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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Seems like I've put a negative vibe on this forum. Not sure it its people seeing me as narcissistic or just not agreeing with me.

What are your honest thoughts of me?

Don't care about bluntness or being cunty. Just out with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha.. you know it buddy

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Your 23 with little social skills thinking youve got the experience of a 50 year old

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your 23 with little social skills thinking youve got the experience of a 50 year old"

You are a 50 y/o thinking you have the body of a 23 y/o

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Your 23 with little social skills thinking youve got the experience of a 50 year old"

Hardly. But thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure any one person can put a negative vibe on a whole forum....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not sure any one person can put a negative vibe on a whole forum....

Are you saying it’s a team effort?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could do ok if you stopped repeatedly putting your foot in your mouth and just relaxed with people u were doing so well other day then all of a sudden you were moping again so cheer up enjoy your 20s and chill

It doesnt help yourself tho if you keep putting yourself in the line of fire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sits back in my chair with my coffee and maltesers, HM this could get interesting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You could do ok if you stopped repeatedly putting your foot in your mouth and just relaxed with people u were doing so well other day then all of a sudden you were moping again so cheer up enjoy your 20s and chill

It doesnt help yourself tho if you keep putting yourself in the line of fire"

Although putting yourself in the line of fire in your 20s might seem exciting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You don't impact me in any way. Crack on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You don't impact me in any way. Crack on"

So you don’t wanna jump on his dick?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your 23 with little social skills thinking youve got the experience of a 50 year old

You are a 50 y/o thinking you have the body of a 23 y/o

I just spat my drink everywhere

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"Seems like I've put a negative vibe on this forum. Not sure it its people seeing me as narcissistic or just not agreeing with me.

What are your honest thoughts of me?

Don't care about bluntness or being cunty. Just out with it. "

I can't say I've noticed you posting but that probably says more about me than you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you need to find some friends of your own age go out find your way in the world and get a life that makes you happy.

It's not out of your grasp if you make the effort to do it.

Sadly I don't think you will.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I worry that this is the only ‘social’ interaction you have, as it appears that you crave attention and yet reject it at the same time. You project that you have had a very sheltered and protected existence and struggle to understand appropriate human contact.

You do come across as an utter twunt at times, but I suspect there’s a deep seated reason for this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing's going to change no matter what we tell you.

You do get people talking though. I'll give you that much

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think you need to find some friends of your own age go out find your way in the world and get a life that makes you happy.

It's not out of your grasp if you make the effort to do it.

Sadly I don't think you will."

Honestly. I have no idea where to start.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seems like I've put a negative vibe on this forum. Not sure it its people seeing me as narcissistic or just not agreeing with me.

What are your honest thoughts of me?

Don't care about bluntness or being cunty. Just out with it.

I can't say I've noticed you posting but that probably says more about me than you. "

Yes, lazy is written all over your comment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think you need to find some friends of your own age go out find your way in the world and get a life that makes you happy.

It's not out of your grasp if you make the effort to do it.

Sadly I don't think you will."

Succinctly put

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not sure any one person can put a negative vibe on a whole forum....

It's the people who respond negatively that make it negative.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I worry that this is the only ‘social’ interaction you have, as it appears that you crave attention and yet reject it at the same time. You project that you have had a very sheltered and protected existence and struggle to understand appropriate human contact.

You do come across as an utter twunt at times, but I suspect there’s a deep seated reason for this. "

There probably is. I have been having frustrations lately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sits back in my chair with my coffee and maltesers and fuck a pub landlord’s wife. HM this could get interesting

meh she was a shit shag"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think you need to find some friends of your own age go out find your way in the world and get a life that makes you happy.

It's not out of your grasp if you make the effort to do it.

Sadly I don't think you will.

Honestly. I have no idea where to start. "
byou have friends at the gym who you have admitted you have a laugh with

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not sure any one person can put a negative vibe on a whole forum....

It's the people who respond negatively that make it negative."

So it's not me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not sure any one person can put a negative vibe on a whole forum....

It's the people who respond negatively that make it negative."

You mean people who use the word ‘negative’ twice in the comment?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think you need to find some friends of your own age go out find your way in the world and get a life that makes you happy.

It's not out of your grasp if you make the effort to do it.

Sadly I don't think you will."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The word Plonker comes to mind

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By *bsolutebeginnersCouple
over a year ago

Planet Ork

Ooh look at me again

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think you need to find some friends of your own age go out find your way in the world and get a life that makes you happy.

It's not out of your grasp if you make the effort to do it.

Sadly I don't think you will.

Honestly. I have no idea where to start. byou have friends at the gym who you have admitted you have a laugh with"

Wouldn't call them friends. Just people you talk to between classes and at the end.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not sure any one person can put a negative vibe on a whole forum....

It's the people who respond negatively that make it negative.

So it's not me? "

No, it’s a team effort. But single guys and mostly new comers get a bit of a stick

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

The other day you came across quite well but since then you've been a bit of a dick, being quite rude to people. I don't think people will offer you any more advice as you never really seem to listen.

Has there been a full moon?!!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

You appear at times to be quite grumpy. And come across as homophobic, which I am sure you’re not. I’m sure you’re a normal bloke and all but have attitudes that seem to be at odds with what you’re looking for. An example was the thread where you said you weren’t willing to pay for sex so that you could have sex for the first time because you didn’t know where those women had been, and when it was pointed out high class prostitutes could be very clean and regularly tested, you appeared to get very defensive and angry. You send out an aura of desperation and anger which I don’t believe is the real you. You’ve had offers from ladies in the forums but nothing seems to have worked.

That’s the impression I get from following your green arrow.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ooh look at me again

You're the one attracting attention on another person's post.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Little lost with this, what are you hoping to achieve?

I don’t know you, probably never will... what does it matter to either of us?

Hope it’s not drama that you are looking for.

Have a good one OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your 23 with little social skills thinking youve got the experience of a 50 year old

You are a 50 y/o thinking you have the body of a 23 y/o

I just spat my drink everywhere"

Glad I was of assistance, always trying to make people laugh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He loves the attention I don't know why we fall for it all the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seems like I've put a negative vibe on this forum. Not sure it its people seeing me as narcissistic or just not agreeing with me.

What are your honest thoughts of me?

Don't care about bluntness or being cunty. Just out with it. "

I think you should be out chasing vagina.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Little lost with this, what are you hoping to achieve?

I don’t know you, probably never will... what does it matter to either of us?

Hope it’s not drama that you are looking for.

Have a good one OP"

He’s looking for your opinion.. hope it helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i take a few days break from the forums and this happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The other day you came across quite well but since then you've been a bit of a dick, being quite rude to people. I don't think people will offer you any more advice as you never really seem to listen.

Has there been a full moon?!! "

Awoooooooooooooo woooo wooo wooooooooooo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seems like I've put a negative vibe on this forum. Not sure it its people seeing me as narcissistic or just not agreeing with me.

What are your honest thoughts of me?

Don't care about bluntness or being cunty. Just out with it.

I think you should be out chasing vagina. "

So should you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not sure any one person can put a negative vibe on a whole forum....

It's the people who respond negatively that make it negative.

So it's not me? "

I think you need to shoulder some of the blame, you know full well some of your comments are going to get people's backs up, such as commenting on people's figures uninvited...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're alright

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You appear at times to be quite grumpy. And come across as homophobic, which I am sure you’re not. I’m sure you’re a normal bloke and all but have attitudes that seem to be at odds with what you’re looking for. An example was the thread where you said you weren’t willing to pay for sex so that you could have sex for the first time because you didn’t know where those women had been, and when it was pointed out high class prostitutes could be very clean and regularly tested, you appeared to get very defensive and angry. You send out an aura of desperation and anger which I don’t believe is the real you. You’ve had offers from ladies in the forums but nothing seems to have worked.

