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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When does an adventurous sex life and high sex drive, cross over into what some may believe as "seedy or perverted "?

Many see this lifestyle as liberated, but is there a fine line?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

When one's attitude alters.

I think the word perverted is overused but seedy does describe the attitude some people have to sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it depends on the person thinking about it. (Does that make sense?!)

To one person, sex with the lights on would be perverted. To another person, having sex with 10 strangers a night is hot as fuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I also think it’s about what both parties involved would like...

If your both thinking the same and want the same then I don’t see it being perverted... different people have different likes and wants and kinks... it’s how you go about enjoying those and if it’s done in a respectful way..

Agree with the above about attitude as well!

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By *ighland gentlemanMan
over a year ago

Ardgay

Kinky is using a feather.

Perverted is using the whole chicken!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When one's attitude alters.

I think the word perverted is overused but seedy does describe the attitude some people have to sex.

"

I guess my thoughts are that when it becomes controlling or manipulative in order to satisfy an urge, or if the urge is controlling you, then perhaps it's become something other than fun liberated sex?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"When one's attitude alters.

I think the word perverted is overused but seedy does describe the attitude some people have to sex.

I guess my thoughts are that when it becomes controlling or manipulative in order to satisfy an urge, or if the urge is controlling you, then perhaps it's become something other than fun liberated sex?"

I wouldn't describe that as perverted or seedy, one I'd describe as abuse and the other as addiction.

I'm not sure that anything legal is perverted although lots of people would argue with that .

Seedy to me is difficult to define. It carries a whiff of backstreets, scruffy interiors, dimly lit rooms with world weary women catering to pathetic old men in raincoats with grimy hands who get their rocks off with a grunt and head out into the rainy night.

I really must stop going there lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When one's attitude alters.

I think the word perverted is overused but seedy does describe the attitude some people have to sex.

I guess my thoughts are that when it becomes controlling or manipulative in order to satisfy an urge, or if the urge is controlling you, then perhaps it's become something other than fun liberated sex?

I wouldn't describe that as perverted or seedy, one I'd describe as abuse and the other as addiction.

I'm not sure that anything legal is perverted although lots of people would argue with that .

Seedy to me is difficult to define. It carries a whiff of backstreets, scruffy interiors, dimly lit rooms with world weary women catering to pathetic old men in raincoats with grimy hands who get their rocks off with a grunt and head out into the rainy night.

I really must stop going there lol"

This.

Made me chuckle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When one's attitude alters.

I think the word perverted is overused but seedy does describe the attitude some people have to sex.

I guess my thoughts are that when it becomes controlling or manipulative in order to satisfy an urge, or if the urge is controlling you, then perhaps it's become something other than fun liberated sex?

I wouldn't describe that as perverted or seedy, one I'd describe as abuse and the other as addiction.

I'm not sure that anything legal is perverted although lots of people would argue with that .

Seedy to me is difficult to define. It carries a whiff of backstreets, scruffy interiors, dimly lit rooms with world weary women catering to pathetic old men in raincoats with grimy hands who get their rocks off with a grunt and head out into the rainy night.

I really must stop going there lol

This.

Made me chuckle. "

Me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When one's attitude alters.

I think the word perverted is overused but seedy does describe the attitude some people have to sex.

I guess my thoughts are that when it becomes controlling or manipulative in order to satisfy an urge, or if the urge is controlling you, then perhaps it's become something other than fun liberated sex?

I wouldn't describe that as perverted or seedy, one I'd describe as abuse and the other as addiction.

I'm not sure that anything legal is perverted although lots of people would argue with that .

Seedy to me is difficult to define. It carries a whiff of backstreets, scruffy interiors, dimly lit rooms with world weary women catering to pathetic old men in raincoats with grimy hands who get their rocks off with a grunt and head out into the rainy night.

I really must stop going there lol"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it is liberating to empty my bladder on someone's face time to time as long as it is consensual and only if I use a sieve in order to remove all the big bits of my hot piss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it is liberating to empty my bladder on someone's face time to time as long as it is consensual and only if I use a sieve in order to remove all the big bits of my hot piss."

So you stand over lady's with your cock in one hand and a sieve in the other, pissing on their faces? Please tell me you don't cook a cake using the sieve afterwards. XXX

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think it is liberating to empty my bladder on someone's face time to time as long as it is consensual and only if I use a sieve in order to remove all the big bits of my hot piss."

Fantastic...trouble is, as you get older it happens involuntary and the consenual aspect gets complicated.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


" When does an adventurous sex life and high sex drive, cross over into what some may believe as "seedy or perverted "?

Many see this lifestyle as liberated, but is there a fine line? "

Describing seeing 3 people regularly and having the option to see another 2 to 3 when the time came, comes to a surprise to to many people on this site. So to tell that to people who don't swing would not only sound seedy it'd sound like you were spreading yourself pretty thickly. Once that gorping reaction is gained you then decide whether to tell them on your free days whether you put a meet up and met others too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When one's attitude alters.

I think the word perverted is overused but seedy does describe the attitude some people have to sex.

I guess my thoughts are that when it becomes controlling or manipulative in order to satisfy an urge, or if the urge is controlling you, then perhaps it's become something other than fun liberated sex?

I wouldn't describe that as perverted or seedy, one I'd describe as abuse and the other as addiction.

I'm not sure that anything legal is perverted although lots of people would argue with that .

Seedy to me is difficult to define. It carries a whiff of backstreets, scruffy interiors, dimly lit rooms with world weary women catering to pathetic old men in raincoats with grimy hands who get their rocks off with a grunt and head out into the rainy night.

I really must stop going there lol

This.

Made me chuckle.

Me too

"

And that's the line, when it's fun, you're playing, when compulsion replaces pleasure, then your crossing that line.

As they say, when the fun stops, stop!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's all a matter of perspective. I'm sure there are many in this world who think that just being on a site like this makes us all perverts.

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"When one's attitude alters.

I think the word perverted is overused but seedy does describe the attitude some people have to sex.

"

^^^^^^^^^^^

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