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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Are you one.

I think I have discovered that I am.

9 years ago, I was Bi-curious with a bucket list.

Now, curiosity has been satisfied.

I would say that I sometimes find ladies attractive but I don't want to go down on them or them on me.

As for my bucket list- 3somes 4somes and moresomes all done, along with clubs and that sort of thing.

Been in a swinging couple...and out again..

The only non vanilla thing about me really is a bit of exhibitionism.

I would be quite happy with just one partner if they fulfilled my carnal and emotional needs.

Which begs the question- should I even be here?

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By *oman wantedCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire/Liverpool/Manchester

U need to explore more babes xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you find the place entertaining then there’s no reason why you can’t be

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why shouldn’t you be? Quite a lot of members on here aren’t even swingers in the first place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am a crap swinger too. I don't want group fun. I'm not in to clubs, I don't really think I can be bothered meeting new people either.

I want to be enough for someone and them for me now.

I'm vanilla and happily so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Non Fab Swingers assemble

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By *eeBee67Man
over a year ago

Masked and Distant

If you enjoy being here then stay.

Personally I love the forums.

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By *naquest321Man
over a year ago

Carlisle

"I am a crap swinger too. I don't want group fun. I'm not in to clubs, I don't really think I can be bothered meeting new people either.

I want to be enough for someone and them for me now.

I'm vanilla and happily so"

So, I’ve found this glass shoe!

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

"Are you one.

I think I have discovered that I am.

9 years ago, I was Bi-curious with a bucket list.

Now, curiosity has been satisfied.

I would say that I sometimes find ladies attractive but I don't want to go down on them or them on me.

As for my bucket list- 3somes 4somes and moresomes all done, along with clubs and that sort of thing.

Been in a swinging couple...and out again..

The only non vanilla thing about me really is a bit of exhibitionism.

I would be quite happy with just one partner if they fulfilled my carnal and emotional needs.

Which begs the question- should I even be here?

Similar here. Been on the scene 15 years. Explored everything Ive ever thought about several times over. Discovered Im very straight and very greedy. Might have liked to explore the BDsM scene further but its not a deal breaker as Ive tried all I wanted too in that area already. We have been too busy enjoying life with each other to bring anybody else in and we are too busy to fit in more for now and do you know what? We don't care. We are going to a kink event end of the month and thats likely to be our only opportunity to swing for a long time.... I guess we are only here to pass time for the time being at least.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe you just need a weekend trying it out before you decide?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm crap swinger because I don't even swing!

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I experienced everything I wanted to years ago and haven’t actively met for around 4 years on here or anywhere else, I was very happy with my regular partner and quite enjoyed the fact I wasn’t chasing cock around the country, we did all the things that satisfied each other and went beyond vanilla. I’m quite crap at swinging now and have no desire to meet anyone else for the foreseeable future.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op same here almost identical!

Tried bi and carnt do lady gardens for love nor money lol. Love kissing and boobies though

Met a guy off here years ago who lived in Southend and ended up engaged for 3 years but been single again for a while.

Tick list all ticked.

However I'm just a calmer version of me now. I've been in the sweet shop for a long time and I know what candy I like. I'm no longer in a rush or hurry if any kind and just wait for the right thing to come along.

In the mean time I still like looking at the new candy and checking out the possibilities xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's firmly established, that despite the site name, thus isn't exclusively a swingers site?

Use it in whatever way that pleases you and ignore the rest

There...that's the obvious stated. Fancy a shag?

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

It’s like reading about myself bar the wish for monogamy.

