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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A girl I have been chatting too wants a hotel meet. She said she was going to send me her bank account details. I don't want to send her half the room money just in case it's a scam. What is the best way to go about it? Give her half the room money in cash when we meet?

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I wouldn't entertain the idea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds dodgy as hell. Cash when she turns up. If she turns up. If she is a she.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Sounds dodgy as hell. Cash when she turns up. If she turns up. If she is a she."

Bingo.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"A girl I have been chatting too wants a hotel meet. She said she was going to send me her bank account details. I don't want to send her half the room money just in case it's a scam. What is the best way to go about it? Give her half the room money in cash when we meet?"

Sound like a scam

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull


"A girl I have been chatting too wants a hotel meet. She said she was going to send me her bank account details. I don't want to send her half the room money just in case it's a scam. What is the best way to go about it? Give her half the room money in cash when we meet?"

Walk away from this idea! Dodgy as hell!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a social first and book the room together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

RUN...

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish


"Have a social first and book the room together. "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She is a Nigerian prince

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"She is a Nigerian prince"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She is a Nigerian princess"

FIFY

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By *rFunBoyMan
over a year ago

Longridge


"A girl I have been chatting too wants a hotel meet. She said she was going to send me her bank account details. I don't want to send her half the room money just in case it's a scam. What is the best way to go about it? Give her half the room money in cash when we meet?"

SCAM - Stay Away

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By *oo hotCouple
over a year ago

North West


"A girl I have been chatting too wants a hotel meet. She said she was going to send me her bank account details. I don't want to send her half the room money just in case it's a scam. What is the best way to go about it? Give her half the room money in cash when we meet?"

Can’t believe you would even think this is right. Meet first- social/Club environment and get to know each other a little. Why on earth would you even contemplate sending money to someone you don’t know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just pay half when you get to the hotel . Easy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A girl I have been chatting too wants a hotel meet. She said she was going to send me her bank account details. I don't want to send her half the room money just in case it's a scam. What is the best way to go about it? Give her half the room money in cash when we meet?"

If it quacks like a human its probably a duck in disguise

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A girl I have been chatting too wants a hotel meet. She said she was going to send me her bank account details. I don't want to send her half the room money just in case it's a scam. What is the best way to go about it? Give her half the room money in cash when we meet?

Can’t believe you would even think this is right. Meet first- social/Club environment and get to know each other a little. Why on earth would you even contemplate sending money to someone you don’t know. "

I was never going to send money. Just wanted opinions. I've already started to run

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pay me... Um i mean her.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't be a mug. Always knock one out before you make decisions like this it'll make you think clearer.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I'm going to take a slightly different approach OP because it depends on a number of things - for instance how long you've been chatting to her - if it's a handful of messages over a relatively short space of time then I'd have my suspicions up but not totally rule the meet out. If it's someone you've chatted to over an extended period of time, got to know and trust quite well, and feel relatively certain she's not out to scam you (after all she might genuinely not be able to afford to wait for the money) then it's slightly different.

If you're not totally convinced she is genuine, suggest paying her in cash on the day and see how she reacts.

Or ask for a copy of the room booking before sending any cash at least.

Also worth considering paying via PayPal which may give you some recourse to getting your money back (you'd need to check).

Personally if I wasn't 100% sure someone was genuine then I'd walk away and think with my head not my dick

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By *atindollTV/TS
over a year ago

edinburgh


"Pay me... Um i mean her..... "

TAKE MY MONEY!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't be a mug. Always knock one out before you make decisions like this it'll make you think clearer."

Good point.

There was a couple on here recently that said they met another couple and paid cash for the hotel. They all fucked then the other couple said they wanted to stay in the room a while but the first couple left.

The next day they found out the couple that stayed had actually checked out the night before but demanded a refund and pocketed all the cash.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pay me... Um i mean her..... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"RUN... "

Couldn't put it better myself

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

Don't worry about "just in case it's a scan"

It is a scam !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Part of me feels if you have to ask them you almost deserve to be scammed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have a social first and book the room together. "
def this . Nobody gives their bank details out to a stranger do they ? . I know i wouldnt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do the gentlemanly thing, book the room yourself and send her your details for her half of the room

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sounds dodgy as hell. Cash when she turns up. If she turns up. If she is a she."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I gave her/him the bad news. I have now been supposedly reported for time wasting when I didn't actually confirm I was meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I gave her/him the bad news. I have now been supposedly reported for time wasting when I didn't actually confirm I was meeting. "

With admins past records when people have reported, I doubt you have much to worry about

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"I gave her/him the bad news. I have now been supposedly reported for time wasting when I didn't actually confirm I was meeting. "

Time wasting, IMO, is when you agree the date,time and venue and then you don't turn up, so I wouldn't worry too much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I was unsure, i’d say i’d pay and offer to give your details and see how she reacted. Of course no one wants to book a room and the other party doesn’t turn up.

I was very lucky once, well sort of. I had a meet, he insisted on paying and when it came to the day he had an emergency (genuine). He insisted I still stayed as he had prepaid the room and couldn’t get his money back. Had a nice little evening.

Geeky x

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By *bonynivoryCouple
over a year ago

market harborough


"She is a Nigerian prince"

This made me spit out my drink I laughed so hard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Send me the money and I'll act as intermediary to make sure she's legit. Will PM you my bank details.

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By *entish79Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

And also send me $100 and I promise to make sure PrincessNiki is legit. Have PM’d you my bank details.

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