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By *olly_chromatic OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport


"By Young guy 95 OP 1 hour ago

Sex is alot easier to get for women. Discuss

"

The original thread was just getting interesting, we had finally had a couple of responses covering the original point. Can we continue please?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah! It was proper entertaining!

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Dear Polly as an avid follower of you. Could you please tell me if I’m confused ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sure. Lets continue it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of my play is in clubs and I think it’s possibly easier in that environment for me than some blokes to get sex.

But then if I ever put a meet up looking for sex I very early get offers.

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

Leeds

So if I was a woman would I have a chance @ previous OP not current OP who actually is hot as and I know is way out of my league.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So if I was a woman would I have a chance @ previous OP not current OP who actually is hot as and I know is way out of my league. "

Only if you was my type. But as you would just dress as one now. You're not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex as in a physical act of penetration is easy for anyone to get. Pay for it if you need to.

Sex with someone you are attracted to and actually want to be intimate isn't "easy" for either sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I will have to come back to this later as off out drinking now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sex as in a physical act of penetration is easy for anyone to get. Pay for it if you need to.

Sex with someone you are attracted to and actually want to be intimate isn't "easy" for either sex. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think I will have to come back to this later as off out drinking now. "

Itll be on part 479 by then

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Anyone can get sex for sex sake. Finding a compatable sex partner can be difficult for either sex. Some struggle more than others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think I will have to come back to this later as off out drinking now. "

Having just read the first thread I think I need a drink now too

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By *olly_chromatic OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport


"Sex as in a physical act of penetration is easy for anyone to get. Pay for it if you need to.

Sex with someone you are attracted to and actually want to be intimate isn't "easy" for either sex. "

Absolutely. And just working to a fixed checklist of likes and dislikes, instantly discarding any that are not exact matches, will more than likely throw the baby out with the bathwater.

OP (original part 1 OP that is) being pleasant to somebody costs nothing, it doesn't matter if they're not the instant perfect match. Maybe they will introduce you to their friend. Or you might find yourself joining in a wider social group, becoming part of a network of firm friends. Ultimately finding the love of your life... But it doesn't happen instantly, it needs so much work, and there are no guaranteed outcomes. But it is sure that if you never try, you'll never know how things could turn out...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you go on looks alone you may never find the one.

There are a couple of ladies on here that I would love that intimate connection with, but I am outside of what they call their type.

Maybe I shouldn't be so picky myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think I will have to come back to this later as off out drinking now.

Having just read the first thread I think I need a drink now too"

You could have come and joined us if you were nearer

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By *entish79Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Sex as in a physical act of penetration is easy for anyone to get. Pay for it if you need to.

Sex with someone you are attracted to and actually want to be intimate isn't "easy" for either sex. "

I’d agree it isn’t easy, but on general it must surely be easier for women, as women typically command the attention of more men than vice versa.

So still not necessarily easy if virtually all of that attention is unwanted, but it’s likely to be a bigger pool to select from at any given time.

You would only have to compare be typical woman’s inbox to the typical man’s inbox on Fab.

Mind you, I have often joked that I don’t know what’s worse. Being a guy and having most messages deleted or unread, or being a woman and having to wade brought countless cheesy or crude one line messages with unwanted sick pics!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sex as in a physical act of penetration is easy for anyone to get. Pay for it if you need to.

Sex with someone you are attracted to and actually want to be intimate isn't "easy" for either sex.

Absolutely. And just working to a fixed checklist of likes and dislikes, instantly discarding any that are not exact matches, will more than likely throw the baby out with the bathwater.

OP (original part 1 OP that is) being pleasant to somebody costs nothing, it doesn't matter if they're not the instant perfect match. Maybe they will introduce you to their friend. Or you might find yourself joining in a wider social group, becoming part of a network of firm friends. Ultimately finding the love of your life... But it doesn't happen instantly, it needs so much work, and there are no guaranteed outcomes. But it is sure that if you never try, you'll never know how things could turn out..."

Having not read the whole of the other thread (life is too short) I would like to say that common decency is very sexy.

And should apply to all.

It's nice to be nice.

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By *olly_chromatic OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport


"Sex as in a physical act of penetration is easy for anyone to get. Pay for it if you need to.

Sex with someone you are attracted to and actually want to be intimate isn't "easy" for either sex.

