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So many married men playing away!

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By *ollyG OP   Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

What do women think about it?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I dont really think about it much at all

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands

Same for both sexes

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

It doesn't worry me tbh.

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By *ollyG OP   Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

Nor do I, just wanted to chat about it x I'm sure women are doing the same!

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By *ineMan
over a year ago

In cave behind a waterfall on a hill

Fastest thread kill of the night?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Other people's relationships and how they choose to conduct them or themselves within them, is absolutely none of my business (goes equally for men and women).

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By *ollyG OP   Woman
over a year ago

Southampton


"Fastest thread kill of the night? "

Sorry!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It annoys me when I state I don’t want to meet attached men but I still get men trying it on. I’ve had a couple in the past get to know me and fail to tell me that and I find out myself. Just be honest about it.

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By *ollyG OP   Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

Guess we all fuck everyone and don't care about married or not? I do lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to be very black and white about it.

And frankly intolerant.

Over the years I have learned that it is so much more complicated.

I don't judge people for their choices like I used to. Just go with my own moral compass.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

As long as they leave me alone, I couldn't give a shit about them

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By *unloversCouple
over a year ago

rotherham

Totally not interested to be honest

That’s their business

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am not bothered. I am on here for NSA fun not to find a soul mate or husband.

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

Love them. Something extra nice about the taste of a married man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't care, I let them crack on with it in peace.

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest

There must be exactly the same number of women playing away.

Simple mathematics.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

They don’t impact on me in he slightest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some don't mind, some do mind.

What gets me is how judgemental people can be about married men without knowing facts, but hey ho, such is life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I reckon this is just a bogus thread to find out which marrieds are up for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There must be exactly the same number of women playing away.

Simple mathematics."

Huh? How does that work out then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There must be exactly the same number of women playing away.

Simple mathematics."

How exactly, exactly? There might be more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

BREAKING:

Women think different things on married blokes playing away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's disgraceful.

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By *hips n FursMan
over a year ago

Huddersfield

Hang em high and cut their bollocks off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hang em high and cut their bollocks off."

And what for the women?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey miss positivity. How you been? Life treating you well? Good hear. Keep smilng

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London


"It annoys me when I state I don’t want to meet attached men but I still get men trying it on. I’ve had a couple in the past get to know me and fail to tell me that and I find out myself. Just be honest about it. "

As I have said before I think it's a bit optimistic to expect attached men on here to be honest. Some will be, but given that, by definition, they are being dishonest with someone who is presumably very important to them, it's unlike they will have any scruples about lying to someone on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There must be exactly the same number of women playing away.

Simple mathematics."

Why? It's not as though every cheat fucks another cheat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There must be exactly the same number of women playing away.

Simple mathematics."

The mathematics on here is greater numbers of men to women ratio. Not sure why there must be exactly the same number of women playing away ? Not saying they don't, but I would imagine the number ratio on here would suggest otherwise

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

It's none of my business if they want to cheat, as long as they are honest about it with me.

Cheffy was married when we met. Neither of us was looking for anything more than a regular bunk up... it developed into more and a year after meeting he left his wife to be with me. I suspect she was playing away herself as she didnt really react to him leaving beyond saying "you can take your fucking cat with you well!".

People "cheat" for many reasons though, who is anyone to judge?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's disgraceful. "

What the cost of petrol, yeah I know ?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hang em high and cut their bollocks off.

And what for the women?"

Same

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village


"It annoys me when I state I don’t want to meet attached men but I still get men trying it on. I’ve had a couple in the past get to know me and fail to tell me that and I find out myself. Just be honest about it.

As I have said before I think it's a bit optimistic to expect attached men on here to be honest. Some will be, but given that, by definition, they are being dishonest with someone who is presumably very important to them, it's unlike they will have any scruples about lying to someone on here. "

I've just seen a woman's profile ranting on about married men. Her new verification is from a married man. Funny what some tell one person and not another. If they think it will hinder them getting their dick wet , they lie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There must be exactly the same number of women playing away.

Simple mathematics."

Way to go Columbo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It annoys me when I state I don’t want to meet attached men but I still get men trying it on. I’ve had a couple in the past get to know me and fail to tell me that and I find out myself. Just be honest about it.

As I have said before I think it's a bit optimistic to expect attached men on here to be honest. Some will be, but given that, by definition, they are being dishonest with someone who is presumably very important to them, it's unlike they will have any scruples about lying to someone on here. "

Exactly, hence my annoyance at people playing away. Don’t involve me in that complication. It’s all I ask.

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London


"It annoys me when I state I don’t want to meet attached men but I still get men trying it on. I’ve had a couple in the past get to know me and fail to tell me that and I find out myself. Just be honest about it.

As I have said before I think it's a bit optimistic to expect attached men on here to be honest. Some will be, but given that, by definition, they are being dishonest with someone who is presumably very important to them, it's unlike they will have any scruples about lying to someone on here.

I've just seen a woman's profile ranting on about married men. Her new verification is from a married man. Funny what some tell one person and not another. If they think it will hinder them getting their dick wet , they lie "

Indeed anecdotally, I think the majority of alleged single men on here are attached in some way.

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London


"It annoys me when I state I don’t want to meet attached men but I still get men trying it on. I’ve had a couple in the past get to know me and fail to tell me that and I find out myself. Just be honest about it.

As I have said before I think it's a bit optimistic to expect attached men on here to be honest. Some will be, but given that, by definition, they are being dishonest with someone who is presumably very important to them, it's unlike they will have any scruples about lying to someone on here.

Exactly, hence my annoyance at people playing away. Don’t involve me in that complication. It’s all I ask."

But my point is you are asking a liar not to be a liar

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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Dirty little bastards .

Instead of fucking other ladies they should try making their wife a cup of tea instead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dirty little bastards .

Instead of fucking other ladies they should try making their wife a cup of tea instead. "

Tea is always the answer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do they do it bareback too?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It annoys me when I state I don’t want to meet attached men but I still get men trying it on. I’ve had a couple in the past get to know me and fail to tell me that and I find out myself. Just be honest about it.

As I have said before I think it's a bit optimistic to expect attached men on here to be honest. Some will be, but given that, by definition, they are being dishonest with someone who is presumably very important to them, it's unlike they will have any scruples about lying to someone on here.

Exactly, hence my annoyance at people playing away. Don’t involve me in that complication. It’s all I ask.

But my point is you are asking a liar not to be a liar "

I know what you are saying and I can’t stop that but I’m not going to lie for them if they get caught trying it on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The first thing I think about when a male says he's playing away is his wife. The conversation ends up like a marriage counselling session. I've had some conversations over weeks about them making an effort at home and updates about their marriage lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Entertaining I’m on the fence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do they do it bareback too? "

Yes all of them!

Men aren’t a unit that operates as one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dirty little bastards .

Instead of fucking other ladies they should try making their wife a cup of tea instead. "

And give her a hobnob

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest


"There must be exactly the same number of women playing away.

Simple mathematics.

How exactly, exactly? There might be more."

How can there be more?

Assuming there are roughly equal numbers of men and women in the population, and assuming that people in heterosexual relationships are playing away with the opposite sex (I know it’s fab, but bear with me), and that people in homosexual relationships are playing away with people of the shame sex, how can the numbers possibly be any different?

Unless there is one ‘single’ woman who has slept with every man you accuse of cheating the numbers must be the same.

