FabSwingers.com forum: Is it possible to fall in love with the same person twice?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well can you?

Live long and prosper,dash x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it is, but depends on why you separated in the first place and if the person has changed

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think it is, but depends on why you separated in the first place and if the person has changed "

Who mentioned separation

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By *oftandGentle2Couple
over a year ago

leeds

You can fall in love all over again with the love of your life! I’m sure of that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I fall in love with Rachel Riley 5 times a week.

In HD.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think it is, but depends on why you separated in the first place and if the person has changed

Who mentioned separation"

Haha yes, my bad, I just assumed it but you are right.

Well, in that case, yes I totally think it is possible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anything is possible. You can go off something, then find yourself craving it later on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think it is, but depends on why you separated in the first place and if the person has changed "

Or you have changed.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You can fall in love all over again with the love of your life! I’m sure of that! "

That's not really falling out of love then falling back in love is it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think it is, but depends on why you separated in the first place and if the person has changed

Or you have changed."

Yes that as well

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm talking you meet fall in love,over a period of time the love subsides for many years,can you get that same feeling back in your heart for that person?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Bloodyhell I'm deep today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm talking you meet fall in love,over a period of time the love subsides for many years,can you get that same feeling back in your heart for that person?"

Yes of course you can... why not... sometimes the timing of things isn’t right or life takes over and prevents things from happening... but true feelings you can’t stop... especially love....

Why so deep? Are you falling in love??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm talking you meet fall in love,over a period of time the love subsides for many years,can you get that same feeling back in your heart for that person?

Yes of course you can... why not... sometimes the timing of things isn’t right or life takes over and prevents things from happening... but true feelings you can’t stop... especially love....

Why so deep? Are you falling in love??

Yes with Carol Kirkwood,I digress sorry,it was a discussion at work between 2 women yesterday.....honest

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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Jeez this is deep. I hadn't been in love properly before.

I thought my long term relationship was love but not the kind of all consuming love you expect, it was more controlling and me abiding by his needs etc.

Then there was the one after, who knows what that was. At the time I thought I cared a lot of him but I think I cared about the idea of someone wanting me for a change. Turns out he was a narcissistic headcase who craves attention is whatever form it comes.

So those behind me I find myself in actual love.

The proper butterflies, making plans love.

The who shebang.

Someone who wants to build me up, support me, tells me they adore me despite my flaws.

I hope to never fall out of this love.

So I guess to answer your question I don't know

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Jeez this is deep. I hadn't been in love properly before.

I thought my long term relationship was love but not the kind of all consuming love you expect, it was more controlling and me abiding by his needs etc.

So those behind me I find myself in actual love.

The proper butterflies, making plans love.

The who shebang.

Someone who wants to build me up, support me, tells me they adore me despite my flaws.

I hope to never fall out of this love.

So I guess to answer your question I don't know

I think you're in love with bearded man's shoes

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By *oftandGentle2Couple
over a year ago

leeds

"You can fall in love all over again with the love of your life! I’m sure of that!

That's not really falling out of love then falling back in love is it"

I don’t think you fall out of love with that person, the love changes over time to a deeper understanding, to love someone and to BE in love with someone are to very different things.. but I do think you re fall IN love with that special person you are destined to be with for the rest of your life yes.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Jeez this is deep. I hadn't been in love properly before.

I thought my long term relationship was love but not the kind of all consuming love you expect, it was more controlling and me abiding by his needs etc.

So those behind me I find myself in actual love.

The proper butterflies, making plans love.

The who shebang.

Someone who wants to build me up, support me, tells me they adore me despite my flaws.

I hope to never fall out of this love.

So I guess to answer your question I don't know

I think you're in love with bearded man's shoes"

I do love how they shine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I fecking hope not..

I've only been in love once and that was with my feckless ex so i wouldn't want to go there again thankyouverymuch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must admit doing a double take in the mirror this morning. So yes. It's possible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm talking you meet fall in love,over a period of time the love subsides for many years,can you get that same feeling back in your heart for that person?

Yes of course you can... why not... sometimes the timing of things isn’t right or life takes over and prevents things from happening... but true feelings you can’t stop... especially love....

Why so deep? Are you falling in love??

Yes with Carol Kirkwood,I digress sorry,it was a discussion at work between 2 women yesterday.....honest

Hahaha we believe you... hundreds wouldn’t

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Jeez this is deep. I hadn't been in love properly before.

