involved. I can’t believe that a French swingers (Libertines) site would ever have this debate.

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over a year ago

Brilliant!

I would suggest that some women act more like the majority of men and some men like the majority of women.

Some do, but we're talking about averages and groups. On average women will cheat for emotional reasons and men will cheat for reasons of lust / sexual frustration.

I think very little with regards to men is to do with sexual frustration, more is opportunity and lust.

You dont think sexual frustration for men plays any part

Some but not as much as many claim though.

Opportunity is the biggest reason men actually go through with cheating in my opinion."

So is that saying men have little to no self control? Even if they were having sex 10 times a day in the perfect marriage,they would still sleep with whoever threw themselves at their feet. Im not convinced personally.

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over a year ago

"It's good to see some have morals on here.

Morals?

Morals are just a generally accepted code of conduct or standard of behaviour. For many outside of this scene it would be extremely immoral to put naked pictures of oneself up on the public internet.

We're not talking about that though are we,we're talking about whether a man would meet a cheating woman.

You brought up morals, in fairness to you morals always come up in some way or other when this type of subject is debated.

Over a third of marriages in what we call the vanilla world has at least one partner who admits to having cheated. It's fair to assume many would never admit it!

No where near that many people would put naked pictures of themselves up on the public internet. Which is closer to being the actual 'standard of behaviour'.

People seem to reach for 'morals' only when it suits them.

I don't agree we're talking a completely different set of morals. Me taking my top of on here is hurting no-one,me screwing a married man behind his wife's back has the potential to crucify her.

That old selective morals chestnut, reminds me of Christians who supported slavery back in the day.

Taking your top off on here has the potential to inspire some men to cheat. That's one of the arguments some extreme conservatives have against porn.

I don't expect you to agree but at least you should consider acknowledging that you're basing your argument on selective morals that suit you.

Your behaviour on here would be deemed immoral by the overwhelming majority on the planet.

(Don't let it bother you though, mine would too!)

Some people blame the mini skirt for male sexual assault, fact.

It's just an example of selective morals.

I'm not asking you to agree with the wider point, but can't you see that you are being selective in your morals?

No. I don't think getting my kit off on a sex site is morally wrong."

Of course you don't, I don't either but you must see that others do. Surely?

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"It's good to see some have morals on here.

Morals?

Morals are just a generally accepted code of conduct or standard of behaviour. For many outside of this scene it would be extremely immoral to put naked pictures of oneself up on the public internet.

We're not talking about that though are we,we're talking about whether a man would meet a cheating woman.

You brought up morals, in fairness to you morals always come up in some way or other when this type of subject is debated.

Over a third of marriages in what we call the vanilla world has at least one partner who admits to having cheated. It's fair to assume many would never admit it!

No where near that many people would put naked pictures of themselves up on the public internet. Which is closer to being the actual 'standard of behaviour'.

People seem to reach for 'morals' only when it suits them.

I don't agree we're talking a completely different set of morals. Me taking my top of on here is hurting no-one,me screwing a married man behind his wife's back has the potential to crucify her.

That old selective morals chestnut, reminds me of Christians who supported slavery back in the day.

Taking your top off on here has the potential to inspire some men to cheat. That's one of the arguments some extreme conservatives have against porn.

I don't expect you to agree but at least you should consider acknowledging that you're basing your argument on selective morals that suit you.

Your behaviour on here would be deemed immoral by the overwhelming majority on the planet.

(Don't let it bother you though, mine would too!)

Some people blame the mini skirt for male sexual assault, fact.

It's just an example of selective morals.

I'm not asking you to agree with the wider point, but can't you see that you are being selective in your morals?

No. I don't think getting my kit off on a sex site is morally wrong.

It should be compulsory!

Why don't you like the word cheat/cheaters? If someone is having sex without a partners consent then they are cheaters. What do you call them? Do you believe if people are on here they should be free thinking and have sex with a cheat?

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over a year ago

"It's good to see some have morals on here.

Morals?

Morals are just a generally accepted code of conduct or standard of behaviour. For many outside of this scene it would be extremely immoral to put naked pictures of oneself up on the public internet.

We're not talking about that though are we,we're talking about whether a man would meet a cheating woman.

You brought up morals, in fairness to you morals always come up in some way or other when this type of subject is debated.

Over a third of marriages in what we call the vanilla world has at least one partner who admits to having cheated. It's fair to assume many would never admit it!

No where near that many people would put naked pictures of themselves up on the public internet. Which is closer to being the actual 'standard of behaviour'.

People seem to reach for 'morals' only when it suits them.