The facts are that men have allowed themselves to be stereotyped into being called out for acting badly when really women are either much better at hiding what they’re up to.. Or, men are to stupid to consider that the women maybe up to exactly the same thing..

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Not good.

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London


"It annoys me when I state I don’t want to meet attached men but I still get men trying it on. I’ve had a couple in the past get to know me and fail to tell me that and I find out myself. Just be honest about it.

As I have said before I think it's a bit optimistic to expect attached men on here to be honest. Some will be, but given that, by definition, they are being dishonest with someone who is presumably very important to them, it's unlike they will have any scruples about lying to someone on here.

Exactly, hence my annoyance at people playing away. Don’t involve me in that complication. It’s all I ask.

But my point is you are asking a liar not to be a liar

I know what you are saying and I can’t stop that but I’m not going to lie for them if they get caught trying it on. "

I think that's fair enough.

I appreciate it's a bit different for you as you want a relationship, but we take the view that any man we meet is likely to be attached and we operate a don't ask don't tell policy.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Do they do it bareback too? "

They say they don't but...they do.

Some don't even wash their dicks before they go home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There must be exactly the same number of women playing away.

Simple mathematics.

How exactly, exactly? There might be more.

How can there be more?

Assuming there are roughly equal numbers of men and women in the population, and assuming that people in heterosexual relationships are playing away with the opposite sex (I know it’s fab, but bear with me), and that people in homosexual relationships are playing away with people of the shame sex, how can the numbers possibly be any different?

Unless there is one ‘single’ woman who has slept with every man you accuse of cheating the numbers must be the same.

The facts are that men have allowed themselves to be stereotyped into being called out for acting badly when really women are either much better at hiding what they’re up to.. Or, men are to stupid to consider that the women maybe up to exactly the same thing.."

He’s got a point ladies, you should be ashamed of yourselves!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do they do it bareback too?

They say they don't but...they do.

Some don't even wash their dicks before they go home "

Yummy

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Dirty little bastards .

Instead of fucking other ladies they should try making their wife a cup of tea instead.

And give her a hobnob "

Give her a decent shag and she might be interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do they do it bareback too?

They say they don't but...they do.

Some don't even wash their dicks before they go home "

Some say they just wipe there dicks in her Laura Ashley curtains.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Do they do it bareback too?

They say they don't but...they do.

Some don't even wash their dicks before they go home

Yummy "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There must be exactly the same number of women playing away.

Simple mathematics.

How exactly, exactly? There might be more.

How can there be more?

Assuming there are roughly equal numbers of men and women in the population, and assuming that people in heterosexual relationships are playing away with the opposite sex (I know it’s fab, but bear with me), and that people in homosexual relationships are playing away with people of the shame sex, how can the numbers possibly be any different?

Unless there is one ‘single’ woman who has slept with every man you accuse of cheating the numbers must be the same.

The facts are that men have allowed themselves to be stereotyped into being called out for acting badly when really women are either much better at hiding what they’re up to.. Or, men are to stupid to consider that the women maybe up to exactly the same thing.."

That still doesn't add up to me. Are you saying that cheaters only fuck each other?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do they do it bareback too?

They say they don't but...they do.

Some don't even wash their dicks before they go home

Yummy "

Baby wipes surely lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There must be exactly the same number of women playing away.

Simple mathematics.

How exactly, exactly? There might be more.

How can there be more?

Assuming there are roughly equal numbers of men and women in the population, and assuming that people in heterosexual relationships are playing away with the opposite sex (I know it’s fab, but bear with me), and that people in homosexual relationships are playing away with people of the shame sex, how can the numbers possibly be any different?

Unless there is one ‘single’ woman who has slept with every man you accuse of cheating the numbers must be the same.

The facts are that men have allowed themselves to be stereotyped into being called out for acting badly when really women are either much better at hiding what they’re up to.. Or, men are to stupid to consider that the women maybe up to exactly the same thing..

He’s got a point ladies, you should be ashamed of yourselves! "

How does that make the numbers exact?

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Do they do it bareback too?

They say they don't but...they do.

Some don't even wash their dicks before they go home

Yummy

Baby wipes surely lol "

Some kind of workman wipe they keep in the van one would assume?

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest


"There must be exactly the same number of women playing away.

Simple mathematics.

The mathematics on here is greater numbers of men to women ratio. Not sure why there must be exactly the same number of women playing away ? Not saying they don't, but I would imagine the number ratio on here would suggest otherwise "

That’s on fab. Greater numbers of men, true.

Men probably foolishly think this will be successful. The much smaller number of women will be innundated with offers. Still takes one man and one woman..

In real life it’s just that the women don’t use this (or probably any) website. They don’t need to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It annoys me when I state I don’t want to meet attached men but I still get men trying it on. I’ve had a couple in the past get to know me and fail to tell me that and I find out myself. Just be honest about it.

As I have said before I think it's a bit optimistic to expect attached men on here to be honest. Some will be, but given that, by definition, they are being dishonest with someone who is presumably very important to them, it's unlike they will have any scruples about lying to someone on here.

Exactly, hence my annoyance at people playing away. Don’t involve me in that complication. It’s all I ask.

But my point is you are asking a liar not to be a liar

I know what you are saying and I can’t stop that but I’m not going to lie for them if they get caught trying it on.

I think that's fair enough.

I appreciate it's a bit different for you as you want a relationship, but we take the view that any man we meet is likely to be attached and we operate a don't ask don't tell policy. "

Yes, if I ever swing as a couple properly then I can’t say what my opinion would be. I just don’t like getting emotionally attached to someone and find out they have a wife. It’s happened on a couple of dating sites.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women aren’t so innocent, spoke to numerous women that are married so don’t play the holier than thou bollocks cause it ain’t gonna wash sister!

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London


"There must be exactly the same number of women playing away.

Simple mathematics.

How exactly, exactly? There might be more.

How can there be more?

Assuming there are roughly equal numbers of men and women in the population, and assuming that people in heterosexual relationships are playing away with the opposite sex (I know it’s fab, but bear with me), and that people in homosexual relationships are playing away with people of the shame sex, how can the numbers possibly be any different?

Unless there is one ‘single’ woman who has slept with every man you accuse of cheating the numbers must be the same.

The facts are that men have allowed themselves to be stereotyped into being called out for acting badly when really women are either much better at hiding what they’re up to.. Or, men are to stupid to consider that the women maybe up to exactly the same thing.."

Take a notional population of 200. With equal numbers of men and women. 50% of each sex are attached and 50% are single. Of the attached men 20 cheat. 15 of them cheat with single women and 5 with attached women. Thus 40% of men cheat and only 10% of women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do they do it bareback too?

They say they don't but...they do.

Some don't even wash their dicks before they go home

Yummy

Baby wipes surely lol "

That'd be a dead giveaway. Baby wipe scent can be quite obvious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There must be exactly the same number of women playing away.

Simple mathematics.

How exactly, exactly? There might be more.

How can there be more?

Assuming there are roughly equal numbers of men and women in the population, and assuming that people in heterosexual relationships are playing away with the opposite sex (I know it’s fab, but bear with me), and that people in homosexual relationships are playing away with people of the shame sex, how can the numbers possibly be any different?

Unless there is one ‘single’ woman who has slept with every man you accuse of cheating the numbers must be the same.

