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By *apstar OP   Man
over a year ago

Harpenden

There is always somone out there that cares and will listen 2 what's bothering you....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes there is. No one should feel like they have no one to talk to. For those who say they don’t I will be happy to help and advise with services that are there to support

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had some really lovely messages of support from the forumites when I was going through a rough patch earlier this year xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If only it was true that everyone has someone. Loneliness is a terrible thing and impacts every part of life. If that is you then hugs from us x

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By *apstar OP   Man
over a year ago

Harpenden

It gets 2 about 17:00 and my mood drops and I feel lonley and like shit. Is cos I know I have a long night ahead of me as I get about 4 hours broken sleep a day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always here Dap x

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By *apstar OP   Man
over a year ago

Harpenden

There is always somone out there that cares and will listen.. I find with myself I will shut everyone out witch just makes me feel worse x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is always somone out there that cares and will listen 2 what's bothering you....

"

Lol who told you that

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By *apstar OP   Man
over a year ago

Harpenden


"There is always somone out there that cares and will listen 2 what's bothering you....

Lol who told you that"

Do you disagree ??

Looking at what people have put proves I'm right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is always somone out there that cares and will listen 2 what's bothering you....

Lol who told you that

Do you disagree ??

Looking at what people have put proves I'm right "

Mate everyone says they are there for you but as soon as you need them where are they?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is always somone out there that cares and will listen 2 what's bothering you....

Lol who told you that

Do you disagree ??

Looking at what people have put proves I'm right

Mate everyone says they are there for you but as soon as you need them where are they?"

You need better friends then sweet x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always happy to lend an ear

Feel free

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is always somone out there that cares and will listen 2 what's bothering you....

Lol who told you that

Do you disagree ??

Looking at what people have put proves I'm right

Mate everyone says they are there for you but as soon as you need them where are they?"

I'm there for the people I care about. Just like they are there if I need them. I'm sorry that you sometimes feel that you may not have that support, but please don't project that pessimism.on to the OP. If that's how he feels, why not just let him feel that?

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By *apstar OP   Man
over a year ago

Harpenden


"There is always somone out there that cares and will listen 2 what's bothering you....

Lol who told you that

Do you disagree ??

Looking at what people have put proves I'm right

Mate everyone says they are there for you but as soon as you need them where are they?"

Well if you need somone I'm here for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is always somone out there that cares and will listen 2 what's bothering you....

Lol who told you that

Do you disagree ??

Looking at what people have put proves I'm right

Mate everyone says they are there for you but as soon as you need them where are they?

I'm there for the people I care about. Just like they are there if I need them. I'm sorry that you sometimes feel that you may not have that support, but please don't project that pessimism.on to the OP. If that's how he feels, why not just let him feel that? "

That's his experience this is mine, what makes him right and me wrong?

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By *apstar OP   Man
over a year ago

Harpenden

Well the Gent you have just found somone that will be there for u when and if you u need

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is always somone out there that cares and will listen 2 what's bothering you....

Lol who told you that

Do you disagree ??

Looking at what people have put proves I'm right

Mate everyone says they are there for you but as soon as you need them where are they?

I'm there for the people I care about. Just like they are there if I need them. I'm sorry that you sometimes feel that you may not have that support, but please don't project that pessimism.on to the OP. If that's how he feels, why not just let him feel that?

That's his experience this is mine, what makes him right and me wrong?"

It doesn’t make either of you wrong or right.

Surround yourself with better people, you’ll feel the difference x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is always somone out there that cares and will listen 2 what's bothering you....

Lol who told you that

Do you disagree ??

Looking at what people have put proves I'm right

Mate everyone says they are there for you but as soon as you need them where are they?

I'm there for the people I care about. Just like they are there if I need them. I'm sorry that you sometimes feel that you may not have that support, but please don't project that pessimism.on to the OP. If that's how he feels, why not just let him feel that?

That's his experience this is mine, what makes him right and me wrong?

It doesn’t make either of you wrong or right.

Surround yourself with better people, you’ll feel the difference x "

Well said!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is always somone out there that cares and will listen 2 what's bothering you....

Lol who told you that

Do you disagree ??

Looking at what people have put proves I'm right

Mate everyone says they are there for you but as soon as you need them where are they?

I'm there for the people I care about. Just like they are there if I need them. I'm sorry that you sometimes feel that you may not have that support, but please don't project that pessimism.on to the OP. If that's how he feels, why not just let him feel that?

That's his experience this is mine, what makes him right and me wrong?"

It's not about right or wrong. It's the way you addressed the OP. As if he was completely wrong, for thinking people cared. Or maybe I read it wrong. It is late

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is always somone out there that cares and will listen 2 what's bothering you....

Lol who told you that

Do you disagree ??

Looking at what people have put proves I'm right

Mate everyone says they are there for you but as soon as you need them where are they?

