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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all,

Ok so I was approached by a Female who invited me to a party to which I accepted as they seemed decent and I was looking forward to it.

6 days later the Male 'cancelled' me and the reason was apparently he didn't want any males fitter than him attending (Their words).

I declined a meet with a nice Woman as I was booked for that party but my question is this a common thing with couple's that one half can get insecure about a guest? I haven't had this before the couple's I've met have been decent so slightly confused..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once met a couple and guy stopped me fucking his GF.. I mean who does that!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I once met a couple and guy stopped me fucking his GF.. I mean who does that!! "

Insecure men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I once met a couple and guy stopped me fucking his GF.. I mean who does that!!

Insecure men.

"

I was inside her!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I once met a couple and guy stopped me fucking his GF.. I mean who does that!!

Insecure men.

I was inside her!!"

Think yourself lucky. I know a guy who ended up with a broken eye socket cos the hubby got jealous and punched him mid fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I once met a couple and guy stopped me fucking his GF.. I mean who does that!!

Insecure men.

I was inside her!!

Think yourself lucky. I know a guy who ended up with a broken eye socket cos the hubby got jealous and punched him mid fuck "

Your hubby?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I once met a couple and guy stopped me fucking his GF.. I mean who does that!!

Insecure men.

I was inside her!!

Think yourself lucky. I know a guy who ended up with a broken eye socket cos the hubby got jealous and punched him mid fuck "

LOL. Did he stop?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I once met a couple and guy stopped me fucking his GF.. I mean who does that!!

Insecure men.

I was inside her!!

Think yourself lucky. I know a guy who ended up with a broken eye socket cos the hubby got jealous and punched him mid fuck

LOL. Did he stop?"

I didn't think to ask

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By *NACONDA1000Man
over a year ago

buncrana


"Hi all,

Ok so I was approached by a Female who invited me to a party to which I accepted as they seemed decent and I was looking forward to it.

6 days later the Male 'cancelled' me and the reason was apparently he didn't want any males fitter than him attending (Their words).

I declined a meet with a nice Woman as I was booked for that party but my question is this a common thing with couple's that one half can get insecure about a guest? I haven't had this before the couple's I've met have been decent so slightly confused.."

Don't know how common it is but it certainly CAN happen. Take it from ME....I know! Because I ended up getting arrested (for the first and only time ever!) and spent 60 hours in police custody and had to go to court....all over the head of a row which resulted from a jealous insecure wife having a complete nervous breakdown when her partner headed upstairs with the woman who had accompanied me to their house for our planned foursome. She broke down in a flood of tears and put on her coat and left the house to wander the streets at 2am. When she returned she ended up getting into an argument with me and ordered me to leave, which I couldn't do as I had a few drinks taken so couldn't drive. She then called the cops and that's when the shit really hit the proverbial fan!!! So YES.....it DOES happen!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I once met a couple and guy stopped me fucking his GF.. I mean who does that!!

Insecure men.

I was inside her!!

Think yourself lucky. I know a guy who ended up with a broken eye socket cos the hubby got jealous and punched him mid fuck "

Pain & pleasure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I once met a couple and guy stopped me fucking his GF.. I mean who does that!!

Insecure men.

I was inside her!!

Think yourself lucky. I know a guy who ended up with a broken eye socket cos the hubby got jealous and punched him mid fuck

LOL. Did he stop?

I didn't think to ask "

I had my eye socket shattered, it ain't fun let me tell you. Was about 5 years back and I can still feel the freyed edges, for months after I'd just get nauseous for no reason, Dr said it was the skull pressing down on my nose and ears.

I might have stopped. Maybe.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I just don't get it... yes I'm wankered and had a fair amount to drink. Hiyaaaaaa.

Does this shit come out of nowhere? I've been with couples and as soon as I sense summat ain't right I get the fuck outta there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just don't get it... yes I'm wankered and had a fair amount to drink. Hiyaaaaaa.

Does this shit come out of nowhere? I've been with couples and as soon as I sense summat ain't right I get the fuck outta there. "

Imagine you were mid-fuck

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"I just don't get it... yes I'm wankered and had a fair amount to drink. Hiyaaaaaa.