Ain’t nobody got time for dat....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only done mffff but that wasnt online dont really have any kinky fantasys as i know of but im here because i like the banter if i get the ride its a brucey you have same rite to be here as me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most definitely. I used to be very involved. Now I just can't be bothered. I've realised that this site doesn't offer what I'm looking for anymore. That being said, I still enjoy keeping in touch with mates and the forums. If not for that, I would have deleted my account. Though, if someone irresistible appeared in my inbox, I wouldn't say no.... But even that wouldn't be swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swinging ..... I need someone to push me .... we are talking about swings aren’t we

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m a shit swinger. I haven’t had non-monogamous sexual contact for four and a half years and haven’t fucked anyone outside my relationship for 12 years. I came nowhere near to completing my sexual bucket list. FFS it’s over four years since I’ve had a social with anyone on Fab.

#ShitSwingersRUs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most definitely. I used to be very involved. Now I just can't be bothered. I've realised that this site doesn't offer what I'm looking for anymore. That being said, I still enjoy keeping in touch with mates and the forums. If not for that, I would have deleted my account. Though, if someone irresistible appeared in my inbox, I wouldn't say no.... But even that wouldn't be swinging

Love to find my way to your box

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"U need to explore more babes xx"

Not as all if shes happy with how she is.

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Don't know about being a crap swinger but at the weekend we went to our local club but just didn't feel in and left very early. On the way home we questioned whether after nearly six years swinging we were at the end.

The question now is do we quit totally or take a five/six months off and see if the desire returns.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love to find my way to your box"

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By *hortfuseWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

Yup, lack of want will or inclination...I spend my time pottering about the forum.

#ShitSwingersRUs

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Well if you shouldn't never should I. I think I've gotta be the only single bloke on fab who knocks back more women than I take but I'm still going nowhere. Although having said that I dawt I'd be knocking you back ok

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"Well if you shouldn't never should I. I think I've gotta be the only single bloke on fab who knocks back more women than I take but I'm still going nowhere. Although having said that I dawt I'd be knocking you back ok

Fucking phone. Op not ok ffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've often doubted if this is the right place for me.

I love sex and I'm very open minded with it. I think here is a place where you can find people who don't simply want the missionary position once a week and a bit of oral on birthdays.

I guess I just like a bit of intimacy and even dates and cuddles without the fear of being hurt again. I do miss affection and compassion a great deal.

Unfortunately I wear my heart on my sleeve and can quite easily catch "Feels".

Need to man up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are you one.

I think I have discovered that I am.

9 years ago, I was Bi-curious with a bucket list.

Now, curiosity has been satisfied.

I would say that I sometimes find ladies attractive but I don't want to go down on them or them on me.

As for my bucket list- 3somes 4somes and moresomes all done, along with clubs and that sort of thing.

Been in a swinging couple...and out again..

The only non vanilla thing about me really is a bit of exhibitionism.

I would be quite happy with just one partner if they fulfilled my carnal and emotional needs.

Which begs the question- should I even be here?

But have you made out with Bananaman?

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By *rongstantineWoman
over a year ago

hull

I haven't even started my list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've crossed a few things off mine, but still a lot I'd like to do. No sign of it happening soon, though.

#toocraptomeet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I haven't even started my list

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I still want a simple FMF.

Surely it's not too much ask....

Take an application form on the way out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've often doubted if this is the right place for me.

I love sex and I'm very open minded with it. I think here is a place where you can find people who don't simply want the missionary position once a week and a bit of oral on birthdays.

I guess I just like a bit of intimacy and even dates and cuddles without the fear of being hurt again. I do miss affection and compassion a great deal.

Unfortunately I wear my heart on my sleeve and can quite easily catch "Feels".

Need to man up. "

Great to hear a guy looking for the same thing as lots of us woman.

I wish I could meet a local version of you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not sure if i would class myself as a proper swinger so to speak..I’m single..but I have a filthy kinky side and this site means you can explore that.... if I became part of a couple would I swing then... who knows???

I explored some things but still have a lot more I want too... it’s just deciding how... a couple of FWB... do I look for one person...? Who knows and not worrying about it... it will happen one way or another!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

What about someone who's not interested in sex - experiencing it, the topic, whatever

Even they are welcome here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've often doubted if this is the right place for me.

