FabSwingers.com forum: Am I being selfish...?

By *DONToBEoNOSEYo OP Man
over a year ago

wolverhampton

I’m not gay or bisexual so woukd this be described as bi-curious.

I’ve had a toy up my ass but never anything else and think that if I tried it I may regret it but recently I’ve been fantasising about being bummed by a strap on followed by a massive cock?

Wouldn’t do no kissing a guy etc but I think I’d go through with a nice big cock going in me.... is this selfish or?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely kissing is less intimate than having someone’s cock inside you

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By *DONToBEoNOSEYo OP Man
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"Surely kissing is less intimate than having someone’s cock inside you"

Just don’t want to be kissing them that’s all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Surely kissing is less intimate than having someone’s cock inside you"

Can't say I've had anything up my arse. But I find kissing incredibly intimate.

I could kiss without having sex. But I couldn't have sex without kissing

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

No why would it be selfish?

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By *DONToBEoNOSEYo OP Man
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"Surely kissing is less intimate than having someone’s cock inside you

Can't say I've had anything up my arse. But I find kissing incredibly intimate.

I could kiss without having sex. But I couldn't have sex without kissing "

Fair enough... I think for me it’s more the strap on going in me and workout knleing a cock going in me without knowing at first... kind of a fantasy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing a man is gay, but a cock up your ass is ok OP.

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By *DONToBEoNOSEYo OP Man
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"Kissing a man is gay, but a cock up your ass is ok OP."
lol love it

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By *lay-full-funCouple
over a year ago

stockport

My hubby is bi and he doesn't like kissing men

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By *DONToBEoNOSEYo OP Man
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"My hubby is bi and he doesn't like kissing men "

There we go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Find a woman that is happy to peg you and see how that is - after that, the worlds your oyster..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Surely kissing is less intimate than having someone’s cock inside you

Can't say I've had anything up my arse. But I find kissing incredibly intimate.

I could kiss without having sex. But I couldn't have sex without kissing "

Did you get that from a Hallmark card ?

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By *DONToBEoNOSEYo OP Man
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"Find a woman that is happy to peg you and see how that is - after that, the worlds your oyster.. "

It’s finding one... literally impossible on here it seems

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Surely kissing is less intimate than having someone’s cock inside you"

Tell that to Julia Roberts in Pretty Woman

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

Definitely bi-curious, if you are interested in receiving a cock up the arse.

But straight if it's just a strap-on.

But don't worry about the labels, until you have actually tried it.

'Selfish' would be letting a guy suck your cock and not returning the favour. But some people like being used, with nothing in return (e.g. glory holes), so as long as you are clear about the situation, be safe, have fun and good luck.

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By *omesWoman
over a year ago

Surrey

Lots of women, men and couples on here have a no kissing rule. If that's how you feel it's absolutely fine all you need to do is find someone who fits your preferences.

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By *DONToBEoNOSEYo OP Man
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"Definitely bi-curious, if you are interested in receiving a cock up the arse.

But straight if it's just a strap-on.

But don't worry about the labels, until you have actually tried it.

Thanks bud

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Surely kissing is less intimate than having someone’s cock inside you

Can't say I've had anything up my arse. But I find kissing incredibly intimate.

I could kiss without having sex. But I couldn't have sex without kissing

Did you get that from a Hallmark card ?"

Yea. A mother's day card weirdly enough.

Sure it was a misprint. She hasn't really spoke to me since

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By *DONToBEoNOSEYo OP Man
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"Lots of women, men and couples on here have a no kissing rule. If that's how you feel it's absolutely fine all you need to do is find someone who fits your preferences.

Indeed lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Surely kissing is less intimate than having someone’s cock inside you

Can't say I've had anything up my arse. But I find kissing incredibly intimate.

I could kiss without having sex. But I couldn't have sex without kissing

Did you get that from a Hallmark card ?"

You're on form today

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

Being bummed - great expression

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Surely kissing is less intimate than having someone’s cock inside you

Can't say I've had anything up my arse. But I find kissing incredibly intimate.

I could kiss without having sex. But I couldn't have sex without kissing

Did you get that from a Hallmark card ?

You're on form today

I don't get half his jokes. But I reply anyway to be polite

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By *DONToBEoNOSEYo OP Man
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"Being bummed - great expression

Straight to the point and all that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your defo gay or bi

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Knowing what you want and having limits with any specific person isn't selfish per se. Often there are elements of give and take in relationships and meets, such as enjoying things that aren't top of your list, as a way to please your partners - but still if there are barriers, then that's how they should remain, unless you change them.

