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Do you hide on “looked at me” and why?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’m openly a perv and I think it’s nice sometimes to see who’s looked at you and vice versa and sometimes this starts a convo so who hides themself from being seen? And reasons why

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

I perv with pride

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

I do. Don’t really know why. I turned it off to stalk my ex bf and didn’t turn it back on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do because I don't want you to know that I look at your profile 26 times a day and 44 times on sunday.

Hashtag you know who you are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. I visit some profiles a lot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me! So you don't know how often I look at your arse

Also I look at people I don't fancy too. I don't want them getting the wrong idea.

I've had a few "hey you looked at my profile, wanna chat?" type messages. Well.....clearly I don't or I'd have mailed when I looked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I do. I like to check people’s pics. Guys too and I don’t want the guys thinking it means I fancy them. I just like their pics!!!

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I hide, I don't need people knowing how much I perv them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think people don't wanna be seen viewing someones profile hundreds of times a week.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

I perv in stealth, because if they see you've peeped, you sometimes get messages, you may not want

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Me! So you don't know how often I look at your arse

Also I look at people I don't fancy too. I don't want them getting the wrong idea.

I've had a few "hey you looked at my profile, wanna chat?" type messages. Well.....clearly I don't or I'd have mailed when I looked "

Hahahaha better then looking at my face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, cause if you don’t women message you saying, hey I noticed you viewed my profile and then start hassling and I can’t be doing with that shit!

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I’m a stealth fan too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I perv in stealth, because if they see you've peeped, you sometimes get messages, you may not want "

Ummm get them anyway lol

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

We do it ninja style. Coz we can.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Save messages saying thanks for looking or why didn't you speak etc.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

One of the first things I switched on when I set up this profile - I'd be on a lot more blocked lists if I didn't

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope - sometimes I want the other person to know I’m looking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meh fuck it, I'll turn it on

Don't get too excited F&B!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"One of the first things I switched on when I set up this profile - I'd be on a lot more blocked lists if I didn't"

Noted and off I go to block you now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because some people think being repeatedly looked at (despite posting nude pictures) is pervy and I'll get blocked!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Find it strange that pics can get fabbed by someone who hasn't looked at you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Meh fuck it, I'll turn it on

Don't get too excited F&B!"

i got 56 views thanks to you !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Meh fuck it, I'll turn it on

Don't get too excited F&B!

i got 56 views thanks to you !! "

57 now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the 100's of women that look at me daily do.

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

The woman I fap over would think me a maniac

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not normally but if someone actually openly looks at my profile then I hide to look back, only because I don't want them to think I'll automatically contact them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Meh fuck it, I'll turn it on

Don't get too excited F&B!

i got 56 views thanks to you !!

57 now "

Stop that... I am getting to much excited but the doc said that it wasn't good for my heart.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do because I don't want you to know that I look at your profile 26 times a day and 44 times on sunday.

Hashtag you know who you are "

I know you looked. Platinum membership means I get notifications each time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m usually in stealth mode, but if I want someone to know I’m looking then I’ll turn it off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't hide. I like people to know I keep looking at them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Meh fuck it, I'll turn it on

Don't get too excited F&B!

i got 56 views thanks to you !!

57 now

Stop that... I am getting to much excited but the doc said that it wasn't good for my heart. "

Oh you're soft French baguette is getting stale, how cute

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do because I don't want you to know that I look at your profile 26 times a day and 44 times on sunday.

Hashtag you know who you are

I know you looked. Platinum membership means I get notifications each time. "

Maybe I should upgrade too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I perve in stealth as i’m there to perve the pics not strike up a conversation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Find it strange that pics can get fabbed by someone who hasn't looked at you. "

I don’t think that’s a case for Columbo, even I worked that one out.

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By *queegeeMan
over a year ago

northampton

Oh really, so where can I locate this button to turn off....I'm so green

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By *urity555Man
over a year ago

south west

Nah ... I don’t hide my viewings of others!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m openly a perv and I think it’s nice sometimes to see who’s looked at you and vice versa and sometimes this starts a convo so who hides themself from being seen? And reasons why "

Yeah

Because I don't want people to see I've looked at them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in stealth mode

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"One of the first things I switched on when I set up this profile - I'd be on a lot more blocked lists if I didn't

Noted and off I go to block you now "

Seems to have failed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does anyone know if you currently view in stealth and then change your setting to show you as peeking at a profile, does that only apply to the profiles you view after your settings have been changed?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m usually in stealth mode, but if I want someone to know I’m looking then I’ll turn it off"

I do that, then forget I switched it off, after I looked at them a further 28 times, then get blocked!

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By *airyfatmanMan
over a year ago

by 'ere

Mines hidden because I once got an abusive message from someone because I looked at their profile and they didn’t like it. I didn’t fit what they were after (which the profile text confirmed) so didn’t message but they chose to message me to tell me not to look at them again as I made them sick. So - I kept viewing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck yeah!