I love sex and I'm very open minded with it. I think here is a place where you can find people who don't simply want the missionary position once a week and a bit of oral on birthdays.

I guess I just like a bit of intimacy and even dates and cuddles without the fear of being hurt again. I do miss affection and compassion a great deal.

Unfortunately I wear my heart on my sleeve and can quite easily catch "Feels".

Need to man up. "

I hope you don’t man up!! What is wrong with wanting some intimacy or cuddles or even dates!! It doesn’t make you less manly in my eyes... in fact probably more so because at least you acknowledge it!! Someone will turn up when you least expect it!!

. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've often doubted if this is the right place for me.

I love sex and I'm very open minded with it. I think here is a place where you can find people who don't simply want the missionary position once a week and a bit of oral on birthdays.

I guess I just like a bit of intimacy and even dates and cuddles without the fear of being hurt again. I do miss affection and compassion a great deal.

Unfortunately I wear my heart on my sleeve and can quite easily catch "Feels".

Need to man up. "

That's actually what I'd like to find with someone. 'feels' would be ideal

. I suppose it still falls into the crap swingers category though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a pretty crap swinger I'm afraid. But enjoying myself all the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only you know the answer to the question you’ve put out , if in doubt do nowt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as you are happy then being here doesn't really matter. We don't meet many people in fact hardly any and thats fine for us and doesn't make us crap lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I do like the forums- they are like a giant dysfunctional family!

And I don't think catching feels is necessarily a bad thing, if you are clear and open about your requirements x

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"I do like the forums- they are like a giant dysfunctional family!

And I don't think catching feels is necessarily a bad thing, if you are clear and open about your requirements x"

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By *iss.RedWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

I think I'm a bit of a crap swinger

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"I think I'm a bit of a crap swinger

I think we should help each other out

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By *aenMan
over a year ago

Here and There

"I do like the forums- they are like a giant dysfunctional family!"

Haha, isn’t that the truth

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I can relate to some of what you have said.

I've never been Bi, I've never wanted more sums, I've been happy with 1-1 with my own kink built in, I haven't had sex in over a year and scared to have it now with just anybody as I know the desire will kick in soon after and I don't want to just give up my new found virginity to just anyone (I know that sounds strange), so I am looking for something half meaningful if that makes sense it's just so hard to find that someone!

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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Yes. I am

I'm not looking for 3somes and such.

I've never had a list of things to do.

I don't want to have one off hook ups.

I've got no interest here really, most folk I thought were half decent have proven to be fucking wankshafts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For anyone to be crap at anything there must be a benchmark from which levels of best or crap is graded.

Swinging is subjective and each to their own view of it. Therefore nobody can be crap or fab (no pun intended). We are all unique but have one common theme and that is being able to talk about sex in all its forms.

Swingers are united in their differences not separated by them; so celebrate whatever your difference is and claim your unique status xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are you one.

I think I have discovered that I am.

9 years ago, I was Bi-curious with a bucket list.

Now, curiosity has been satisfied.

I would say that I sometimes find ladies attractive but I don't want to go down on them or them on me.

As for my bucket list- 3somes 4somes and moresomes all done, along with clubs and that sort of thing.

Been in a swinging couple...and out again..

The only non vanilla thing about me really is a bit of exhibitionism.

I would be quite happy with just one partner if they fulfilled my carnal and emotional needs.

Which begs the question- should I even be here?

Yes you should...you have as much right as anyone and we all know everyone uses fab for plenty of stuff that has nothing to do with swinging anyway...

My fulfilled my bucket list quite early on so now i just stay for the forums and the occasional chance of some sex

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

"I've often doubted if this is the right place for me.

I love sex and I'm very open minded with it. I think here is a place where you can find people who don't simply want the missionary position once a week and a bit of oral on birthdays.

I guess I just like a bit of intimacy and even dates and cuddles without the fear of being hurt again. I do miss affection and compassion a great deal.

Unfortunately I wear my heart on my sleeve and can quite easily catch "Feels".

