FabSwingers.com forum: No meets for us younger guys?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Find it hard as a young guy to find meets, I understand that a lot of people have children but even the younger girls go for older guys so tricky one?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience is the key lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We see a lot of younger guys on the Forum posting similar things.

Two things we often see are; usually the profile doesn't represent much of an effort, and also they seem to like to post lots of cock photos on their profile.

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By *arkstaffsMan
over a year ago

Rugeley

I'd have thought young fit guys would be in some demand. Try being over 45 and unfit! Seriously though, it just takes time.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Then you get the men who say nobody wants them now they're 45 or 50.

It is about age to an extent but it's also about effort and input.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Listen kiddo, you're young. The same advice will still stand as the last thread you started about not getting many meets. You said 17 weeks ago that's you'd had 2.

Maybe you could try getting out in the physical world rather than the virtual one.

Get yourself to organised social events if you want to be in the swinging lifestyle. If it's just a fuck you want, it seems that tinder and POF are probably gonna be better.

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

Do none of the folk on your friends list wish to meet you ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Listen kiddo, you're young. The same advice will still stand as the last thread you started about not getting many meets. You said 17 weeks ago that's you'd had 2.

Maybe you could try getting out in the physical world rather than the virtual one.

Get yourself to organised social events if you want to be in the swinging lifestyle. If it's just a fuck you want, it seems that tinder and POF are probably gonna be better."

^^ this ^^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not hard, it's just women want a profile with some actual effort put in.

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By *astings SocialWoman
over a year ago

Hastings

Go to some organised socials and show you understand the concept behind swinging.

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By *rs Myvanwy Scarlet-BlackTV/TS
over a year ago

hot wife

"Go to some organised socials and show you understand the concept behind swinging."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you have a profile that shows a bit of effort and your messages show you are able to hold decent conversation then you shouldn't have too much problems!

If you put in the effort you reap the rewards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I struggle too my friend

#youknowwhoyouare

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I struggle too my friend

#youknowwhoyouare"

Pffft behave! You don't struggle at all. I'd smother you with my boobies in a heartbeat

xxx(•)(•)ooxo

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

As I said on your other threads, your age will be a huge factor to a lot of people.

A lot of us have children older than you.

I personally have no desire to meet anyone born in the same decade as my own kids.

Your profile is also your shop window, little text & a gallery of identical cock shots really isn't going to spark much interest either.

There are however some great social events in your area.. Try going along & saying hello to people, I have met people at events, who turned out to be great but I'd have passed them by if I'd recieved a message on here due to their profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I struggle too my friend

#youknowwhoyouare

Pffft behave! You don't struggle at all. I'd smother you with my boobies in a heartbeat

xxx(•)(•)ooxo"

I'm feeling awful left out now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I struggle too my friend

#youknowwhoyouare

Pffft behave! You don't struggle at all. I'd smother you with my boobies in a heartbeat

xxx(•)(•)ooxo"

Loved the boobies hug

Xox( o )|*|( o )xoxO

Tit wank hug

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

"We see a lot of younger guys on the Forum posting similar things.

Two things we often see are; usually the profile doesn't represent much of an effort, and also they seem to like to post lots of cock photos on their profile.

This

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By *parkle13Woman
over a year ago

Dundee

Most young guys are just in it for themselfs .a quick wham bam and that's it ...a lot of older woman like a bit experience. Even tho you look good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My two pence worth, to give you an idea of why young men struggle.

Just had a message from a 25 year old guy who opened with, "I'd love to fuck and eat your Mrs pussy, she is talent".

If you can't see what's wrong with that approach, maybe you shouldn't be on here.

We're also not looking for single guys, but did this genius bother to look first? Nope.

Try being patient, polite and interesting fellas. For some reason women like that, or so I herd...

