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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Has anyone on here or know anyone whose joined this site and met someone the first night on here....just I've got this lad who I told about fab saying he's met a lass on the first night and he's staying at hers till Monday...does anyone else think he's talking shit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe he just got lucky?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Very lucky if he has theirs people been here over a year and still not had a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a guy about 5 hours after he joined

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Law of averages that it can happen yes. Does it matter if it’s true or not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anyone on here or know anyone whose joined this site and met someone the first night on here....just I've got this lad who I told about fab saying he's met a lass on the first night and he's staying at hers till Monday...does anyone else think he's talking shit "

I’ve met someone before the same day they joined.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

There's no reason it couldn't happen OP, he got lucky is all. Just like people getting to play on their first visit to a club; some do, some don't

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

Ive met people the day they have joined and way way back when I first joined and the site was still brand new I met someone a day after I joined.

It happens. Stop being a sourpuss and doubting your friend just because they got lucky and you didnt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Very lucky if he has theirs people been here over a year and still not had a meet "

I'd think he's lying.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Has anyone on here or know anyone whose joined this site and met someone the first night on here....just I've got this lad who I told about fab saying he's met a lass on the first night and he's staying at hers till Monday...does anyone else think he's talking shit "

Couldn't care less really. Do you want to meet him?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Oh and I met a guy within hours of him opening his account as we were staying in the same hotel.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It would depend on who he and the woman are - I'm open to a new lad coming around and staying her until Monday, although I am a little busy on Sunday. If he's your best thing since sliced bread, then it becomes more feasible.

I'm inclined to think that it's BS though.

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)


"Maybe he just got lucky?"

Maybe he had a profile worth reading and some nice pics to look at...And being in the right place at the right time.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central


"It would depend on who he and the woman are - I'm open to a new lad coming around and staying her until Monday, although I am a little busy on Sunday. If he's your best thing since sliced bread, then it becomes more feasible.

I'm inclined to think that it's BS though."

That should have said -

I'm open to a new lad coming around and staying here until Monday, although I am a little busy on Sunday.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Has anyone on here or know anyone whose joined this site and met someone the first night on here....just I've got this lad who I told about fab saying he's met a lass on the first night and he's staying at hers till Monday...does anyone else think he's

Couldn't care less really. Do you want to meet him? "
if you couldn't care less why comment????and no I don't want to meet him just hate lies and by what I've seen on these forums a lot of people find it hard to meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ive met people the day they have joined and way way back when I first joined and the site was still brand new I met someone a day after I joined.

It happens. Stop being a sourpuss and doubting your friend just because they got lucky and you didnt"
1 he's not my friend never met him in my life and 2 do you not think it's a bit weird meeting someone you've never seen or spoke to how do you know he's not a nutter could of been someone like Peter Sutcliffe at your door safety first always and 3 if he did get "lucky" she wouldn't be the type of lass I would want to meet if she's meeting people after 5 mins of knowing him. I like to be safe always but that's just me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We joined on the Wednesday, had an mmf on the Friday and an ffm on the Saturday so yeah I'd imagine it can happen as quickly as you say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No body else's business...let them do what they like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the bad old days of IRC chat I went from online contact to fucking in 40 minutes with one lass- it was mad but exciting and loads of fun. The majority of the 40 minutes was taken up doing last minute ablutions, driving to meet each other and finding a nearby hotel to use....pretty frantic really

So it is possible.

I remember picking up a lass at a party and not getting out of bed for three days, except to get some food & drink and the usual bodily function needs and showers, so it is entirely possible

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish


"Ive met people the day they have joined and way way back when I first joined and the site was still brand new I met someone a day after I joined.

It happens. Stop being a sourpuss and doubting your friend just because they got lucky and you didnt1 he's not my friend never met him in my life and 2 do you not think it's a bit weird meeting someone you've never seen or spoke to how do you know he's not a nutter could of been someone like Peter Sutcliffe at your door safety first always and 3 if he did get "lucky" she wouldn't be the type of lass I would want to meet if she's meeting people after 5 mins of knowing him. I like to be safe always but that's just me "

1. But your OP said "..just I've got this lad who I told about fab..". This suggests you know hom unless you tell randomstrangers about the site?

2. Everyone is a stranger until you meet them. If we all had that mindset nobody would ever meet. Yes of course safety isimportnt, you arrange to meet somewhere public, a cafe or bar etc, you tell a trusted friend where you are going and who you are meeting, you go with an open mind and meet. All this can be easily and quickly organised online to be meeting an hour later. How do you imagine online dating and hookup sites work?!