Need to man up. "

That’s the thing, for the last few years I’ve had the cuddles while lying listening to music, watching tv snuggled under the duvet, afternoon picnics in bed, chatting shit and giggling at stupid stuff, and the thought of NSA now leaves me quite cold even though I was very good at it before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been lucky enough to tick off everything on my bucket list (partly through the site), so there's not much left here, to keep me interested.

I don't live the lifestyle and have never considered myself a swinger.

Sex drive is waay too low, for what most fab ladies are looking for, so I get my kicks (and kinks) elsewhere.

If I find 'The One' I'd be content with that (monogamy & stability, makes me happy) - but I very much doubt that special lady will be a Fabber.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For anyone to be crap at anything there must be a benchmark from which levels of best or crap is graded.

Swingers are united in their differences not separated by them; so celebrate whatever your difference is and claim your unique status xx"

I think thats a big draw,just being able to talk about sex openly,be as rude as you like and see how others feel and do things and learn new stuff that you cant really get anywhere else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to meet, we also had a couples profile which we met from and have been on here around 10yrs... then we emigrated so don't meet from this profile any more. We stay because its a great place to chat. I love the banter in the rooms and have some great chat buddies that I have known for years.. if I have nothing to do I just pop in a chat room and have a bit of a laugh with some really nice people..

So why not? why should you not be here? its a fun place, even the trolls and keyboard warriors are entertaining lol

your have a place on here xxxxx

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

Im just passing though really.

Have no idea how I got here, how long I will be here.

Id like to experience Mmf didnt think that would be so difficult to achieve...roll up roll up...

Anyhow one man who wants ME

oh la la

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes. I am

I'm not looking for 3somes and such.

I've never had a list of things to do.

I don't want to have one off hook ups.

I've got no interest here really, most folk I thought were half decent have proven to be fucking wankshafts.

Haha - updating my profile to reflect this new insight into my identity on here

#ShitSwinginWankShaftsRUs

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"Yes. I am

I'm not looking for 3somes and such.

I've never had a list of things to do.

I don't want to have one off hook ups.

I've got no interest here really, most folk I thought were half decent have proven to be fucking wankshafts.

Always light at the end of the tunnel..its just time x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a crap swinger in that I can't fuck strangers. I can count the people I have had intercouse with on my fingers and toes. I'm one of those frustrating soft players. I love playing with girls, I love oral with both but for me to have a man inside me I need there to be a much stronger connection than just being attracted to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes. I am

I'm not looking for 3somes and such.

I've never had a list of things to do.

I don't want to have one off hook ups.

I've got no interest here really, most folk I thought were half decent have proven to be fucking wankshafts.

You've obviously just been suduced by silver tongued charlatans, all that glitters is not gold sometimes coal is!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being honest

I have had my share of kink and swinging and i flit in and out now.

If i fancy kink I’ll go to a club or sex.

Im extremely satisfied with my fuck list and nothing to grumble about here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Are you one.

I think I have discovered that I am.

9 years ago, I was Bi-curious with a bucket list.

Now, curiosity has been satisfied.

I would say that I sometimes find ladies attractive but I don't want to go down on them or them on me.

As for my bucket list- 3somes 4somes and moresomes all done, along with clubs and that sort of thing.

Been in a swinging couple...and out again..

The only non vanilla thing about me really is a bit of exhibitionism.

I would be quite happy with just one partner if they fulfilled my carnal and emotional needs.

Which begs the question- should I even be here?

Yes you should...you have as much right as anyone and we all know everyone uses fab for plenty of stuff that has nothing to do with swinging anyway...

My fulfilled my bucket list quite early on so now i just stay for the forums and the occasional chance of some sex

Thanks Lovely xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I used to meet, we also had a couples profile which we met from and have been on here around 10yrs... then we emigrated so don't meet from this profile any more. We stay because its a great place to chat. I love the banter in the rooms and have some great chat buddies that I have known for years.. if I have nothing to do I just pop in a chat room and have a bit of a laugh with some really nice people..