I don't want you all to know I'm a stalker

And I want to avoid messages from people I don't want to talk to because of curiosity ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do, prefer to perv undercover it's kinda like another filter cause if you look at some men they'd nearly hop all over you and it invites messages "I see you looked, you like what you see" etc etc etc when I might just want to browse in peace

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone know if you currently view in stealth and then change your setting to show you as peeking at a profile, does that only apply to the profiles you view after your settings have been changed?"

No your previous peeks show up too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone know if you currently view in stealth and then change your setting to show you as peeking at a profile, does that only apply to the profiles you view after your settings have been changed?

No your previous peeks show up too. "

Thanks

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"I’m usually in stealth mode, but if I want someone to know I’m looking then I’ll turn it off"

The "look" you gave them only remains visible while you're out of stealth mode - once you switch it back on it disappears from their "looked at me" list.

Also non-site supporters can't see who looked at them so your plan would only hold good if they were a site supporter and they saw you looked at them while you have stealth set to off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m usually in stealth mode, but if I want someone to know I’m looking then I’ll turn it off

The "look" you gave them only remains visible while you're out of stealth mode - once you switch it back on it disappears from their "looked at me" list.

Also non-site supporters can't see who looked at them so your plan would only hold good if they were a site supporter and they saw you looked at them while you have stealth set to off. "

I've noticed this. My daily best of 11viewd is now down to 5.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought I was looking in ninja mode but discovered Mr took that setting off and now everyone can see what a wee nosey/pervy (delete as applicable) sort I am!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"One of the first things I switched on when I set up this profile - I'd be on a lot more blocked lists if I didn't

Noted and off I go to block you now

Seems to have failed "

Damn I’m way to easily distracted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The accidental missclicks on peoples profiles made me realise why I was using stealth...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Does anyone know if you currently view in stealth and then change your setting to show you as peeking at a profile, does that only apply to the profiles you view after your settings have been changed?

No your previous peeks show up too.

Thanks "

Ohhhh I didn’t know that

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight


"I’m usually in stealth mode, but if I want someone to know I’m looking then I’ll turn it off

The "look" you gave them only remains visible while you're out of stealth mode - once you switch it back on it disappears from their "looked at me" list.

Also non-site supporters can't see who looked at them so your plan would only hold good if they were a site supporter and they saw you looked at them while you have stealth set to off. "

That explains a lot, noticed that the look at me totals drop by 15 a little earlier, it seems to be a regular occurance when we put a Veri up so what's that about?

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea


"I’m openly a perv and I think it’s nice sometimes to see who’s looked at you and vice versa and sometimes this starts a convo so who hides themself from being seen? And reasons why "

I carnt sew Hoos looked at me.

It's quite enoying at times.

So as i no wot it fils like I'm in ninga mode.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep. I can’t afford for any more to block me as I’d have nowt to perve and wank over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For the first time in ages I've looked at "who viewed me" today, just because of this thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't hide, I've embraced and welcomed my inner perv

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't hide, I've embraced and welcomed my inner perv "

Best way to be

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"For the first time in ages I've looked at "who viewed me" today, just because of this thread "

Ohhh sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For the first time in ages I've looked at "who viewed me" today, just because of this thread

Ohhh sorry "

Ha ha no apology needed ... I also didn't mean the , it should have been 2 x

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"I hide, I don't need people knowing how much I perv them "

That doesn't bother me ...I'm a self confessed perv lol

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Stealth. Prefer my nosing to be from behind the curtain. Old lady style

(Plus it cuts out the waaaa waaa waaa types who get huffy you've not messaged them)

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I don’t cos I’m not a site supporter but when I was, I was in stealth mode. I didn’t want people to think I was just looking but not messaging.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don’t cos I’m not a site supporter but when I was, I was in stealth mode. I didn’t want people to think I was just looking but not messaging. "

I’ve never thought it weird that people look but not message tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just hide in a man cave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t cos I’m not a site supporter but when I was, I was in stealth mode. I didn’t want people to think I was just looking but not messaging. "

Not everyone you look at appeals. So you wouldn't message everyone.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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Definitely in stealth! Otherwise it would be a little bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a cheeky ninja

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im happy for anyone to see im checking them out or just generally being a nosey fuckhead

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By *ubiousOatcakeMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

I look in stealth mode. Most of the time I’m just being nosey.

But, like the hypocrite that I am, I don’t want other people to be able to hide the fact that they’ve looked at my profile. Hence why I’m a platinum member.

Who shows up in your ‘looked at me’ list is also affected by the ‘not looking for single guys’ setting. I got a scare when I removed that setting.

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

I hide because if I am visible they contact me , I might only have popped into a profile as a result of a comment on a thread. So really not interested in them. Prefer just to keep my visits private .