Absolutely. And just working to a fixed checklist of likes and dislikes, instantly discarding any that are not exact matches, will more than likely throw the baby out with the bathwater.

OP (original part 1 OP that is) being pleasant to somebody costs nothing, it doesn't matter if they're not the instant perfect match. Maybe they will introduce you to their friend. Or you might find yourself joining in a wider social group, becoming part of a network of firm friends. Ultimately finding the love of your life... But it doesn't happen instantly, it needs so much work, and there are no guaranteed outcomes. But it is sure that if you never try, you'll never know how things could turn out...

Having not read the whole of the other thread (life is too short) I would like to say that common decency is very sexy.

And should apply to all.

It's nice to be nice. "

It is nice to be nice isn't it? If I'm being pleasant to other people it makes me feel good, and they appreciate it so are likely to be nice back to me which makes me feel good. There's an upwards spiral of people being nice to each other regardless of minor differences and incompatibilites, and a downwards spiral when people are intolerant of others...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think I will have to come back to this later as off out drinking now.

Having just read the first thread I think I need a drink now too

You could have come and joined us if you were nearer "

Now that’s an offer!

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"I think I will have to come back to this later as off out drinking now.

Having just read the first thread I think I need a drink now too

You could have come and joined us if you were nearer

Now that’s an offer! "

Pick me up on the way yaaaaaay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably true if the woman isn't too fussy (not a criticism, it's her choice). But certainly not true for someone as particular as me.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Sex as in a physical act of penetration is easy for anyone to get. Pay for it if you need to.

Sex with someone you are attracted to and actually want to be intimate isn't "easy" for either sex.

Absolutely. And just working to a fixed checklist of likes and dislikes, instantly discarding any that are not exact matches, will more than likely throw the baby out with the bathwater.

OP (original part 1 OP that is) being pleasant to somebody costs nothing, it doesn't matter if they're not the instant perfect match. Maybe they will introduce you to their friend. Or you might find yourself joining in a wider social group, becoming part of a network of firm friends. Ultimately finding the love of your life... But it doesn't happen instantly, it needs so much work, and there are no guaranteed outcomes. But it is sure that if you never try, you'll never know how things could turn out..."

I believe its called networking. Works very well for me as most of my new meets are friends of friends.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I think I will have to come back to this later as off out drinking now.

Having just read the first thread I think I need a drink now too"

White wine please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think I will have to come back to this later as off out drinking now.

Having just read the first thread I think I need a drink now too

White wine please "

I need a hair of the dog!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is that not obvious as most guys would fuck anything with pulse . Even when out last nite girl we were with got chatted up by numerous guys .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is that not obvious as most guys would fuck anything with pulse . Even when out last nite girl we were with got chatted up by numerous guys . "

Oh wow. Was she hideously ugly? Maybe she was just their type?

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By *ubiousOatcakeMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire


"Is that not obvious as most guys would fuck anything with pulse . Even when out last nite girl we were with got chatted up by numerous guys . "

What a delightful response. You’ll do well here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is that not obvious as most guys would fuck anything with pulse . Even when out last nite girl we were with got chatted up by numerous guys .

Oh wow. Was she hideously ugly? Maybe she was just their type?"
no she's good looking I'm just saying women don't have do much to get attention and sex

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By *ubiousOatcakeMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire


"no she's good looking I'm just saying women don't have do much to get attention and sex "

Is getting attention and finding someone you want to have sex with the same thing, in your mind, then?

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By *iverpool LoverMan
over a year ago

liverpool

This thread is missing ego wanking hermits...where you all at?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is that not obvious as most guys would fuck anything with pulse . Even when out last nite girl we were with got chatted up by numerous guys . "

I get mail on here. No attention at all in real life.

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

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"Is that not obvious as most guys would fuck anything with pulse . Even when out last nite girl we were with got chatted up by numerous guys . "

I think it is easier for Women if they don't see physical attraction as a requirement for having sex as more Men will be up for it then the other way around

Both Men and Women will fuck anyone if all they want is to just have sex, Its just that the majority will only do it if there is some kind of attraction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How come I missed the original thread! Why nobody sent me a pm to inform me

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

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"How come I missed the original thread! Why nobody sent me a pm to inform me "

What! Didn't your spidey senses kick in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How come I missed the original thread! Why nobody sent me a pm to inform me

What! Didn't your spidey senses kick in

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I had no idea, what are you all good for?! Original thread was gold & this is silver

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