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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

what is your main reasons for mailing the person/couple that you have mailed? Is it looks,the way they come over in their profile or distance? For me its looks first i then read through their profile if they come across as a knob regardless of how gd looking i dont bother. I have had a few no alot of mail off men tho that its def a distance thing that comes first and if you are within a 10mile radius of them think you should spread your legs willingly .So what is it that comes at the top of your lists looks,personality or distance?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i or should i say we, dont mail people for meets. just wait for people to come to us. but distance is a factor. at the moment we dont travel, so people come to us. plus we both have to have the attraction for the couple, so if we both dont like we dont do it. we are not in any rush at the moment over meets, so just taking our time over who we meet.

i look more forward to mail off fellow forumnites than people looking to meet.

sad or wot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well i like a good profile, something better than "looking for fun"...lol...

then of course i look at the pics, but have since discovered pics are not always best cos have met some people that actually look better in person...lol...

and finally distance, which is funny cos that is our main criteria that we look for but you can always look at a profile and keep it in mind just in case your ever in that area...lol...

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

What they say in their very first message can almost seal the deal.... though 99 out of 100 seal their fate instead

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i or should i say we, dont mail people for meets. just wait for people to come to us. but distance is a factor. at the moment we dont travel, so people come to us. plus we both have to have the attraction for the couple, so if we both dont like we dont do it. we are not in any rush at the moment over meets, so just taking our time over who we meet.

i look more forward to mail off fellow forumnites than people looking to meet.

sad or wot"

Not sad at all! Kinda sweet which having read some of your replies on here is not a word i would of thought i would of been using hehehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh bloody hell am blowing my cover. am not coming back on forum until all the niceness has completely left me and am back to being the usual bolshy bitch that people think i am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and before you ask, coz most people do. its only ever me Jan who posts on forum. never Pat only me. Just i have many personalities and it depends which one is playing out on the day

i just like confusing the fook out of people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"oh bloody hell am blowing my cover. am not coming back on forum until all the niceness has completely left me and am back to being the usual bolshy bitch that people think i am

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LMAO too late

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By *aledCouple
over a year ago

newcastle

we prefer ppl who mail us to at least be able to spell, and write more than just " U up for meet sometime". its not just the sex its conversation also, youve gotta be able to get on so a good profile with pics (even if they are in private) always catched our eye.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm going to put on my profile. Sexual prowess and ability unimportant. MUST be able to spell - the more syllables the better ! Yeahhhhhh baby!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i or should i say we, dont mail people for meets. just wait for people to come to us. but distance is a factor. at the moment we dont travel, so people come to us. plus we both have to have the attraction for the couple, so if we both dont like we dont do it. we are not in any rush at the moment over meets, so just taking our time over who we meet.

i look more forward to mail off fellow forumnites than people looking to meet.

sad or wot"

Same here lol roll on barnsley xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i or should i say we, dont mail people for meets. just wait for people to come to us. but distance is a factor. at the moment we dont travel, so people come to us. plus we both have to have the attraction for the couple, so if we both dont like we dont do it. we are not in any rush at the moment over meets, so just taking our time over who we meet.

i look more forward to mail off fellow forumnites than people looking to meet.

sad or wot

Same here lol roll on barnsley xx "

See u there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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See u there "

xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

profile first, then looks, the profile has to grab us before we even bother looking to see who wrote it, then we need to see who caught our attention and check if there is something that clicks, distance is the least of our worries for a meet, 128 mile journey tomorrow for a meet, if its blown off for any reason we still having a spa weekend out of it as a backup so its a win win everytime.

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By *im53Man
over a year ago

Boldon

oh me i`m very picky ..lol

1 must be female

2 must be breathing

3 must meet smokers

4 and over 45

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"oh me i`m very picky ..lol

1 must be female

2 must be breathing

3 must meet smokers

4 and over 45 "

so your quite fussy then oldgit haha!!!!

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"what is your main reasons for mailing the person/couple that you have mailed? Is it looks,the way they come over in their profile or distance? For me its looks first i then read through their profile if they come across as a knob regardless of how gd looking i dont bother. I have had a few no alot of mail off men tho that its def a distance thing that comes first and if you are within a 10mile radius of them think you should spread your legs willingly .So what is it that comes at the top of your lists looks,personality or distance? "

Distance, personality, looks. I can't understand men who say live in Dorset e-mailing somebody in say Chesire for a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ok complete honesty ....we will only ever get it on with people we both find attractive....there just has to be that spark there ...if not ...as a married couple ...we can have just as good and wild and dirty sex between us ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like to see if they are within travelling distance that seems sensible to them and or us, then what the profile says and the looks, although most times you have to ask for someone to send you actual face photos ,which is often where strangely it often breaks down lol..if they are looking for what we are pretty much and look good, we message and see what happens.

Do not really see the point of people miles away looknig to meet..however, we have met people from as far as Oxford, Luton, Southend and Brighton..mmm lol.

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