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By *orth man87 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dunstable

Relatively new to fab but what's people thoughts on the first message as I'm having no luck I'm naturally a nervus person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't send any messages anymore unless it is a forum related messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same as the bearded one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why no sending of first messages anymore ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Same as the bearded one "

Text me then I feel lonely !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Relatively new to fab but what's people thoughts on the first message as I'm having no luck I'm naturally a nervus person. "

Read their profile and tailor your message to suit that... and don't attach a cock pic unless they say they like them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I send a first message I always reference something on their profile that drew me in, tell them my name and send a face picture.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why no sending of first messages anymore ? "
because most will be ignored and eventually deleted, read and deleted, read and left sitting in their inbox till bulk deleted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Same as the bearded one "

There's a whole club of us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Relatively new to fab but what's people thoughts on the first message as I'm having no luck I'm naturally a nervus person. "

Depending what kind of mood I’m in I like a variety of messages. The usual hey how are you down to the this ain’t gonna suck itself ... lol

I like a face pic so I can see who I’m chatting to. That way if I’m interested I will send one back x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As all men know, any woman will instantly sleep with any man if the right combination of words and emojis are sent in the right order.

I heard a rumour that the first word is Chaffinch so that's how all mine start.

Good luck on your quest for the sacred words and remember, deleted without reading means try again with more swearing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rarely send first message anymore.. waste of time

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By *orth man87 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dunstable

Thanks for all the advice ??

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