3. Judgemental but your choice. She may just be a really nice woman who happened to have some free time when he wasavailable? As busy people we would certainly take the chance while it was there. Hopefully you wont need to turn down anyone because you dont know them.

Everyone likes to keep themselves safe. You are not special.

I hope he is having an awesome time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ive met people the day they have joined and way way back when I first joined and the site was still brand new I met someone a day after I joined.

It happens. Stop being a sourpuss and doubting your friend just because they got lucky and you didnt1 he's not my friend never met him in my life and 2 do you not think it's a bit weird meeting someone you've never seen or spoke to how do you know he's not a nutter could of been someone like Peter Sutcliffe at your door safety first always and 3 if he did get "lucky" she wouldn't be the type of lass I would want to meet if she's meeting people after 5 mins of knowing him. I like to be safe always but that's just me

1. But your OP said "..just I've got this lad who I told about fab..". This suggests you know hom unless you tell randomstrangers about the site?

2. Everyone is a stranger until you meet them. If we all had that mindset nobody would ever meet. Yes of course safety isimportnt, you arrange to meet somewhere public, a cafe or bar etc, you tell a trusted friend where you are going and who you are meeting, you go with an open mind and meet. All this can be easily and quickly organised online to be meeting an hour later. How do you imagine online dating and hookup sites work?!

3. Judgemental but your choice. She may just be a really nice woman who happened to have some free time when he wasavailable? As busy people we would certainly take the chance while it was there. Hopefully you wont need to turn down anyone because you dont know them.

Everyone likes to keep themselves safe. You are not special.

I hope he is having an awesome time."
I was talking to him in a group on some other site.....and if it is true I hope he's having a blast that's what we're all here for.....just normally if something smells like bullshit it usually is bullshit and I just can't stand bullshitters

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish


"Ive met people the day they have joined and way way back when I first joined and the site was still brand new I met someone a day after I joined.

It happens. Stop being a sourpuss and doubting your friend just because they got lucky and you didnt1 he's not my friend never met him in my life and 2 do you not think it's a bit weird meeting someone you've never seen or spoke to how do you know he's not a nutter could of been someone like Peter Sutcliffe at your door safety first always and 3 if he did get "lucky" she wouldn't be the type of lass I would want to meet if she's meeting people after 5 mins of knowing him. I like to be safe always but that's just me

1. But your OP said "..just I've got this lad who I told about fab..". This suggests you know hom unless you tell randomstrangers about the site?

2. Everyone is a stranger until you meet them. If we all had that mindset nobody would ever meet. Yes of course safety isimportnt, you arrange to meet somewhere public, a cafe or bar etc, you tell a trusted friend where you are going and who you are meeting, you go with an open mind and meet. All this can be easily and quickly organised online to be meeting an hour later. How do you imagine online dating and hookup sites work?!

3. Judgemental but your choice. She may just be a really nice woman who happened to have some free time when he wasavailable? As busy people we would certainly take the chance while it was there. Hopefully you wont need to turn down anyone because you dont know them.

Everyone likes to keep themselves safe. You are not special.

I hope he is having an awesome time.I was talking to him in a group on some other site.....and if it is true I hope he's having a blast that's what we're all here for.....just normally if something smells like bullshit it usually is bullshit and I just can't stand bullshitters "

Well as plenty have said, its not unheard of, you have no real grounds to doubt him so be happy for him

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ive met people the day they have joined and way way back when I first joined and the site was still brand new I met someone a day after I joined.

It happens. Stop being a sourpuss and doubting your friend just because they got lucky and you didnt1 he's not my friend never met him in my life and 2 do you not think it's a bit weird meeting someone you've never seen or spoke to how do you know he's not a nutter could of been someone like Peter Sutcliffe at your door safety first always and 3 if he did get "lucky" she wouldn't be the type of lass I would want to meet if she's meeting people after 5 mins of knowing him. I like to be safe always but that's just me

1. But your OP said "..just I've got this lad who I told about fab..". This suggests you know hom unless you tell randomstrangers about the site?

2. Everyone is a stranger until you meet them. If we all had that mindset nobody would ever meet. Yes of course safety isimportnt, you arrange to meet somewhere public, a cafe or bar etc, you tell a trusted friend where you are going and who you are meeting, you go with an open mind and meet. All this can be easily and quickly organised online to be meeting an hour later. How do you imagine online dating and hookup sites work?!

3. Judgemental but your choice. She may just be a really nice woman who happened to have some free time when he wasavailable? As busy people we would certainly take the chance while it was there. Hopefully you wont need to turn down anyone because you dont know them.

Everyone likes to keep themselves safe. You are not special.

