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By *educed OP Woman
over a year ago

Birmingham

...ghosted?

Been chatting to a bloke 8 weeks. Met him for the first time two nights ago. No sex. I did drink vodka.

Blocked and deleted everywhere...

Can't imagine why?

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By *aenMan
over a year ago

Here and There

How much vodka?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blimey, what did you do to him?

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

There's no point trying to guess why as crap as it can feel. Yes, it does read like you have been.

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By *educed OP Woman
over a year ago

Birmingham

"How much vodka?

Enough!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did you fart as you left?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How much vodka?

Enough!

Ooops!

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By *educed OP Woman
over a year ago

Birmingham

"There's no point trying to guess why as crap as it can feel. Yes, it does read like you have been."

Yeah. It's my first experience of this. Gosh it's shite ain't it?

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By *aenMan
over a year ago

Here and There

Hmmm did you go all Gremlins on him?

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By *educed OP Woman
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Did you fart as you left?"

Probably whilst in situ.

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

Ghosts just tend to ignore and not respond. They often try to initiate conversation a few wks/months down the line as if nothing happened.

I'd say you encountered someone who wasn't grown up enough just to say thanks but no thanks.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"There's no point trying to guess why as crap as it can feel. Yes, it does read like you have been.

Yeah. It's my first experience of this. Gosh it's shite ain't it? "

It is. Wallow for a bit and then get a good cocking. Worked for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How much vodka?

Enough!

Ooops!

On your cornflakes?

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By *ervent_fervourMan
over a year ago

Halifax

Probably annoyed that you could drink more than him.

Bloody alpha males.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is he on Fab OP ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's no point trying to guess why as crap as it can feel. Yes, it does read like you have been.

Yeah. It's my first experience of this. Gosh it's shite ain't it?

It is. Wallow for a bit and then get a good cocking. Worked for me.

Just skip the wallowing

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By *educed OP Woman
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Hmmm did you go all Gremlins on him? "

Did he splash me with water?

What is this kinkery fuckery you talk of?

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By *educed OP Woman
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Ghosts just tend to ignore and not respond. They often try to initiate conversation a few wks/months down the line as if nothing happened.

I'd say you encountered someone who wasn't grown up enough just to say thanks but no thanks. "

I just don't understand why not say that? But then would that be easier to swallow? Instead of not sure?

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By *educed OP Woman
over a year ago

Birmingham

"There's no point trying to guess why as crap as it can feel. Yes, it does read like you have been.

Yeah. It's my first experience of this. Gosh it's shite ain't it?

It is. Wallow for a bit and then get a good cocking. Worked for me.

Just skip the wallowing

Wallow deep in hollow.. Some song about hippos...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's no point trying to guess why as crap as it can feel. Yes, it does read like you have been.

Yeah. It's my first experience of this. Gosh it's shite ain't it? "

Yep, just been there! Would offer you a shoulder to cry on but not so sure now!

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By *aenMan
over a year ago

Here and There

"Hmmm did you go all Gremlins on him?

Did he splash me with water?

What is this kinkery fuckery you talk of? "

Same effect but with alcohol. One minute, all demure. The next a disheveled banshee! -D

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By *educed OP Woman
over a year ago

Birmingham

"There's no point trying to guess why as crap as it can feel. Yes, it does read like you have been.

Yeah. It's my first experience of this. Gosh it's shite ain't it?

It is. Wallow for a bit and then get a good cocking. Worked for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Did you fart as you left?

Probably whilst in situ.

Rookie mistake.

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By *educed OP Woman
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Hmmm did you go all Gremlins on him?

Did he splash me with water?

What is this kinkery fuckery you talk of?

Same effect but with alcohol. One minute, all demure. The next a disheveled banshee! -D"

Oh. Have we met?

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By *actilemale4uMan
over a year ago

London

His loss sure theres many many guys who would be over the moo n to meet you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...ghosted?

Been chatting to a bloke 8 weeks. Met him for the first time two nights ago. No sex. I did drink vodka.

Blocked and deleted everywhere...

Can't imagine why? "

Someone get an exorcist - you’ve been possessed by Estella

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

"Ghosts just tend to ignore and not respond. They often try to initiate conversation a few wks/months down the line as if nothing happened.

I'd say you encountered someone who wasn't grown up enough just to say thanks but no thanks.

I just don't understand why not say that? But then would that be easier to swallow? Instead of not sure? "

I'd much rather be told cause then at least you know. I think doing that to someone is cruel as then you end up over thinking it and wondering what you've done. It's a shitty feeling and knocks you're confidence.