I thought my long term relationship was love but not the kind of all consuming love you expect, it was more controlling and me abiding by his needs etc.

So those behind me I find myself in actual love.

The proper butterflies, making plans love.

The who shebang.

Someone who wants to build me up, support me, tells me they adore me despite my flaws.

I hope to never fall out of this love.

So I guess to answer your question I don't know

That's lovely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each morning .... as I look in the mirror.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Jeez this is deep. I hadn't been in love properly before.

I thought my long term relationship was love but not the kind of all consuming love you expect, it was more controlling and me abiding by his needs etc.

So those behind me I find myself in actual love.

The proper butterflies, making plans love.

The whole shebang.

Someone who wants to build me up, support me, tells me they adore me despite my flaws.

I hope to never fall out of this love.

So I guess to answer your question I don't know

That's lovely."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm talking you meet fall in love,over a period of time the love subsides for many years,can you get that same feeling back in your heart for that person?"

Yes you most definitely can. Watched my parents do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well can you?

Live long and prosper,dash x"

Perhaps it's a case of never having fallen out of love.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I think I have done yes, or rekindled a love at least, but it was a long time ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well can you?

Live long and prosper,dash x

Perhaps it's a case of never having fallen out of love."

Or that love isn't consistent in how it manifests itself?

Maybe that gripping, euphoric feeling you first get doesn't stay with any connection? Some want that feeling all the time and think they're no longer in love when it feels different?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been in love

No idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can rediscover some one after maybe an absence and that love can grow again . But make sure it's not just one sided

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

My friend divorced her husband .... 2 years later she married him again after falling in love for the 2nd time. So yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well can you?

Live long and prosper,dash x

Perhaps it's a case of never having fallen out of love.

Or that love isn't consistent in how it manifests itself?

Maybe that gripping, euphoric feeling you first get doesn't stay with any connection? Some want that feeling all the time and think they're no longer in love when it feels different? "

It begs the question "What is love, anyway?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, I’ve fallen in and out of love with the same person a few times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely, I've fallen for my hubby a few times over the years, you change, you grow, you evolve and if you're lucky the person you're with changes too and you get to fall in love with who they become as much as you did the person they used to be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Definitely, I've fallen for my hubby a few times over the years, you change, you grow, you evolve and if you're lucky the person you're with changes too and you get to fall in love with who they become as much as you did the person they used to be."

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My friend divorced her husband .... 2 years later she married him again after falling in love for the 2nd time. So yes "

I'm not talking after a split,I'm talking living together in the same house for years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My friend divorced her husband .... 2 years later she married him again after falling in love for the 2nd time. So yes

I'm not talking after a split,I'm talking living together in the same house for years"

Yep that happened to me a few times, including a two and a half year split early on...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My friend divorced her husband .... 2 years later she married him again after falling in love for the 2nd time. So yes

I'm not talking after a split,I'm talking living together in the same house for years"

I think it would take some sort of an 'event' to happen that showed the person in another light, so that you could fall in love with that new part of them, and the old one again.

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

I fall in love with Swing all over again every time I see him

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"I fall in love with Swing all over again every time I see him

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I fall in love with Swing all over again every time I see him

Ah this is cute

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

"I'm talking you meet fall in love,over a period of time the love subsides for many years,can you get that same feeling back in your heart for that person?"

No I dont think so. Though it depends if there are resentments built up over those years. If they are not resolved not a chance in hell love will come back into the relationship. sigh !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My friend divorced her husband .... 2 years later she married him again after falling in love for the 2nd time. So yes

I'm not talking after a split,I'm talking living together in the same house for years

I think it would take some sort of an 'event' to happen that showed the person in another light, so that you could fall in love with that new part of them, and the old one again.

I think over the years it’s possoble to go though transitions as individuals that can cause you to grow apart and other transitions that cause you to grow together again. My perspective on life has changed a number of times during my adult life that has caused drifting apart and consciously working on the differences to find new common ground.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm talking you meet fall in love,over a period of time the love subsides for many years,can you get that same feeling back in your heart for that person?

No I dont think so. Though it depends if there are resentments built up over those years. If they are not resolved not a chance in hell love will come back into the relationship. sigh ! "

But if they are resolved.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Oh by the way this truly is an hypothetical question,I'm very happy with my life right now

Happydash

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

I reckon so

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

"I'm talking you meet fall in love,over a period of time the love subsides for many years,can you get that same feeling back in your heart for that person?