I hope he is having an awesome time.I was talking to him in a group on some other site.....and if it is true I hope he's having a blast that's what we're all here for.....just normally if something smells like bullshit it usually is bullshit and I just can't stand bullshitters

Well as plenty have said, its not unheard of, you have no real grounds to doubt him so be happy for him"
yeah by going on by what some have said then yeah it does happen I just formed the opinion that it's hard to meet on here by what I've read on the forums....so yeah good luck to him yous have changed my mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anyone on here or know anyone whose joined this site and met someone the first night on here....just I've got this lad who I told about fab saying he's met a lass on the first night and he's staying at hers till Monday...does anyone else think he's talking shit "

Maybe he’s just staying at his mums for the weekend and she’s on here.

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By *iverpool LoverMan
over a year ago

liverpool

Its not beyond the realms of possibility to get a meet on first day on here, that's quite believable....

However, for that meet to last 5 days makes it very unbelievable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anyone on here or know anyone whose joined this site and met someone the first night on here....just I've got this lad who I told about fab saying he's met a lass on the first night and he's staying at hers till Monday...does anyone else think he's talking shit

Maybe he’s just staying at his mums for the weekend and she’s on here. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Has anyone on here or know anyone whose joined this site and met someone the first night on here....just I've got this lad who I told about fab saying he's met a lass on the first night and he's staying at hers till Monday...does anyone else think he's talking shit never thought of that

Maybe he’s just staying at his mums for the weekend and she’s on here. "

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By *ulfilthmentMan
over a year ago

Just around the corner


"I met a guy about 5 hours after he joined"

But was he still there two days later?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I met a guy about 5 hours after he joined

But was he still there two days later? "
exactly he says he was staying till Monday..sounds a bit fishy to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last profile i got one in 5 days so its possible

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Last profile i got one in 5 days so its possible"
yeah that's 5 days but he wasn't even on one night and he says he's staying till Monday....but yeah by what some have said on here it is possible just the staying till Monday sounds a bit fishy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Last profile i got one in 5 days so its possibleyeah that's 5 days but he wasn't even on one night and he says he's staying till Monday....but yeah by what some have said on here it is possible just the staying till Monday sounds a bit fishy"

If true, good luck to them both but unless they actually knew each other before hand there appears to be a bit of a lack of self security and protection, not something I'd do on either side though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a guy 3 minutes after I joined xoxo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a guy after chatting for 2 days, we ended up having an 8 day date. His for 2 days she then he came to cancun for 4 nights with me as I went with my job. He’s now one of my best mates. Random things can happen. Not from fab but badoo.

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

Maybe they fell in love. When its right its right. Doesn't matter if you have known each other 5 minutes, 5 days or 5 years, they may be making the most of free time while they both have it?

One of my former FWB started out staying Friday night til Sunday afternoon as we were both free. That was having met him on the Friday for a drink.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe they fell in love. When its right its right. Doesn't matter if you have known each other 5 minutes, 5 days or 5 years, they may be making the most of free time while they both have it?

One of my former FWB started out staying Friday night til Sunday afternoon as we were both free. That was having met him on the Friday for a drink."
yeah like I said by the looks of what people have said it could be true it just didn't sound right by what people have told me and I've seen on forum that it's really hard for men to meet....but seems I'm wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe they fell in love. When its right its right. Doesn't matter if you have known each other 5 minutes, 5 days or 5 years, they may be making the most of free time while they both have it?

One of my former FWB started out staying Friday night til Sunday afternoon as we were both free. That was having met him on the Friday for a drink.yeah like I said by the looks of what people have said it could be true it just didn't sound right by what people have told me and I've seen on forum that it's really hard for men to meet....but seems I'm wrong"

It's very hard for men to meet women on here. It's possible... but I'd put money on it being a load of tripe.

Many men on here say their mates told them to get on the site because the women are absolutely gagging for it. Then the men post threads asking why on earth they can't get even one meet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe they fell in love. When its right its right. Doesn't matter if you have known each other 5 minutes, 5 days or 5 years, they may be making the most of free time while they both have it?

One of my former FWB started out staying Friday night til Sunday afternoon as we were both free. That was having met him on the Friday for a drink.yeah like I said by the looks of what people have said it could be true it just didn't sound right by what people have told me and I've seen on forum that it's really hard for men to meet....but seems I'm wrong

It's very hard for men to meet women on here. It's possible... but I'd put money on it being a load of tripe.

Many men on here say their mates told them to get on the site because the women are absolutely gagging for it. Then the men post threads asking why on earth they can't get even one meet. "
yeah that's why I thought it was a bit far fetched by what most men experience on here but by some posts it looks like it does happen so I could be wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never lie and always assume that everyone is honest on here

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