Does this shit come out of nowhere? I've been with couples and as soon as I sense summat ain't right I get the fuck outta there.

Imagine you were mid-fuck "

Again, I'd get the fuck outta there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just don't get it... yes I'm wankered and had a fair amount to drink. Hiyaaaaaa.

Does this shit come out of nowhere? I've been with couples and as soon as I sense summat ain't right I get the fuck outta there.

Imagine you were mid-fuck

Again, I'd get the fuck outta there."

You were clearly not in the moment.. I’m disappointed

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"I just don't get it... yes I'm wankered and had a fair amount to drink. Hiyaaaaaa.

Does this shit come out of nowhere? I've been with couples and as soon as I sense summat ain't right I get the fuck outta there.

Imagine you were mid-fuck

Again, I'd get the fuck outta there.

You were clearly not in the moment.. I’m disappointed "

Or maybe I was... which was why I can read it so well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just don't get it... yes I'm wankered and had a fair amount to drink. Hiyaaaaaa.

Does this shit come out of nowhere? I've been with couples and as soon as I sense summat ain't right I get the fuck outta there.

Imagine you were mid-fuck

Again, I'd get the fuck outta there.

You were clearly not in the moment.. I’m disappointed

Or maybe I was... which was why I can read it so well "

You win

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"I just don't get it... yes I'm wankered and had a fair amount to drink. Hiyaaaaaa.

Does this shit come out of nowhere? I've been with couples and as soon as I sense summat ain't right I get the fuck outta there.

Imagine you were mid-fuck

Again, I'd get the fuck outta there.

You were clearly not in the moment.. I’m disappointed

Or maybe I was... which was why I can read it so well

You win "

I know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just don't get it... yes I'm wankered and had a fair amount to drink. Hiyaaaaaa.

Does this shit come out of nowhere? I've been with couples and as soon as I sense summat ain't right I get the fuck outta there.

Imagine you were mid-fuck

Again, I'd get the fuck outta there.

You were clearly not in the moment.. I’m disappointed

Or maybe I was... which was why I can read it so well

You win

I know "

Didn’t get to finish the fuck though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I once met a couple and guy stopped me fucking his GF.. I mean who does that!!

Insecure men.

I was inside her!!"

He didn't like your moves bruh.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"I just don't get it... yes I'm wankered and had a fair amount to drink. Hiyaaaaaa.

Does this shit come out of nowhere? I've been with couples and as soon as I sense summat ain't right I get the fuck outta there.

Imagine you were mid-fuck

Again, I'd get the fuck outta there.

You were clearly not in the moment.. I’m disappointed

Or maybe I was... which was why I can read it so well

You win

I know

Didn’t get to finish the fuck though "

Didn't need to, I'm that good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all,

Ok so I was approached by a Female who invited me to a party to which I accepted as they seemed decent and I was looking forward to it.

6 days later the Male 'cancelled' me and the reason was apparently he didn't want any males fitter than him attending (Their words).

I declined a meet with a nice Woman as I was booked for that party but my question is this a common thing with couple's that one half can get insecure about a guest? I haven't had this before the couple's I've met have been decent so slightly confused..

Don't know how common it is but it certainly CAN happen. Take it from ME....I know! Because I ended up getting arrested (for the first and only time ever!) and spent 60 hours in police custody and had to go to court....all over the head of a row which resulted from a jealous insecure wife having a complete nervous breakdown when her partner headed upstairs with the woman who had accompanied me to their house for our planned foursome. She broke down in a flood of tears and put on her coat and left the house to wander the streets at 2am. When she returned she ended up getting into an argument with me and ordered me to leave, which I couldn't do as I had a few drinks taken so couldn't drive. She then called the cops and that's when the shit really hit the proverbial fan!!! So YES.....it DOES happen! "

Why did you get arrested?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just don't get it... yes I'm wankered and had a fair amount to drink. Hiyaaaaaa.

Does this shit come out of nowhere? I've been with couples and as soon as I sense summat ain't right I get the fuck outta there.

Imagine you were mid-fuck

Again, I'd get the fuck outta there.