The facts are that men have allowed themselves to be stereotyped into being called out for acting badly when really women are either much better at hiding what they’re up to.. Or, men are to stupid to consider that the women maybe up to exactly the same thing..

He’s got a point ladies, you should be ashamed of yourselves!

How does that make the numbers exact?"

Don’t question his back of a fag packet mathematical bollocks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women aren’t so innocent, spoke to numerous women that are married so don’t play the holier than thou bollocks cause it ain’t gonna wash sister! "

Regards

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London


"It annoys me when I state I don’t want to meet attached men but I still get men trying it on. I’ve had a couple in the past get to know me and fail to tell me that and I find out myself. Just be honest about it.

As I have said before I think it's a bit optimistic to expect attached men on here to be honest. Some will be, but given that, by definition, they are being dishonest with someone who is presumably very important to them, it's unlike they will have any scruples about lying to someone on here.

Exactly, hence my annoyance at people playing away. Don’t involve me in that complication. It’s all I ask.

But my point is you are asking a liar not to be a liar

I know what you are saying and I can’t stop that but I’m not going to lie for them if they get caught trying it on.

I think that's fair enough.

I appreciate it's a bit different for you as you want a relationship, but we take the view that any man we meet is likely to be attached and we operate a don't ask don't tell policy.

Yes, if I ever swing as a couple properly then I can’t say what my opinion would be. I just don’t like getting emotionally attached to someone and find out they have a wife. It’s happened on a couple of dating sites. "

I agree it's a pain, but I think you just have to be on your guard, shit though that is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women aren’t so innocent, spoke to numerous women that are married so don’t play the holier than thou bollocks cause it ain’t gonna wash sister!

Regards"

All the best X

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By *heangelWoman
over a year ago

wonderland

It makes me feel really sad and cross

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"What do women think about it?"

Not a lot, people on here have their reasons.

I'm not here to judge them.

So why should anyone else?

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest


"There must be exactly the same number of women playing away.

Simple mathematics.

How exactly, exactly? There might be more.

How can there be more?

Assuming there are roughly equal numbers of men and women in the population, and assuming that people in heterosexual relationships are playing away with the opposite sex (I know it’s fab, but bear with me), and that people in homosexual relationships are playing away with people of the shame sex, how can the numbers possibly be any different?

Unless there is one ‘single’ woman who has slept with every man you accuse of cheating the numbers must be the same.

The facts are that men have allowed themselves to be stereotyped into being called out for acting badly when really women are either much better at hiding what they’re up to.. Or, men are to stupid to consider that the women maybe up to exactly the same thing..

That still doesn't add up to me. Are you saying that cheaters only fuck each other?

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But you’re saying attached men only fuck single women, I think. Do you think it’s possible that the married women might be fucking single men too.

For the numbers not to be equal those single women must be getting a hell of a lot of cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to think it's up to them, not my problem.......... until I socially met up with a man on here (didn't know he was attached) within days was getting nasty messages from his long term gf!! Turns out she was pregnant and they'd been together years, I didn't let her know he'd been on fab yrs lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There must be exactly the same number of women playing away.

Simple mathematics.

How exactly, exactly? There might be more.

How can there be more?

Assuming there are roughly equal numbers of men and women in the population, and assuming that people in heterosexual relationships are playing away with the opposite sex (I know it’s fab, but bear with me), and that people in homosexual relationships are playing away with people of the shame sex, how can the numbers possibly be any different?

Unless there is one ‘single’ woman who has slept with every man you accuse of cheating the numbers must be the same.

The facts are that men have allowed themselves to be stereotyped into being called out for acting badly when really women are either much better at hiding what they’re up to.. Or, men are to stupid to consider that the women maybe up to exactly the same thing..

He’s got a point ladies, you should be ashamed of yourselves!

How does that make the numbers exact?

Don’t question his back of a fag packet mathematical bollocks! "

YouGov did a survey that found 20% of men cheated compared to 19% of women. Not much in it, but not exactly the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There must be exactly the same number of women playing away.

Simple mathematics.

How exactly, exactly? There might be more.

How can there be more?

Assuming there are roughly equal numbers of men and women in the population, and assuming that people in heterosexual relationships are playing away with the opposite sex (I know it’s fab, but bear with me), and that people in homosexual relationships are playing away with people of the shame sex, how can the numbers possibly be any different?

Unless there is one ‘single’ woman who has slept with every man you accuse of cheating the numbers must be the same.

The facts are that men have allowed themselves to be stereotyped into being called out for acting badly when really women are either much better at hiding what they’re up to.. Or, men are to stupid to consider that the women maybe up to exactly the same thing..

That still doesn't add up to me. Are you saying that cheaters only fuck each other?

But you’re saying attached men only fuck single women, I think. Do you think it’s possible that the married women might be fucking single men too.

For the numbers not to be equal those single women must be getting a hell of a lot of cock"

For the numbers to be exactly the same though?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It makes me feel really sad and cross "

Sorry to hear that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It annoys me when I state I don’t want to meet attached men but I still get men trying it on. I’ve had a couple in the past get to know me and fail to tell me that and I find out myself. Just be honest about it.

As I have said before I think it's a bit optimistic to expect attached men on here to be honest. Some will be, but given that, by definition, they are being dishonest with someone who is presumably very important to them, it's unlike they will have any scruples about lying to someone on here. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not that bothered. But I wouldn't cheat if I was in a relationship. I would be riddled with guilt.

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London


"There must be exactly the same number of women playing away.

Simple mathematics.

How exactly, exactly? There might be more.

How can there be more?

Assuming there are roughly equal numbers of men and women in the population, and assuming that people in heterosexual relationships are playing away with the opposite sex (I know it’s fab, but bear with me), and that people in homosexual relationships are playing away with people of the shame sex, how can the numbers possibly be any different?

Unless there is one ‘single’ woman who has slept with every man you accuse of cheating the numbers must be the same.

The facts are that men have allowed themselves to be stereotyped into being called out for acting badly when really women are either much better at hiding what they’re up to.. Or, men are to stupid to consider that the women maybe up to exactly the same thing..

That still doesn't add up to me. Are you saying that cheaters only fuck each other?

But you’re saying attached men only fuck single women, I think. Do you think it’s possible that the married women might be fucking single men too.

For the numbers not to be equal those single women must be getting a hell of a lot of cock"

That's not correct. See my example above.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It annoys me when I state I don’t want to meet attached men but I still get men trying it on. I’ve had a couple in the past get to know me and fail to tell me that and I find out myself. Just be honest about it.

As I have said before I think it's a bit optimistic to expect attached men on here to be honest. Some will be, but given that, by definition, they are being dishonest with someone who is presumably very important to them, it's unlike they will have any scruples about lying to someone on here.

Exactly, hence my annoyance at people playing away. Don’t involve me in that complication. It’s all I ask.

But my point is you are asking a liar not to be a liar

I know what you are saying and I can’t stop that but I’m not going to lie for them if they get caught trying it on.

I think that's fair enough.

I appreciate it's a bit different for you as you want a relationship, but we take the view that any man we meet is likely to be attached and we operate a don't ask don't tell policy.

Yes, if I ever swing as a couple properly then I can’t say what my opinion would be. I just don’t like getting emotionally attached to someone and find out they have a wife. It’s happened on a couple of dating sites.