I'm there for the people I care about. Just like they are there if I need them. I'm sorry that you sometimes feel that you may not have that support, but please don't project that pessimism.on to the OP. If that's how he feels, why not just let him feel that?

That's his experience this is mine, what makes him right and me wrong?

It's not about right or wrong. It's the way you addressed the OP. As if he was completely wrong, for thinking people cared. Or maybe I read it wrong. It is late "

Yes it's late, you've been teasing people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is always somone out there that cares and will listen 2 what's bothering you....

Lol who told you that

Do you disagree ??

Looking at what people have put proves I'm right

Mate everyone says they are there for you but as soon as you need them where are they?

I'm there for the people I care about. Just like they are there if I need them. I'm sorry that you sometimes feel that you may not have that support, but please don't project that pessimism.on to the OP. If that's how he feels, why not just let him feel that?

That's his experience this is mine, what makes him right and me wrong?"

We've also chatted many a nights. I'm happy to lend an ear if you need it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is always somone out there that cares and will listen 2 what's bothering you....

Lol who told you that

Do you disagree ??

Looking at what people have put proves I'm right

Mate everyone says they are there for you but as soon as you need them where are they?

I'm there for the people I care about. Just like they are there if I need them. I'm sorry that you sometimes feel that you may not have that support, but please don't project that pessimism.on to the OP. If that's how he feels, why not just let him feel that?

That's his experience this is mine, what makes him right and me wrong?

It's not about right or wrong. It's the way you addressed the OP. As if he was completely wrong, for thinking people cared. Or maybe I read it wrong. It is late

Yes it's late, you've been teasing people "

I'm being good now

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By *atindollTV/TS
over a year ago

edinburgh

Whenever I see a post on any forum from someone that looks like they are struggling I'm always happy to try to cheer them up...ive been down in that dark well myself before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is always somone out there that cares and will listen 2 what's bothering you....

Lol who told you that

Do you disagree ??

Looking at what people have put proves I'm right

Mate everyone says they are there for you but as soon as you need them where are they?

I'm there for the people I care about. Just like they are there if I need them. I'm sorry that you sometimes feel that you may not have that support, but please don't project that pessimism.on to the OP. If that's how he feels, why not just let him feel that?

That's his experience this is mine, what makes him right and me wrong?

It's not about right or wrong. It's the way you addressed the OP. As if he was completely wrong, for thinking people cared. Or maybe I read it wrong. It is late

Yes it's late, you've been teasing people

I'm being good now "

Is that even possible?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is always somone out there that cares and will listen 2 what's bothering you....

Lol who told you that

Do you disagree ??

Looking at what people have put proves I'm right

Mate everyone says they are there for you but as soon as you need them where are they?

I'm there for the people I care about. Just like they are there if I need them. I'm sorry that you sometimes feel that you may not have that support, but please don't project that pessimism.on to the OP. If that's how he feels, why not just let him feel that?

That's his experience this is mine, what makes him right and me wrong?

It's not about right or wrong. It's the way you addressed the OP. As if he was completely wrong, for thinking people cared. Or maybe I read it wrong. It is late

Yes it's late, you've been teasing people

I'm being good now

Is that even possible? "

I'm a chameleon. I can be many things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is always somone out there that cares and will listen 2 what's bothering you....

Lol who told you that

Do you disagree ??

Looking at what people have put proves I'm right

Mate everyone says they are there for you but as soon as you need them where are they?

I'm there for the people I care about. Just like they are there if I need them. I'm sorry that you sometimes feel that you may not have that support, but please don't project that pessimism.on to the OP. If that's how he feels, why not just let him feel that?

That's his experience this is mine, what makes him right and me wrong?

It's not about right or wrong. It's the way you addressed the OP. As if he was completely wrong, for thinking people cared. Or maybe I read it wrong. It is late

Yes it's late, you've been teasing people

I'm being good now

Is that even possible?

I'm a chameleon. I can be many things "

Why did the Boy George song just come to mind?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is always somone out there that cares and will listen 2 what's bothering you....

Lol who told you that

Do you disagree ??

Looking at what people have put proves I'm right

Mate everyone says they are there for you but as soon as you need them where are they?

I'm there for the people I care about. Just like they are there if I need them. I'm sorry that you sometimes feel that you may not have that support, but please don't project that pessimism.on to the OP. If that's how he feels, why not just let him feel that?

That's his experience this is mine, what makes him right and me wrong?

It's not about right or wrong. It's the way you addressed the OP. As if he was completely wrong, for thinking people cared. Or maybe I read it wrong. It is late

Yes it's late, you've been teasing people

I'm being good now

Is that even possible?