So why not? why should you not be here? its a fun place, even the trolls and keyboard warriors are entertaining lol

your have a place on here xxxxx"
Thankyou and I do find the bromances on here funny, and the banter x

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Yes. I am

I'm not looking for 3somes and such.

I've never had a list of things to do.

I don't want to have one off hook ups.

I've got no interest here really, most folk I thought were half decent have proven to be fucking wankshafts.

Haha - updating my profile to reflect this new insight into my identity on here

#ShitSwinginWankShaftsRUs"

Hey now. You are on the good list

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Yes. I am

I'm not looking for 3somes and such.

I've never had a list of things to do.

I don't want to have one off hook ups.

I've got no interest here really, most folk I thought were half decent have proven to be fucking wankshafts.

You've obviously just been suduced by silver tongued charlatans, all that glitters is not gold sometimes coal is!

All that glitters...eventually loses it's shine. Only so much frantic polishing one can do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I understand what you are saying and it applies to me too - I use Fab to find 1 f/b to meet regularly, without a day to day commitment.

Everyone changes and evolves over time - it's a measure of being a mature adult.

All reasons for being on Fab are acceptable as long as you don't deceive yourself. Don't let anyone tell you whether you can be on a swinger's site if you wish to be.

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

"Are you one.

I think I have discovered that I am.

9 years ago, I was Bi-curious with a bucket list.

Now, curiosity has been satisfied.

I would say that I sometimes find ladies attractive but I don't want to go down on them or them on me.

As for my bucket list- 3somes 4somes and moresomes all done, along with clubs and that sort of thing.

Been in a swinging couple...and out again..

The only non vanilla thing about me really is a bit of exhibitionism.

I would be quite happy with just one partner if they fulfilled my carnal and emotional needs.

Which begs the question- should I even be here?

I still need help with my bucket list, how crap is that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im just passing though really.

Have no idea how I got here, how long I will be here.

Id like to experience Mmf didnt think that would be so difficult to achieve...roll up roll up...

Anyhow one man who wants ME

oh la la

I just had visions of you taming a lion

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"Im just passing though really.

Have no idea how I got here, how long I will be here.

Id like to experience Mmf didnt think that would be so difficult to achieve...roll up roll up...

Anyhow one man who wants ME

oh la la

I just had visions of you taming a lion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have to.do what's right for.you my beautiful friend x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im just passing though really.

Have no idea how I got here, how long I will be here.

Id like to experience Mmf didnt think that would be so difficult to achieve...roll up roll up...

Anyhow one man who wants ME

oh la la

I just had visions of you taming a lion

Carefull with that whip

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes. I am

I'm not looking for 3somes and such.

I've never had a list of things to do.

I don't want to have one off hook ups.

I've got no interest here really, most folk I thought were half decent have proven to be fucking wankshafts.

You've obviously just been suduced by silver tongued charlatans, all that glitters is not gold sometimes coal is!

All that glitters...eventually loses it's shine. Only so much frantic polishing one can do."

What do they say?..

You can't Polish a turd!

But you can roll it in glitter!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had a bucket list. Never even had a bucket.

And ticking things off lists feels just that little mechanical.

When I come out of the man cave it's always because someone has connected with me at more than just a fuck level. I must be the worst swinger on fab.

Finding the girl who rocks my world as much as my bed or anywhere else,.....who is interested in the journey rather than just a single destination.....

Well a guy can dream

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"Never had a bucket list. Never even had a bucket.

And ticking things off lists feels just that little mechanical.

When I come out of the man cave it's always because someone has connected with me at more than just a fuck level. I must be the worst swinger on fab.

Finding the girl who rocks my world as much as my bed or anywhere else,.....who is interested in the journey rather than just a single destination.....

Well a guy can dream"

Oh thats just so lovely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes. I am

I'm not looking for 3somes and such.

I've never had a list of things to do.