That’s the impression I get from following your green arrow. "

I'm not like that at all irl.

What offers? Thats pure sarcasm. Nobody would meet me from my threads.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i take a few days break from the forums and this happens

Are you forum security or forum whip?

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

My opinion, and opinions are like arseholes, we all have them and some of them stink.

I don't think you have put a negative vibe on the forum. I think, you've got people thinking.

I also think, as has been already voiced here that you should get out more.

You're aware you don't have the greatest social skills, rather than rely on others to give you answer you won't accept anyway, look for help from other places. Those that have real experience in that field.

People can lead you to water but can't make you drink.... you still have to want to, and make the effort to.

Sometimes the things in life that are hardest to do, give us the greatest reward.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Seems like I've put a negative vibe on this forum. Not sure it its people seeing me as narcissistic or just not agreeing with me.

What are your honest thoughts of me?

Don't care about bluntness or being cunty. Just out with it.

I think you should be out chasing vagina. "

Wouldn't know where to start.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

"Seems like I've put a negative vibe on this forum. Not sure it its people seeing me as narcissistic or just not agreeing with me.

What are your honest thoughts of me?

Don't care about bluntness or being cunty. Just out with it.

I think you should be out chasing vagina. "

Yes, that to seeing as it's Friday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s the impression I get from following your green arrow.

I'm not like that at all irl.

What offers? Thats pure sarcasm. Nobody would meet me from my threads. "

You will find that some will block you for your thread too.. welcome to forums, which people use as filters to filter angels on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not aware of your work OP, are you the guy who has a fetish for being wrapped in cling film and likes to be called Shirley ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seems like I've put a negative vibe on this forum. Not sure it its people seeing me as narcissistic or just not agreeing with me.

What are your honest thoughts of me?

Don't care about bluntness or being cunty. Just out with it.

I think you should be out chasing vagina.

Wouldn't know where to start. "

Kissing is a good way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seems like I've put a negative vibe on this forum. Not sure it its people seeing me as narcissistic or just not agreeing with me.

What are your honest thoughts of me?

Don't care about bluntness or being cunty. Just out with it.

I think you should be out chasing vagina.

Yes, that to seeing as it's Friday

So should you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seems like I've put a negative vibe on this forum. Not sure it its people seeing me as narcissistic or just not agreeing with me.

What are your honest thoughts of me?

Don't care about bluntness or being cunty. Just out with it.

I think you should be out chasing vagina.

Wouldn't know where to start. "

You start by getting off the forum and going to the pub.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seems like I've put a negative vibe on this forum. Not sure it its people seeing me as narcissistic or just not agreeing with me.

What are your honest thoughts of me?

Don't care about bluntness or being cunty. Just out with it.

I think you should be out chasing vagina.

Wouldn't know where to start.

You start by getting off the forum and going to the pub. "

Why aren’t you in the pub

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seems like I've put a negative vibe on this forum. Not sure it its people seeing me as narcissistic or just not agreeing with me.

What are your honest thoughts of me?

Don't care about bluntness or being cunty. Just out with it.

I think you should be out chasing vagina.

Yes, that to seeing as it's Friday

So should you

Yeah, I have a pretty good reason why I’m not out otherwise I would be.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

That’s the impression I get from following your green arrow.

I'm not like that at all irl.

What offers? Thats pure sarcasm. Nobody would meet me from my threads.

You will find that some will block you for your thread too.. welcome to forums, which people use as filters to filter angels on fab

None are anywhere close to me so it does not make a difference to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seems like I've put a negative vibe on this forum. Not sure it its people seeing me as narcissistic or just not agreeing with me.

What are your honest thoughts of me?

Don't care about bluntness or being cunty. Just out with it.

I think you should be out chasing vagina.

Yes, that to seeing as it's Friday

So should you

Yeah, I have a pretty good reason why I’m not out otherwise I would be. "

Broke your cock’s collar bone while wanking?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seems like I've put a negative vibe on this forum. Not sure it its people seeing me as narcissistic or just not agreeing with me.

What are your honest thoughts of me?

Don't care about bluntness or being cunty. Just out with it.

I think you should be out chasing vagina.

Wouldn't know where to start.

You start by getting off the forum and going to the pub.

Why aren’t you in the pub

I am, are you getting me my crisps ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Seems like I've put a negative vibe on this forum. Not sure it its people seeing me as narcissistic or just not agreeing with me.

What are your honest thoughts of me?

Don't care about bluntness or being cunty. Just out with it.

I think you should be out chasing vagina.

Wouldn't know where to start.

Kissing is a good way

Can't just walk up and kiss a girl.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seems like I've put a negative vibe on this forum. Not sure it its people seeing me as narcissistic or just not agreeing with me.

What are your honest thoughts of me?

Don't care about bluntness or being cunty. Just out with it.

I think you should be out chasing vagina.

Yes, that to seeing as it's Friday

So should you

Yeah, I have a pretty good reason why I’m not out otherwise I would be.

Broke your cock’s collar bone while wanking? "

Why aren’t you out brainiac ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s the impression I get from following your green arrow.

I'm not like that at all irl.

What offers? Thats pure sarcasm. Nobody would meet me from my threads.

You will find that some will block you for your thread too.. welcome to forums, which people use as filters to filter angels on fab

None are anywhere close to me so it does not make a difference to me. "

Mate! You live in Sheffield city center! Come on!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i take a few days break from the forums and this happens

Are you forum security or forum whip? "

little from column a and a little from column b

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Seems like I've put a negative vibe on this forum. Not sure it its people seeing me as narcissistic or just not agreeing with me.

What are your honest thoughts of me?

Don't care about bluntness or being cunty. Just out with it.

I think you should be out chasing vagina.

Wouldn't know where to start.

You start by getting off the forum and going to the pub. "

This isn't 10 years ago where everyone goes to the pub

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You do come across as an utter twunt at times, but I suspect there’s a deep seated reason for this. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seems like I've put a negative vibe on this forum. Not sure it its people seeing me as narcissistic or just not agreeing with me.

What are your honest thoughts of me?

Don't care about bluntness or being cunty. Just out with it.

I think you should be out chasing vagina.

Yes, that to seeing as it's Friday

So should you

Yeah, I have a pretty good reason why I’m not out otherwise I would be.

Broke your cock’s collar bone while wanking?

Why aren’t you out brainiac ?"

Its my rest day, i can’t handle anymore vagina

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m not aware of your work OP, are you the guy who has a fetish for being wrapped in cling film and likes to be called Shirley ? "

You mean there is 2 of us?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

That’s the impression I get from following your green arrow.

I'm not like that at all irl.

What offers? Thats pure sarcasm. Nobody would meet me from my threads.

You will find that some will block you for your thread too.. welcome to forums, which people use as filters to filter angels on fab

None are anywhere close to me so it does not make a difference to me.

Mate! You live in Sheffield city center! Come on!! "

So. Whats your point? Its Sheffield yes. But the location doesn't make it special.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Seems like I've put a negative vibe on this forum. Not sure it its people seeing me as narcissistic or just not agreeing with me.

What are your honest thoughts of me?

Don't care about bluntness or being cunty. Just out with it.

I think you should be out chasing vagina.

Yes, that to seeing as it's Friday

So should you

Yeah, I have a pretty good reason why I’m not out otherwise I would be.

Broke your cock’s collar bone while wanking?

Why aren’t you out brainiac ?

Its my rest day, i can’t handle anymore vagina

It's spelt fajitas. I think you're getting food and fanny mixed up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seems like I've put a negative vibe on this forum. Not sure it its people seeing me as narcissistic or just not agreeing with me.