I agree it's a pain, but I think you just have to be on your guard, shit though that is. "

Oh, believe me, i am.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

takes two to tango , so must be equal amounts

unless your saying married men only play away with single ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a flan.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The poll I conducted says that 4 times as many men cheat on their wives as women do on their husbands.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quiche, I thought she said quickie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The poll I conducted says that 4 times as many men cheat on their wives as women do on their husbands."

Non specific made up on the spot one ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The poll I conducted says that 4 times as many men cheat on their wives as women do on their husbands.

Non specific made up on the spot one ? "

Personal experience one.

All I have to go on.

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest


"There must be exactly the same number of women playing away.

Simple mathematics.

How exactly, exactly? There might be more.

How can there be more?

Assuming there are roughly equal numbers of men and women in the population, and assuming that people in heterosexual relationships are playing away with the opposite sex (I know it’s fab, but bear with me), and that people in homosexual relationships are playing away with people of the shame sex, how can the numbers possibly be any different?

Unless there is one ‘single’ woman who has slept with every man you accuse of cheating the numbers must be the same.

The facts are that men have allowed themselves to be stereotyped into being called out for acting badly when really women are either much better at hiding what they’re up to.. Or, men are to stupid to consider that the women maybe up to exactly the same thing..

Take a notional population of 200. With equal numbers of men and women. 50% of each sex are attached and 50% are single. Of the attached men 20 cheat. 15 of them cheat with single women and 5 with attached women. Thus 40% of men cheat and only 10% of women. "

So despite the fact that there’s active intermingling between all the people, you assume that 15 of the 50 single women are having sex with attached men. Even if all the attached women are cheating with single men, that’s only 5 of them.

Single people are still having sex at a ratio of 1:1.

But in your scenario at any one time there are 45 single blokes having sex with 35 single women.

As I said, good odds for the girls.

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest


"takes two to tango , so must be equal amounts

unless your saying married men only play away with single ladies"

Exactly, some of the single ladies must have had thousands of the attached guys to make any real difference in the numbers.

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London


"takes two to tango , so must be equal amounts

unless your saying married men only play away with single ladies

Exactly, some of the single ladies must have had thousands of the attached guys to make any real difference in the numbers."
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That simply doesn't follow. It could equally be the case that each attached man is seeing one single woman.

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By *oeofsussexMan
over a year ago

Eastbourne

Does marriage actually mean anything to anybody these days? Nature makes us want to shag anyone we fancy. Humans have constructed the idea of monogamy purely to create a structured and orderly society for the nurturing of kids. But it goes totally against the human psyche. You may have a favourite dish but you don’t eat it every day to the exclusion of everything else. The question of sex and partners is the same. Variety is healthy and natural. Women are, scientits say, naturally programmed to seek the guy with the best quality of sperm and judge subconsciously through pheramones. So I guess women will want to upgrade their man multiple times until they find their ideal sperm donor.

Likewise, many men constantly look for their perfect woman and never find her (no-one’s perfect) and so keep trying out different ones to seek elusive perfection. That’s how we are - sexual animals naturally born to life-long promiscuity, whether a man or a woman. If we weren’t, this site wouldn’t exist!

(Now pops head back below parapet to avoid rotten tomatos from everyone for citing such outrageous ideas lol!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So many numbers floating about

How about if all the wives of all the cheating men are also out cheating. And both of them are cheating with other marrieds. Whats the % for that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"takes two to tango , so must be equal amounts

unless your saying married men only play away with single ladies"

Of course married men play with single ladies, and married ladies play with single men. As well as married playing with married. So the numbers aren't going to be equal at all.

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By *ineMan
over a year ago

In cave behind a waterfall on a hill


"So many numbers floating about

How about if all the wives of all the cheating men are also out cheating. And both of them are cheating with other marrieds. Whats the % for that "

I'm crap at maths...FAF

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So many numbers floating about

How about if all the wives of all the cheating men are also out cheating. And both of them are cheating with other marrieds. Whats the % for that "

Not forgetting the married men cheating with men..... I have had quite a few!!

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest


"takes two to tango , so must be equal amounts

unless your saying married men only play away with single ladies

Exactly, some of the single ladies must have had thousands of the attached guys to make any real difference in the numbers..

That simply doesn't follow. It could equally be the case that each attached man is seeing one single woman. "

Thus reducing the posssiblity for a single guy and a single girl to get together.

It’s the same argument as why you get a disparity when you ask how many guys the average girl has slept with and how many girls the average guy has slept with..

The girls reduce their numbers to make them feel better, the guys increase theirs to make them sound better. It’s socialisation in the way that people want to represent themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"takes two to tango , so must be equal amounts

unless your saying married men only play away with single ladies

Exactly, some of the single ladies must have had thousands of the attached guys to make any real difference in the numbers."

I get where your reasoning is coming from now. I was thinking world wide, not Fab. But, you have other variables to add to it. Cheaters meeting couples in clubs; more men cheaters or women?

Men going to various gang bangs or parties as single men..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So many numbers floating about

How about if all the wives of all the cheating men are also out cheating. And both of them are cheating with other marrieds. Whats the % for that

Not forgetting the married men cheating with men..... I have had quite a few!!"

Another variable to add to the mix.

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By *inphallusMan
over a year ago

Bishop Auckland

A lot of them are Bi and the wifes don't know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So many numbers floating about

How about if all the wives of all the cheating men are also out cheating. And both of them are cheating with other marrieds. Whats the % for that

Not forgetting the married men cheating with men..... I have had quite a few!!"

And married ladies with other ladies. Is that still considered cheating or just a wish ?

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest


"takes two to tango , so must be equal amounts

unless your saying married men only play away with single ladies

Exactly, some of the single ladies must have had thousands of the attached guys to make any real difference in the numbers.

I get where your reasoning is coming from now. I was thinking world wide, not Fab. But, you have other variables to add to it. Cheaters meeting couples in clubs; more men cheaters or women?

Men going to various gang bangs or parties as single men.."

Number of people in the world 7 billion, number on fab, tens of thousands.

More men try to cheat using fab. Trying being the most important word. Any woman trying to cheat using fab is very unlikely to be unsuccessful! But they don’t need to use a website, they can pull whoever whenever.

The gang bang scenario is exactly what I described. If fab were a microcosm of the whole world it would need a few women shagging millions of men each to make a real terms difference.

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London


"takes two to tango , so must be equal amounts

unless your saying married men only play away with single ladies

Exactly, some of the single ladies must have had thousands of the attached guys to make any real difference in the numbers..

That simply doesn't follow. It could equally be the case that each attached man is seeing one single woman.

Thus reducing the posssiblity for a single guy and a single girl to get together.

It’s the same argument as why you get a disparity when you ask how many guys the average girl has slept with and how many girls the average guy has slept with..

The girls reduce their numbers to make them feel better, the guys increase theirs to make them sound better. It’s socialisation in the way that people want to represent themselves. "

Yes, there could be a lot of single women seeing attached men, thus leading to an excess of single men.

My point is that be its simply incorrect to say that it is mathematically impossible for the numbers of cheating men and cheating women to be un equal.

It's perfectly possible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well this is different

A cheating married thread turning into a Countdown numbers round

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"takes two to tango , so must be equal amounts

unless your saying married men only play away with single ladies

Exactly, some of the single ladies must have had thousands of the attached guys to make any real difference in the numbers.