I don't want to have one off hook ups.

I've got no interest here really, most folk I thought were half decent have proven to be fucking wankshafts.

You've obviously just been suduced by silver tongued charlatans, all that glitters is not gold sometimes coal is!

All that glitters...eventually loses it's shine. Only so much frantic polishing one can do.

What do they say?..

You can't Polish a turd!

But you can roll it in glitter!"

Never heard that but thats definatly summat im pinching

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Swinging ..... I need someone to push me .... we are talking about swings aren’t we

Classic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've often doubted if this is the right place for me.

I love sex and I'm very open minded with it. I think here is a place where you can find people who don't simply want the missionary position once a week and a bit of oral on birthdays.

I guess I just like a bit of intimacy and even dates and cuddles without the fear of being hurt again. I do miss affection and compassion a great deal.

Unfortunately I wear my heart on my sleeve and can quite easily catch "Feels".

Need to man up. "

Looks like you're the dream man for alot of women on this thread!

. Lol

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

Oh yes I am too and I confess it freely on my profile.

You’re in good crap swinger company.

V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All I want,

All I've ever wanted since the bones in me began to grow, is to know love.

And for love too, to know me."

Christopher Poindexter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've often doubted if this is the right place for me.

I love sex and I'm very open minded with it. I think here is a place where you can find people who don't simply want the missionary position once a week and a bit of oral on birthdays.

I guess I just like a bit of intimacy and even dates and cuddles without the fear of being hurt again. I do miss affection and compassion a great deal.

Unfortunately I wear my heart on my sleeve and can quite easily catch "Feels".

Need to man up.

Looks like you're the dream man for alot of women on this thread!

. Lol"

Hardly. I'm Mr Average and still a long way short of the emotional ability to trust again.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

Emotional availability thats when you know you are free to fly again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Emotional availability thats when you know you are free to fly again

I'm available. It's just up to the other person how much.

Whether they make me feel that I can let my guard down..

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"Emotional availability thats when you know you are free to fly again

I'm available. It's just up to the other person how much.

Whether they make me feel that I can let my guard down.."

That comment wasnt direct at you lovely. Enjoy!

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By *eep.Man
over a year ago

Just a background character

Room for another #crapswinger ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am definitely one as I don't even meet anymore (at the moment) but stick to write shit on the forums.

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By *iverpool LoverMan
over a year ago

liverpool

"Are you one.

I think I have discovered that I am.

9 years ago, I was Bi-curious with a bucket list.

Now, curiosity has been satisfied.

I would say that I sometimes find ladies attractive but I don't want to go down on them or them on me.

As for my bucket list- 3somes 4somes and moresomes all done, along with clubs and that sort of thing.

Been in a swinging couple...and out again..

The only non vanilla thing about me really is a bit of exhibitionism.

I would be quite happy with just one partner if they fulfilled my carnal and emotional needs.

Which begs the question- should I even be here?

Im definitely a crap swinger, all my meets have been vanilla.

Never had 3somes or 4somes or been to clubs.

I question why im on here myself but the last couple years its just been to kill time on the forums mostly

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"Are you one.

I think I have discovered that I am.

9 years ago, I was Bi-curious with a bucket list.

Now, curiosity has been satisfied.

I would say that I sometimes find ladies attractive but I don't want to go down on them or them on me.

As for my bucket list- 3somes 4somes and moresomes all done, along with clubs and that sort of thing.

Been in a swinging couple...and out again..

The only non vanilla thing about me really is a bit of exhibitionism.

I would be quite happy with just one partner if they fulfilled my carnal and emotional needs.

Which begs the question- should I even be here?

Im definitely a crap swinger, all my meets have been vanilla.

Never had 3somes or 4somes or been to clubs.

I question why im on here myself but the last couple years its just been to kill time on the forums mostly

Nice pictures btw

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Are you one.

I think I have discovered that I am.

9 years ago, I was Bi-curious with a bucket list.

