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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Unhappy with their tummy area??

Do you keep it covered or not.

Feeling a bit self conscious of mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hate mine but I wear lingerie that covers it up, chemises and baby dolls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine is big and covered in stretch marks. I have no qualms getting naked for any man.

Even if I lost weight it would still be covered in stretch marks, plus it would be saggy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely yes I hate my tummy

No I don’t keep it covered but am very self conscious of it!! Unfortunately I don’t have any advice! Apart from our bodies are that and we have to live with them... sometimes I think we are far too hard on ourselves then we should be!!

Hope you feel better soon! Hugs xx

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Yep I hate mine and keep it covered as much as possible. Have never had any negative comments about it though, it's a personal thing.

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Thank you. Just don't want to scare people off x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you. Just don't want to scare people off x"

You won’t scare anyone off your gorgeous!! It makes me sad how all the time ‘we’ always feel so self conscious about things and worry!! It’s about time we just thought fu*k it... we are who we are... if you don’t like us then fu*k off!!! Hahaha but sadly we don’t!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate mine, it’s big, saggy and covered in scars. But I don’t hide it and haven’t had any negative comments. If a man is judging you on your stomach then he’s not the one you want. I have no advice other than you are more than your stomach x

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

I absolutely hate mine now with a passion,that middle age spread is a real thing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unhappy with their tummy area??

Do you keep it covered or not.

Feeling a bit self conscious of mine "

Not just lasses luv

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Think I may need to go shopping, just until my confidence comes back x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mines odd, I dont mind it when stood up, bent over it still does wierd and wobbly and Im not keen.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"Thank you. Just don't want to scare people off x"

For every woman with a’perfect’ body, my lovely, there are at least a hundred with imperfect ones!

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By *eordie1978Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

I know it’s easy to say

But everyone has curves and bits that your not happy with or are self conscious about but I think confidence in your body is a real sexy thing! Matterless of your size and shape!!!

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By *ilNdoCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

I am unhappy with mine but given up covering it up in sexual situations. The bugger likes to come out and play lol

Evening running my gunt wants to get involved.... A number of official race photos has if peeking out

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By *ilNdoCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

Yes, I'm quite conscious of mine. And I seem to be attracted to fit toned/muscly men (obvs thinkni have no chance) but like a curvy shape on me ladies.

It's not working out either way!! Pffft ha. Though, I appear confident, I still try to keep me covered up as much as possible. Xx

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By *uicycuntCouple
over a year ago

South Cheshire/Staffs Border

Hate mine. I've a massive scar and colostomy bag. No man has ever minded though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve stopped eating cheese.. pizza and cheesy nachos are my only guilty pleasures

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mine is big and covered in stretch marks. I have no qualms getting naked for any man.

Even if I lost weight it would still be covered in stretch marks, plus it would be saggy. "

I like this outfit situation in your profile!

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Thanks to everyone who's posted, seems the general outlook is guys don't mind.....well most guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm liking mine more now I've lost 3 stone. I've also been exercising and have begun to see some definition. I'm loving mine at the moment even though I'll probably never get it back to how it was pre children, it's a huge improvement.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm liking mine more now I've lost 3 stone. I've also been exercising and have begun to see some definition. I'm loving mine at the moment even though I'll probably never get it back to how it was pre children, it's a huge improvement. "

Good lass i just dont have that kind of disapline and determination but respect to those who do

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Well done xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm liking mine more now I've lost 3 stone. I've also been exercising and have begun to see some definition. I'm loving mine at the moment even though I'll probably never get it back to how it was pre children, it's a huge improvement.

Good lass i just dont have that kind of disapline and determination but respect to those who do"

I didn't for about 15 years. Something just clicked last October and I've been on it ever since.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm liking mine more now I've lost 3 stone. I've also been exercising and have begun to see some definition. I'm loving mine at the moment even though I'll probably never get it back to how it was pre children, it's a huge improvement.

Good lass i just dont have that kind of disapline and determination but respect to those who do

I didn't for about 15 years. Something just clicked last October and I've been on it ever since. "

Bloody hell since october

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I'm naked with my long term partner he squishes my stomach in his hands.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm liking mine more now I've lost 3 stone. I've also been exercising and have begun to see some definition. I'm loving mine at the moment even though I'll probably never get it back to how it was pre children, it's a huge improvement.

