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"Me! So you don't know how often I look at your arse ![]() ![]() Hahahaha better then looking at my face | |||
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"I perv in stealth, because if they see you've peeped, you sometimes get messages, you may not want ![]() Ummm get them anyway lol | |||
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"One of the first things I switched on when I set up this profile - I'd be on a lot more blocked lists if I didn't ![]() Noted and off I go to block you now | |||
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"Meh fuck it, I'll turn it on ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Meh fuck it, I'll turn it on ![]() ![]() 57 now ![]() | |||
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"Meh fuck it, I'll turn it on ![]() ![]() ![]() Stop that... I am getting to much excited but the doc said that it wasn't good for my heart. | |||
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"I do because I don't want you to know that I look at your profile 26 times a day and 44 times on sunday. Hashtag you know who you are " I know you looked. Platinum membership means I get notifications each time. ![]() | |||
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"Meh fuck it, I'll turn it on ![]() ![]() ![]() Oh you're soft French baguette is getting stale, how cute ![]() | |||
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"I do because I don't want you to know that I look at your profile 26 times a day and 44 times on sunday. Hashtag you know who you are I know you looked. Platinum membership means I get notifications each time. ![]() Maybe I should upgrade too | |||
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"Find it strange that pics can get fabbed by someone who hasn't looked at you. ![]() I don’t think that’s a case for Columbo, even I worked that one out. | |||
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"I’m openly a perv and I think it’s nice sometimes to see who’s looked at you and vice versa and sometimes this starts a convo so who hides themself from being seen? And reasons why " Yeah Because I don't want people to see I've looked at them! ![]() | |||
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"One of the first things I switched on when I set up this profile - I'd be on a lot more blocked lists if I didn't ![]() Seems to have failed ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I’m usually in stealth mode, but if I want someone to know I’m looking then I’ll turn it off" I do that, then forget I switched it off, after I looked at them a further 28 times, then get blocked! | |||
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"Does anyone know if you currently view in stealth and then change your setting to show you as peeking at a profile, does that only apply to the profiles you view after your settings have been changed?" No your previous peeks show up too. | |||
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"Does anyone know if you currently view in stealth and then change your setting to show you as peeking at a profile, does that only apply to the profiles you view after your settings have been changed? No your previous peeks show up too. " Thanks ![]() | |||
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"I’m usually in stealth mode, but if I want someone to know I’m looking then I’ll turn it off" The "look" you gave them only remains visible while you're out of stealth mode - once you switch it back on it disappears from their "looked at me" list. Also non-site supporters can't see who looked at them so your plan would only hold good if they were a site supporter and they saw you looked at them while you have stealth set to off. ![]() | |||
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"I’m usually in stealth mode, but if I want someone to know I’m looking then I’ll turn it off The "look" you gave them only remains visible while you're out of stealth mode - once you switch it back on it disappears from their "looked at me" list. Also non-site supporters can't see who looked at them so your plan would only hold good if they were a site supporter and they saw you looked at them while you have stealth set to off. ![]() I've noticed this. My daily best of 11viewd is now down to 5. ![]() | |||
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"One of the first things I switched on when I set up this profile - I'd be on a lot more blocked lists if I didn't ![]() ![]() ![]() Damn I’m way to easily distracted | |||
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"Does anyone know if you currently view in stealth and then change your setting to show you as peeking at a profile, does that only apply to the profiles you view after your settings have been changed? No your previous peeks show up too. Thanks ![]() Ohhhh I didn’t know that | |||
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"I’m usually in stealth mode, but if I want someone to know I’m looking then I’ll turn it off The "look" you gave them only remains visible while you're out of stealth mode - once you switch it back on it disappears from their "looked at me" list. Also non-site supporters can't see who looked at them so your plan would only hold good if they were a site supporter and they saw you looked at them while you have stealth set to off. ![]() That explains a lot, noticed that the look at me totals drop by 15 a little earlier, it seems to be a regular occurance when we put a Veri up ![]() | |||
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"I’m openly a perv and I think it’s nice sometimes to see who’s looked at you and vice versa and sometimes this starts a convo so who hides themself from being seen? And reasons why " I carnt sew Hoos looked at me. It's quite enoying at times. So as i no wot it fils like I'm in ninga mode. ![]() | |||
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"I don't hide, I've embraced and welcomed my inner perv ![]() Best way to be | |||
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"For the first time in ages I've looked at "who viewed me" today, just because of this thread ![]() ![]() Ohhh sorry ![]() | |||
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"For the first time in ages I've looked at "who viewed me" today, just because of this thread ![]() ![]() ![]() Ha ha no apology needed ... I also didn't mean the ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I hide, I don't need people knowing how much I perv them ![]() That doesn't bother me ...I'm a self confessed perv lol ![]() | |||
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"I don’t cos I’m not a site supporter but when I was, I was in stealth mode. I didn’t want people to think I was just looking but not messaging. " I’ve never thought it weird that people look but not message tbh | |||
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"I don’t cos I’m not a site supporter but when I was, I was in stealth mode. I didn’t want people to think I was just looking but not messaging. " Not everyone you look at appeals. So you wouldn't message everyone. | |||
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"I hide because if I am visible they contact me , I might only have popped into a profile as a result of a comment on a thread. So really not interested in them. Prefer just to keep my visits private . " Nice idea. If I’m interested after viewing but not got the balls to message I’ll fab or wink or something and hope they see it lol | |||