You were clearly not in the moment.. I’m disappointed

Or maybe I was... which was why I can read it so well

You win

I know

Didn’t get to finish the fuck though

Didn't need to, I'm that good. "

Wonder why you are here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I once met a couple and guy stopped me fucking his GF.. I mean who does that!!

Insecure men.

I was inside her!!

He didn't like your moves bruh."

Probably

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"I just don't get it... yes I'm wankered and had a fair amount to drink. Hiyaaaaaa.

Does this shit come out of nowhere? I've been with couples and as soon as I sense summat ain't right I get the fuck outta there.

Imagine you were mid-fuck

Again, I'd get the fuck outta there.

You were clearly not in the moment.. I’m disappointed

Or maybe I was... which was why I can read it so well

You win

I know

Didn’t get to finish the fuck though

Didn't need to, I'm that good.

Wonder why you are here "

I'm doing my bit for the less fortunate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just don't get it... yes I'm wankered and had a fair amount to drink. Hiyaaaaaa.

Does this shit come out of nowhere? I've been with couples and as soon as I sense summat ain't right I get the fuck outta there.

Imagine you were mid-fuck

Again, I'd get the fuck outta there.

You were clearly not in the moment.. I’m disappointed

Or maybe I was... which was why I can read it so well

You win

I know

Didn’t get to finish the fuck though

Didn't need to, I'm that good.

Wonder why you are here

I'm doing my bit for the less fortunate. "

I need a pedicure

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"I just don't get it... yes I'm wankered and had a fair amount to drink. Hiyaaaaaa.

Does this shit come out of nowhere? I've been with couples and as soon as I sense summat ain't right I get the fuck outta there.

Imagine you were mid-fuck

Again, I'd get the fuck outta there.

You were clearly not in the moment.. I’m disappointed

Or maybe I was... which was why I can read it so well

You win

I know

Didn’t get to finish the fuck though

Didn't need to, I'm that good.

Wonder why you are here

I'm doing my bit for the less fortunate.

I need a pedicure "

Eeeewwwwwwewwwwww

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just don't get it... yes I'm wankered and had a fair amount to drink. Hiyaaaaaa.

Does this shit come out of nowhere? I've been with couples and as soon as I sense summat ain't right I get the fuck outta there.

Imagine you were mid-fuck

Again, I'd get the fuck outta there.

You were clearly not in the moment.. I’m disappointed

Or maybe I was... which was why I can read it so well

You win

I know

Didn’t get to finish the fuck though

Didn't need to, I'm that good.

Wonder why you are here

I'm doing my bit for the less fortunate.

I need a pedicure

Eeeewwwwwwewwwwww"

Time to do your bit

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"I just don't get it... yes I'm wankered and had a fair amount to drink. Hiyaaaaaa.

Does this shit come out of nowhere? I've been with couples and as soon as I sense summat ain't right I get the fuck outta there.

Imagine you were mid-fuck

Again, I'd get the fuck outta there.

You were clearly not in the moment.. I’m disappointed

Or maybe I was... which was why I can read it so well

You win

I know

Didn’t get to finish the fuck though

Didn't need to, I'm that good.

Wonder why you are here

I'm doing my bit for the less fortunate.

I need a pedicure

Eeeewwwwwwewwwwww

Time to do your bit "

Fuck sake.

Sock off, them chewy fishy things on, me chucking my ring up, and then I'll rub them if you're lucky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just don't get it... yes I'm wankered and had a fair amount to drink. Hiyaaaaaa.

Does this shit come out of nowhere? I've been with couples and as soon as I sense summat ain't right I get the fuck outta there.

Imagine you were mid-fuck

Again, I'd get the fuck outta there.

You were clearly not in the moment.. I’m disappointed

Or maybe I was... which was why I can read it so well

You win

I know

Didn’t get to finish the fuck though

Didn't need to, I'm that good.

Wonder why you are here

I'm doing my bit for the less fortunate.

I need a pedicure

Eeeewwwwwwewwwwww

Time to do your bit

Fuck sake.

Sock off, them chewy fishy things on, me chucking my ring up, and then I'll rub them if you're lucky "

Less talking, more pedicuring

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"I just don't get it... yes I'm wankered and had a fair amount to drink. Hiyaaaaaa.

