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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If you see "social first meet" on someone's profile, how do you interpret that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you see "social first meet" on someone's profile, how do you interpret that? "

looking for free drinks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you see "social first meet" on someone's profile, how do you interpret that? "

that they are being cautious...

I have it on my profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont know iv never had social meet

Wouldnt mind trying always just been strait to business so far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That they would like to meet for a coffee or something and see if there is a spark before agreeing to anything else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That they're cautious and won't just shag anything that walk, well without a connection!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because you want to meet some one to see if there is a connection first and an attraction

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"If you see "social first meet" on someone's profile, how do you interpret that? "

that they want to meet socially. You will need to ask each individual if they are happy to move on to sex on the same day or if they like to arrange another date.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you see "social first meet" on someone's profile, how do you interpret that? "

how would you interpret it OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you see "social first meet" on someone's profile, how do you interpret that? "

That their first meet will be a social.

Are you being asked for sex on a first meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you see "social first meet" on someone's profile, how do you interpret that?

looking for free drinks "

Busted dammit

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That was a king of follow up question, would you expect sex that day/night?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just having a confusing circular conversation with someone about the first "social" meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That was a king of follow up question, would you expect sex that day/night? "

No. But sometimes... just sometimes, lust takes over and circumstances conspire!

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth


"That was a king of follow up question, would you expect sex that day/night? "

Some people do have sex the same day/night however I see it as a no pressure and expectation meet.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"That was a king of follow up question, would you expect sex that day/night? "

a lot of people do. We always make it crystal clear that a first meet with us will always be social only. The best thing to do is to sort out expectations beforehand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just having a confusing circular conversation with someone about the first "social" meet "

Why is it confusing, what are they saying?

My first meet is always a social, nothing more. If they hint at anything else happening and keep hinting even after I say no the first meet is just a social, then I just don't meet them. If they are disrespectful in messages they'd be worse in real life.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you see "social first meet" on someone's profile, how do you interpret that?

how would you interpret it OP?"

I have it on my profile and I mean it as "let's get together, have a coffee, chat and see if we click" then if we do, we can make plans for a sexy meet

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"That was a king of follow up question, would you expect sex that day/night?

a lot of people do. We always make it crystal clear that a first meet with us will always be social only. The best thing to do is to sort out expectations beforehand."

I say this too. Removes any awkwardness if there's no spark.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As meeting for a drink and a chat.

I have social first, but they have been known to turn into a play date too...yes I know....I dont have much willpower when I'm horny

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just having a confusing circular conversation with someone about the first "social" meet

Why is it confusing, what are they saying?

My first meet is always a social, nothing more. If they hint at anything else happening and keep hinting even after I say no the first meet is just a social, then I just don't meet them. If they are disrespectful in messages they'd be worse in real life. "

Circular and confusing goes something like...,"are you ruling out sex on the same day as the social" "no I'm not ruling it out but you shouldn't arrive thinking that's going to happen" "so we are going to have sex" "no we are going to have a social" "so you are ruling it out"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As meeting for a drink and a chat.

I have social first, but they have been known to turn into a play date too...yes I know....I dont have much willpower when I'm horny "

Same but it shouldn't be taken for granted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That they want to meet in a social setting for a first meet. It's not always a drink. I've gone to the beach with someone in the past and had an ice cream .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That was a king of follow up question, would you expect sex that day/night?

Some people do have sex the same day/night however I see it as a no pressure and expectation meet."

I'm not saying I haven't I just don't think it should be expected x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just having a confusing circular conversation with someone about the first "social" meet

Why is it confusing, what are they saying?

My first meet is always a social, nothing more. If they hint at anything else happening and keep hinting even after I say no the first meet is just a social, then I just don't meet them. If they are disrespectful in messages they'd be worse in real life.

Circular and confusing goes something like...,"are you ruling out sex on the same day as the social" "no I'm not ruling it out but you shouldn't arrive thinking that's going to happen" "so we are going to have sex" "no we are going to have a social" "so you are ruling it out" "

That sounds to me like they want sex on the first meet and would push for it even if you said no. I wouldn't be meeting them, I can't do with shit like that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That they want to meet in a social setting for a first meet. It's not always a drink. I've gone to the beach with someone in the past and had an ice cream . "

That sounds like my kind of social

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s obvious what it means if you are able to read and understand English.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I'd interpret that has having a drink somewhere to check each other out.

If we got on I'd ask if they wanted to arrange something else.

If they started asking questions like you said or things like 'what are you going to wear' I probably wouldn't meet them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you all for your feedback x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you see "social first meet" on someone's profile, how do you interpret that? "

As someone who desires to get fucked in lidl

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

They want to confirm you're pretty or handsome enough to shag before they take their clothes off.

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