Drink some more vodka and get back on the horse

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By *educed OP Woman
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Did you fart as you left?

Probably whilst in situ.

Rookie mistake. "

See, we need a Forum thread on first meets... what to do/what bot to do?!

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By *educed OP Woman
over a year ago

Birmingham

"...ghosted?

Been chatting to a bloke 8 weeks. Met him for the first time two nights ago. No sex. I did drink vodka.

Blocked and deleted everywhere...

Can't imagine why?

Someone get an exorcist - you’ve been possessed by Estella

Well, fuck me!

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By *educed OP Woman
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Is he on Fab OP ?"

He was...

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By *educed OP Woman
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Hmmm did you go all Gremlins on him?

Did he splash me with water?

What is this kinkery fuckery you talk of?

Same effect but with alcohol. One minute, all demure. The next a disheveled banshee! -D"

Do you know me?

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By *educed OP Woman
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Ghosts just tend to ignore and not respond. They often try to initiate conversation a few wks/months down the line as if nothing happened.

I'd say you encountered someone who wasn't grown up enough just to say thanks but no thanks.

I just don't understand why not say that? But then would that be easier to swallow? Instead of not sure?

Drink some more vodka and get back on the horse

I will. I am a strong independent woman...

Thank you.

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By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge

"Ghosts just tend to ignore and not respond. They often try to initiate conversation a few wks/months down the line as if nothing happened.

I'd say you encountered someone who wasn't grown up enough just to say thanks but no thanks.

I just don't understand why not say that? But then would that be easier to swallow? Instead of not sure? "

Probably because you didn't swallow....

Ah no he probably expected something that night and when it didn't happen he threw a tantrum after you left flung his toys out of his pram and blocked you because he couldn't handle such a beautiful woman.

End of the day I'm sure it is his loss and someone else's gain.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was just one bad 'un amongst many, many successful meets so don't be downhearted!

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

(((((Hugs))))) OP... its shite but it happens. Have a Cosmo, tell yourself you probably had a lucky escape anyway, and when he suddenly decides to get in touch again sometime give him the 'deleted unread' treatment

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By *educed OP Woman
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Ghosts just tend to ignore and not respond. They often try to initiate conversation a few wks/months down the line as if nothing happened.

I'd say you encountered someone who wasn't grown up enough just to say thanks but no thanks.

I just don't understand why not say that? But then would that be easier to swallow? Instead of not sure?

Probably because you didn't swallow....

End of the day I'm sure it is his loss and someone else's gain. "

Doesn't feel like that. Sure you are right though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...ghosted?

Been chatting to a bloke 8 weeks. Met him for the first time two nights ago. No sex. I did drink vodka.

Blocked and deleted everywhere...

Can't imagine why? "

Did you pinch his fags?

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By *educed OP Woman
over a year ago

Birmingham

"It was just one bad 'un amongst many, many successful meets so don't be downhearted! "

I always smiling ?

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By *educed OP Woman
over a year ago

Birmingham

"...ghosted?

Been chatting to a bloke 8 weeks. Met him for the first time two nights ago. No sex. I did drink vodka.

Blocked and deleted everywhere...

Can't imagine why?

Did you pinch his fags? "

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

You only got ghosted if you were sat at your potters wheel and he came up behind you and helped fashion a cock out of clay while Unchained Melody played in the background

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By *iss.RedWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

"You only got ghosted if you were sat at your potters wheel and he came up behind you and helped fashion a cock out of clay while Unchained Melody played in the background

Do you know you have a blank avatar? Has the fab virus got you too?

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By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge

"Ghosts just tend to ignore and not respond. They often try to initiate conversation a few wks/months down the line as if nothing happened.

I'd say you encountered someone who wasn't grown up enough just to say thanks but no thanks.

I just don't understand why not say that? But then would that be easier to swallow? Instead of not sure?

Probably because you didn't swallow....

End of the day I'm sure it is his loss and someone else's gain.

Doesn't feel like that. Sure you are right though. "

I've had it Happen and it does mess with your head because you start thinking it was your fault, did you do something wrong? But honestly it's nothing you done some guys/girls are just like that. Don't get what they want first time they won't try a second Time. Keep the chin up.

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By *educed OP Woman
over a year ago

Birmingham

"(((((Hugs))))) OP... its shite but it happens. Have a Cosmo, tell yourself you probably had a lucky escape anyway, and when he suddenly decides to get in touch again sometime give him the 'deleted unread' treatment

I love the forums sometimes.

Thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some men are just flaky

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"You only got ghosted if you were sat at your potters wheel and he came up behind you and helped fashion a cock out of clay while Unchained Melody played in the background

Do you know you have a bum avatar? Has the fab virus got you too?"

FTFY

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

"You only got ghosted if you were sat at your potters wheel and he came up behind you and helped fashion a cock out of clay while Unchained Melody played in the background

Do you know you have a blank avatar? Has the fab virus got you too?"

See?? even Fab ghosts us sometimes!!

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By *educed OP Woman
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Ghosts just tend to ignore and not respond. They often try to initiate conversation a few wks/months down the line as if nothing happened.

I'd say you encountered someone who wasn't grown up enough just to say thanks but no thanks.

I just don't understand why not say that? But then would that be easier to swallow? Instead of not sure?

Probably because you didn't swallow....

End of the day I'm sure it is his loss and someone else's gain.

Doesn't feel like that. Sure you are right though.

Deffo. Kind words indeed. Thank you.

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By *iss.RedWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

"You only got ghosted if you were sat at your potters wheel and he came up behind you and helped fashion a cock out of clay while Unchained Melody played in the background

Do you know you have a bum avatar? Has the fab virus got you too?

FTFY

What a mighty fine bum it is too

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By *iss.RedWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

"You only got ghosted if you were sat at your potters wheel and he came up behind you and helped fashion a cock out of clay while Unchained Melody played in the background

Do you know you have a blank avatar? Has the fab virus got you too?

See?? even Fab ghosts us sometimes!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe he thought he was in for some hanky panky that way

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By *educed OP Woman
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Some men are just flaky "

But I was so well behaved lasy weekend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You only got ghosted if you were sat at your potters wheel and he came up behind you and helped fashion a cock out of clay while Unchained Melody played in the background

Do you know you have a blank avatar? Has the fab virus got you too?"

I can see it.

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By *educed OP Woman
over a year ago

Birmingham

"You only got ghosted if you were sat at your potters wheel and he came up behind you and helped fashion a cock out of clay while Unchained Melody played in the background

Oh my love... My darling...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...ghosted?

Been chatting to a bloke 8 weeks. Met him for the first time two nights ago. No sex. I did drink vodka.

Blocked and deleted everywhere...

Can't imagine why? "

Happens to us blokes every week, sometimes more

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By *iss.RedWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

"You only got ghosted if you were sat at your potters wheel and he came up behind you and helped fashion a cock out of clay while Unchained Melody played in the background

Do you know you have a blank avatar? Has the fab virus got you too?

I can see it."

I think he just fixed it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some men are just flaky

But I was so well behaved lasy weekend

Ahh well you know the answer to that!

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By *educed OP Woman
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Some men are just flaky

But I was so well behaved lasy weekend

Ahh well you know the answer to that!

Roger that.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"You only got ghosted if you were sat at your potters wheel and he came up behind you and helped fashion a cock out of clay while Unchained Melody played in the background

Do you know you have a blank avatar? Has the fab virus got you too?

I can see it.

I think he just fixed it"

Moi? Try and pull the wool over your eyes?! Neeee-ver

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Maybe he took cold feet.

I met a guy for a coffee, got on really well. He messaged to meet up, i got a room arranged the time off then on the morning he messaged to say he was going to try again with his wife and he went UNLOS. Left me with a hotel room and no meet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happens doll. You weren't for him. Take it on the chin and move on x

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By *educed OP Woman
over a year ago

Birmingham

"You only got ghosted if you were sat at your potters wheel and he came up behind you and helped fashion a cock out of clay while Unchained Melody played in the background

Do you know you have a blank avatar? Has the fab virus got you too?

I can see it.

I think he just fixed it

Moi? Try and pull the wool over your eyes?! Neeee-ver

I saw it. With my own eyes.

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By *educed OP Woman
over a year ago

Birmingham

"...ghosted?

Been chatting to a bloke 8 weeks. Met him for the first time two nights ago. No sex. I did drink vodka.

Blocked and deleted everywhere...

Can't imagine why?

Happens to us blokes every week, sometimes more"

Can wwe start a support group?

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"You only got ghosted if you were sat at your potters wheel and he came up behind you and helped fashion a cock out of clay while Unchained Melody played in the background

Do you know you have a blank avatar? Has the fab virus got you too?

I can see it.

I think he just fixed it

Moi? Try and pull the wool over your eyes?! Neeee-ver

I saw it. With my own eyes. "

Sorry about that...one of these days I'll remember to do my flies up after I go to the loo!!

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