Does this shit come out of nowhere? I've been with couples and as soon as I sense summat ain't right I get the fuck outta there.

Imagine you were mid-fuck

Again, I'd get the fuck outta there.

You were clearly not in the moment.. I’m disappointed

Or maybe I was... which was why I can read it so well

You win

I know

Didn’t get to finish the fuck though

Didn't need to, I'm that good.

Wonder why you are here

I'm doing my bit for the less fortunate.

I need a pedicure

Eeeewwwwwwewwwwww

Time to do your bit

Fuck sake.

Sock off, them chewy fishy things on, me chucking my ring up, and then I'll rub them if you're lucky

Less talking, more pedicuring "

Alright titshit, what colour do ya want?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just don't get it... yes I'm wankered and had a fair amount to drink. Hiyaaaaaa.

Does this shit come out of nowhere? I've been with couples and as soon as I sense summat ain't right I get the fuck outta there.

Imagine you were mid-fuck

Again, I'd get the fuck outta there.

You were clearly not in the moment.. I’m disappointed

Or maybe I was... which was why I can read it so well

You win

I know

Didn’t get to finish the fuck though

Didn't need to, I'm that good.

Wonder why you are here

I'm doing my bit for the less fortunate.

I need a pedicure

Eeeewwwwwwewwwwww

Time to do your bit

Fuck sake.

Sock off, them chewy fishy things on, me chucking my ring up, and then I'll rub them if you're lucky

Less talking, more pedicuring

Alright titshit, what colour do ya want? "

Ask me nicely, you are giving a pedicure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all,

Ok so I was approached by a Female who invited me to a party to which I accepted as they seemed decent and I was looking forward to it.

6 days later the Male 'cancelled' me and the reason was apparently he didn't want any males fitter than him attending (Their words).

I declined a meet with a nice Woman as I was booked for that party but my question is this a common thing with couple's that one half can get insecure about a guest? I haven't had this before the couple's I've met have been decent so slightly confused.."

Even some singles won't meet people if they think the person fucked someone else better looking than them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it does happen. I've chatted with quite a few couples where they have issues like this. I also met a couple for a social but it didn't go any further because apparently the male of the couple and I 'got on too well'. I find it all a bit bizarre and couples with insecurities like that should not be swinging IMO.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it does happen, we had a social with a couple and arranged a play meet but it didn’t happen. The man was very into me (fem) and his wife just wasn’t happy with it. X

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"

Even some singles won't meet people if they think the person fucked someone else better looking than them. "

Why ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Even some singles won't meet people if they think the person fucked someone else better looking than them.

Why ? "

Loads of women are always saying on the forum that they won't meet a man if he has veris from slimmer/ hotter women than they are. Perhaps they think he'd be just fucking them because he's desperate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I once met a couple and guy stopped me fucking his GF.. I mean who does that!! "
cock blocked on a meet funny!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes it does happen. I've chatted with quite a few couples where they have issues like this. I also met a couple for a social but it didn't go any further because apparently the male of the couple and I 'got on too well'. I find it all a bit bizarre and couples with insecurities like that should not be swinging IMO."

I think they are protecting their relationship. Swinging is supposed to be fun. It's no fun if there's a risk of one person getting too attached to someone else. They are putting their relationship first- it's more important than a random fuck.

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By *heangelWoman
over a year ago

wonderland

I won’t meet couples due to previous issues ! Marriage break up due to me , twice !!! Ffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I won’t meet couples due to previous issues ! Marriage break up due to me , twice !!! Ffs "
You must be good!!!! Or possibly the relationship was terrible in the first place and they seen this site as a way to go with other people and to pretend everything was ok at home when really it wasn’t,I’ve seen a few females in couples at couples rather d*unk and miserable looking it’s sad to see.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I won’t meet couples due to previous issues ! Marriage break up due to me , twice !!! Ffs You must be good!!!! Or possibly the relationship was terrible in the first place and they seen this site as a way to go with other people and to pretend everything was ok at home when really it wasn’t,I’ve seen a few females in couples at couples rather d*unk and miserable looking it’s sad to see."
*DRUNK

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By *heangelWoman
over a year ago

wonderland


"I won’t meet couples due to previous issues ! Marriage break up due to me , twice !!! Ffs You must be good!!!! Or possibly the relationship was terrible in the first place and they seen this site as a way to go with other people and to pretend everything was ok at home when really it wasn’t,I’ve seen a few females in couples at couples rather d*unk and miserable looking it’s sad to see."

