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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have never been able to have a proper intimate (from the friendly chat to lets fuck) conversation.

I can talk all day in a friendly mannor.

Yet I'm fine when I reach the bedroom.

What is wrong with me?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

You suffer from Crisisatorosis

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You suffer from Crisisatorosis "

What?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have never been able to have a proper intimate (from the friendly chat to lets fuck) conversation.

I can talk all day in a friendly mannor.

Yet I'm fine when I reach the bedroom.

What is wrong with me? "

Nothing is wrong with you, it would come with time and experience xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You suffer from Crisisatorosis

What?

"

He's making it up x

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

What do you mean by intimate conversation? What stops you, fear, embarrassment, don't know what to say?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What do you mean by intimate conversation? What stops you, fear, embarrassment, don't know what to say?"

Not sure. I start great with a friendly conversation, she takes an interest in me and it just changes the entire mood. I just really don't know what happens, I freeze sometimes or my brain just completely avoids that shes interested in me. A mate will say you could have had her 10 minutes ago and I just walk off like its a great chat.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"What do you mean by intimate conversation? What stops you, fear, embarrassment, don't know what to say?

Not sure. I start great with a friendly conversation, she takes an interest in me and it just changes the entire mood. I just really don't know what happens, I freeze sometimes or my brain just completely avoids that shes interested in me. A mate will say you could have had her 10 minutes ago and I just walk off like its a great chat. "

So you struggle to move on from friendly chat to sexual chat? Or you struggle to tell a woman you're interested?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you mean by intimate conversation? What stops you, fear, embarrassment, don't know what to say?

Not sure. I start great with a friendly conversation, she takes an interest in me and it just changes the entire mood. I just really don't know what happens, I freeze sometimes or my brain just completely avoids that shes interested in me. A mate will say you could have had her 10 minutes ago and I just walk off like its a great chat. "

Are we talking one night stands here as i think you have a very unhealthy attitude towards women if all you see them as is someone to fuck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What do you mean by intimate conversation? What stops you, fear, embarrassment, don't know what to say?

Not sure. I start great with a friendly conversation, she takes an interest in me and it just changes the entire mood. I just really don't know what happens, I freeze sometimes or my brain just completely avoids that shes interested in me. A mate will say you could have had her 10 minutes ago and I just walk off like its a great chat.

So you struggle to move on from friendly chat to sexual chat? Or you struggle to tell a woman you're interested?"

Both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you mean by intimate conversation? What stops you, fear, embarrassment, don't know what to say?

Not sure. I start great with a friendly conversation, she takes an interest in me and it just changes the entire mood. I just really don't know what happens, I freeze sometimes or my brain just completely avoids that shes interested in me. A mate will say you could have had her 10 minutes ago and I just walk off like its a great chat. "

'You could have had her'

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What do you mean by intimate conversation? What stops you, fear, embarrassment, don't know what to say?

Not sure. I start great with a friendly conversation, she takes an interest in me and it just changes the entire mood. I just really don't know what happens, I freeze sometimes or my brain just completely avoids that shes interested in me. A mate will say you could have had her 10 minutes ago and I just walk off like its a great chat.

Are we talking one night stands here as i think you have a very unhealthy attitude towards women if all you see them as is someone to fuck "

No. One night stands can be fun as a simple fix at a club. But a friends with benefits or a relationship (not sure I'm relationship material).

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What do you mean by intimate conversation? What stops you, fear, embarrassment, don't know what to say?

Not sure. I start great with a friendly conversation, she takes an interest in me and it just changes the entire mood. I just really don't know what happens, I freeze sometimes or my brain just completely avoids that shes interested in me. A mate will say you could have had her 10 minutes ago and I just walk off like its a great chat.

'You could have had her' "

It was in a club. One night stand scenario. Sorry lad talk.

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