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By *ax_uk_2009 OP   Man
over a year ago

Wilmslow

I don’t send out too many chat messages and hate the “cut & paste” approach. But as a consequence don’t have many chats on here. What is the best way? Cut & paste or personal?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Myself, I prefer personal, especially if it makes me smile/laugh x

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By *igga_manMan
over a year ago

near Reading

Personal. The receipant wants to know we’ve made an effort...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm happy with just "hi" or a 1,000 word c&p message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a single guy it doesn't matter if you cut and paste or write something personal, it will more than likely sit in their in box unread for a few weeks till they bulk delete

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cut and paste my ...

No thank you.

*guys, feel free to copy and paste my reply to my mail here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my experience you're just as likely to get a response to a generic one-liner as to a carefully-crafted introductory paragraph that references their profile multiple times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I build a trap and hide waiting wiggling my willy as bate

Here puss puss puss

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By *aul DeUther-OneMan
over a year ago

Sussex


"I don’t send out too many chat messages and hate the “cut & paste” approach. But as a consequence don’t have many chats on here. What is the best way? Cut & paste or personal?"

personalise your messages every time and include some reference to the profile page of your intended. It shows that you have read the profile and gives you an opening gambit. Eg. Mention their tan or tattoo or relate their interests.

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Don't copy and paste mate. Bit tacky.

Personally, I don't need an essay. Just a polite personalised intro will suffice (providing the profile has sufficient pics and text about you)

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