Now, curiosity has been satisfied.

I would say that I sometimes find ladies attractive but I don't want to go down on them or them on me.

As for my bucket list- 3somes 4somes and moresomes all done, along with clubs and that sort of thing.

Been in a swinging couple...and out again..

The only non vanilla thing about me really is a bit of exhibitionism.

I would be quite happy with just one partner if they fulfilled my carnal and emotional needs.

Which begs the question- should I even be here?

Im definitely a crap swinger, all my meets have been vanilla.

Never had 3somes or 4somes or been to clubs.

I question why im on here myself but the last couple years its just been to kill time on the forums mostly

Nice pictures btw

^^^^this is why you are here- to admire and be admired!

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"Are you one.

I think I have discovered that I am.

9 years ago, I was Bi-curious with a bucket list.

Now, curiosity has been satisfied.

I would say that I sometimes find ladies attractive but I don't want to go down on them or them on me.

As for my bucket list- 3somes 4somes and moresomes all done, along with clubs and that sort of thing.

Been in a swinging couple...and out again..

The only non vanilla thing about me really is a bit of exhibitionism.

I would be quite happy with just one partner if they fulfilled my carnal and emotional needs.

Which begs the question- should I even be here?

Im definitely a crap swinger, all my meets have been vanilla.

Never had 3somes or 4somes or been to clubs.

I question why im on here myself but the last couple years its just been to kill time on the forums mostly

Nice pictures btw

^^^^this is why you are here- to admire and be admired!

I would like to find someone to explore together, clubs etc someone who can tap into my wild side. Make me smile feel happy and not take anything to seriously. But he is fit lets me honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I put my name down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you find the place entertaining then there’s no reason why you can’t be "

Yep, I agree, there’s nothing in the FAQs that say you have to have sex with people.

But I do ask the question, did you just need to tick the boxes off your bucket list and that’s that. Or, did you not like it?

Because I see things as, if you like it, why stop if it’s not doing you any harm?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see being bi as a requisite to being a swinger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And, you don't have to be a swinger to be on this website.

As long as you're not stringing people along you're not doing anything wrong by being here.

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

Think I’m starting to feel the same .... 15yrs I’ve been swinging as a couple and a single too , done most things I ever dreamed about . Not had sex in ages as can’t be arsed persuing anyone and the effort .... too busy with life and travelling at the moment .... and that’s fine for me ...maybe one day my mojo will return xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh this forum is right up my street.

For me this was a place to explore..now done that and happy just to hang around, read, chat, may do the odd social.

Everything has it day

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

Have to admit I'm very surprised by the number of people posting here.

I'm one of the non-swingers and I learnt that early on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Deffo a crap swinger. Came on here as I didnt think I wanted or was ready for a relationship so wanted to explore.

This has confirmed for me that a relationship is definately what I want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm pretty crap at swinging atm, but boy have I had some fun. I really like the club scene but they are too far away and I haven't been to one since the last guy who offered a lift and share costs, had an agenda, a not so nice one.

I love chitty chatting here and will do more socials when I can though, but I seem to be finding better offers off this site.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"Have to admit I'm very surprised by the number of people posting here.

I'm one of the non-swingers and I learnt that early on. "

Your profile is great. I like what you say alot

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over a year ago

"Have to admit I'm very surprised by the number of people posting here.

I'm one of the non-swingers and I learnt that early on.

Your profile is great. I like what you say alot

I'm very surprised one of the hardcore members hasn't come on berating everyone for turning Fab into an awful place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't do clubs, I'm here in secret and seem to attract timewasters.

I think my time actively playing was about 15 years ago with my first wife before she left me for our regular fb.

My current wife had an affair and although we are together still it's not the same.

I'm definitely crap at this caper.

I just want to feel needed again.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"I don't do clubs, I'm here in secret and seem to attract timewasters.

I think my time actively playing was about 15 years ago with my first wife before she left me for our regular fb.