What are your honest thoughts of me?

Don't care about bluntness or being cunty. Just out with it.

I think you should be out chasing vagina.

Wouldn't know where to start.

Kissing is a good way

Can't just walk up and kiss a girl. "

Lad, you need proper coaching, start a thread so we can coach you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seems like I've put a negative vibe on this forum. Not sure it its people seeing me as narcissistic or just not agreeing with me.

What are your honest thoughts of me?

Don't care about bluntness or being cunty. Just out with it.

I think you should be out chasing vagina.

Yes, that to seeing as it's Friday

So should you

Yeah, I have a pretty good reason why I’m not out otherwise I would be.

Broke your cock’s collar bone while wanking?

Why aren’t you out brainiac ?

Its my rest day, i can’t handle anymore vagina

Yeah must be tough bashing one out over Pornhub all day.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Can't say I've followed your every post or thread but i don't see what the problem is. Your age is irrelevant. It's a popular delusion of stupid people that their intelligence improves as they age. They don't. Repeating the same life experiences over and over does not make one wiser.

You have some opinions that have triggered some of the snowflakes. Oh well. Fab forums are full of very liberal / lefty / vulnerable narcissist types. Unless you come on here and rebadge guardian columnist opinions as your own then some people won't like you. I wouldn't lose any sleep over it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Seems like I've put a negative vibe on this forum. Not sure it its people seeing me as narcissistic or just not agreeing with me.

What are your honest thoughts of me?

Don't care about bluntness or being cunty. Just out with it.

I think you should be out chasing vagina.

Wouldn't know where to start.

Kissing is a good way

Can't just walk up and kiss a girl.

Lad, you need proper coaching, start a thread so we can coach you

Tried that. Got a load of shit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seems like I've put a negative vibe on this forum. Not sure it its people seeing me as narcissistic or just not agreeing with me.

What are your honest thoughts of me?

Don't care about bluntness or being cunty. Just out with it.

I think you should be out chasing vagina.

Wouldn't know where to start.

You start by getting off the forum and going to the pub.

This isn't 10 years ago where everyone goes to the pub "

Yes all girls are on tinder and pof

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seems like I've put a negative vibe on this forum. Not sure it its people seeing me as narcissistic or just not agreeing with me.

What are your honest thoughts of me?

Don't care about bluntness or being cunty. Just out with it.

I think you should be out chasing vagina.

Wouldn't know where to start.

Kissing is a good way

Can't just walk up and kiss a girl.

Lad, you need proper coaching, start a thread so we can coach you

Blind leading the blind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seems like I've put a negative vibe on this forum. Not sure it its people seeing me as narcissistic or just not agreeing with me.

What are your honest thoughts of me?

Don't care about bluntness or being cunty. Just out with it.

I think you should be out chasing vagina.

Wouldn't know where to start.

Kissing is a good way

Can't just walk up and kiss a girl.

Lad, you need proper coaching, start a thread so we can coach you

Tried that. Got a load of shit. "

Keep trying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seems like I've put a negative vibe on this forum. Not sure it its people seeing me as narcissistic or just not agreeing with me.

What are your honest thoughts of me?

Don't care about bluntness or being cunty. Just out with it.

I think you should be out chasing vagina.

Wouldn't know where to start.

You start by getting off the forum and going to the pub.

This isn't 10 years ago where everyone goes to the pub "

They do where I live

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think you need to find some friends of your own age go out find your way in the world and get a life that makes you happy.

It's not out of your grasp if you make the effort to do it.

Sadly I don't think you will.

Honestly. I have no idea where to start. "

I've said this before....often.

It's your life and only you can change it.

So if you have sufficient balls to do this...

1 Turn off the phone/ laptop now

2 Go outside.

3 Find a bar club party whatever you think, where there may be people not pixels

4 you don't even have to drink

5 smile at someone maybe even say hello. They might even reply. After that it's up to you...

6 Come back after the weekend and tell us what happened...

Who knows you may even get laid too!

So have you? Got the balls to do it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seems like I've put a negative vibe on this forum. Not sure it its people seeing me as narcissistic or just not agreeing with me.

What are your honest thoughts of me?

Don't care about bluntness or being cunty. Just out with it.

I think you should be out chasing vagina.

Wouldn't know where to start.

Kissing is a good way

Can't just walk up and kiss a girl.

Lad, you need proper coaching, start a thread so we can coach you

Blind leading the blind. "

You should stop

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

You're not the only user who for whatever reason seems to attract a lot of negative comments, You have asked for advise a few times but instantly go on the defensive and reject most of the advise,

You're not the only person on here or in real life who doesn't get Female attention, You need to stop thinking its me against the world, Find a hobby or something and socialise with the outside world, Maybe you will find what you're looking for there, If anything you will learn how to interact with people a bit more, Fab isn't the be all and end all to finding Women

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"I think you need to find some friends of your own age go out find your way in the world and get a life that makes you happy.

It's not out of your grasp if you make the effort to do it.

Sadly I don't think you will.

Honestly. I have no idea where to start.

I've said this before....often.

It's your life and only you can change it.

So if you have sufficient balls to do this...

1 Turn off the phone/ laptop now

2 Go outside.

3 Find a bar club party whatever you think, where there may be people not pixels

4 you don't even have to drink

5 smile at someone maybe even say hello. They might even reply. After that it's up to you...

6 Come back after the weekend and tell us what happened...

Who knows you may even get laid too!

So have you? Got the balls to do it?"

Very much this.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

OP, you go to your Uni bar, see a lady you like the look of - doesn’t matter if she’s with her mates and say can I buy you a drink and join you, and it’s a yes or a no. It’s easy. Then you get chatting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think you need to find some friends of your own age go out find your way in the world and get a life that makes you happy.

It's not out of your grasp if you make the effort to do it.

Sadly I don't think you will.

Honestly. I have no idea where to start. byou have friends at the gym who you have admitted you have a laugh with

Wouldn't call them friends. Just people you talk to between classes and at the end. "
but it is a start, I am not going to sugar coat it, you need to sort out your social skills, you actually do sound like a quite intelligent young man sometimes, then switch to a petulant child the next. You have made an impact and impression in the forums, but for all the wrong reasons.

It is hard for single guys, we all know this, but the more you come across as a knob, the less likely you are to attract a lady.

Only my opinion, and opinions are like arseholes, we all have one

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Can't say I've followed your every post or thread but i don't see what the problem is. Your age is irrelevant. It's a popular delusion of stupid people that their intelligence improves as they age. They don't. Repeating the same life experiences over and over does not make one wiser.

I don't. Just wanted to see what people's issues were, as I always get shit in my posts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seems like I've put a negative vibe on this forum. Not sure it its people seeing me as narcissistic or just not agreeing with me.

What are your honest thoughts of me?

Don't care about bluntness or being cunty. Just out with it.

I think you should be out chasing vagina.

Wouldn't know where to start.

You start by getting off the forum and going to the pub.

This isn't 10 years ago where everyone goes to the pub

Yes all girls are on tinder and pof

Yeah, you don’t get girls in the real world anymore.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Seems like I've put a negative vibe on this forum. Not sure it its people seeing me as narcissistic or just not agreeing with me.

What are your honest thoughts of me?

Don't care about bluntness or being cunty. Just out with it.

I think you should be out chasing vagina.

Wouldn't know where to start.

You start by getting off the forum and going to the pub.

This isn't 10 years ago where everyone goes to the pub

Yes all girls are on tinder and pof

Yep. None of which works.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't. Just wanted to see what people's issues were, as I always get shit in my posts. "

Speak to the Royal Mail about that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seems like I've put a negative vibe on this forum. Not sure it its people seeing me as narcissistic or just not agreeing with me.