I don't agree we're talking a completely different set of morals. Me taking my top of on here is hurting no-one,me screwing a married man behind his wife's back has the potential to crucify her.

That old selective morals chestnut, reminds me of Christians who supported slavery back in the day.

Taking your top off on here has the potential to inspire some men to cheat. That's one of the arguments some extreme conservatives have against porn.

I don't expect you to agree but at least you should consider acknowledging that you're basing your argument on selective morals that suit you.

Your behaviour on here would be deemed immoral by the overwhelming majority on the planet.

(Don't let it bother you though, mine would too!)

Some people blame the mini skirt for male sexual assault, fact.

It's just an example of selective morals.

I'm not asking you to agree with the wider point, but can't you see that you are being selective in your morals?

No. I don't think getting my kit off on a sex site is morally wrong.

It should be compulsory!

Call me what you like hunny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d happily meet her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’d happily meet her"

Yeah is she fit mmf

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

"It's good to see some have morals on here.

Morals?

Morals are just a generally accepted code of conduct or standard of behaviour. For many outside of this scene it would be extremely immoral to put naked pictures of oneself up on the public internet.

We're not talking about that though are we,we're talking about whether a man would meet a cheating woman.

You brought up morals, in fairness to you morals always come up in some way or other when this type of subject is debated.

Over a third of marriages in what we call the vanilla world has at least one partner who admits to having cheated. It's fair to assume many would never admit it!

No where near that many people would put naked pictures of themselves up on the public internet. Which is closer to being the actual 'standard of behaviour'.

People seem to reach for 'morals' only when it suits them.

I don't agree we're talking a completely different set of morals. Me taking my top of on here is hurting no-one,me screwing a married man behind his wife's back has the potential to crucify her.

That old selective morals chestnut, reminds me of Christians who supported slavery back in the day.

Taking your top off on here has the potential to inspire some men to cheat. That's one of the arguments some extreme conservatives have against porn.

I don't expect you to agree but at least you should consider acknowledging that you're basing your argument on selective morals that suit you.

Your behaviour on here would be deemed immoral by the overwhelming majority on the planet.

(Don't let it bother you though, mine would too!)

Some people blame the mini skirt for male sexual assault, fact.

It's just an example of selective morals.

I'm not asking you to agree with the wider point, but can't you see that you are being selective in your morals?

No. I don't think getting my kit off on a sex site is morally wrong.

It should be compulsory!

I can understand the partner involved classing it as cheating if they find out as its personal to them. For others to judge just seems harsh to me. Its nothing new of course and will always occur. I prefer ‘lovers’.

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

"It's good to see some have morals on here.

Morals?

Morals are just a generally accepted code of conduct or standard of behaviour. For many outside of this scene it would be extremely immoral to put naked pictures of oneself up on the public internet.

We're not talking about that though are we,we're talking about whether a man would meet a cheating woman.

You brought up morals, in fairness to you morals always come up in some way or other when this type of subject is debated.

Over a third of marriages in what we call the vanilla world has at least one partner who admits to having cheated. It's fair to assume many would never admit it!

No where near that many people would put naked pictures of themselves up on the public internet. Which is closer to being the actual 'standard of behaviour'.

People seem to reach for 'morals' only when it suits them.

I don't agree we're talking a completely different set of morals. Me taking my top of on here is hurting no-one,me screwing a married man behind his wife's back has the potential to crucify her.

That old selective morals chestnut, reminds me of Christians who supported slavery back in the day.

Taking your top off on here has the potential to inspire some men to cheat. That's one of the arguments some extreme conservatives have against porn.

I don't expect you to agree but at least you should consider acknowledging that you're basing your argument on selective morals that suit you.

Your behaviour on here would be deemed immoral by the overwhelming majority on the planet.

(Don't let it bother you though, mine would too!)

Some people blame the mini skirt for male sexual assault, fact.

It's just an example of selective morals.

I'm not asking you to agree with the wider point, but can't you see that you are being selective in your morals?

No. I don't think getting my kit off on a sex site is morally wrong.

It should be compulsory!

If everyone is a free thinker than everyone would be telling their partners they want to have sex with other people, in which case there is no cheating involved.

If people are on here behind their partners back then they are not free thinkers.

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over a year ago

Is she fit though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv always said I never would as my ex did it to me while 8 months pregnant with his child and again shortly after she was born but met someone a few times, then found out he was married with children so ended it but here I am now meeting a guy who is married (no family involved) but I’ve known him 8 years and it suits me better because he’s not needy etc I have a busy life myself call me selfish but it suits me so my morals went out of the window! Every situation is different....