I get where your reasoning is coming from now. I was thinking world wide, not Fab. But, you have other variables to add to it. Cheaters meeting couples in clubs; more men cheaters or women?

Men going to various gang bangs or parties as single men..

Number of people in the world 7 billion, number on fab, tens of thousands.

More men try to cheat using fab. Trying being the most important word. Any woman trying to cheat using fab is very unlikely to be unsuccessful! But they don’t need to use a website, they can pull whoever whenever.

The gang bang scenario is exactly what I described. If fab were a microcosm of the whole world it would need a few women shagging millions of men each to make a real terms difference."

I'd imagine a lot succeed by pretending they aren't single too. I think women are more open about it because men tend to not care as much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh it's too late now in the night for maths.....I'm out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We need a survey.

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By *ineMan
over a year ago

In cave behind a waterfall on a hill

Anyone got an abacus ...

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest


"takes two to tango , so must be equal amounts

unless your saying married men only play away with single ladies

Exactly, some of the single ladies must have had thousands of the attached guys to make any real difference in the numbers.

I get where your reasoning is coming from now. I was thinking world wide, not Fab. But, you have other variables to add to it. Cheaters meeting couples in clubs; more men cheaters or women?

Men going to various gang bangs or parties as single men..

Number of people in the world 7 billion, number on fab, tens of thousands.

More men try to cheat using fab. Trying being the most important word. Any woman trying to cheat using fab is very unlikely to be unsuccessful! But they don’t need to use a website, they can pull whoever whenever.

The gang bang scenario is exactly what I described. If fab were a microcosm of the whole world it would need a few women shagging millions of men each to make a real terms difference.

I'd imagine a lot succeed by pretending they aren't single too. I think women are more open about it because men tend to not care as much. "

We’ve just established that the proportions are pretty much equal when you take the whole population into account. I’d have hoped that that might end the male bashing for this particular thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone got an abacus ..."

I've got fingers and toes, will that help?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"takes two to tango , so must be equal amounts

unless your saying married men only play away with single ladies

Exactly, some of the single ladies must have had thousands of the attached guys to make any real difference in the numbers.

I get where your reasoning is coming from now. I was thinking world wide, not Fab. But, you have other variables to add to it. Cheaters meeting couples in clubs; more men cheaters or women?

Men going to various gang bangs or parties as single men..

Number of people in the world 7 billion, number on fab, tens of thousands.

More men try to cheat using fab. Trying being the most important word. Any woman trying to cheat using fab is very unlikely to be unsuccessful! But they don’t need to use a website, they can pull whoever whenever.

The gang bang scenario is exactly what I described. If fab were a microcosm of the whole world it would need a few women shagging millions of men each to make a real terms difference.

I'd imagine a lot succeed by pretending they aren't single too. I think women are more open about it because men tend to not care as much.

We’ve just established that the proportions are pretty much equal when you take the whole population into account. I’d have hoped that that might end the male bashing for this particular thread. "

Are you a cheating man, you naughty thing you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"takes two to tango , so must be equal amounts

unless your saying married men only play away with single ladies

Exactly, some of the single ladies must have had thousands of the attached guys to make any real difference in the numbers.

I get where your reasoning is coming from now. I was thinking world wide, not Fab. But, you have other variables to add to it. Cheaters meeting couples in clubs; more men cheaters or women?

Men going to various gang bangs or parties as single men..

Number of people in the world 7 billion, number on fab, tens of thousands.

More men try to cheat using fab. Trying being the most important word. Any woman trying to cheat using fab is very unlikely to be unsuccessful! But they don’t need to use a website, they can pull whoever whenever.

The gang bang scenario is exactly what I described. If fab were a microcosm of the whole world it would need a few women shagging millions of men each to make a real terms difference.

I'd imagine a lot succeed by pretending they aren't single too. I think women are more open about it because men tend to not care as much.

We’ve just established that the proportions are pretty much equal when you take the whole population into account. I’d have hoped that that might end the male bashing for this particular thread. "

I'm not male bashing. I like things to add up properly and you started it with your ratios and whatnot.

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest


"takes two to tango , so must be equal amounts

unless your saying married men only play away with single ladies

Exactly, some of the single ladies must have had thousands of the attached guys to make any real difference in the numbers.

I get where your reasoning is coming from now. I was thinking world wide, not Fab. But, you have other variables to add to it. Cheaters meeting couples in clubs; more men cheaters or women?

Men going to various gang bangs or parties as single men..

Number of people in the world 7 billion, number on fab, tens of thousands.

More men try to cheat using fab. Trying being the most important word. Any woman trying to cheat using fab is very unlikely to be unsuccessful! But they don’t need to use a website, they can pull whoever whenever.

The gang bang scenario is exactly what I described. If fab were a microcosm of the whole world it would need a few women shagging millions of men each to make a real terms difference.

I'd imagine a lot succeed by pretending they aren't single too. I think women are more open about it because men tend to not care as much.

We’ve just established that the proportions are pretty much equal when you take the whole population into account. I’d have hoped that that might end the male bashing for this particular thread.

Are you a cheating man, you naughty thing you."

No one will have me long enough for me to be able to! Never say never though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We need a survey."

Does that mean clipboards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"takes two to tango , so must be equal amounts

unless your saying married men only play away with single ladies

Exactly, some of the single ladies must have had thousands of the attached guys to make any real difference in the numbers.

I get where your reasoning is coming from now. I was thinking world wide, not Fab. But, you have other variables to add to it. Cheaters meeting couples in clubs; more men cheaters or women?

Men going to various gang bangs or parties as single men..

Number of people in the world 7 billion, number on fab, tens of thousands.

More men try to cheat using fab. Trying being the most important word. Any woman trying to cheat using fab is very unlikely to be unsuccessful! But they don’t need to use a website, they can pull whoever whenever.

The gang bang scenario is exactly what I described. If fab were a microcosm of the whole world it would need a few women shagging millions of men each to make a real terms difference.

I'd imagine a lot succeed by pretending they aren't single too. I think women are more open about it because men tend to not care as much.

We’ve just established that the proportions are pretty much equal when you take the whole population into account. I’d have hoped that that might end the male bashing for this particular thread.

Are you a cheating man, you naughty thing you.

No one will have me long enough for me to be able to! Never say never though"

You have something to aspire to

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By *ineMan
over a year ago

In cave behind a waterfall on a hill


"Anyone got an abacus ...

I've got fingers and toes, will that help?"

In a box under the bed by any chance

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest


"takes two to tango , so must be equal amounts

unless your saying married men only play away with single ladies

Exactly, some of the single ladies must have had thousands of the attached guys to make any real difference in the numbers.

I get where your reasoning is coming from now. I was thinking world wide, not Fab. But, you have other variables to add to it. Cheaters meeting couples in clubs; more men cheaters or women?

Men going to various gang bangs or parties as single men..

Number of people in the world 7 billion, number on fab, tens of thousands.

More men try to cheat using fab. Trying being the most important word. Any woman trying to cheat using fab is very unlikely to be unsuccessful! But they don’t need to use a website, they can pull whoever whenever.

The gang bang scenario is exactly what I described. If fab were a microcosm of the whole world it would need a few women shagging millions of men each to make a real terms difference.

I'd imagine a lot succeed by pretending they aren't single too. I think women are more open about it because men tend to not care as much.

We’ve just established that the proportions are pretty much equal when you take the whole population into account. I’d have hoped that that might end the male bashing for this particular thread.