What are your honest thoughts of me?

Don't care about bluntness or being cunty. Just out with it.

I think you should be out chasing vagina.

Wouldn't know where to start.

You start by getting off the forum and going to the pub.

This isn't 10 years ago where everyone goes to the pub

Yes all girls are on tinder and pof

Yep. None of which works. "
some cracking student bars in Sheffield

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seems like I've put a negative vibe on this forum. Not sure it its people seeing me as narcissistic or just not agreeing with me.

What are your honest thoughts of me?

Don't care about bluntness or being cunty. Just out with it.

I think you should be out chasing vagina.

Wouldn't know where to start.

You start by getting off the forum and going to the pub.

This isn't 10 years ago where everyone goes to the pub

Yes all girls are on tinder and pof

Yeah, you don’t get girls in the real world anymore. "

I met a girl the other day in real life and she asked me if I’m on Instagram? to which I replied I’m here in front of you

Needless to say she was very offended and called me strange for not being on instagram

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seems like I've put a negative vibe on this forum. Not sure it its people seeing me as narcissistic or just not agreeing with me.

What are your honest thoughts of me?

Don't care about bluntness or being cunty. Just out with it.

I think you should be out chasing vagina.

Wouldn't know where to start.

Kissing is a good way

Can't just walk up and kiss a girl.

Lad, you need proper coaching, start a thread so we can coach you

Blind leading the blind.

You should stop

The sound of a one armed man clapping.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seems like I've put a negative vibe on this forum. Not sure it its people seeing me as narcissistic or just not agreeing with me.

What are your honest thoughts of me?

Don't care about bluntness or being cunty. Just out with it.

I think you should be out chasing vagina.

Wouldn't know where to start.

You start by getting off the forum and going to the pub.

This isn't 10 years ago where everyone goes to the pub

Yes all girls are on tinder and pof

Yeah, you don’t get girls in the real world anymore. "

We all get computer generated 10 minutes before a meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think you need to find some friends of your own age go out find your way in the world and get a life that makes you happy.

It's not out of your grasp if you make the effort to do it.

Sadly I don't think you will.

Honestly. I have no idea where to start.

I've said this before....often.

It's your life and only you can change it.

So if you have sufficient balls to do this...

1 Turn off the phone/ laptop now

2 Go outside.

3 Find a bar club party whatever you think, where there may be people not pixels

4 you don't even have to drink

5 smile at someone maybe even say hello. They might even reply. After that it's up to you...

6 Come back after the weekend and tell us what happened...

Who knows you may even get laid too!

So have you? Got the balls to do it?"

Isn't its weird to go out alone?

Thats why I don't and the fact i don't have alot of cash. I know thats a silly excuse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seems like I've put a negative vibe on this forum. Not sure it its people seeing me as narcissistic or just not agreeing with me.

What are your honest thoughts of me?

Don't care about bluntness or being cunty. Just out with it.

I think you should be out chasing vagina.

Wouldn't know where to start.

You start by getting off the forum and going to the pub.

This isn't 10 years ago where everyone goes to the pub

Yes all girls are on tinder and pof

Yep. None of which works. "

Dude, I have to say that you are as the thread is titled

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think you need to find some friends of your own age go out find your way in the world and get a life that makes you happy.

It's not out of your grasp if you make the effort to do it.

Sadly I don't think you will.

Honestly. I have no idea where to start.

I've said this before....often.

It's your life and only you can change it.

So if you have sufficient balls to do this...

1 Turn off the phone/ laptop now

2 Go outside.

3 Find a bar club party whatever you think, where there may be people not pixels

4 you don't even have to drink

5 smile at someone maybe even say hello. They might even reply. After that it's up to you...

6 Come back after the weekend and tell us what happened...

Who knows you may even get laid too!

So have you? Got the balls to do it?"

OP...

DO IT.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think you need to find some friends of your own age go out find your way in the world and get a life that makes you happy.

It's not out of your grasp if you make the effort to do it.

Sadly I don't think you will.

Honestly. I have no idea where to start.

I've said this before....often.

It's your life and only you can change it.

So if you have sufficient balls to do this...

1 Turn off the phone/ laptop now

2 Go outside.

3 Find a bar club party whatever you think, where there may be people not pixels

4 you don't even have to drink

5 smile at someone maybe even say hello. They might even reply. After that it's up to you...

6 Come back after the weekend and tell us what happened...

Who knows you may even get laid too!

So have you? Got the balls to do it?

Isn't its weird to go out alone?

Thats why I don't and the fact i don't have alot of cash. I know thats a silly excuse. "

It’s a cashless excuse

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

What about volunteer work?

Gain the experience you need to get a job (as you said you can't get a job without experience)

You will also meet a new group of people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seems like I've put a negative vibe on this forum. Not sure it its people seeing me as narcissistic or just not agreeing with me.

What are your honest thoughts of me?

Don't care about bluntness or being cunty. Just out with it.

I think you should be out chasing vagina.

Wouldn't know where to start.

You start by getting off the forum and going to the pub.

This isn't 10 years ago where everyone goes to the pub

Yes all girls are on tinder and pof

Yeah, you don’t get girls in the real world anymore.

I met a girl the other day in real life and she asked me if I’m on Instagram? to which I replied I’m here in front of you

Needless to say she was very offended and called me strange for not being on instagram

Cool story bro, you want to get on graham norton with classic anecdotes like that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you're misunderstood. I think some people have taken a dislike to you and they will attack you no matter what you say. I think that sometimes you can be blunt but you need to realise that what you say can hurt people.

I think you raise interesting questions/ threads. I think some people deliberately twist your words and that pisses you off so you defend yourself (as any normal person would) but then they attack you for that too. That says more about them than it does about you.

What do you mean you're different in real life?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You're not the only user who for whatever reason seems to attract a lot of negative comments, You have asked for advise a few times but instantly go on the defensive and reject most of the advise,

I know that. But it seems like a place where I could actually have a decent chat with a few.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think you need to find some friends of your own age go out find your way in the world and get a life that makes you happy.

It's not out of your grasp if you make the effort to do it.

Sadly I don't think you will.

Honestly. I have no idea where to start.

I've said this before....often.

It's your life and only you can change it.

So if you have sufficient balls to do this...

1 Turn off the phone/ laptop now

2 Go outside.

3 Find a bar club party whatever you think, where there may be people not pixels

4 you don't even have to drink

5 smile at someone maybe even say hello. They might even reply. After that it's up to you...

6 Come back after the weekend and tell us what happened...

Who knows you may even get laid too!

So have you? Got the balls to do it?

OP...

DO IT.

I’ve had more MFMs by going to pub than being on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think you need to find some friends of your own age go out find your way in the world and get a life that makes you happy.

It's not out of your grasp if you make the effort to do it.

Sadly I don't think you will.

Honestly. I have no idea where to start.

I've said this before....often.

It's your life and only you can change it.

So if you have sufficient balls to do this...

1 Turn off the phone/ laptop now

2 Go outside.

3 Find a bar club party whatever you think, where there may be people not pixels

4 you don't even have to drink

5 smile at someone maybe even say hello. They might even reply. After that it's up to you...

6 Come back after the weekend and tell us what happened...

Who knows you may even get laid too!

So have you? Got the balls to do it?

OP...

DO IT.

I’ve had more MFMs by going to pub than being on fab

He means he goes home alone and wanks himself to sleep, while a single tear rolls down his cheek.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

I don't. Just wanted to see what people's issues were, as I always get shit in my posts. "

Depends if they are giving you objective shit or ad hominem shit. In the latter case, adding them to your block list can be a useful reminder of whose opinions you think aren't worth replying to or taking seriously.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think you're misunderstood. I think some people have taken a dislike to you and they will attack you no matter what you say. I think that sometimes you can be blunt but you need to realise that what you say can hurt people.