Good lass i just dont have that kind of disapline and determination but respect to those who do

I didn't for about 15 years. Something just clicked last October and I've been on it ever since. "

I'm still waiting for the click.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm liking mine more now I've lost 3 stone. I've also been exercising and have begun to see some definition. I'm loving mine at the moment even though I'll probably never get it back to how it was pre children, it's a huge improvement.

Good lass i just dont have that kind of disapline and determination but respect to those who do

I didn't for about 15 years. Something just clicked last October and I've been on it ever since.

I'm still waiting for the click."

I got fed up with struggling to paint my toenails!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm liking mine more now I've lost 3 stone. I've also been exercising and have begun to see some definition. I'm loving mine at the moment even though I'll probably never get it back to how it was pre children, it's a huge improvement.

Good lass i just dont have that kind of disapline and determination but respect to those who do

I didn't for about 15 years. Something just clicked last October and I've been on it ever since.

I'm still waiting for the click.

I got fed up with struggling to paint my toenails!"

I'm having that problem and shaving my pubes properly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's my least favourite part of my body but it's the only one I have so I just get on with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and I rarely ever show it.

~Mia

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a sexy rounded tummy on a girl. I think a lot of women think slim or skinny is attractive, whereas most of us men like a curvey gal.

So many absolutely stunning women are afraid to show their sexy little tummies. It's really sad.

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

I loathe mine - it's massive (a LOT more than just curvy) and it's squishy, like a giant marshmallow. I keep it covered in play situations - I can't bear to see it, let alone allow someone else to see it

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I love a sexy rounded tummy on a girl. I think a lot of women think slim or skinny is attractive, whereas most of us men like a curvey gal.

So many absolutely stunning women are afraid to show their sexy little tummies. It's really sad."

Erm...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love a sexy rounded tummy on a girl. I think a lot of women think slim or skinny is attractive, whereas most of us men like a curvey gal.

So many absolutely stunning women are afraid to show their sexy little tummies. It's really sad."

Speak for your self Tall Dark Mark

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By *hedevilwearspradaWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere nearby

I hate mine, it’s the worst bit about me. I usually wear baby dolls to keep it covered, and very rarely go naked. There have been a couple of people that I’ve met on here that have managed to get all my clothes off though, and for the most part it was ok. A long term Fab friend lay for ages one time just stroking my tummy, and after my horror had subsided it felt really nice. And I still see him a lot so it couldn’t have been to traumatic for him!

The other guy did something similar too, except he hasn’t spoken to me for a few weeks, so maybe not quite so successful there....

I’m slowly learning to accept it though.

Through diet and exercise I’m trying to change my body shape. It’s happening very slowly, though in all honesty, I think it would take a tummy tuck for me to feel anyway near comfortable being nekkid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate mine, it’s the worst bit about me. I usually wear baby dolls to keep it covered, and very rarely go naked. There have been a couple of people that I’ve met on here that have managed to get all my clothes off though, and for the most part it was ok. A long term Fab friend lay for ages one time just stroking my tummy, and after my horror had subsided it felt really nice. And I still see him a lot so it couldn’t have been to traumatic for him!

The other guy did something similar too, except he hasn’t spoken to me for a few weeks, so maybe not quite so successful there....

I’m slowly learning to accept it though.

Through diet and exercise I’m trying to change my body shape. It’s happening very slowly, though in all honesty, I think it would take a tummy tuck for me to feel anyway near comfortable being nekkid."

This comment is way to long, hence Boring

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By *iffaWoman
over a year ago

wherever

Yea it’s not my most favorite part. Not huge but not flat. 14yrs later I still blame the c section First thing I’ll sort when I get the cash together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love a sexy rounded tummy on a girl. I think a lot of women think slim or skinny is attractive, whereas most of us men like a curvey gal.

So many absolutely stunning women are afraid to show their sexy little tummies. It's really sad.

Erm..."

What? What did I miss? Have I made a boob of myself? Again!

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By *hedevilwearspradaWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere nearby


"I hate mine, it’s the worst bit about me. I usually wear baby dolls to keep it covered, and very rarely go naked. There have been a couple of people that I’ve met on here that have managed to get all my clothes off though, and for the most part it was ok. A long term Fab friend lay for ages one time just stroking my tummy, and after my horror had subsided it felt really nice. And I still see him a lot so it couldn’t have been to traumatic for him!