Yep I think that was probably the reason ! One of the hubbies did declare love for me however .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I won’t meet couples due to previous issues ! Marriage break up due to me , twice !!! Ffs You must be good!!!! Or possibly the relationship was terrible in the first place and they seen this site as a way to go with other people and to pretend everything was ok at home when really it wasn’t,I’ve seen a few females in couples at couples rather d*unk and miserable looking it’s sad to see.

Yep I think that was probably the reason ! One of the hubbies did declare love for me however . "
was it just lust thou because he was in a rubbish relationship and felt something better with you? I don’t know you I’m just saying if something at home is bad for whatever reason and you meet someone new they might seem twice as nice or twice as good because you have had it so bad,nothing personal at all x

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By *heangelWoman
over a year ago

wonderland


"I won’t meet couples due to previous issues ! Marriage break up due to me , twice !!! Ffs You must be good!!!! Or possibly the relationship was terrible in the first place and they seen this site as a way to go with other people and to pretend everything was ok at home when really it wasn’t,I’ve seen a few females in couples at couples rather d*unk and miserable looking it’s sad to see.

Yep I think that was probably the reason ! One of the hubbies did declare love for me however . was it just lust thou because he was in a rubbish relationship and felt something better with you? I don’t know you I’m just saying if something at home is bad for whatever reason and you meet someone new they might seem twice as nice or twice as good because you have had it so bad,nothing personal at all x"

He was prObably attracted to me because he couldn’t have me , sounds mad tho husbands and wives falling out .

One wife was soooo jealous , even after meeting me and getting to know me , when it came to me Hooking up with her husband she lost it ! And they are long time swingers as well . That confused me

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London


"

Even some singles won't meet people if they think the person fucked someone else better looking than them.

Why ?

Loads of women are always saying on the forum that they won't meet a man if he has veris from slimmer/ hotter women than they are. Perhaps they think he'd be just fucking them because he's desperate."

The reality is most men find most women attractive. They may well prefer slimmer women, but they also fancy the less slim, just not as much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I won’t meet couples due to previous issues ! Marriage break up due to me , twice !!! Ffs You must be good!!!! Or possibly the relationship was terrible in the first place and they seen this site as a way to go with other people and to pretend everything was ok at home when really it wasn’t,I’ve seen a few females in couples at couples rather d*unk and miserable looking it’s sad to see.

Yep I think that was probably the reason ! One of the hubbies did declare love for me however . was it just lust thou because he was in a rubbish relationship and felt something better with you? I don’t know you I’m just saying if something at home is bad for whatever reason and you meet someone new they might seem twice as nice or twice as good because you have had it so bad,nothing personal at all x

He was prObably attracted to me because he couldn’t have me , sounds mad tho husbands and wives falling out .

One wife was soooo jealous , even after meeting me and getting to know me , when it came to me Hooking up with her husband she lost it ! And they are long time swingers as well . That confused me "
yeah even in the swinging world there seems to be jealousy issues from what I’ve seen people say in the forums and some of the veteran swingers have said it’s not swinging anymore on here,whatever they mean by that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Even some singles won't meet people if they think the person fucked someone else better looking than them.

Why ?

Loads of women are always saying on the forum that they won't meet a man if he has veris from slimmer/ hotter women than they are. Perhaps they think he'd be just fucking them because he's desperate.

The reality is most men find most women attractive. They may well prefer slimmer women, but they also fancy the less slim, just not as much. "

This- but I get to fuck a hottie so I don't get hung up on it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes it does happen. I've chatted with quite a few couples where they have issues like this. I also met a couple for a social but it didn't go any further because apparently the male of the couple and I 'got on too well'. I find it all a bit bizarre and couples with insecurities like that should not be swinging IMO."

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Even some singles won't meet people if they think the person fucked someone else better looking than them.

Why ?