What do you mean you're different in real life?"

He’s a lot bigger than his photo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think you need to find some friends of your own age go out find your way in the world and get a life that makes you happy.

It's not out of your grasp if you make the effort to do it.

Sadly I don't think you will.

Honestly. I have no idea where to start.

I've said this before....often.

It's your life and only you can change it.

So if you have sufficient balls to do this...

1 Turn off the phone/ laptop now

2 Go outside.

3 Find a bar club party whatever you think, where there may be people not pixels

4 you don't even have to drink

5 smile at someone maybe even say hello. They might even reply. After that it's up to you...

6 Come back after the weekend and tell us what happened...

Who knows you may even get laid too!

So have you? Got the balls to do it?

OP...

DO IT.

I’ve had more MFMs by going to pub than being on fab

He means he goes home alone and wanks himself to sleep, while a single tear rolls down his cheek."

Jesus, please take this guy

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

What do you mean you're different in real life?"

this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"[Removed by poster at 08/06/18 20:52:24]"

Must have been good

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Seems like I've put a negative vibe on this forum. Not sure it its people seeing me as narcissistic or just not agreeing with me.

What are your honest thoughts of me?

Don't care about bluntness or being cunty. Just out with it.

I think you should be out chasing vagina.

Wouldn't know where to start.

You start by getting off the forum and going to the pub.

This isn't 10 years ago where everyone goes to the pub

Yes all girls are on tinder and pof

Yep. None of which works.

Dude, I have to say that you are as the thread is titled

I know. But everything people say. I have tried. I've been on tinder for 2y. Not a single meet or actual conversation. No matches. Pof is a joke.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What do you mean you're different in real life?

this"

He means he’s different in real life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seems like I've put a negative vibe on this forum. Not sure it its people seeing me as narcissistic or just not agreeing with me.

What are your honest thoughts of me?

Don't care about bluntness or being cunty. Just out with it.

I think you should be out chasing vagina.

Wouldn't know where to start.

You start by getting off the forum and going to the pub.

This isn't 10 years ago where everyone goes to the pub

Yes all girls are on tinder and pof

Yep. None of which works.

Dude, I have to say that you are as the thread is titled

I know. But everything people say. I have tried. I've been on tinder for 2y. Not a single meet or actual conversation. No matches. Pof is a joke. "

And what is it that you want?

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

"You're not the only user who for whatever reason seems to attract a lot of negative comments, You have asked for advise a few times but instantly go on the defensive and reject most of the advise,

I know that. But it seems like a place where I could actually have a decent chat with a few. "

What are you studying in uni ? If you don't mind saying

Isn't there groups you can join there ?

I'm not saying don't stay on here but why don't you find some other ways to meet people/Women, You don't always need money to enjoy yourself

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

What do you mean you're different in real life?"

I remember when a certain, now popular, forumite first joined. They made some comments that triggered the fuck out of me. I still dislike those comments but have come to realise they don't define everything about that person and now i'll happily comment back and forth with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can't take criticism, as has been proved on many other threads, so I'm not sure what you are hoping to achieve by asking people to critique you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think you need to find some friends of your own age go out find your way in the world and get a life that makes you happy.

It's not out of your grasp if you make the effort to do it.

Sadly I don't think you will.

Honestly. I have no idea where to start. byou have friends at the gym who you have admitted you have a laugh with

Wouldn't call them friends. Just people you talk to between classes and at the end.

but it is a start, I am not going to sugar coat it, you need to sort out your social skills, you actually do sound like a quite intelligent young man sometimes, then switch to a petulant child the next. You have made an impact and impression in the forums, but for all the wrong reasons.

It is hard for single guys, we all know this, but the more you come across as a knob, the less likely you are to attract a lady.

Only my opinion, and opinions are like arseholes, we all have one"

Believe me, if you are constantly getting abuse from people no matter what you say, you get defensive. That can come across as being a petulant child when in fact he's just one man against 20 people saying mean things to him. Like a gang in the school yard surrounding a kid and verbally abusing him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You're not the only user who for whatever reason seems to attract a lot of negative comments, You have asked for advise a few times but instantly go on the defensive and reject most of the advise,

I know that. But it seems like a place where I could actually have a decent chat with a few.

What are you studying in uni ? If you don't mind saying

Isn't there groups you can join there ?

I'm not saying don't stay on here but why don't you find some other ways to meet people/Women, You don't always need money to enjoy yourself "

He’s studying the Power of positive thinking BTec

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What do you mean you're different in real life?"

Like I'm super friendly and just a laugh to talk to. I'm really chill and people just naturally trust me. They say I have a trusting vibe to me.

I can literally talk to anyone about anything.

Its just the intimate part that get me. Bedroom is fine. Its the part before that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You're not the only user who for whatever reason seems to attract a lot of negative comments, You have asked for advise a few times but instantly go on the defensive and reject most of the advise,

I know that. But it seems like a place where I could actually have a decent chat with a few.

What are you studying in uni ? If you don't mind saying

Isn't there groups you can join there ?

I'm not saying don't stay on here but why don't you find some other ways to meet people/Women, You don't always need money to enjoy yourself "

Shall I say something? Errmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What do you mean you're different in real life?

Like I'm super friendly and just a laugh to talk to. I'm really chill and people just naturally trust me. They say I have a trusting vibe to me.

I can literally talk to anyone about anything.

Its just the intimate part that get me. Bedroom is fine. Its the part before that. "

Too little too late you've already shown everyone on Fab who you really are now live with it. Better still leave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I ask. What have you actually done to improve your social skills between the first time you asked for advice and now?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok personal, I think I have a face like a slapped arse.

I was dumped by my other half at the beginning of the year after 7 years

I have been in a constant relationship for the last 20 years.

I put myself out into the real world and yes it's scary, but you know what, I got laid last week, just because I actually went out and spoke to someone, .

Did I spend a lot of money, no, one pound seventy on a cola drink.

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

I don't. Just wanted to see what people's issues were, as I always get shit in my posts.

Its very easy to ignore people who you think wind you up or disagree/question every comment you make

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Seems like I've put a negative vibe on this forum. Not sure it its people seeing me as narcissistic or just not agreeing with me.

What are your honest thoughts of me?

Don't care about bluntness or being cunty. Just out with it.

I think you should be out chasing vagina.

Wouldn't know where to start.

You start by getting off the forum and going to the pub.

This isn't 10 years ago where everyone goes to the pub

Yes all girls are on tinder and pof

Yep. None of which works.

Dude, I have to say that you are as the thread is titled

I know. But everything people say. I have tried. I've been on tinder for 2y. Not a single meet or actual conversation. No matches. Pof is a joke.

And what is it that you want?

To do what my 3 roomates did. They downloaded the app and got loads of meets and ended up with a gf the next month.

Not right bothered about the gf part. Don't really see myself as bf material.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seems like I've put a negative vibe on this forum. Not sure it its people seeing me as narcissistic or just not agreeing with me.

What are your honest thoughts of me?

Don't care about bluntness or being cunty. Just out with it.

I think you should be out chasing vagina.

Wouldn't know where to start.

You start by getting off the forum and going to the pub.

This isn't 10 years ago where everyone goes to the pub

Yes all girls are on tinder and pof

Yeah, you don’t get girls in the real world anymore.

We all get computer generated 10 minutes before a meet"

I need that software

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can I ask. What have you actually done to improve your social skills between the first time you asked for advice and now?"

Started up a further 84 threads about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There have been way worse posters in the forum. I don’t thinks it’s particularly negative now. However, I would say that if you ask for advice, maybe take some if it on board.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can I ask. What have you actually done to improve your social skills between the first time you asked for advice and now?