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By *airyfatmanMan
over a year ago

by 'ere


"I hide because if I am visible they contact me , I might only have popped into a profile as a result of a comment on a thread. So really not interested in them. Prefer just to keep my visits private . "

Nice idea. If I’m interested after viewing but not got the balls to message I’ll fab or wink or something and hope they see it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually wink or Fab a load of pics if I think I wouldn't get a reply.

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

I won't be able to stop looking and constantly popping up is a bad sign

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

I dont look at winks or fabs very often. Sometimes look at viewed me depends on my mood

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By *arciocialWoman
over a year ago

Leicester

I hide because I don't want the messages that say "hi, I saw you looked at my profile"... yes and there's a reason I looked and didn't message so it helps in removing them. I never look at who's looked at me though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think more ladies hide than guys....but I sometimes do...I turn it in and off!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I look in stealth mode. Most of the time I’m just being nosey.

But, like the hypocrite that I am, I don’t want other people to be able to hide the fact that they’ve looked at my profile. Hence why I’m a platinum member.

Who shows up in your ‘looked at me’ list is also affected by the ‘not looking for single guys’ setting. I got a scare when I removed that setting."

So if you're a platinum member you can see everyone who looks at your profile, even if they have their settings saved to stealth mode?

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By *ubiousOatcakeMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire


"So if you're a platinum member you can see everyone who looks at your profile, even if they have their settings saved to stealth mode?

"

Yup. You can also bypass the word filters (rape) and you’re guaranteed no time wasters. Plus all your photos get a 500 Fabs head starry. I switched that off, because it got embarrassing.

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By *ubiousOatcakeMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

*head start.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I look in stealth mode. Most of the time I’m just being nosey.

But, like the hypocrite that I am, I don’t want other people to be able to hide the fact that they’ve looked at my profile. Hence why I’m a platinum member.

Who shows up in your ‘looked at me’ list is also affected by the ‘not looking for single guys’ setting. I got a scare when I removed that setting."

You know that’s wrong....what goes on in platinum club stays in platinum club..... it’s like the magic circle.....you don’t supposed to give away the secrets!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jeez...i didn't know that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Then again im gullible

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Im happy for anyone to see im checking them out or just generally being a nosey fuckhead "

Uh huh

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I usually wink or Fab a load of pics if I think I wouldn't get a reply. "

I never look at winks or fabs tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i hide but i do like to perv alot especially bbw women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m openly a perv and I think it’s nice sometimes to see who’s looked at you and vice versa and sometimes this starts a convo so who hides themself from being seen? And reasons why "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. I get awkward if people know I’ve looked at them. They might realise I fancy them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some tests there is only a silhouette on the page....where the feck wants a pm off a silhouette ffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I've had a few "hey you looked at my profile, wanna chat?" type messages. Well.....clearly I don't or I'd have mailed when I looked "

That's why I hide now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i'd reply to that bum everytime looks so sexy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I look in stealth mode. Most of the time I’m just being nosey.

But, like the hypocrite that I am, I don’t want other people to be able to hide the fact that they’ve looked at my profile. Hence why I’m a platinum member.

Who shows up in your ‘looked at me’ list is also affected by the ‘not looking for single guys’ setting. I got a scare when I removed that setting."

I enjoy being a rhodium member. It allows me to disable platinum member’s account settings. And fuck with them in all manner of ways.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I perv with pride

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Because if some people see you looking them they instantly assume you want to meet them and act accordingly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never hide

I want to be seen im like a bull in a china shop

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By *iger.10Man
over a year ago

Llantrisant


"Me! So you don't know how often I look at your arse

Also I look at people I don't fancy too. I don't want them getting the wrong idea.

I've had a few "hey you looked at my profile, wanna chat?" type messages. Well.....clearly I don't or I'd have mailed when I looked

Hahahaha better then looking at my face

"

I must show up all the time just to sing your version of I'll Survive! I'll get me coat!

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By *icplshropsCouple
over a year ago

Rock


"I’m openly a perv and I think it’s nice sometimes to see who’s looked at you and vice versa and sometimes this starts a convo so who hides themself from being seen? And reasons why "

We used to view profiles openly until after only just viewing a guy’s profile, he started messaging asking what was wrong with his profile. When I checked his profile again, as I didn’t recall who he was (I had view many profiles that day and it could have been viewed by partner!), he became stroppy when I didn’t reply to his message. He got an immediate block, of course!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, cause if you don’t women message you saying, hey I noticed you viewed my profile and then start hassling and I can’t be doing with that shit! "

Exactly this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hide. Why? Because I don't want the 'I see you looked at me messages', and I don't want to block anyone from messaging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually hide, but I've took it off for a hour just to see

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I love seeing frequent pervs!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Also I look at people I don't fancy too. I don't want them getting the wrong idea.