Are you a cheating man, you naughty thing you.

No one will have me long enough for me to be able to! Never say never though

You have something to aspire to "

Why can’t you accommodate?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We need a survey.

Does that mean clipboards"

And free pens for the participants.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"takes two to tango , so must be equal amounts

unless your saying married men only play away with single ladies

Exactly, some of the single ladies must have had thousands of the attached guys to make any real difference in the numbers.

I get where your reasoning is coming from now. I was thinking world wide, not Fab. But, you have other variables to add to it. Cheaters meeting couples in clubs; more men cheaters or women?

Men going to various gang bangs or parties as single men..

Number of people in the world 7 billion, number on fab, tens of thousands.

More men try to cheat using fab. Trying being the most important word. Any woman trying to cheat using fab is very unlikely to be unsuccessful! But they don’t need to use a website, they can pull whoever whenever.

The gang bang scenario is exactly what I described. If fab were a microcosm of the whole world it would need a few women shagging millions of men each to make a real terms difference.

I'd imagine a lot succeed by pretending they aren't single too. I think women are more open about it because men tend to not care as much.

We’ve just established that the proportions are pretty much equal when you take the whole population into account. I’d have hoped that that might end the male bashing for this particular thread.

Are you a cheating man, you naughty thing you.

No one will have me long enough for me to be able to! Never say never though

You have something to aspire to

Why can’t you accommodate?"

I live with my 6ft4 30 yr old son. He wouldn't be too happy if he came home from work to find me bent over the sofa, taking it up the arse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"takes two to tango , so must be equal amounts

unless your saying married men only play away with single ladies

Exactly, some of the single ladies must have had thousands of the attached guys to make any real difference in the numbers.

I get where your reasoning is coming from now. I was thinking world wide, not Fab. But, you have other variables to add to it. Cheaters meeting couples in clubs; more men cheaters or women?

Men going to various gang bangs or parties as single men..

Number of people in the world 7 billion, number on fab, tens of thousands.

More men try to cheat using fab. Trying being the most important word. Any woman trying to cheat using fab is very unlikely to be unsuccessful! But they don’t need to use a website, they can pull whoever whenever.

The gang bang scenario is exactly what I described. If fab were a microcosm of the whole world it would need a few women shagging millions of men each to make a real terms difference.

I'd imagine a lot succeed by pretending they aren't single too. I think women are more open about it because men tend to not care as much.

We’ve just established that the proportions are pretty much equal when you take the whole population into account. I’d have hoped that that might end the male bashing for this particular thread.

Are you a cheating man, you naughty thing you.

No one will have me long enough for me to be able to! Never say never though

You have something to aspire to

Why can’t you accommodate?

I live with my 6ft4 30 yr old son. He wouldn't be too happy if he came home from work to find me bent over the sofa, taking it up the arse. "

And, for the record, when I was married my husband cheated on me with at least one married woman and a few single women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"takes two to tango , so must be equal amounts

unless your saying married men only play away with single ladies

Exactly, some of the single ladies must have had thousands of the attached guys to make any real difference in the numbers.

I get where your reasoning is coming from now. I was thinking world wide, not Fab. But, you have other variables to add to it. Cheaters meeting couples in clubs; more men cheaters or women?

Men going to various gang bangs or parties as single men..

Number of people in the world 7 billion, number on fab, tens of thousands.

More men try to cheat using fab. Trying being the most important word. Any woman trying to cheat using fab is very unlikely to be unsuccessful! But they don’t need to use a website, they can pull whoever whenever.

The gang bang scenario is exactly what I described. If fab were a microcosm of the whole world it would need a few women shagging millions of men each to make a real terms difference.

I'd imagine a lot succeed by pretending they aren't single too. I think women are more open about it because men tend to not care as much.

We’ve just established that the proportions are pretty much equal when you take the whole population into account. I’d have hoped that that might end the male bashing for this particular thread.

Are you a cheating man, you naughty thing you.

No one will have me long enough for me to be able to! Never say never though

You have something to aspire to

Why can’t you accommodate?

I live with my 6ft4 30 yr old son. He wouldn't be too happy if he came home from work to find me bent over the sofa, taking it up the arse. "

That's in my head now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"takes two to tango , so must be equal amounts

unless your saying married men only play away with single ladies

Exactly, some of the single ladies must have had thousands of the attached guys to make any real difference in the numbers.

I get where your reasoning is coming from now. I was thinking world wide, not Fab. But, you have other variables to add to it. Cheaters meeting couples in clubs; more men cheaters or women?

Men going to various gang bangs or parties as single men..

Number of people in the world 7 billion, number on fab, tens of thousands.

More men try to cheat using fab. Trying being the most important word. Any woman trying to cheat using fab is very unlikely to be unsuccessful! But they don’t need to use a website, they can pull whoever whenever.

The gang bang scenario is exactly what I described. If fab were a microcosm of the whole world it would need a few women shagging millions of men each to make a real terms difference.

I'd imagine a lot succeed by pretending they aren't single too. I think women are more open about it because men tend to not care as much.

We’ve just established that the proportions are pretty much equal when you take the whole population into account. I’d have hoped that that might end the male bashing for this particular thread.

Are you a cheating man, you naughty thing you.

No one will have me long enough for me to be able to! Never say never though

You have something to aspire to

Why can’t you accommodate?

I live with my 6ft4 30 yr old son. He wouldn't be too happy if he came home from work to find me bent over the sofa, taking it up the arse.

That's in my head now!"

Pervert

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest


"takes two to tango , so must be equal amounts

unless your saying married men only play away with single ladies

Exactly, some of the single ladies must have had thousands of the attached guys to make any real difference in the numbers.

I get where your reasoning is coming from now. I was thinking world wide, not Fab. But, you have other variables to add to it. Cheaters meeting couples in clubs; more men cheaters or women?

Men going to various gang bangs or parties as single men..

Number of people in the world 7 billion, number on fab, tens of thousands.

More men try to cheat using fab. Trying being the most important word. Any woman trying to cheat using fab is very unlikely to be unsuccessful! But they don’t need to use a website, they can pull whoever whenever.

The gang bang scenario is exactly what I described. If fab were a microcosm of the whole world it would need a few women shagging millions of men each to make a real terms difference.

I'd imagine a lot succeed by pretending they aren't single too. I think women are more open about it because men tend to not care as much.

We’ve just established that the proportions are pretty much equal when you take the whole population into account. I’d have hoped that that might end the male bashing for this particular thread.

Are you a cheating man, you naughty thing you.

No one will have me long enough for me to be able to! Never say never though

You have something to aspire to

Why can’t you accommodate?

I live with my 6ft4 30 yr old son. He wouldn't be too happy if he came home from work to find me bent over the sofa, taking it up the arse. "

He’s 30. Kick him out.

Then you can have as many sofa destroying arse fuckings as you want. Attached or not

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest


"takes two to tango , so must be equal amounts

unless your saying married men only play away with single ladies

Exactly, some of the single ladies must have had thousands of the attached guys to make any real difference in the numbers.

I get where your reasoning is coming from now. I was thinking world wide, not Fab. But, you have other variables to add to it. Cheaters meeting couples in clubs; more men cheaters or women?

Men going to various gang bangs or parties as single men..

Number of people in the world 7 billion, number on fab, tens of thousands.