Sexually you can usually find others who have reciprocal interests - someone more of a giver, or only a giver, rather than a taker. Someone submissive and another who's dominant etc. There are many permutations of interest.

Having curiosity is a great thing - it allows us to potentially expand our range of choices for our satisfaction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Surely kissing is less intimate than having someone’s cock inside you

Can't say I've had anything up my arse. But I find kissing incredibly intimate.

I could kiss without having sex. But I couldn't have sex without kissing

Did you get that from a Hallmark card ?

You're on form today

I don't get half his jokes. But I reply anyway to be polite "

To be fair the radiator one was niche and needs work on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Find a woman that is happy to peg you and see how that is - after that, the worlds your oyster.. "

I think that would be a good start.

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By *DONToBEoNOSEYo OP Man
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"Knowing what you want and having limits with any specific person isn't selfish per se. Often there are elements of give and take in relationships and meets, such as enjoying things that aren't top of your list, as a way to please your partners - but still if there are barriers, then that's how they should remain, unless you change them.

Having curiosity is a great thing - it allows us to potentially expand our range of choices for our satisfaction."

Love this reply thankyou

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Surely kissing is less intimate than having someone’s cock inside you

Can't say I've had anything up my arse. But I find kissing incredibly intimate.

I could kiss without having sex. But I couldn't have sex without kissing

Did you get that from a Hallmark card ?

You're on form today

Your comment says one thing, but the emoji says another!

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By *azmar62Couple
over a year ago

Hinckley

I’ve kissed guys, it didn’t turn me gay, it didn’t feel wrong, in the right situation it’s ok, girls do it, so why not us guys, I’m bisexual, I’ve done most things there is, anal, sucking till a clock pumps cum down my throat, so why do guys get silly over something so intimate, it’s all in the mind, It’s beyond belief, I love these threads, it’s always the same question told in different ways.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as you're both happy with the situation it's not selfish and nothing wrong with it.

Maybe look for a couple where the man is bi. The wife could fuck you with her strap on then the guy fuck you.

Lots of men have sex with men but don't kiss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve kissed guys, it didn’t turn me gay, it didn’t feel wrong, in the right situation it’s ok, girls do it, so why not us guys, I’m bisexual, I’ve done most things there is, anal, sucking till a clock pumps cum down my throat, so why do guys get silly over something so intimate, it’s all in the mind, It’s beyond belief, I love these threads, it’s always the same question told in different ways. "

It's not silly to not want to do something. It's silly to meet disrespectful people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you tried different food? You don't know what you like till you try it, we live once if you think you will enjoy or are curious about if you would enjoy something and not just something "sexual" try it its the 21st century few judge or care they are on their iPhone, working, enjoying or just plan old getting on with life and those that do judge are the majority being judged in today's society, so I say go try it do what pleases you as long as your not hurting anyone give it a go, you may or may not enjoy it but at least you can say you tried

Bryan not Lesley x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not selfish if everyone knows the rules and agrees. Finding the right people is the real issue.

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By *azmar62Couple
over a year ago

Hinckley

It's not silly to not want to do something. It's silly to meet disrespectful people. "

I don’t mean to be disrespectful. Sorry if it looks that way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not silly to not want to do something. It's silly to meet disrespectful people.

I don’t mean to be disrespectful. Sorry if it looks that way. "

I didn't mean you, I meant in general. x

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

"Being bummed - great expression

Straight to the point and all that

I don't think you want a point though... more of a rounded end dripping in lube

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By *DONToBEoNOSEYo OP Man
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"Being bummed - great expression

Straight to the point and all that

I don't think you want a point though... more of a rounded end dripping in lube

Ha yes

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"I’m not gay or bisexual so woukd this be described as bi-curious.

I’ve had a toy up my ass but never anything else and think that if I tried it I may regret it but recently I’ve been fantasising about being bummed by a strap on followed by a massive cock?

Wouldn’t do no kissing a guy etc but I think I’d go through with a nice big cock going in me.... is this selfish or? "

You're bi curious at least. I don't kiss guys so i don't think it's selfish. Guys are disgusting, it just happens that they have nice cocks attached to them.

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

Why get hung up on the labels of it. Enjoy what you wanna try.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Surely kissing is less intimate than having someone’s cock inside you

Can't say I've had anything up my arse. But I find kissing incredibly intimate.

I could kiss without having sex. But I couldn't have sex without kissing

Did you get that from a Hallmark card ?

Yea. A mother's day card weirdly enough.

Sure it was a misprint. She hasn't really spoke to me since "

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