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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What’s every ones views on showing or not showing verification ?

We like to read them as a general clue to what some like ect.

On the others hand when we post a new one sometimes get grief .

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

They are good when not used as lamp posts to piss on.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I’ve shown a couple of recent ones, a few ones where it shows I’m a shit shag and his most of the others. "
hid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hide them - and now tend to not give anything other than a social verification. It's not anyone else's business.

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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain

I used to display mine, but some folk can take displaying them as “open season” & target them. Likewise I’ve had some strange messages from folk who have read friends profiles which have displayed my Veris on their profiles, but clearly they haven’t read my profile criteria or think I’d drop my standards just because they’re on Fab.

Now I keep em hidden but only show them if requested to prove Meets.

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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain

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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain

Ultimately it’s down to your own choice that suits your lifestyle & criteria.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks .

When we read others is just to check out that there not some nutcase ,

We have met a few. Also mainly that there not timewaisters had tons of them .

When we hide ours it’s a bit hipocritical as in our profile we say we want to see them .

Think just show last 3 or so ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks .

When we read others is just to check out that there not some nutcase ,

We have met a few. Also mainly that there not timewaisters had tons of them .

When we hide ours it’s a bit hipocritical as in our profile we say we want to see them .

Think just show last 3 or so ?"

Do what makes you happy and it will attract the same kind of people.

You can't tell from veris if people will turn up. People have been stood up by profiles with lots of veris. Trust your gut.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So true thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have some but choose not to display them

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By *ensualcouple99Couple
over a year ago

Colchester

If you want to show them but don't want it announcing on the newsfeed that you've just published one just wait a week before putting it up. Then if people look at your veris they'll see it but it's not announced and drawn attention to.

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

I don't understand what sort of hassle people get for showing their verifications. Never had a problem and had well over 300 on my single profile.

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

I hide mine as they are really old now. Not been to a social for 3 years or Kestrels for 4 years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some I display some I don't... don't like to share what I do with certain people... I don't want to give people a bad idea

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Will try the leave for a week .if we are to get any more .

As for the couple that’s not had any hassle with over 300 wow you got it right good for you .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to read them see if theres any clues to likes dislikes do i bit of homework

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Verifications are like product reviews on Amazon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Verifications are like product reviews on Amazon "
this is so very true and our profile advertisements for us . That's why I'm always surprised when people don't put much thought in to their profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

True .

So f you could write your own what would it be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally don’t like giving or receiving them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It’s a hard one as not everyone’s amazing is the same level

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

We’ve had a bit of grief over the years for having too many , but we stopped giving a shit about what people we were never likely to meet thought ages ago .

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