More men try to cheat using fab. Trying being the most important word. Any woman trying to cheat using fab is very unlikely to be unsuccessful! But they don’t need to use a website, they can pull whoever whenever.

The gang bang scenario is exactly what I described. If fab were a microcosm of the whole world it would need a few women shagging millions of men each to make a real terms difference.

I'd imagine a lot succeed by pretending they aren't single too. I think women are more open about it because men tend to not care as much.

We’ve just established that the proportions are pretty much equal when you take the whole population into account. I’d have hoped that that might end the male bashing for this particular thread.

Are you a cheating man, you naughty thing you.

No one will have me long enough for me to be able to! Never say never though

You have something to aspire to

Why can’t you accommodate?

I live with my 6ft4 30 yr old son. He wouldn't be too happy if he came home from work to find me bent over the sofa, taking it up the arse.

And, for the record, when I was married my husband cheated on me with at least one married woman and a few single women."

Sorry to hear that.

But if the married woman also fucked a few single men... I’ll stop now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"takes two to tango , so must be equal amounts

unless your saying married men only play away with single ladies

Exactly, some of the single ladies must have had thousands of the attached guys to make any real difference in the numbers.

I get where your reasoning is coming from now. I was thinking world wide, not Fab. But, you have other variables to add to it. Cheaters meeting couples in clubs; more men cheaters or women?

Men going to various gang bangs or parties as single men..

Number of people in the world 7 billion, number on fab, tens of thousands.

More men try to cheat using fab. Trying being the most important word. Any woman trying to cheat using fab is very unlikely to be unsuccessful! But they don’t need to use a website, they can pull whoever whenever.

The gang bang scenario is exactly what I described. If fab were a microcosm of the whole world it would need a few women shagging millions of men each to make a real terms difference.

I'd imagine a lot succeed by pretending they aren't single too. I think women are more open about it because men tend to not care as much.

We’ve just established that the proportions are pretty much equal when you take the whole population into account. I’d have hoped that that might end the male bashing for this particular thread.

Are you a cheating man, you naughty thing you.

No one will have me long enough for me to be able to! Never say never though

You have something to aspire to

Why can’t you accommodate?

I live with my 6ft4 30 yr old son. He wouldn't be too happy if he came home from work to find me bent over the sofa, taking it up the arse.

And, for the record, when I was married my husband cheated on me with at least one married woman and a few single women.

Sorry to hear that.

But if the married woman also fucked a few single men... I’ll stop now. "

Please do. I'm trying to get rid of a headache.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"takes two to tango , so must be equal amounts

unless your saying married men only play away with single ladies

Exactly, some of the single ladies must have had thousands of the attached guys to make any real difference in the numbers.

I get where your reasoning is coming from now. I was thinking world wide, not Fab. But, you have other variables to add to it. Cheaters meeting couples in clubs; more men cheaters or women?

Men going to various gang bangs or parties as single men..

Number of people in the world 7 billion, number on fab, tens of thousands.

More men try to cheat using fab. Trying being the most important word. Any woman trying to cheat using fab is very unlikely to be unsuccessful! But they don’t need to use a website, they can pull whoever whenever.

The gang bang scenario is exactly what I described. If fab were a microcosm of the whole world it would need a few women shagging millions of men each to make a real terms difference.

I'd imagine a lot succeed by pretending they aren't single too. I think women are more open about it because men tend to not care as much.

We’ve just established that the proportions are pretty much equal when you take the whole population into account. I’d have hoped that that might end the male bashing for this particular thread.

Are you a cheating man, you naughty thing you.

No one will have me long enough for me to be able to! Never say never though

You have something to aspire to

Why can’t you accommodate?

I live with my 6ft4 30 yr old son. He wouldn't be too happy if he came home from work to find me bent over the sofa, taking it up the arse.

He’s 30. Kick him out.

Then you can have as many sofa destroying arse fuckings as you want. Attached or not"

I live with him, he doesn't live with me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do women think about it?"

Its shit..

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

I play with attached guys. Lots of reasons why they play on their own.

Not for me to be judge or jury. I enjoy their company.

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By *accorkMan
over a year ago

cork

Who on here doesn't have baggage , live and let live , tell the truth and be upfront ,

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By *egs11ABCWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"takes two to tango , so must be equal amounts

unless your saying married men only play away with single ladies

Exactly, some of the single ladies must have had thousands of the attached guys to make any real difference in the numbers.

I get where your reasoning is coming from now. I was thinking world wide, not Fab. But, you have other variables to add to it. Cheaters meeting couples in clubs; more men cheaters or women?

Men going to various gang bangs or parties as single men..

Number of people in the world 7 billion, number on fab, tens of thousands.

More men try to cheat using fab. Trying being the most important word. Any woman trying to cheat using fab is very unlikely to be unsuccessful! But they don’t need to use a website, they can pull whoever whenever.

The gang bang scenario is exactly what I described. If fab were a microcosm of the whole world it would need a few women shagging millions of men each to make a real terms difference.

I'd imagine a lot succeed by pretending they aren't single too. I think women are more open about it because men tend to not care as much.

We’ve just established that the proportions are pretty much equal when you take the whole population into account. I’d have hoped that that might end the male bashing for this particular thread.

Are you a cheating man, you naughty thing you.

No one will have me long enough for me to be able to! Never say never though

You have something to aspire to

Why can’t you accommodate?

I live with my 6ft4 30 yr old son. He wouldn't be too happy if he came home from work to find me bent over the sofa, taking it up the arse.

He’s 30. Kick him out.

Then you can have as many sofa destroying arse fuckings as you want. Attached or not

I live with him, he doesn't live with me. "

U don't have to justify urself to anyone. I don't accomodate cos iv got a fear agressive dog and home is his safe place. Reg Fb comes to mine. I never assume cos a guy can't accomodate he's attached. People have many reasons for it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feel sorry for there wives

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone got an abacus ..."

I like this guy... wow abacus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I quite like putting my penis in someone elses wife

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

99% of female profiles ask for nsa big cock fuck. What do you care if he's married

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We need a survey.

Does that mean clipboards

And free peni for the participants. "

FTFY

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By *electableDalliancesCouple
over a year ago

leeds

My overriding thought on the married men subject is I put myself in their significant others position and know how devastated I'd feel if I was her. So I try not not be a person complicit in inflicting pain on someone, it's not moral judgement is for my own piece of mind x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"99% of female profiles ask for nsa big cock fuck. What do you care if he's married"

NO 99% DONT!

You're deluded and obviously married

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think about it at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"takes two to tango , so must be equal amounts

unless your saying married men only play away with single ladies

Exactly, some of the single ladies must have had thousands of the attached guys to make any real difference in the numbers.

I get where your reasoning is coming from now. I was thinking world wide, not Fab. But, you have other variables to add to it. Cheaters meeting couples in clubs; more men cheaters or women?

Men going to various gang bangs or parties as single men..

Number of people in the world 7 billion, number on fab, tens of thousands.

More men try to cheat using fab. Trying being the most important word. Any woman trying to cheat using fab is very unlikely to be unsuccessful! But they don’t need to use a website, they can pull whoever whenever.

The gang bang scenario is exactly what I described. If fab were a microcosm of the whole world it would need a few women shagging millions of men each to make a real terms difference.

I'd imagine a lot succeed by pretending they aren't single too. I think women are more open about it because men tend to not care as much.