I've had a few "hey you looked at my profile, wanna chat?" type messages. Well.....clearly I don't or I'd have mailed when I looked "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm just a shy trogladye hiding in a cave.

And if they came back and looked at my profile I might have to write one worth reading...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve just taken it off. Will see what happens x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

Not telling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No look at meeee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh I love seeing frequent pervs! "

me too !

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By *ools47Woman
over a year ago

Failsworth

I hide.

Receive enough emails I have to delete without people knowing I've been looking as well and them then emailing me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ninja mode for me.

My hotlist would be worried by the frequency of my visits

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

I'm not a site supporter so apart from the number I'm unaware who visits me..I'm an open viewer....

I'm here to meet folk so I'd like them to see me at all opportunities.. no 's here..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ninja mode for me.

My hotlist would be worried by the frequency of my visits"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm perving on your ass right now

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By *exyspecs and supermanCouple
over a year ago

A house, a very big house in the country

Because quite simply we can.

Ss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes i do cos i love being nosy. But it can generate messages i dont want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No ninja mode for me, Proud to Perv!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Proud to Perv!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No look at meeee "

Ok seen as ya back !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hide as I wouldn't want people I'm interested knowing how often I view their profile. Also wouldn't want all the "I noticed you've looked at my profile" messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup. I'm chicken.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t want men messaging saying ‘oh I saw you looked at my profile...’ and think I’m interested, far too much effort to explain that I was creeping their pictures as I think we have the same bathroom tiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t want men messaging saying ‘oh I saw you looked at my profile...’ and think I’m interested, far too much effort to explain that I was creeping their pictures as I think we have the same bathroom tiles "

Oh this too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I look in stealth mode. Most of the time I’m just being nosey.

But, like the hypocrite that I am, I don’t want other people to be able to hide the fact that they’ve looked at my profile. Hence why I’m a platinum member.

Who shows up in your ‘looked at me’ list is also affected by the ‘not looking for single guys’ setting. I got a scare when I removed that setting.

I enjoy being a rhodium member. It allows me to disable platinum member’s account settings. And fuck with them in all manner of ways. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have mine disabled, I don’t need people knowing who I look at and how often!

As others have said it also guards against the ‘I saw you looked’ messages

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By *hedevilwearspradaWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere nearby

I’m stealth, generally because I’m looking at people who are way hotter than me, and I’d rather they didn’t know I was perving at them!

Oh and cos my hotlist might be concerned at how often I look at their pics, when I should be doing something much more productive!

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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago

You Dont Need to Know, right now

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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago

You Dont Need to Know, right now

I hide, cus of the number of "I see you looked at me" messages I used to get. A lot of the time, I open a profile to write a Private Note on the profile-holder, based on comments they have made in the forums or in the chatrooms. And since I only write reasons why I WOULDN'T meet someone (a.k. NIAMY or Never In A Million Years ), these are people I really don't want to hear from

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hide, cus of the number of "I see you looked at me" messages I used to get. A lot of the time, I open a profile to write a Private Note on the profile-holder, based on comments they have made in the forums or in the chatrooms. And since I only write reasons why I WOULDN'T meet someone (a.k. NIAMY or Never In A Million Years ), these are people I really don't want to hear from "

Exactly this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to have a secret perv but I supppse if you look at someone they might message you because they like the look of you?.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want people to know how much I look at them...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I perv with pride

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By *bsolutebeginnersCouple
over a year ago

Planet Ork


"I perv in stealth, because if they see you've peeped, you sometimes get messages, you may not want "

This

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"I’m openly a perv and I think it’s nice sometimes to see who’s looked at you and vice versa and sometimes this starts a convo so who hides themself from being seen? And reasons why "

I perv openly, and block anyone I don’t like or don’t match

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We dnt really get any i see u looked messages . I dnt think ppl r interested just cos they viewed our profile u dnt know if u r until u look do u ......unless its a serial looker that views numerous times a day then i guess they r

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

Stealth for me. I look at some people way more than I would care to admit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too many “you looked and not messaged”

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By *xycpl699Couple
over a year ago

kilmarnock

stealth mode for us. hollie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I do hode as I don't want people knowing how often Im checking them out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Open as a book for us, nothing to hide, and sometimes it helps strike up a conversation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do because I don't want you to know that I look at your profile 26 times a day and 44 times on sunday.

Hashtag you know who you are "

Haha this is why mine is hidden too

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By *od ThrusterMan
over a year ago

Newport Pagnell

I can understand why women would hide, but I am happy for people to know I have looked at their profile.

I always look to see who has checked me out and if we're fairly local and looking for the same thing will often mail them. Sadly they usually aren't!

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By *eeBee67Man
over a year ago

Masked and Distant

Nope.

I'm happy to be visible.

My repeat visits may have lead to some blocking though

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