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How to turn up on your first ever meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Any tips what do you do when ur outside nervous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I drove to mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone gets nervous. Just go and do the meet, you'll soon relax into it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im usually the one on the inside

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Was you not nervous

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By *_and_LCouple
over a year ago

Tamworth

Leave the house, travel to where you’re meeting, be there. Simple.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I knocked on the door.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Just big breath and go for it!

Good luck!

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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago

Traffic land

I still get nervous every time.

I was mildly freaking out on Friday before he arrived, but all was well once he did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pull up your big boy socks and get on with it....I've entered a party alone full of couple's with no issues...great evening

(I obviously didn't play with all)

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By *rkeb3Man
over a year ago

east Lancashire road

have a warming up wank in ur car

then when u about to explod run to the door n knock lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always grin inside ! Works for me!

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

Arrive on time,smell good, look smart,be polite and have fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any tips what do you do when ur outside nervous "

Dont be nervous you have been talking your whole life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a wank

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try sweating profusely and work in some long awkward pauses. Then just blurt something controversial about a recent trial or how you hate all women or Brexit that really shuts down the conversation.

If you can also fart loudly that would be gold.

All the best,

Every first date ever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cant help you there. I still get extremely nervous! Haha. Just don't forget to breathe. I've heard deep breaths help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't end up on the same train then leg it down the platform hoping she dosent see you as you planned to get there a half hour early

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try sweating profusely and work in some long awkward pauses. Then just blurt something controversial about a recent trial or how you hate all women or Brexit that really shuts down the conversation.

If you can also fart loudly that would be gold.

All the best,

Every first date ever. "

You wouldn't know, You not had any, well unless you count..... ummmmm really pmsl!!!!

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By *rmainman10Man
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I took my first ever meet a mcflurry... Somthing she asked for before i went round

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always prefer to do a social first. Far less pressure. All going well, I end up back at thiers, or they at mine. Mind you, even meeting guys I know is nerve wracking. I tend to prefer last minute meets so I have less time to stress xx

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By *atindollTV/TS
over a year ago

edinburgh

If you feel a burp coming on try to burp the word pardon...saves time.

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

I don't get nervous but real excited

Be sure to show up first, look good, smell good, and have a welcoming smile on your face when you see the person. They may be nervous and a warm smile puts people at ease.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nervous Excitement..what a buzz!

Just go for it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never get nervous. Excited maybe.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Smiling and confident.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dress to impress

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By *ucky78Woman
over a year ago

liverpool

He arrived first stood outside the hotel for me, I walked around the corner saw him walked straight up and snogged the face off him (he was lush) safe to say he keeps coming back for more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Arrive on time,smell good, look smart,be polite and have fun."

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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Oh the nervous excitement is the best feeling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dress to impress"

Absolutely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a good shit well before you leave. Nothing worse than a nervous fart and following through.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The same as sending a message, knock on the door with your cock out and say “meet now, bend over and hurry up I have to get home”

Should work well

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Do some exercise, such as walking, in advance, so that your body uses up some of your adrenaline/cortisol. Prepare and plan in advance, so that there are no surprises, including the clothes you'll wear, ensuring they're clean and work well together. Ensure that you have plenty of time to arrive promptly.

Let yourself think of only good things, so that you stay upbeat. If you start to worry, stop it immediately.

At the meet, ensure you're ready to listen and get to know the others, rather than bore someone about yourself. Make lots of eye contact and smile. Keep things light and breezy, so avoid any heavy topics.

If you're going to talk about sex, ensure they're comfortable and that others around you can't really hear or be upset.

Be honest.

Be yourself - but this can include acting your confident self, whilst you settle into that self that's perhaps nervous and in retreat: this is different to pretending to be someone else. Your posture will help you to feel psychologically strong - don't slouch, stay upright, keep your body open, rather than closed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont over think it

If you have been chatting a while first then its like going to see a friend if not then its no different than chatting with someone at the train or bus station only difference you may be nude not long after

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get nervous before i meet a group of guys but a chat and a coffee before play and we are ready to strip off and get down to it. Doesn't last long.

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By *lice AgainTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol


"Have a wank"

Do not have a wank.

I once met a guy who'd done this, so all I ended up with was a soft sticky cock and a guy full of post orgasmic angst.

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