We’ve just established that the proportions are pretty much equal when you take the whole population into account. I’d have hoped that that might end the male bashing for this particular thread.

Are you a cheating man, you naughty thing you.

No one will have me long enough for me to be able to! Never say never though

You have something to aspire to

Why can’t you accommodate?

I live with my 6ft4 30 yr old son. He wouldn't be too happy if he came home from work to find me bent over the sofa, taking it up the arse.

That's in my head now!"

I have unfortunately lived that scenario. I was the son....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"takes two to tango , so must be equal amounts

unless your saying married men only play away with single ladies

Exactly, some of the single ladies must have had thousands of the attached guys to make any real difference in the numbers.

I get where your reasoning is coming from now. I was thinking world wide, not Fab. But, you have other variables to add to it. Cheaters meeting couples in clubs; more men cheaters or women?

Men going to various gang bangs or parties as single men..

Number of people in the world 7 billion, number on fab, tens of thousands.

More men try to cheat using fab. Trying being the most important word. Any woman trying to cheat using fab is very unlikely to be unsuccessful! But they don’t need to use a website, they can pull whoever whenever.

The gang bang scenario is exactly what I described. If fab were a microcosm of the whole world it would need a few women shagging millions of men each to make a real terms difference.

I'd imagine a lot succeed by pretending they aren't single too. I think women are more open about it because men tend to not care as much.

We’ve just established that the proportions are pretty much equal when you take the whole population into account. I’d have hoped that that might end the male bashing for this particular thread.

Are you a cheating man, you naughty thing you.

No one will have me long enough for me to be able to! Never say never though

You have something to aspire to

Why can’t you accommodate?

I live with my 6ft4 30 yr old son. He wouldn't be too happy if he came home from work to find me bent over the sofa, taking it up the arse.

That's in my head now!

I have unfortunately lived that scenario. I was the son...."

Wasn’t what you were expecting as a birthday surprise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I play with attached guys. Lots of reasons why they play on their own.

Not for me to be judge or jury. I enjoy their company. "

Lots of people prefer attached. They are generally more discreet and less likely to develop pesky feelings.

I expect the strongly opposed on here have been hurt by a cheating partner, so their view is totally understandable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I play with attached guys. Lots of reasons why they play on their own.

Not for me to be judge or jury. I enjoy their company.

Lots of people prefer attached. They are generally more discreet and less likely to develop pesky feelings.

I expect the strongly opposed on here have been hurt by a cheating partner, so their view is totally understandable. "

I’ve never been hurt by a cheating partner but I have been married and would have hated to have been cheated on. I’ve just met a few dating wise and it’s not nice to find out online that they are married or have an angry wife/girlfriend messaging you. I have no problem what other people want to do, I just don’t want to be involved in it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it’s a shit thing to do, to cheat on someone, whether you’re a man or woman. But then some people have no morals and don’t care what they do to others. If I’m in a relationship I’m committed to that person 100%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't really care, I'm quite happy with my moral compass and karma and it's not my job to worry about other peoples, that's for them to figure out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And women lol.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"What do women think about it?"

Nothing, not my business. Married men avoid me as I don't play nice, so win win.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Some don't mind, some do mind.

What gets me is how judgemental people can be about married men without knowing facts, but hey ho, such is life."

Personally I'm here for my own hedonistic pleasure not counsell the disaffected. I don't seek or care about other people's dramas...but each to their own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not my drama ..

If anything it makes me feel better about being single

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do women think about it?"
who cares really it’s upto them and it’s down to the person who might be playing with them to decide yes or no,each to their own not that I’m saying cheating is right because it’s not it’s wrong.But if a woman or man says I’m married here is my situation do you want to play? then it’s upto the other party.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not my drama ..

If anything it makes me feel better about being single "
hell yeah agreed no hassle

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Some of us play with the blessing of our other half's. ...best of both worlds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lads just to pre warn you if you disagree with this thread you are obviously married, oh and deluded.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"99% of female profiles ask for nsa big cock fuck. What do you care if he's married

NO 99% DONT!

You're deluded and obviously married "

What makes you think he's married?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lads just to pre warn you if you disagree with this thread you are obviously married, oh and deluded."

Not at all! Take a look at female profiles, 99% really .......... exaggerated!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lads just to pre warn you if you disagree with this thread you are obviously married, oh and deluded.

Not at all! Take a look at female profiles, 99% really .......... exaggerated!!!! "

I stand corrected 99% of profiles ask for little cocks. You're right

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Their relationship, so that's their decision to take

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s on my profile for people to say if they are married and I have to say that most say straight away if they are or not!! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

According to the bookies David Beckham is going to be appearing on this thread soon.

No wonder Victoria looks so glum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same for both sexes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Theres alot of married women playing away too...

Who cares tbh the site is what it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do they do it bareback too?

They say they don't but...they do.

Some don't even wash their dicks before they go home

Yummy

Baby wipes surely lol

Some kind of workman wipe they keep in the van one would assume?"

Swarfega works a treat..

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Single or married it’s just a preference like everything else on Fab. Some find it a thrill while others don’t.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

It’s their business but I prefer they didn’t lie about it!! What’s the point? The fab circle of people here .... someone will let it out...

Providing they don’t bring drama to my door who cares just don’t fucking LIE about it

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"It’s their business but I prefer they didn’t lie about it!! What’s the point? The fab circle of people here .... someone will let it out...

Providing they don’t bring drama to my door who cares just don’t fucking LIE about it "

Sweet to think they'll be honest with a potential casual fuck whilst lying boldly to their wife.

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By *exy Two-Shoes40Man
over a year ago

bolton

why not married women come on here as well sometimes it is a double standard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

this comes around frequently in the forums.

I'm never quite sure why its ever debated...there will never be an answer.

Its a mystery why those who are meeting outside a relationship feel they need or seek approval of complete strangers on a forum.

Its your choice, take ownership of it if it goes wrong or well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do women think about it?"

Their life, do as they wish...

Some actually leave, once they figure, this lifestyle is better..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That its their choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The thing that happened on the my mate fancies you thread recently was appalling.... Ppl need to mind their own....

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By *etite_delightWoman
over a year ago

BunnyLand

You live once, whatever makes you happy, do it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" this comes around frequently in the forums.

I'm never quite sure why its ever debated...there will never be an answer.

Its a mystery why those who are meeting outside a relationship feel they need or seek approval of complete strangers on a forum.

Its your choice, take ownership of it if it goes wrong or well."

Definitely this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The thing that happened on the my mate fancies you thread recently was appalling.... Ppl need to mind their own.... "

I read that earlier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do women think about it?"

I don't!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More for me to fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why they choose to do what they do is their business. There are lots and lots of reasons people cheat, and being judgemental about it helps no one.

As long as they are upfront about the situation and accept a yes or no answer like everyone else then they are just another person on here looking for sex. Just like the rest of us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont think much about what others do. Just be honest when you start talking to someone so they can make informed choice based on their own values and needs. That's about it.

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By *appytimes2019Man
over a year ago

East Manchester

Hi all, some great views on this, as a married man that’s a single male on Fab, I find it a great outlet for my wider sexual likes, would love to share the lifestyle with my wife but it’s not her thing.

I’ve met some great people on here over the years.

I agree honesty is the best policy upfront. Would love to put in my preferences to give transparency if I could,,,,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"More for me to fuck"

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