I'm a chameleon. I can be many things

Why did the Boy George song just come to mind? "

OP still think people are there for you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only got a few friends and they're not very supportive, neither are my family, but I've just started talking to a lass who lives in Chicago on Facebook. I knew her about ten years ago, but we just stopped talking for some reason, I don't really know why. After these past few days it's as if we never stopped talking at all. Makes me feel a little bit better about myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is always somone out there that cares and will listen 2 what's bothering you....

Lol who told you that

Do you disagree ??

Looking at what people have put proves I'm right

Mate everyone says they are there for you but as soon as you need them where are they?

I'm there for the people I care about. Just like they are there if I need them. I'm sorry that you sometimes feel that you may not have that support, but please don't project that pessimism.on to the OP. If that's how he feels, why not just let him feel that?

That's his experience this is mine, what makes him right and me wrong?

It's not about right or wrong. It's the way you addressed the OP. As if he was completely wrong, for thinking people cared. Or maybe I read it wrong. It is late

Yes it's late, you've been teasing people

I'm being good now

Is that even possible?

I'm a chameleon. I can be many things

Why did the Boy George song just come to mind?

OP still think people are there for you?"

Haha my initial assessment of you was correct

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By *apstar OP   Man
over a year ago

Harpenden


"There is always somone out there that cares and will listen 2 what's bothering you....

Lol who told you that

Do you disagree ??

Looking at what people have put proves I'm right

Mate everyone says they are there for you but as soon as you need them where are they?

I'm there for the people I care about. Just like they are there if I need them. I'm sorry that you sometimes feel that you may not have that support, but please don't project that pessimism.on to the OP. If that's how he feels, why not just let him feel that?

That's his experience this is mine, what makes him right and me wrong?

It's not about right or wrong. It's the way you addressed the OP. As if he was completely wrong, for thinking people cared. Or maybe I read it wrong. It is late

Yes it's late, you've been teasing people

I'm being good now

Is that even possible?

I'm a chameleon. I can be many things

Why did the Boy George song just come to mind?

OP still think people are there for you?"

Yes I do ... y

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By *apstar OP   Man
over a year ago

Harpenden


"I've only got a few friends and they're not very supportive, neither are my family, but I've just started talking to a lass who lives in Chicago on Facebook. I knew her about ten years ago, but we just stopped talking for some reason, I don't really know why. After these past few days it's as if we never stopped talking at all. Makes me feel a little bit better about myself."

If u ever need a chat or anything my pm is always open

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've only got a few friends and they're not very supportive, neither are my family, but I've just started talking to a lass who lives in Chicago on Facebook. I knew her about ten years ago, but we just stopped talking for some reason, I don't really know why. After these past few days it's as if we never stopped talking at all. Makes me feel a little bit better about myself.

If u ever need a chat or anything my pm is always open "

No it's not you've blocked men I tried earlier

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By *apstar OP   Man
over a year ago

Harpenden


"I've only got a few friends and they're not very supportive, neither are my family, but I've just started talking to a lass who lives in Chicago on Facebook. I knew her about ten years ago, but we just stopped talking for some reason, I don't really know why. After these past few days it's as if we never stopped talking at all. Makes me feel a little bit better about myself.

If u ever need a chat or anything my pm is always open

No it's not you've blocked men I tried earlier"

Sorry about that ... better now ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is always somone out there that cares and will listen 2 what's bothering you....

Lol who told you that

Do you disagree ??

Looking at what people have put proves I'm right

Mate everyone says they are there for you but as soon as you need them where are they?

I'm there for the people I care about. Just like they are there if I need them. I'm sorry that you sometimes feel that you may not have that support, but please don't project that pessimism.on to the OP. If that's how he feels, why not just let him feel that?

That's his experience this is mine, what makes him right and me wrong?

It's not about right or wrong. It's the way you addressed the OP. As if he was completely wrong, for thinking people cared. Or maybe I read it wrong. It is late

Yes it's late, you've been teasing people

I'm being good now

Is that even possible?

I'm a chameleon. I can be many things

Why did the Boy George song just come to mind?

OP still think people are there for you?

Haha my initial assessment of you was correct "

Wow months of talking and I got blocked for this.

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By *apstar OP   Man
over a year ago

Harpenden

My account was set to blocking men cos I was sick of all the dick pics ... i have made this thread so we can talk and if you don't won't 2 put it up here I'll message u so we can talk privately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My account was set to blocking men cos I was sick of all the dick pics ... i have made this thread so we can talk and if you don't won't 2 put it up here I'll message u so we can talk privately "

Mate I just got blocked by somebody I care about because I disagreed with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My account was set to blocking men cos I was sick of all the dick pics ... i have made this thread so we can talk and if you don't won't 2 put it up here I'll message u so we can talk privately

Mate I just got blocked by somebody I care about because I disagreed with you"

Guess this is what I meant by people aren't there for you

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By *apstar OP   Man
over a year ago

Harpenden

You got blocked because of me ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You got blocked because of me ???"