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By *ayMyName123Man
over a year ago

Barnsley

"I struggle too my friend

#youknowwhoyouare

Pffft behave! You don't struggle at all. I'd smother you with my boobies in a heartbeat

xxx(•)(•)ooxo"

If grab this chance with both hands mate ! Set it in stone . I get meets as a young guy ... I’d say I’m not your stereotypical young lad though I’m quite mature for my age and have great manners polite and respectful think this helps

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By *orningtonCroissantMan
over a year ago

notts and humberside

You have had some great advice in here, although I suspect maybe not the offer you were expecting? Thing is no one likes to be generalised or treated as an object, so chat to people, be charming and true and then someone who likes you for you will chat back and maybe meet. Don’t sweat if

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By *orningtonCroissantMan
over a year ago

notts and humberside

"My two pence worth, to give you an idea of why young men struggle.

Just had a message from a 25 year old guy who opened with, "I'd love to fuck and eat your Mrs pussy, she is talent".

If you can't see what's wrong with that approach, maybe you shouldn't be on here.

Well said!

We're also not looking for single guys, but did this genius bother to look first? Nope.

Try being patient, polite and interesting fellas. For some reason women like that, or so I herd..."

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

"Patience is the key lol"

You know he's been here over a year lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bagging an older woman is a piece of piss. Just tell them you're hungry so their maternal instincts kick in and they'll invite you round for tea.

Easy

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

"Find it hard as a young guy to find meets, I understand that a lot of people have children but even the younger girls go for older guys so tricky one?"

Hook.with another guy and get to clubs,socials. I did that for about a year and then once people get to know you then you're good to go. Since then I've never had any problem and even got myself a gf to do it with. If you want you can come out with us. Pm me and we can chat more. Just an option mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are cougars and cubs events at eurekas and DV8 which are just over an hour's drive from Brighton and full of women who love a younger guy - go check them out. Or come to the next Sussex Social in Hove - very few single guys show up and it's mainly single women and couples.

And yeah, the profile needs some work!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try to act unattainable

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"We see a lot of younger guys on the Forum posting similar things.

Two things we often see are; usually the profile doesn't represent much of an effort, and also they seem to like to post lots of cock photos on their profile.

I see what you did there. ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s hard for anyone, regardless of age or gender, if they appear lazy from their profile.

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By *apstarMan
over a year ago

Harpenden

"It’s hard for anyone, regardless of age or gender, if they appear lazy from their profile. "

That's me out then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Patience is the key lol

You know he's been here over a year lol"
I didnt see that, but yes, good patience there lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s hard for anyone, regardless of age or gender, if they appear lazy from their profile.

That's me out then "

Yep.

We saw your profile earlier before you hid it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Treat your profile like it's a Facebook profile rather than a sex profile. Get your personality across rather than just "DICK! DICK! SEX! DICK!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I struggle too my friend

#youknowwhoyouare

Pffft behave! You don't struggle at all. I'd smother you with my boobies in a heartbeat

xxx(•)(•)ooxo

Loved the boobies hug

Xox( o )|*|( o )xoxO

Tit wank hug "

I would suffocate you with mine. Death by Nutella covered boobs!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Patience is the key lol"

Yup

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It's easy for the right younger guys to meet with me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel ya man. Been turned away purely because of age too many times to remember

It's fine though, the average age on here is pretty high

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

"Listen kiddo, you're young. The same advice will still stand as the last thread you started about not getting many meets. You said 17 weeks ago that's you'd had 2.

Maybe you could try getting out in the physical world rather than the virtual one.

Get yourself to organised social events if you want to be in the swinging lifestyle. If it's just a fuck you want, it seems that tinder and POF are probably gonna be better.

^^ this ^^

This will do you more good than harm, it will get you noticed by people. They will be able to see what sort of a person you are, you might get a lot of meets from it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, change your age to 40 for a week and then see what response you get.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It often has nothing to do with age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Listen kiddo, you're young. The same advice will still stand as the last thread you started about not getting many meets. You said 17 weeks ago that's you'd had 2.

Maybe you could try getting out in the physical world rather than the virtual one.

Get yourself to organised social events if you want to be in the swinging lifestyle. If it's just a fuck you want, it seems that tinder and POF are probably gonna be better."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We see a lot of younger guys on the Forum posting similar things.

Two things we often see are; usually the profile doesn't represent much of an effort, and also they seem to like to post lots of cock photos on their profile.

This"

This again!

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