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"I look in stealth mode. Most of the time I’m just being nosey. But, like the hypocrite that I am, I don’t want other people to be able to hide the fact that they’ve looked at my profile. Hence why I’m a platinum member. Who shows up in your ‘looked at me’ list is also affected by the ‘not looking for single guys’ setting. I got a scare when I removed that setting." So if you're a platinum member you can see everyone who looks at your profile, even if they have their settings saved to stealth mode? | |||
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"So if you're a platinum member you can see everyone who looks at your profile, even if they have their settings saved to stealth mode? " Yup. You can also bypass the word filters (rape) and you’re guaranteed no time wasters. Plus all your photos get a 500 Fabs head starry. I switched that off, because it got embarrassing. | |||
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"I look in stealth mode. Most of the time I’m just being nosey. But, like the hypocrite that I am, I don’t want other people to be able to hide the fact that they’ve looked at my profile. Hence why I’m a platinum member. Who shows up in your ‘looked at me’ list is also affected by the ‘not looking for single guys’ setting. I got a scare when I removed that setting." You know that’s wrong....what goes on in platinum club stays in platinum club..... it’s like the magic circle.....you don’t supposed to give away the secrets! | |||
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"Im happy for anyone to see im checking them out or just generally being a nosey fuckhead ![]() Uh huh | |||
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"I usually wink or Fab a load of pics if I think I wouldn't get a reply. ![]() I never look at winks or fabs tbh | |||
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"I’m openly a perv and I think it’s nice sometimes to see who’s looked at you and vice versa and sometimes this starts a convo so who hides themself from being seen? And reasons why " ![]() | |||
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" I've had a few "hey you looked at my profile, wanna chat?" type messages. Well.....clearly I don't or I'd have mailed when I looked ![]() That's why I hide now. ![]() | |||
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"I look in stealth mode. Most of the time I’m just being nosey. But, like the hypocrite that I am, I don’t want other people to be able to hide the fact that they’ve looked at my profile. Hence why I’m a platinum member. Who shows up in your ‘looked at me’ list is also affected by the ‘not looking for single guys’ setting. I got a scare when I removed that setting." I enjoy being a rhodium member. It allows me to disable platinum member’s account settings. And fuck with them in all manner of ways. | |||
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"Me! So you don't know how often I look at your arse ![]() ![]() I must show up all the time just to sing your version of I'll Survive! I'll get me coat! ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I’m openly a perv and I think it’s nice sometimes to see who’s looked at you and vice versa and sometimes this starts a convo so who hides themself from being seen? And reasons why " We used to view profiles openly until after only just viewing a guy’s profile, he started messaging asking what was wrong with his profile. When I checked his profile again, as I didn’t recall who he was (I had view many profiles that day and it could have been viewed by partner!), he became stroppy when I didn’t reply to his message. ![]() | |||
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"Yes, cause if you don’t women message you saying, hey I noticed you viewed my profile and then start hassling and I can’t be doing with that shit! ![]() Exactly this. | |||
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" Also I look at people I don't fancy too. I don't want them getting the wrong idea. I've had a few "hey you looked at my profile, wanna chat?" type messages. Well.....clearly I don't or I'd have mailed when I looked ![]() This | |||
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"Ninja mode for me. My hotlist would be worried by the frequency of my visits" This ![]() | |||
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"I don’t want men messaging saying ‘oh I saw you looked at my profile...’ and think I’m interested, far too much effort to explain that I was creeping their pictures as I think we have the same bathroom tiles " Oh this too. ![]() | |||
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"I look in stealth mode. Most of the time I’m just being nosey. But, like the hypocrite that I am, I don’t want other people to be able to hide the fact that they’ve looked at my profile. Hence why I’m a platinum member. Who shows up in your ‘looked at me’ list is also affected by the ‘not looking for single guys’ setting. I got a scare when I removed that setting. I enjoy being a rhodium member. It allows me to disable platinum member’s account settings. And fuck with them in all manner of ways. " ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I hide, cus of the number of "I see you looked at me" messages I used to get. A lot of the time, I open a profile to write a Private Note on the profile-holder, based on comments they have made in the forums or in the chatrooms. And since I only write reasons why I WOULDN'T meet someone (a.k. NIAMY or Never In A Million Years ), these are people I really don't want to hear from " Exactly this ![]() | |||
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"I perv in stealth, because if they see you've peeped, you sometimes get messages, you may not want ![]() This ![]() | |||
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"I’m openly a perv and I think it’s nice sometimes to see who’s looked at you and vice versa and sometimes this starts a convo so who hides themself from being seen? And reasons why " I perv openly, and block anyone I don’t like or don’t match ![]() | |||
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"I do because I don't want you to know that I look at your profile 26 times a day and 44 times on sunday. Hashtag you know who you are " Haha this is why mine is hidden too ![]() | |||
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"How do you stop people knowing that you've looked at them ??? Xx" Account - privacy settings - hide on who looked at me | |||
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"Oh I'm always in stealth mode ![]() In peace al fresco ![]() | |||
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"Always in ninja mode, can't be arsed with the "you looked but didn't say _ello" messages " Yeah….what you said ![]() | |||
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"Always in ninja mode, can't be arsed with the "you looked but didn't say _ello" messages " Definitely the same here | |||
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"This thread must have the highest UNLOS messages!! I’m in ninja mode & proud! ![]() What is UNLOS? | |||
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"This thread must have the highest UNLOS messages!! I’m in ninja mode & proud! ![]() User no longer on site | |||
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"Oh I'm always in stealth mode ![]() ![]() Exactly ![]() | |||
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"This thread must have the highest UNLOS messages!! I’m in ninja mode & proud! ![]() Ohhhhhh! I see. Well, it is over a year old and if a bloke doesn’t get his end away in a couple of weeks after moaning in the forums then they’re off, I guess? P.S. don’t you become UNLOS as I perv over you regular 😂😂 | |||
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