Not because of you, because I disagreed with you. I'm off mate all the best

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By *apstar OP   Man
over a year ago

Harpenden

Sooo thats my fault how ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You got blocked because of me ???

Not because of you, because I disagreed with you. I'm off mate all the best"

If that's what you think, that's your choice. That's not the main reason though. Just the icing on the cake. But this is not supposed to be discussed on an open forum.... You've forced my hand to reply

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By *apstar OP   Man
over a year ago

Harpenden


"You got blocked because of me ???

Not because of you, because I disagreed with you. I'm off mate all the best

If that's what you think, that's your choice. That's not the main reason though. Just the icing on the cake. But this is not supposed to be discussed on an open forum.... You've forced my hand to reply "

This is where I would ask him 2 pm me but he blocked me as well x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You got blocked because of me ???

Not because of you, because I disagreed with you. I'm off mate all the best

If that's what you think, that's your choice. That's not the main reason though. Just the icing on the cake. But this is not supposed to be discussed on an open forum.... You've forced my hand to reply

This is where I would ask him 2 pm me but he blocked me as well x"

I shouldn't have blocked. It was a hasty decision. It's my fault x

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By *apstar OP   Man
over a year ago

Harpenden


"You got blocked because of me ???

Not because of you, because I disagreed with you. I'm off mate all the best

If that's what you think, that's your choice. That's not the main reason though. Just the icing on the cake. But this is not supposed to be discussed on an open forum.... You've forced my hand to reply

This is where I would ask him 2 pm me but he blocked me as well x

I shouldn't have blocked. It was a hasty decision. It's my fault x"

From what u told me u did the right thing

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

Morning all... Im always here for anyone to chat too. No filters or blocks and not inundated with messages so can guarantee a swift reply if Im online.

Ive been there, Ive come out the other side. Happy to do a bit of virtual hand holding when needed

~Twinkle~

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sorry but it’s niggling at me, why do you put 2 instead of to OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s always someone that listens, it’s rare to find those that really truthfully care or understand.

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By *apstar OP   Man
over a year ago

Harpenden

How's everyone getting on tonight

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

Good evening, we are doing fine, Ive got the day off tomorrow so looking forward to a lay in

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By *apstar OP   Man
over a year ago

Harpenden

Glad you both are okay and hope you have a lovely day off

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By *apstar OP   Man
over a year ago

Harpenden


"sorry but it’s niggling at me, why do you put 2 instead of to OP?"

Because my spelling and grammar is crap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just been reading through the thread, it makes me a little sad that people feel so alone that they lash out when confronted with people who want to help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is always somone out there that cares and will listen 2 what's bothering you....

"

I had a lady colleague in the locker room who I’ve seen around but never spoken to break down to me. I could see in her eyes she wasn’t okay. She told me she wanted to die. I listened to her and gave her some comfort. She didn’t want me to tell her manager, As we parted ways I asked her not to do anything silly as it would be on my mind forever. I have her a hug and told her I’m here for her.

Now I pass through her department and gave her a little wave now and then.

We don’t know people’s struggles and they struggle in silence. That designer Kate Spade took her life yesterday

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

Evening OP. Now I have read this thread, i understand your thinking regarding the lady on the other thread.

I am all good apart from my health problems and this stinky cold. My profile is hidden as I am taking a little breather, but as a rule I am happy to chat to anyone having a hard time with anxiety or depression.

It's good to reach out and Fab does have some lovely supportive people in its community.

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By *apstar OP   Man
over a year ago

Harpenden


"Just been reading through the thread, it makes me a little sad that people feel so alone that they lash out when confronted with people who want to help"

Suppose we are all different.

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By *apstar OP   Man
over a year ago

Harpenden


"There is always somone out there that cares and will listen 2 what's bothering you....

I had a lady colleague in the locker room who I’ve seen around but never spoken to break down to me. I could see in her eyes she wasn’t okay. She told me she wanted to die. I listened to her and gave her some comfort. She didn’t want me to tell her manager, As we parted ways I asked her not to do anything silly as it would be on my mind forever. I have her a hug and told her I’m here for her.

Now I pass through her department and gave her a little wave now and then.

We don’t know people’s struggles and they struggle in silence. That designer Kate Spade took her life yesterday "

See that's so so so lovely reading that . You don't know how much you have helped her just by doing that you might have saved her life or somthing

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By *apstar OP   Man
over a year ago

Harpenden


"Evening OP. Now I have read this thread, i understand your thinking regarding the lady on the other thread.

I am all good apart from my health problems and this stinky cold. My profile is hidden as I am taking a little breather, but as a rule I am happy to chat to anyone having a hard time with anxiety or depression.

It's good to reach out and Fab does have some lovely supportive people in its community. "

I'm sorry 2 hear you are struggling as well.. there is so so many people out there struggling and alone witch is y I did this post ..

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