Started up a further 84 threads about it. "

Its a fucking joke at this point. It's got to be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have a lot of comments in under an hour of posting this.... At least you are well known on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You're not the only user who for whatever reason seems to attract a lot of negative comments, You have asked for advise a few times but instantly go on the defensive and reject most of the advise,

I know that. But it seems like a place where I could actually have a decent chat with a few.

What are you studying in uni ? If you don't mind saying

Isn't there groups you can join there ?

I'm not saying don't stay on here but why don't you find some other ways to meet people/Women, You don't always need money to enjoy yourself "

Electronic engineering. Everyone has gone home for summer now. I wasn't even that social with people around me. I'd talk and stuff. There was 2 groups of people I'd go out with. But when money dried up just didn't keep in touch. I'm really not great at being social.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seems like I've put a negative vibe on this forum. Not sure it its people seeing me as narcissistic or just not agreeing with me.

What are your honest thoughts of me?

Don't care about bluntness or being cunty. Just out with it.

I think you should be out chasing vagina.

Wouldn't know where to start.

You start by getting off the forum and going to the pub.

This isn't 10 years ago where everyone goes to the pub

Yes all girls are on tinder and pof

Yep. None of which works.

Dude, I have to say that you are as the thread is titled

I know. But everything people say. I have tried. I've been on tinder for 2y. Not a single meet or actual conversation. No matches. Pof is a joke.

And what is it that you want?

To do what my 3 roomates did. They downloaded the app and got loads of meets and ended up with a gf the next month.

Not right bothered about the gf part. Don't really see myself as bf material. "

You need to see your self as husband material in order to get a shag

Hope this helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What do you mean you're different in real life?

Like I'm super friendly and just a laugh to talk to. I'm really chill and people just naturally trust me. They say I have a trusting vibe to me.

I can literally talk to anyone about anything.

Its just the intimate part that get me. Bedroom is fine. Its the part before that.

Too little too late you've already shown everyone on Fab who you really are now live with it. Better still leave"

No one wants him to leave.

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

What do you mean you're different in real life?

Like I'm super friendly and just a laugh to talk to. I'm really chill and people just naturally trust me. They say I have a trusting vibe to me.

I can literally talk to anyone about anything.

Its just the intimate part that get me. Bedroom is fine. Its the part before that.

Too little too late you've already shown everyone on Fab who you really are now live with it. Better still leave"

The forums are a very small part of fab

and mainly full of the over opinionated type

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can I ask. What have you actually done to improve your social skills between the first time you asked for advice and now?

Started up a further 84 threads about it. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You have a lot of comments in under an hour of posting this.... At least you are well known on here

Sir Richard Branson said there is no such thing as bad publicity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There have been way worse posters in the forum. I don’t thinks it’s particularly negative now. However, I would say that if you ask for advice, maybe take some if it on board. "

All the worst posters and not single one of them was a woman

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"Little lost with this, what are you hoping to achieve?

I don’t know you, probably never will... what does it matter to either of us?

Hope it’s not drama that you are looking for.

Have a good one OP

He’s looking for your opinion.. hope it helps

Nope it doesn’t, there is no value in it,

I have no idea of his values, beliefs or memetic make up.

Glad he has a friend though, one day he might need one.

Well done fella

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Can I ask. What have you actually done to improve your social skills between the first time you asked for advice and now?"

Tried to meet up with people that I was 'friends' with at the beginning of uni. They just go out and stuff. I made friends with rich kids.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think you need to find some friends of your own age go out find your way in the world and get a life that makes you happy.

It's not out of your grasp if you make the effort to do it.

Sadly I don't think you will.

Honestly. I have no idea where to start.

I've said this before....often.

It's your life and only you can change it.

So if you have sufficient balls to do this...

1 Turn off the phone/ laptop now

2 Go outside.

3 Find a bar club party whatever you think, where there may be people not pixels

4 you don't even have to drink

5 smile at someone maybe even say hello. They might even reply. After that it's up to you...

6 Come back after the weekend and tell us what happened...

Who knows you may even get laid too!

So have you? Got the balls to do it?

Isn't its weird to go out alone?

Thats why I don't and the fact i don't have alot of cash. I know thats a silly excuse. "

It's more weird to not dare to try.

You don't need a lot of cash.

Money doesn't impress people...other people do.

I know some really fucking stubborn people...

But you....

If everyone is telling you the same thing don't you think it's worth grabbing your balls in your hand taking a deep breath and at least giving it a try...

WHAT DO YOU HAVE TO LOSE?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you will have a better chance of getting some feedback if you start a thread saying why people are so angry on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Seems like I've put a negative vibe on this forum. Not sure it its people seeing me as narcissistic or just not agreeing with me.

What are your honest thoughts of me?

Don't care about bluntness or being cunty. Just out with it.

I think you should be out chasing vagina.

Wouldn't know where to start.

You start by getting off the forum and going to the pub.

This isn't 10 years ago where everyone goes to the pub

Yes all girls are on tinder and pof

Yep. None of which works.

Dude, I have to say that you are as the thread is titled

I know. But everything people say. I have tried. I've been on tinder for 2y. Not a single meet or actual conversation. No matches. Pof is a joke.

And what is it that you want?

To do what my 3 roomates did. They downloaded the app and got loads of meets and ended up with a gf the next month.

Not right bothered about the gf part. Don't really see myself as bf material.

You need to see your self as husband material in order to get a shag

Hope this helps

But I don't have any of the qualities I see in people in a relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think you need to find some friends of your own age go out find your way in the world and get a life that makes you happy.

It's not out of your grasp if you make the effort to do it.

Sadly I don't think you will.

Honestly. I have no idea where to start.

I've said this before....often.

It's your life and only you can change it.

So if you have sufficient balls to do this...

1 Turn off the phone/ laptop now

2 Go outside.

3 Find a bar club party whatever you think, where there may be people not pixels

4 you don't even have to drink

5 smile at someone maybe even say hello. They might even reply. After that it's up to you...

6 Come back after the weekend and tell us what happened...

Who knows you may even get laid too!

So have you? Got the balls to do it?

Isn't its weird to go out alone?

Thats why I don't and the fact i don't have alot of cash. I know thats a silly excuse.

It's more weird to not dare to try.

You don't need a lot of cash.

Money doesn't impress people...other people do.

I know some really fucking stubborn people...

But you....

If everyone is telling you the same thing don't you think it's worth grabbing your balls in your hand taking a deep breath and at least giving it a try...

WHAT DO YOU HAVE TO LOSE?"

His virginity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seems like I've put a negative vibe on this forum. Not sure it its people seeing me as narcissistic or just not agreeing with me.

What are your honest thoughts of me?

Don't care about bluntness or being cunty. Just out with it.

I think you should be out chasing vagina.

Wouldn't know where to start.

You start by getting off the forum and going to the pub.

This isn't 10 years ago where everyone goes to the pub

Yes all girls are on tinder and pof

Yep. None of which works.

Dude, I have to say that you are as the thread is titled

I know. But everything people say. I have tried. I've been on tinder for 2y. Not a single meet or actual conversation. No matches. Pof is a joke.

And what is it that you want?

To do what my 3 roomates did. They downloaded the app and got loads of meets and ended up with a gf the next month.

Not right bothered about the gf part. Don't really see myself as bf material.

You need to see your self as husband material in order to get a shag

Hope this helps

But I don't have any of the qualities I see in people in a relationship. "

What do you think you lack?

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Maybe you need to drop engineering and take up sociology?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe you need to drop engineering and take up sociology? "

How about you take up Conflict Management

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"You're not the only user who for whatever reason seems to attract a lot of negative comments, You have asked for advise a few times but instantly go on the defensive and reject most of the advise,

This is good advice OP.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think you need to find some friends of your own age go out find your way in the world and get a life that makes you happy.