My current wife had an affair and although we are together still it's not the same.

I'm definitely crap at this caper.

I just want to feel needed again."

Reading this has just made me feel very depressed.

chin up

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"Have to admit I'm very surprised by the number of people posting here.

I'm one of the non-swingers and I learnt that early on.

Your profile is great. I like what you say alot

I'm very surprised one of the hardcore members hasn't come on berating everyone for turning Fab into an awful place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Reading this has just made me feel very depressed.

chin up

Didn't mean to make anyone feel depressed, sure I'll turn things around eventually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a lot of fun and experiences.

But now I'm a crapswinger ...

If anything it hasn't made me crave "the one"

It's enhanced my cynicism towards truth in most relationships.

I'm a single - it's not ideal but It's OK.

Better to be alone than living a lie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The worst.

I'm just here to fap over pics.

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester

U just described me (female) we just waiting for what's right I guess xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’re by no means are a crap swinger.... you have just matured as a person and swinging isn’t as important to you...

I started this swinging journey 10 years ago in college. I was young, dumb and full of cum. I tried it all and honestly I thought was a sex addict...

Fast forward 10 years later and I’m the laziest swinger in the world.

I don’t attend party’s or clubs... I don’t break any vanilla plans for swinging.... I don’t do socials and if it’s not a last minute sex meet , I’m not interested.

I still enjoy training cuckold couples and gangbangs but those also have become infrequent.

So now you know the reason, why a guy from NYC is on a UK based website.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just wondering if anyone has changed?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Massively and not at all, all at once.

My values remain the same, just from a different position.

I'm not thinking about what mischief I can get up to and with who, I'm thinking about what mischief WE can get up to, and will it fit in with the time we have.

I'm not bothered about going to clubs or parties on my own, even though I'd probably enjoy myself I'd feel there was something/someone missing so I'd rather just not go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just wondering if anyone has changed?"

I got out of my work gear and changed into my PJ's, if that counts?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For anyone to be crap at anything there must be a benchmark from which levels of best or crap is graded.

Swingers are united in their differences not separated by them; so celebrate whatever your difference is and claim your unique status xx"

I love this!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just wondering if anyone has changed?"

No, my crapness has been emphasised at some length in the last couple of months.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"Are you one.

I think I have discovered that I am.

9 years ago, I was Bi-curious with a bucket list.

Now, curiosity has been satisfied.

I would say that I sometimes find ladies attractive but I don't want to go down on them or them on me.

As for my bucket list- 3somes 4somes and moresomes all done, along with clubs and that sort of thing.

Been in a swinging couple...and out again..

The only non vanilla thing about me really is a bit of exhibitionism.

I would be quite happy with just one partner if they fulfilled my carnal and emotional needs.

Which begs the question- should I even be here?

Yes as otherwise who else would I spend lazy afternoons at chams with

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By *sm81Couple
over a year ago

warwickshire

"Just wondering if anyone has changed?

I got out of my work gear and changed into my PJ's, if that counts?"

That's the best thing getting in and putting on your comfy pjs and relaxing

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over a year ago

"Are you one.

I think I have discovered that I am.

9 years ago, I was Bi-curious with a bucket list.

Now, curiosity has been satisfied.

I would say that I sometimes find ladies attractive but I don't want to go down on them or them on me.

As for my bucket list- 3somes 4somes and moresomes all done, along with clubs and that sort of thing.

Been in a swinging couple...and out again..

The only non vanilla thing about me really is a bit of exhibitionism.

I would be quite happy with just one partner if they fulfilled my carnal and emotional needs.

Which begs the question- should I even be here?

Yes as otherwise who else would I spend lazy afternoons at chams with

If I didn't think that the Jacuzzi might just finish me off, I'd go tmrw!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just wondering if anyone has changed?

I got out of my work gear and changed into my PJ's, if that counts?"

Waay ahead of you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes you should be here if you enjoy it thats whats most important isnt it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And im not even a swinger and im here anyway

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