No I dont think so. Though it depends if there are resentments built up over those years. If they are not resolved not a chance in hell love will come back into the relationship. sigh !

But if they are resolved....."

LOL good luck with that! no real resolving happening here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm talking you meet fall in love,over a period of time the love subsides for many years,can you get that same feeling back in your heart for that person?

No I dont think so. Though it depends if there are resentments built up over those years. If they are not resolved not a chance in hell love will come back into the relationship. sigh !

But if they are resolved.....

LOL good luck with that! no real resolving happening here

No luck required. Patience, understanding, forgiveness, willingness to take action and commitment yep....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm talking you meet fall in love,over a period of time the love subsides for many years,can you get that same feeling back in your heart for that person?

No I dont think so. Though it depends if there are resentments built up over those years. If they are not resolved not a chance in hell love will come back into the relationship. sigh !

But if they are resolved.....

LOL good luck with that! no real resolving happening here

No luck required. Patience, understanding, forgiveness, willingness to take action and commitment yep...."

I think I love you

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

There is only 1 love in my life and it was love at 1st sight. She's never let me down and alway yes always there for me 24/7. I look at her picture and my heart skips a beat. I get on her and my pulse quickens so much I can't help but push harder and harder. but she's nobody's fool treat her with respect or feel her pain. She can get so damn dirty but I just love polishing her. She is my life my world my 1 and only. I hear her calling me no matter how far apart we are and no matter how long it's been since we was last together we both know we will be again. in fact I hear her right now calling me telling me she want me to get dirty with her so guess I best go get her her favourite tipple. 4 little of fully synthetic and a new filter she due a service. Come on you didn't think I ment anything else did you. Honda what dreams are made of

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

Yes I believe you can given the right set of circumstances. Obviously if you’ve been an absolute nut job, in whatever form, then possibly not. Normal ebbs and flows of life influence any relationship but I think love can flourish again with two willing parties.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I don't think you ever lose feelings if you're truly in love with someone.

It just gets easier to live without them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bloodyhell I'm deep today"

... I wish I could say that right now..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Personally I don't think you ever lose feelings if you're truly in love with someone.

It just gets easier to live without them. "

Wise words sir,best answer so far

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Bloodyhell I'm deep today

... I wish I could say that right now..

What,in my butthole?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bloodyhell I'm deep today

... I wish I could say that right now..

What,in my butthole?"

Oooh ducky...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not a soppy person really but I do believe you can fall deeply in love with someone many times. I fell in love with Fuzz 18 years ago, five years of butterflies and bliss before reality hit and real life became tricky. Though the love was still strong we lost each other for a while but one day the butterflies reappeared and the lust returned and we fell in love all over again! I'm sure the cycle will continue and we will enjoy rediscovering each other as time and circumstance change.

It's life! Just focus on the things that feel good and repeat as often as needed!

Peach x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not a soppy person really but I do believe you can fall deeply in love with someone many times. I fell in love with Fuzz 18 years ago, five years of butterflies and bliss before reality hit and real life became tricky. Though the love was still strong we lost each other for a while but one day the butterflies reappeared and the lust returned and we fell in love all over again! I'm sure the cycle will continue and we will enjoy rediscovering each other as time and circumstance change.

It's life! Just focus on the things that feel good and repeat as often as needed!

Peach x"

Nice story

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

It's life! Just focus on the things that feel good and repeat as often as needed!

Peach x"

I seem to have something in my eye

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm talking you meet fall in love,over a period of time the love subsides for many years,can you get that same feeling back in your heart for that person?

No I dont think so. Though it depends if there are resentments built up over those years. If they are not resolved not a chance in hell love will come back into the relationship. sigh !

But if they are resolved.....

LOL good luck with that! no real resolving happening here

No luck required. Patience, understanding, forgiveness, willingness to take action and commitment yep....

I think I love you

I didn’t know you cared

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My friend divorced her husband .... 2 years later she married him again after falling in love for the 2nd time. So yes

I'm not talking after a split,I'm talking living together in the same house for years

I think it would take some sort of an 'event' to happen that showed the person in another light, so that you could fall in love with that new part of them, and the old one again.

Yes would agree with that. Its finding the energy to make the effort at times

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Yes. I have done it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think love is for fairy tales

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well can you?

Live long and prosper,dash x"
no as you never stopped loving them the first time lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think love is for fairy tales "

Meant for someone else but not for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I fall in love again every single morning when I wake up...

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