It's not out of your grasp if you make the effort to do it.

Sadly I don't think you will.

Honestly. I have no idea where to start.

I've said this before....often.

It's your life and only you can change it.

So if you have sufficient balls to do this...

1 Turn off the phone/ laptop now

2 Go outside.

3 Find a bar club party whatever you think, where there may be people not pixels

4 you don't even have to drink

5 smile at someone maybe even say hello. They might even reply. After that it's up to you...

6 Come back after the weekend and tell us what happened...

Who knows you may even get laid too!

So have you? Got the balls to do it?

Isn't its weird to go out alone?

Thats why I don't and the fact i don't have alot of cash. I know thats a silly excuse.

It's more weird to not dare to try.

You don't need a lot of cash.

Money doesn't impress people...other people do.

I know some really fucking stubborn people...

But you....

If everyone is telling you the same thing don't you think it's worth grabbing your balls in your hand taking a deep breath and at least giving it a try...

WHAT DO YOU HAVE TO LOSE?"

Crashing and burning and embarrassing myself or, just realising how crap I really am with people.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"Maybe you need to drop engineering and take up sociology?

How about you take up Conflict Management

Relationship councillor?

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I feel for you bit OP. You're 23, at uni, no commitments as such, you should be having the time of your life!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What do you mean you're different in real life?

Like I'm super friendly and just a laugh to talk to. I'm really chill and people just naturally trust me. They say I have a trusting vibe to me.

I can literally talk to anyone about anything.

Its just the intimate part that get me. Bedroom is fine. Its the part before that. "

Why not concentrate on making friends and leave the bedroom stuff for now? I think you might be the kind of person that needs to be friends first. There's nothing wrong with being like that. Some people can meet someone and fuck them and there's nothing wrong with that either, I just don't think that's you.

I wouldn't go out on my own either. You could make the first move and ask uni people if they fancy a night out. Men or women or both. Lads night out. Or get mates round to watch some footie.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"I feel for you bit OP. You're 23, at uni, no commitments as such, you should be having the time of your life! "

Yeah, he really should have fucking graduated by now

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Seems like I've put a negative vibe on this forum. Not sure it its people seeing me as narcissistic or just not agreeing with me.

What are your honest thoughts of me?

Don't care about bluntness or being cunty. Just out with it.

I think you should be out chasing vagina.

Wouldn't know where to start.

You start by getting off the forum and going to the pub.

This isn't 10 years ago where everyone goes to the pub

Yes all girls are on tinder and pof

Yep. None of which works.

Dude, I have to say that you are as the thread is titled

I know. But everything people say. I have tried. I've been on tinder for 2y. Not a single meet or actual conversation. No matches. Pof is a joke.

And what is it that you want?

To do what my 3 roomates did. They downloaded the app and got loads of meets and ended up with a gf the next month.

Not right bothered about the gf part. Don't really see myself as bf material.

You need to see your self as husband material in order to get a shag

Hope this helps

But I don't have any of the qualities I see in people in a relationship.

What do you think you lack? "

The fact that I don't feel the need to have someone there all the time. The fact that I don't feel like I can love someone. The list goes on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You're not the only user who for whatever reason seems to attract a lot of negative comments, You have asked for advise a few times but instantly go on the defensive and reject most of the advise,

I know that. But it seems like a place where I could actually have a decent chat with a few. "

Why not just stick to pms for a bit chat with that way rather that paining a bullseye on your back publicly it may give u a bit more experience and true confidence of how to comunicate on here or watch how people interact and flirt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seems like I've put a negative vibe on this forum. Not sure it its people seeing me as narcissistic or just not agreeing with me.

What are your honest thoughts of me?

Don't care about bluntness or being cunty. Just out with it. "

You seem extremely needy and immature to be in here...... you did ask.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You're not the only user who for whatever reason seems to attract a lot of negative comments, You have asked for advise a few times but instantly go on the defensive and reject most of the advise,

This is good advice OP."

I know. I so take the advice on board. It just makes me feel shit that I know I can't do it. My social skill just don't allow it. I've tried. I really have. The more I try the worse I feel about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think you need to find some friends of your own age go out find your way in the world and get a life that makes you happy.

It's not out of your grasp if you make the effort to do it.

Sadly I don't think you will.

Honestly. I have no idea where to start.

I've said this before....often.

It's your life and only you can change it.

So if you have sufficient balls to do this...

1 Turn off the phone/ laptop now

2 Go outside.

3 Find a bar club party whatever you think, where there may be people not pixels

4 you don't even have to drink

5 smile at someone maybe even say hello. They might even reply. After that it's up to you...

6 Come back after the weekend and tell us what happened...

Who knows you may even get laid too!

So have you? Got the balls to do it?

Isn't its weird to go out alone?

Thats why I don't and the fact i don't have alot of cash. I know thats a silly excuse.

It's more weird to not dare to try.

You don't need a lot of cash.

Money doesn't impress people...other people do.

I know some really fucking stubborn people...

But you....

If everyone is telling you the same thing don't you think it's worth grabbing your balls in your hand taking a deep breath and at least giving it a try...

WHAT DO YOU HAVE TO LOSE?

Crashing and burning and embarrassing myself or, just realising how crap I really am with people. "

Give yourself some credit, you get allsorts of shit on the forum and you're still here! It could be said that you've crashed and burned on here - if you can survive that, you can survive anything!

People in real life have said they trust you. That's a really cool thing.

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Op you are extremely negative. Every suggestion made you put it down coming back with excuse after excuse.

Go to an animal rescue place and offer your services . They are always keen to have assistance. Take the dogs out to the parks . Run with them. People will smile at you and will talk with you .

Offer help at soup kitchens in the area.chat with other kind people that assist those less fortunate than you.

Neither of those options will cost you a dime. You may feel better for helping others.

In reply to another of your comebacks . Yep you can go out alone . All of the socials and kestrel visits I did alone. It is just as difficult to mix at my age as yours but I did it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Maybe you need to drop engineering and take up sociology?

How about you take up Conflict Management

Relationship councillor? "

Thats the thing. I'm great at coaching people on how to sort their relationships out and how to get in relationships. I helped my roommate with his gf when they were dating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think you need to find some friends of your own age go out find your way in the world and get a life that makes you happy.

It's not out of your grasp if you make the effort to do it.

Sadly I don't think you will.

Honestly. I have no idea where to start.

I've said this before....often.

It's your life and only you can change it.

So if you have sufficient balls to do this...

1 Turn off the phone/ laptop now

2 Go outside.

3 Find a bar club party whatever you think, where there may be people not pixels

4 you don't even have to drink

5 smile at someone maybe even say hello. They might even reply. After that it's up to you...

6 Come back after the weekend and tell us what happened...

Who knows you may even get laid too!

So have you? Got the balls to do it?

Isn't its weird to go out alone?

Thats why I don't and the fact i don't have alot of cash. I know thats a silly excuse.

It's more weird to not dare to try.

You don't need a lot of cash.

Money doesn't impress people...other people do.

I know some really fucking stubborn people...

But you....

If everyone is telling you the same thing don't you think it's worth grabbing your balls in your hand taking a deep breath and at least giving it a try...

WHAT DO YOU HAVE TO LOSE?

Crashing and burning and embarrassing myself or, just realising how crap I really am with people. "

So what, next! Remember all experts were once beginners

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I feel for you bit OP. You're 23, at uni, no commitments as such, you should be having the time of your life! "

I was. Then it all just stopped suddenly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe you need to drop engineering and take up sociology?

How about you take up Conflict Management

Relationship councillor?