The other guy did something similar too, except he hasn’t spoken to me for a few weeks, so maybe not quite so successful there....

I’m slowly learning to accept it though.

Through diet and exercise I’m trying to change my body shape. It’s happening very slowly, though in all honesty, I think it would take a tummy tuck for me to feel anyway near comfortable being nekkid.

This comment is way to long, hence Boring "

Shit happens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yea it’s not my most favorite part. Not huge but not flat. 14yrs later I still blame the c section First thing I’ll sort when I get the cash together. "

Make the kid pay!

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By *yd Charisse 10Woman
over a year ago

Manchester

Iam fat all over just me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unhappy with their tummy area??

Do you keep it covered or not.

Feeling a bit self conscious of mine "

Women tend to be body conscious I know but beauty is in the eye of the beholder. For me, a bit if a tummy isn't an issue. I'd much rather a womanly figure than a Hollywood size 8 who's likely to snap under pressure.

If it is any consolation, look at it this way - when you're on your back it doesn't really show, when someone is behind you, he/she can't see it anyway and when you're on top, ride like the wind and the person you're with won't even notice.

P.S. Mirrors may prove problematic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love a sexy rounded tummy on a girl. I think a lot of women think slim or skinny is attractive, whereas most of us men like a curvey gal.

"

Then it's a good job I'm not losing weight and toning up to please men isn't it? Especially fab forum men it would seem.

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By *entish79Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I hate mine, it’s the worst bit about me. I usually wear baby dolls to keep it covered, and very rarely go naked. There have been a couple of people that I’ve met on here that have managed to get all my clothes off though, and for the most part it was ok. A long term Fab friend lay for ages one time just stroking my tummy, and after my horror had subsided it felt really nice. And I still see him a lot so it couldn’t have been to traumatic for him!

The other guy did something similar too, except he hasn’t spoken to me for a few weeks, so maybe not quite so successful there....

I’m slowly learning to accept it though.

Through diet and exercise I’m trying to change my body shape. It’s happening very slowly, though in all honesty, I think it would take a tummy tuck for me to feel anyway near comfortable being nekkid.

This comment is way to long, hence Boring "

No, it’s not boring. If women want to talk about how they feel about their bodies, or why that might make them uncomfortable, then they can post comments as short or as long as they like.

They certainly shouldn’t have to worry about guys finding the thought of reading more than a couple of sentences a bit too much of a daunting prospect.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I hate mine, it’s the worst bit about me. I usually wear baby dolls to keep it covered, and very rarely go naked. There have been a couple of people that I’ve met on here that have managed to get all my clothes off though, and for the most part it was ok. A long term Fab friend lay for ages one time just stroking my tummy, and after my horror had subsided it felt really nice. And I still see him a lot so it couldn’t have been to traumatic for him!

The other guy did something similar too, except he hasn’t spoken to me for a few weeks, so maybe not quite so successful there....

I’m slowly learning to accept it though.

Through diet and exercise I’m trying to change my body shape. It’s happening very slowly, though in all honesty, I think it would take a tummy tuck for me to feel anyway near comfortable being nekkid.

This comment is way to long, hence Boring

No, it’s not boring. If women want to talk about how they feel about their bodies, or why that might make them uncomfortable, then they can post comments as short or as long as they like.

They certainly shouldn’t have to worry about guys finding the thought of reading more than a couple of sentences a bit too much of a daunting prospect."

He has a short attention span.

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By *apstarMan
over a year ago

Harpenden

You all look amazing just the way you are. I hate how skinny I am so I'm always coverd up no mater how hot it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love a sexy rounded tummy on a girl. I think a lot of women think slim or skinny is attractive, whereas most of us men like a curvey gal.

So many absolutely stunning women are afraid to show their sexy little tummies. It's really sad."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not a huge fan of mine, but I don’t hate it. I used to always wear lingerie that covered it, purely for the sake of my partner(s). But I’ve come to realise that I much prefer being naked. So now I strip off completely (or get stripped) and enjoy every minute of it.

I really hope you get the confidence boost that you need OP. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m not a huge fan of mine, but I don’t hate it. I used to always wear lingerie that covered it, purely for the sake of my partner(s). But I’ve come to realise that I much prefer being naked. So now I strip off completely (or get stripped) and enjoy every minute of it.

I really hope you get the confidence boost that you need OP. xx"

This.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Embrace your curves you sexy ladies, there are plenty of you in here!

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