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I have a bad feeling about this Chewie

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Looks very much like I am going to be having another no show.

Meet planned for tonight but they have gone quiet for the last 48 hours.

Life getting in the way again haha

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Grrrrrrrrrrrr

Rude.

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

Well I had an 8am bonus and pay rise meeting that went along the lines of no bonus and no pay rise

Let’s say I was fooking fuming. I wasn’t supposed to be in till 9. Came in early just for the meeting. So fuck staying till 5 I am off at 3.30!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear that op feel for ya but dont jump the gun too early

Hopefully just out of data gets it back today

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sorry to hear that op feel for ya but dont jump the gun too early

Hopefully just out of data gets it back today "
even gone quiet on text

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought I had met a potential fwb or possibly more but it looks like it's not to be. I'm annoyed that I'm upset.

Sorry about your meet Mr landlord.

I have meets for weds Thurs and Friday lined up so I'm a total slut.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't even bother brushing my hair unless I've had constant comms from them leading up to the day and on the day itself.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I thought I had met a potential fwb or possibly more but it looks like it's not to be. I'm annoyed that I'm upset.

Sorry about your meet Mr landlord.

I have meets for weds Thurs and Friday lined up so I'm a total slut. "
nothing wrong with that, go for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looks very much like I am going to be having another no show.

Meet planned for tonight but they have gone quiet for the last 48 hours.

Life getting in the way again haha"

The last 48 hrs doesn't matter as long as they confirm at some point today.

Constant communication between making arrangement and meeting would definitely put us off.

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By *atindollTV/TS
over a year ago

edinburgh

I tend to only arrange meets if I'm planning on dressing up anyway...that way it's win win....still disappointing...nerves nerves nerves...nothing...boo

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire

The long silence before a meet is always a massive red flag it isn’t happening isn’t it!

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

They may still be in touch later,

Hope they do op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some men and women on this site are strange creatures... Sorry to hear it OP, hope she comes good ... Or him ... or them

(shouldn't assume sorry)

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

Have you messaged her? Maybe she is thinking the same thing? A quick text to say " are we still ok for this evening? Looking forward to meeting..." would be a good idea. If she doesn't reply to that I'd not be going to too much trouble to meet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have you messaged her? Maybe she is thinking the same thing? A quick text to say " are we still ok for this evening? Looking forward to meeting..." would be a good idea. If she doesn't reply to that I'd not be going to too much trouble to meet."
did that this morning, on WhatsApp, the message I sent and the one before which was two days ago have been delivered, but not read, and she was on line on fab at some point yesterday.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you messaged her? Maybe she is thinking the same thing? A quick text to say " are we still ok for this evening? Looking forward to meeting..." would be a good idea. If she doesn't reply to that I'd not be going to too much trouble to meet. did that this morning, on WhatsApp, the message I sent and the one before which was two days ago have been delivered, but not read, and she was on line on fab at some point yesterday."

I met a guy on social we decided to have second naughty meet in the hotel few days after... he was texting all the time... 1hr before meet I said see you soon he replied... I turned up at the hotel... no guy no reservation and I'm blocked... so shit happens.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

To be honest, if she said she has had second thoughts, or cold feet, or life got in the way, I wouldn't mind, but it's the silence which is annoying.

So big box of maltesers and crap on television it is

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit


"Have you messaged her? Maybe she is thinking the same thing? A quick text to say " are we still ok for this evening? Looking forward to meeting..." would be a good idea. If she doesn't reply to that I'd not be going to too much trouble to meet. did that this morning, on WhatsApp, the message I sent and the one before which was two days ago have been delivered, but not read, and she was on line on fab at some point yesterday.

I met a guy on social we decided to have second naughty meet in the hotel few days after... he was texting all the time... 1hr before meet I said see you soon he replied... I turned up at the hotel... no guy no reservation and I'm blocked... so shit happens."

How rude

Why not just say no ta!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone went quiet before a meet, I wouldn't waste my time. Communication on the build up to the meet is very important to me. It just comes across like they are not bothered. If they don't put in as much of an effort as i do, I lose interest very easily.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't even bother brushing my hair unless I've had constant comms from them leading up to the day and on the day itself. "

Same. Never had a no show.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well I have heard from her, very apologetic, seems nature knocked on her door

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I have heard from her, very apologetic, seems nature knocked on her door"

Hmm. Even if I was on my period I would still turn up to a meet, have my hands and mouth or bum hole. Rivers red take the dirt track instead kind of thing.

Periods don't stop you from drinking tea or chatting either, could have just had a social meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I have heard from her, very apologetic, seems nature knocked on her door

Hmm. Even if I was on my period I would still turn up to a meet, have my hands and mouth or bum hole. Rivers red take the dirt track instead kind of thing.

Periods don't stop you from drinking tea or chatting either, could have just had a social meet. "

The way I’ve felt the last couple of days with mine there’s no chance I would be up to meet. I’ve had guys I’ve known well cancel a date because of it.

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