Loads of women are always saying on the forum that they won't meet a man if he has veris from slimmer/ hotter women than they are. Perhaps they think he'd be just fucking them because he's desperate.

The reality is most men find most women attractive. They may well prefer slimmer women, but they also fancy the less slim, just not as much. "

I fancy all different types of people so I know other people might too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes it does happen. I've chatted with quite a few couples where they have issues like this. I also met a couple for a social but it didn't go any further because apparently the male of the couple and I 'got on too well'. I find it all a bit bizarre and couples with insecurities like that should not be swinging IMO.

I think they are protecting their relationship. Swinging is supposed to be fun. It's no fun if there's a risk of one person getting too attached to someone else. They are putting their relationship first- it's more important than a random fuck. "

this...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Years ago I was in a club with my partner, we were chatting to a couple and my partner mentioned the fact that I had never come through oral sex.

The other couples lady took that as a challenge and proceeded to try, after about 5 mins her other half began to get a little aggressive as she seemed to be really enjoying the challenge. And if I am honest, so was I.

She never did get to finish

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By *ardiffCoupleNJCouple
over a year ago

Pontypridd/Rhyfelin

I think sometimes we all need to be a little bit more understanding of peeps.

Understand completely that if you arrange a meet it's for a reason.

However everyone has to to have a first time and even those of us more experienced don't always fancy it on the night. We've occasionally planned on going to a club only to find on Friday night after a crap week of work we really don't feel like it.

...that usually means by Saturday night we do but hey, if we'd have arranged a hotel meet for the Friday it might have been a flat night!

We've had a couple of meets where people have apologised after because things didn't happen. Really not necessary - never get offended as we completely understand.

As far as we are concerned, this is all meant to be fun and when it all gels its really great.

When it's less so, well read the signs and move on. 99% of the time as a result we've still had a good time even if it was just social.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’ve only had 2 meets so far with the same female, she is someone Ads knew ‘intimately’ from back when he was at school, if I didn’t get insecure then I certainly wouldn’t be getting insecure with a random female (by random I mean someone that we have no connections to outside of fab). She’s actually a really nice person and in an odd sort of way it was nice to hear about him back when he was younger lol.

Geeky x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Even some singles won't meet people if they think the person fucked someone else better looking than them.

Why ?

Loads of women are always saying on the forum that they won't meet a man if he has veris from slimmer/ hotter women than they are. Perhaps they think he'd be just fucking them because he's desperate.

The reality is most men find most women attractive. They may well prefer slimmer women, but they also fancy the less slim, just not as much. "

Of course I find some ladies more attractive than others, who doesn't? But for slim and less slim, usually replace with intelligent/stupid and adventurous-imaginative/boring. Those who fit the more desired traits of these usually just have this "aura" about them to me that means I want to fuck their brains out!

There's some lady's bodies that I find more desirable than other lady's bodies, but this comes further down the list of my wishlist than the above?

Whilst I've enjoyed dalliances with plenty of slim ladies who satisfied all my prefences I could and have enjoyed enormously fucking a woman who was a size 18 yet confident, imaginative, intelligent and had the wherewithall to create that sizzling connection that makes me want to pleasure and fuck her all night long...and I love it! I don't think I'd be too happy at all to have sex with a size 8 woman who was thick as two short planks, mind-numbingly dull and had no spirit of adventure. I've turned meets down who fit this exact demograph for this reason on a few occasions.

I'm sure a lot of men deep down are the same in this regard and their impatience to meet and a lady's body being one of the quickest things to deduce are the reasons that they rate it so highly? If they're not then they're idiots as due to my own standards and the order I place them in, I'm having far better, explosively mindblowing sex than they are!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes it does happen. I've chatted with quite a few couples where they have issues like this. I also met a couple for a social but it didn't go any further because apparently the male of the couple and I 'got on too well'. I find it all a bit bizarre and couples with insecurities like that should not be swinging IMO.

I think they are protecting their relationship. Swinging is supposed to be fun. It's no fun if there's a risk of one person getting too attached to someone else. They are putting their relationship first- it's more important than a random fuck. "

Precisely, so if any negative feelings happen then people need to take a total step back from it.

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