Thats the thing. I'm great at coaching people on how to sort their relationships out and how to get in relationships. I helped my roommate with his gf when they were dating. "

Help? How?

MFM?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I feel for you bit OP. You're 23, at uni, no commitments as such, you should be having the time of your life!

I was. Then it all just stopped suddenly. "

Have you tried Viagra Connect?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think you need to find some friends of your own age go out find your way in the world and get a life that makes you happy.

It's not out of your grasp if you make the effort to do it.

Sadly I don't think you will.

Honestly. I have no idea where to start.

I've said this before....often.

It's your life and only you can change it.

So if you have sufficient balls to do this...

1 Turn off the phone/ laptop now

2 Go outside.

3 Find a bar club party whatever you think, where there may be people not pixels

4 you don't even have to drink

5 smile at someone maybe even say hello. They might even reply. After that it's up to you...

6 Come back after the weekend and tell us what happened...

Who knows you may even get laid too!

So have you? Got the balls to do it?

Isn't its weird to go out alone?

Thats why I don't and the fact i don't have alot of cash. I know thats a silly excuse.

It's more weird to not dare to try.

You don't need a lot of cash.

Money doesn't impress people...other people do.

I know some really fucking stubborn people...

But you....

If everyone is telling you the same thing don't you think it's worth grabbing your balls in your hand taking a deep breath and at least giving it a try...

WHAT DO YOU HAVE TO LOSE?

His virginity

#cruel. I'd give him the £30 for a few drinks myself if he had the balls to go out and give the real world a try.

The feedback thread would be so worth it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And why is there some guy replying to everyone being a twat?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What do you mean you're different in real life?

Like I'm super friendly and just a laugh to talk to. I'm really chill and people just naturally trust me. They say I have a trusting vibe to me.

I can literally talk to anyone about anything.

Its just the intimate part that get me. Bedroom is fine. Its the part before that.

I wouldn't go out on my own either. You could make the first move and ask uni people if they fancy a night out. Men or women or both. Lads night out. Or get mates round to watch some footie."

I don't know anyone who would actually hang out with me. They all think I'm boring.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think you need to find some friends of your own age go out find your way in the world and get a life that makes you happy.

It's not out of your grasp if you make the effort to do it.

Sadly I don't think you will.

Honestly. I have no idea where to start.

I've said this before....often.

It's your life and only you can change it.

So if you have sufficient balls to do this...

1 Turn off the phone/ laptop now

2 Go outside.

3 Find a bar club party whatever you think, where there may be people not pixels

4 you don't even have to drink

5 smile at someone maybe even say hello. They might even reply. After that it's up to you...

6 Come back after the weekend and tell us what happened...

Who knows you may even get laid too!

So have you? Got the balls to do it?

Isn't its weird to go out alone?

Thats why I don't and the fact i don't have alot of cash. I know thats a silly excuse.

It's more weird to not dare to try.

You don't need a lot of cash.

Money doesn't impress people...other people do.

I know some really fucking stubborn people...

But you....

If everyone is telling you the same thing don't you think it's worth grabbing your balls in your hand taking a deep breath and at least giving it a try...

WHAT DO YOU HAVE TO LOSE?

His virginity

#cruel. I'd give him the £30 for a few drinks myself if he had the balls to go out and give the real world a try.

The feedback thread would be so worth it."

You are right, he needs to stop being a miserable bastard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Phew! This thread is about to end

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

"I feel for you bit OP. You're 23, at uni, no commitments as such, you should be having the time of your life!

I was. Then it all just stopped suddenly. "

How come?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Phew! This thread is about to end

I’m sure an upgraded version of this is on its way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Phew! This thread is about to end

Don't worry I'm sure there will be a new one along soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you don't really give a damn about others opinion even if you ask for it which makes this whole thread pointless.

You're in such big denial, anything that doesn't agree with you is wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Phew! This thread is about to end

I’m sure an upgraded version of this is on its way

Haha so true

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"Phew! This thread is about to end

I’m sure an upgraded version of this is on its way

It's a 6 part series, right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're excellent at filling threads mind

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Hey OP this might not be the best network for you.

I suspect there are better ways to approach this, then come back in a more positive outcome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not sure any one person can put a negative vibe on a whole forum....

It's the people who respond negatively that make it negative.

So it's not me? "

Not entirely. Your threads aren't exactly cheerful and they are provocative at times.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I feel for you bit OP. You're 23, at uni, no commitments as such, you should be having the time of your life!

Yeah, he really should have fucking graduated by now

I'm on my first year.

I took the btec route that you start at 16. Did the first diploma because I was a fuck about in school (1 year). Got an apprenticeship and they couldn't keep me on. So I couldn't start the second course till I was 18. I did my extended diploma (2y) and then went onto my advanced diploma (hnd) that went on fir 2 years. I failed the last year due to issues at home. And have to redo them two years at uni in my current course.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You have a lot of comments in under an hour of posting this.... At least you are well known on here

Click bait!

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

"You're not the only user who for whatever reason seems to attract a lot of negative comments, You have asked for advise a few times but instantly go on the defensive and reject most of the advise,

This is good advice OP.

I know. I so take the advice on board. It just makes me feel shit that I know I can't do it. My social skill just don't allow it. I've tried. I really have. The more I try the worse I feel about it. "

Don't assume every man/Woman on here is getting laid or chatting in pms all the time, I know it can be frustrating watching other people hook up when its not happening to you but you're still young and have a very long time to fine tune your communication skills

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Phew! This thread is about to end

Still stayed to the end though didn't you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think you need to find some friends of your own age go out find your way in the world and get a life that makes you happy.

It's not out of your grasp if you make the effort to do it.

Sadly I don't think you will.

Honestly. I have no idea where to start.

I've said this before....often.

It's your life and only you can change it.

So if you have sufficient balls to do this...

1 Turn off the phone/ laptop now

2 Go outside.

3 Find a bar club party whatever you think, where there may be people not pixels

4 you don't even have to drink

5 smile at someone maybe even say hello. They might even reply. After that it's up to you...

6 Come back after the weekend and tell us what happened...

Who knows you may even get laid too!

So have you? Got the balls to do it?

Isn't its weird to go out alone?

Thats why I don't and the fact i don't have alot of cash. I know thats a silly excuse.

It's more weird to not dare to try.

You don't need a lot of cash.

Money doesn't impress people...other people do.

I know some really fucking stubborn people...

But you....

If everyone is telling you the same thing don't you think it's worth grabbing your balls in your hand taking a deep breath and at least giving it a try...

WHAT DO YOU HAVE TO LOSE?

Crashing and burning and embarrassing myself or, just realising how crap I really am with people. "

It happens to all of us. But it's like riding a horse. You fall off get back on and try again.

Btw. I am not having a pop at you.

It takes balls to try and fail and try and fail and try again.

It's how everyone learns not just those on fab.

Now turn the tech off and dare to try.

I think there's a half decent guy in there trying to find his way out...

Only you can do it...

The door ...It's behind you. Go and try then come back and tell us....

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By *electableDalliancesCouple
over a year ago

leeds

I'd suggest therapy, you lack empathy and are pretty narcissistic, both traits difficult to form relationships around. Maybe address those issues and things will change for you ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s the impression I get from following your green arrow.

I'm not like that at all irl.

What offers? Thats pure sarcasm. Nobody would meet me from my threads.

You will find that some will block you for your thread too.. welcome to forums, which people use as filters to filter angels on fab

None are anywhere close to me so it does not make a difference to me.

Mate! You live in Sheffield city center! Come on!!

So. Whats your point? Its Sheffield yes. But the location doesn't make it special. "

Sheffield has vibrant thriving city centre nightlife. Why not just go out and join in with it?

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