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

"I respect the responses on this thread but question whether they are representative of the truth for the majority on wider Fab.

The fact is that there are lots of cheating women openly and very successfully meeting. I have two good single female friends who are openly cheating on here, neither has EVER been turned down.

My experience and theirs is not consistent with the thread responses. "

Maybe your female friends read peoples profiles and don't bother messaging them when they say they won't meet cheats whereas most guys don't give a fuck and spam out a message regardless of what the profile says.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

"I respect the responses on this thread but question whether they are representative of the truth for the majority on wider Fab.

The fact is that there are lots of cheating women openly and very successfully meeting. I have two good single female friends who are openly cheating on here, neither has EVER been turned down.

My experience and theirs is not consistent with the thread responses.

This is a very good point

I have that I don't meet people playing away on my profile and still get winks and messages from married men.Most haven't read it ,but some have and still try .

Same as it's usually a married man who starts a moaning thread about not getting meets ,rarely seen a women start one.

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over a year ago

"I respect the responses on this thread but question whether they are representative of the truth for the majority on wider Fab.

The fact is that there are lots of cheating women openly and very successfully meeting. I have two good single female friends who are openly cheating on here, neither has EVER been turned down.

My experience and theirs is not consistent with the thread responses.

This is a very good point

I have that I don't meet people playing away on my profile and still get winks and messages from married men.Most haven't read it ,but some have and still try .

Same as it's usually a married man who starts a moaning thread about not getting meets ,rarely seen a women start one."

Are you two really suggesting female cheats are better in some way than male cheats?

C'mon, get real.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

"I respect the responses on this thread but question whether they are representative of the truth for the majority on wider Fab.

The fact is that there are lots of cheating women openly and very successfully meeting. I have two good single female friends who are openly cheating on here, neither has EVER been turned down.

My experience and theirs is not consistent with the thread responses.

This is a very good point

I have that I don't meet people playing away on my profile and still get winks and messages from married men.Most haven't read it ,but some have and still try .

Same as it's usually a married man who starts a moaning thread about not getting meets ,rarely seen a women start one.

Are you two really suggesting female cheats are better in some way than male cheats?

C'mon, get real."

Not better no

Just go about things differently maybe.

A cheat is a cheat regardless of sex.If I was bi sexual ,iwouldn't meet a married woman either

However some married men do badger women who don't want to meet them,do will get turned down alot.

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

"I respect the responses on this thread but question whether they are representative of the truth for the majority on wider Fab.

The fact is that there are lots of cheating women openly and very successfully meeting. I have two good single female friends who are openly cheating on here, neither has EVER been turned down.

My experience and theirs is not consistent with the thread responses.

This is a very good point

I have that I don't meet people playing away on my profile and still get winks and messages from married men.Most haven't read it ,but some have and still try .

Same as it's usually a married man who starts a moaning thread about not getting meets ,rarely seen a women start one.

Are you two really suggesting female cheats are better in some way than male cheats?

C'mon, get real."

Where did I say that? I said that cheating women are less likely to be turned down by people who won't meet cheaters because they read the profile first and don't bother sending the message in the first place. We get lots of messages from lots of different people but we've never had a message from a married female looking to play with us. On the other hand, we get loads of messages from Fabsingle guys (and Fabstraight guys too) that have blatantly ignored what we've written in our profile, or just not bothered to read it in the first place.

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By *oloandsaabWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"It's good to see some have morals on here."

Haha Yes, until it's offered to them on a plate, an erect penis has no conscience so they say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Live and let live no one is perfect, unless you know otherwise?

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

"It's good to see some have morals on here.

Haha Yes, until it's offered to them on a plate, an erect penis has no conscience so they say"

That's not always the case though as it's me (LB) that made the no cheats rule as P would fuck anyone she found attractive whether they're married or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never get asked my marital status by anyone who wants to fuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've turned down a cheating woman for the same reasons we've turned down cheating men and cheating couples, they generally can't meet when we can, generally want us to accomodate to enable their cheating, can't meet somewhere public the first time, and have only very limited time...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It depends on the circumstances.

I have met women that are still technically married, but the relationship is over. That doesn’t feel like they are truly cheating."

Generally, I think men have less of an issue with it than women or couples.

If you read threads about men cheating despite their marriage being technically over, you will see much stronger negative responses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think if I was married and openly declared to men that I was playing around behind my husbands back I think I'd still have guys wanting to have sex with me. I just can't see a situation where I was going to meet a guy, having his cock and my hand and then saying by the way I'm married and he doesn't know about this, but will you still fuck me? Don't know how many men would pull their pants back up and leave. "

I know how many would - none.

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